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johnzlikesit/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 03:23 PM
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Conversationjohnzlikesit/r/seduction26/01/20 05:36 AM
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No I wouldn't leave because I'm choosing to operate on a conscious level where my love isn't based on how I feel towards someone at any given point in time. I'm assuming there are woman like the above too who consciously choose to love overriding their emotions, and put the wellbeing of their spouse over themselves speaking when no kids are involved. In a no offspring household are woman capable of putting their satisfaction 2nd, and putting their focus on pleasing their spouse first? Again assu…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:28 PM
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Of course not I'm using all in describing the majority. Obviously it's not ALL woman. But the funny thing is RP basically says ALL which is why I'm here because it can't possibly be ALL every single one. And if the main argument is choosing offspring that throws out the whole argument, as majority of men would choose offspring.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:21 PM
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You assume I'm hating which I'm not. The whole RP is based on making an assumption that woman's love is inferior based on evolution, genes, whatever. Or am i misunderstanding something here?
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:14 PM
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So this is where the conditional part comes in "satisfied" , I would stay with a dying spouse even if i wasn't satisfied because I made an oath vow. Are there woman who would stay even if totally unsatisfied because they made a vow? Obviously there are thousands of scenarios. Talking about normal circumstances, don't mean dude held you in a dungeon and tortured you so you can't wait to leave.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:11 PM
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Not whining just asking is it a conscious effort or is it because I'm hitting your subconscious. I'm not choosing woman like that, she was chosen once, and haven't chosen another one like her still, just see some things that are generally off, where they do things that they aren't aware. And majority of woman are that way, or are you trying to tell me 100% of the woman population is red pilled? How many of woman population are on here? maybe 1-5% the most globally. Like I said I'm an extreme exa…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:08 PM
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I would classify those man as unhealthy honestly. Seems like a universal consensus is the wellbeing of the child with sacrifice to parents. Think of ancient times, nobody gave a shit if the woman lived or died as long as the "male son" was born lol. Can you clarify your last statement. If i understand correctly men have an inclinations of putting their partners wellbeing over their own, whereas woman put theirs over their partners. If that's the case what is the ultimate reason? I still can't th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:03 PM
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Yes since woman have an enemy to contend with also, emotions. So it's easier to hijack their rational conscious thinking and they start operating subconsciously, where to the extreme even love can become a subconscious part, meaning that it comes and goes with their emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:59 PM
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A general question: is the whole RP theory based on woman choosing their offspring over their SO? If that's the case, isn't that a pretty flawed theory, as I think both sexes at least majority have a desire to choose the offspring over their SO.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:57 PM
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Obviously it wasn't healthy, and it wasn't the first time gave her a few chances. That was plain toxicity, not even on here because of her lol. On here because I'm noticing majority of woman from all walks of life I'm dating are very not in tune with their nature. And seem to just want shit and give the minimum in return. Even the ones that give a lot such as ohh I cook, clean, blah blah seem to do so not from a conscious standpoint but from a primitive unconscious one. That is the issue knowing…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:54 PM
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So this is where it gets a bit confusing. Let's take kids out of the equation. Say we decide to never have kids and offspring are of no concern. Are woman capable of putting their partners above themselves? As it seems some man are? It seems like the whole argument that woman will throw their partner under the bus for their offspring makes them somehow worst than man, but when offspring is concerned men would throw the woman under the bus too, if it meant choosing the mother or the child.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:44 PM
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Has nothing to do with my bad relationship, have noticed it with a lot of woman. Where man are expected to insert X Y Z, but when it comes to them they try to return the least amount of expectation possible in return.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:41 PM
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Right of course, yeah my general question was in the sense of how many are doing things based on love such as companionship and growing with someone. As opposed to some primitive tendency, of procreating / status mission accomplished. Now I have no use for you anymore. Yeah that is the biggest thing how much of slaves are woman to their tendencies, whereas even though man have it build it, they can choose to override them, whereas of woman through those tendencies + emotions have a hard time ove…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:37 PM
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Yeah good, that's exactly the biggest issue for man is the above. Where it seems circumstances out of their control it's "ohh well bye." Majority of women don't seem to make conscious efforts of loving someone out of their own free will, but are basically loving someone through their emotions. Which basically means that their own will is outside of their control. Anyway good to know that woman like you exist somewhere lol.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:34 PM
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Yeah for sure, and that's all I'm really asking for is are woman able to put in conscious effort to love someone irregardless of their emotions. That is the main point love is a conscious decision not a feeling, I'm more than capable of making the decision to love irregardless of my emotions which maybe up or down. My concern is majority of woman seem to be dictated by their emotions, and don't make a conscious effort to love, but just let the man do the job of keeping them in love by hitting th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:27 PM
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No for sure listen there is no problem finding a worthy woman they are def. out there. Just wanted to know If I'm being truly loved for me, or am I being loved because I somehow threw a bunch of biological switches in your mind that if I don't maintain then love is magically gone. Or if i never knew how to switch them on, you would never be capable of making the decision to love me on your own.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:23 PM
