joikol Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ?		joikol	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 06:43 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Sitting in a girls living room while she is denying she is with anyone to her boyfriend What if no one ever says that to you?	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/18 01:54 AM
1	I need help...bad break-up trying to get back Be happy that at least you had a relationship There are guys like me who've never had a gf , even at 22 Can't even imagine how it feels	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/18 03:27 PM
2	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? Ignore my last message. I shouldn't load such stuff on well meaning strangers Also, I venture into these dark phases...	/r/askTRP	20/01/18 04:46 PM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? I just started the job They already hate me their If they fire me, forget any sidebars, I'm jumping off the building	/r/askTRP	20/01/18 01:58 PM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? As much as I like hearing that, it doesn't happen By 22i should've at least had a gf if not sex. This is not for me, this life. No matter who I meet, they all end up hating me I have no messages on my phone, no calls, no one who is happy to see me... And it has been like this forever I don't remember one time it wasn't so Getting a gf is not the biggest deal but having no friend, nobody who likes or cares for you is too much to handle. Has been like this for so long. Even with my new job, everyt…	/r/askTRP	20/01/18 01:40 PM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? I agree. That's what I said else where Lifting can be a nice ADDITION not a stand alone itself What matters is personality I personally go to the gym cause I love it. Not for girls	/r/askTRP	20/01/18 01:06 AM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? More great advice! You're on 🔥	/r/askTRP	20/01/18 01:03 AM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? Why are my comments getting downvoted?	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 01:45 PM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? Great advice again 👌	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 01:44 PM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? Go out where? I have 0 friends and I know nobody I know for a fact that if I approach girls on the street, they'll scream or run away Where should I go? I am clueless Also how can I be like everyone else when I've been in isolation for 6 years? I mean that's too abnormal, don't you think? Also, I agree with all the advice. I just don't know how to act on it successfully	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 01:44 PM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? Look, I never said I was unsuccessful. I'm successful. I only said that, based purely on my experiences, I'm always the one who people eventually grow tired of. Generally 6 months to 1 year. It's true that I start pushing them away, cause that's only because I notice that they don't like me being around I know you're pissed off at me. Though I was only trying to speak what I feel. I didn't mean to offend anyone. I know for a fact that you're right. All of you are. But I can't feel hope and witho…	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 01:33 PM
0	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? That's the only comment that actually lifted me up. Thanks! I'm kinda depressed right now so don't feel the energy to go through the material But definitely will go through it and implement it. Btw, out of curiosity, how much girls have you been with since 25?	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 01:21 PM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? Entitlement? Dude, I have the opposite of that I don't feel I deserve any girls affection. And I say I look good not because I think so but because I was very popular in both, school and college, among girls They all thought I was a mysterious guy who never spoke to anyone; in reality I was hiding. It's not about not wanting to work; it's about knowing that regardless of how much I try, I won't get anyone to love me because there's something VERY wrong with me I have tried to convince myself oth…	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 01:18 PM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? I don't have any. So my 'sob story' is much sob-ier I am an outcast I've mentioned this in my sob story. I do have acquaintances, but I'm not close to any one of them People grow tired of my presence really fast. And no, it's not because I'm always pessimistic. I'm not. I have become pessimistic Because.	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 01:09 PM
2	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? Do you even read, you illiterate? I do lift and probably more than you	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 01:05 PM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? I can debate with you all day but the simple fact is that, though you're not wrong, stuff is more complicated What I meant was that there's a spectrum Neediness---desperation---neurosis---numbness I'm on the 4th stage . And that you can only achieve by intense isolation ( like people in solitary confinement)	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 10:18 AM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? I think I'm am decent guy , but I don't think, deep down, that I am attractive to the opposite sex Maybe physically... But then you need to talk and form a connection with women (I suppose) and that's where I'll definitely fail My biggest shortcoming is my hair plus my large forehead plus my youngish face It's the only thing I'm insecure about If I shave, I'll be even more insecure. At least now I can kinda hide it wth bangs and wear hats outside That video looks interesting. Will look at it and…	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 09:35 AM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? ? What's your point ?	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 09:17 AM
-4	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? It's not that. It's that no woman will ever love me, regardless of my opinion of myself I do love myself. I just don't love how inept I am at simple human things like making friends and finding a partner I'm especially angry about how much I've missed out on and how other guys have had those experiences and I haven't	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 09:16 AM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? That's just your opinion You don't know the whole picture. I'm not needy, I'm slightly unstable due to this elongated period of isolation 6/22 ~ 25% of my life, lived in isolation and as a social outcast Don't tell me I'm your plain old needy guy. It's much worse	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 09:14 AM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? I still do. I recently wasn't able to as I was shifting to a new country and also starting a new and very difficult job I love the gym. I don't go there to impress women or anything. It's my Xbox, so to speak. But even if i get swole , girls don't care much about that. Most don't care at all (untill you aren't obese or skinny) As for balding, name one person below the age of 30 who looks good bald. ONE. Bald guys who look good are generally over 35 cause bald head on a young face (esp with a lar…	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 08:51 AM
1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? I used to be needy Now I'm filled with despair On paper there's nothing that shouldn't caused me to be this alone But there's something intrinsically wrong with me that can't be changed Btw, I read those articles months ago. I could barely relate to anything there I'm not needy by nature. I like staying alone But I've been living in isolation and that gets to you	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 07:39 AM
-1	How to deal with not ever being liked/loved ? As I said , I am not ugly. in fact in school and in college I had so many girls who claimed to have a crush on me. I was just soically awkward and shy. then I turned 17 and ..my hair started to recede and thin out I stopped going outside much by the time I was 19. Mostly been indoors since 19. I go to the gym and am fit. I also earn about twice as much as most guys my age. I know how to play the guitar and used to sing in a band (only like once cause school bands are lame) I am just pathetically…	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 07:11 AM
1	Banging a girl that swims in a pool of higher smv guys, thoughts? what did you do to get her "wrapped" around your finger	/r/askTRP	19/01/18 06:48 AM