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Yeah business type of marriage in todays world means actual legal contracts prenups ect. lol. This is where I have the issue, majority of man can love a woman irregardless of if she acts her role or not. Say more tomboyish woman ect. As opposed to it seems majority of woman cannot love a man unless he's in his frame and a lot of his masculine qualities.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:20 PM
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I mean unconditional love exists in bursts in humans. No human is capable of providing it indefinitely so therefor it's technically "conditional" on whatever condition where they finally give up. But yes losing your dignity, EVERYTHING. No of course not she should choose the children, just like I'm pretty sure Man would choose the child over the woman if given a one or another choice.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 06:17 PM
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evolution as it is known scientifically today no, I don't believe we came from single cell organisms randomly by chance, but a sort of adaptation to your environment biologically / physically yes.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:48 PM
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Yeah seems like we need to go back to the more traditional meaning and expectations of marriage. Find someone you can have kids with, whom will respect each-other, and meet some sort of need. Lay down what those needs are if not met move on. I just find it hard to be in such a relationship just for the sake of procreating I'm not that ego driven where I need my bloodline to continue. Just seems like a superficial existence. I also meant unconditional in normal circumstances, not utter abuse and …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:44 PM
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That isn't a woman only trait though, the man would want security and tell the wife to give him up for the child anyway. At least a proper man would. Because technically nobody is capable of providing unconditional love, it's just some bear more than others.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:39 PM
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Can you explain from your personal experiences possibly why you say that? This is the slight confusion I have. We come to the understanding of woman aren't capable of this, but then you have responses like the above where a woman stayed with her dying fiance.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:36 PM
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This is the most reassuring answer. It's funny all my guy friends who I speak too, just basically want this, they just want to know someone will be there for them during lives uncontrollable circumstances, as opposed to well I'm out. Or while you're sick and dying you aren't meeting my emotional physical needs so I will go out and have an affair.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:32 PM
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Right it seems like this is a dynamic I've noticed. Men seem to get into relationships thinking what can I give, whereas woman are more focused on what do I get out of this? Even the best of the best woman, still have some sort of desire of getting stability, offspring, some sort of emotional need met. Whereas at least mean around my social circle are more like I just want to be with a person to enjoy our time together just because I like this person.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:28 PM
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I don't think it's only Western culture, if you read say the Bible the concepts of love are pretty straight forward, obviously no human can ever achieve them, and maybe say .01% of the population would try their hardest. Right so it seems like we should give up the concept of "love" in a relationship, and just start thinking of pro-creating as more of a business type of decision, but then without i guess the "love" aspect the bond of holding a family together won't exist. Especially in todays ag…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:24 PM
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Could very well be the case
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:21 PM
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Yeah likewise I was reading that too. But still felt a bit uneasy, I don't want someone to submit to me because well that's what the role is. I want someone to submit to me based on I love this person and I want to do as much for them as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:20 PM
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I'm not saying men are escaping biological programming, maybe our programming involves acts of sacrificial love? Whereas woman's programming doesn't have this trait built in.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:18 PM
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Yeah of course, when I speak of love I'm mostly speaking of the bonding / loyalty process, where it seems men are more capable of holding the glue together for far longer during troublesome times, whereas a woman might be much easier to call it quits.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:17 PM
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No of course not I clarified the above no human being outside of god is capable unconditional love, meant that men show more sacrificial or have a higher tolerance for messed up things wife getting fat not acting her traditional role, as opposed to woman who can literally just get "bored" and become disloyal.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 05:15 PM
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Why is that though? It doesn't seem to make sense, only towards children but not the men in their lives. Granted nobody can provide unconditional love all the time, there is still a much larger glue where men keep the relationship going.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 04:57 PM
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uhhh stay friends my man, she has a ton of attractive friends she can introduce you too, all pre-qualified for you. Like this guy is awesome, what more do you want dingus. Pre qualifying you as a potential romantic interest so more then half the work is already done for you.
/r/seduction01/05/20 10:34 PM
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and then you jerked off?
/r/seduction25/04/20 04:47 AM
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try reverse friend zoning them from the start heard it works wonders, one you get a steady supply of their friends already you being pre-screened, and it will make them chase you, as you do them in the above example.
/r/seduction07/03/20 09:14 PM
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Confused what is the risk that you are cautioning against? Rejection? Flaky girls? Some parts seem like she might yell "rape"? What's going on here OP, help me understand lol
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:35 PM
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yeah i should've realized I mean't people who are I guess professional stoners, or have at one point in their life been, meaning you are social and don't have anxiety issues. I guess another word would be functional friendly stoner lol, but thanks for the answers all valid.
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:14 PM
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