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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
239	Why is the left losing younger men to the right?	discussion	jojoblogs	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 10:14 PM
184	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic	discussion	jojoblogs	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/01/25 07:43 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Are men the most disposable sex ? On a societal level if you as a supreme overlord had to choose between a male population and a female population surplus, which would you choose? The right answer for prosperity is pretty clearly a female surplus any day of the week. Sometimes governments keep the status quo because they know it’s there for a reason. Male only conscription is one of those. It’s socially antiquated now, but changing it to an actual fair system would be detrimental so why bother changing it?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/07/26 02:46 PM
-12	Europe treats Ukrainian men as cannon fodder, not as human beings. They have it right a little bit. Women are the country’s future. If they conscript women many will die and more will run away, and they won’t have a way to repopulate.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/26 02:31 AM
4	Is UN Women misandrist? Placed at the top center	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/06/26 02:00 PM
39	British actress & feminist Jameela Jamil's tirade against boys after the '62 million rape academy' hoax: is it not deplorable misandrist/bigotry to insinuate that literal children are rapists-by-default? Women treat gay men like women whether they like it or not. It’s not that they love gay men, they emasculate them first then they’re allowed to be friendly.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/26 02:18 AM
2	Why is SA and rape not so traumatizing for men as it is women? It’s kind of in the name: post traumatic-stress disorder. To get ptsd or “trauma” you need to be subjected to a traumatic amount of stress. Most sexual assault by women men experience doesn’t involve them feeling powerless, physically threatened, fearful of their life, etc. It obviously can, but generally the emotions men feel are anger, annoyance, disgust, embarrassment. Women assault men with opportunity, not with force, and rarely with coercion. For example, a cop that got grinded on by a wom…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/05/26 12:44 PM
3	TIL: Contrary to misandrist narrative, men actually do not care about woman's body count more than women do about men's body count As with most things as a man, you can get away with a lot if you’re attractive. “Sexually liberated” + unattractive = creepy “Sexually liberated” + attractive = Casanova High body count + attractive = yeah he fucks High body count + unattractive = ew I guess he fucks anything or he’s a liar or is he gay? I’ve witnessed this. Women will literally wait their turn to sleep with a hot guy as he works his way through a group of women that all know what he’s up to. But he’s hot and sexually liberated,…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/26 07:26 AM
22	Some people seem really angry that "62 million men are in a rape academy" is incorrect. Defensiveness is pretty common when people are pointed out they’re not only wrong, but have egregiously lacked in common sense. No one likes being proved stupid. And thinking it was at all possible that the equivalent to the whole population of the UK was doing this is monumentally stupid.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/26 05:13 PM
21	Canada's bill on femicide has a very broad definition In Aus there’s a website that “tracks the femicide epidemic” that included the women in a family killed by a man that committed suicide by driving his car into oncoming traffic. They have no interest in honest discourse	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/12/25 09:49 PM
13	Canada's bill on femicide has a very broad definition In Aus we’ve had a whole lot of noise about our “femicide epidemic”. But if you looked closely it was nothing more than a sexist, politically motivated distortion of statistics: The numbers of women being killed by men in Australia was lower than the global average. So we actually don’t have a femicide problem. The national increases in femicide (the so-called epidemic) along with increases of violent crime of all kinds were correlated with post-Covid economic struggle. So the cause is not gende…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/12/25 09:43 PM
0	How do we decouple the unspoken idea that a woman’s sexual selection of a man is a form of cosmic justice that rewards him for being a good man? It’s my opinion that we have a habit of over-intellectualising our “why” questions, especially concerning human behaviour. I say most questions like “why do men do x but women do y” the answer is usually rooted in “because humans are animals and most of our intersexual behaviour is driven by reproductive instincts”. And how my point relates to yours is that the concept of a “flawed man” means a man that has a subpar quality of some sort. That means women and society recognise that there are men …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/25 02:49 AM
5	How would you say feminist/ misandrist discourse has affected your personal politics? I, like many of us in this sub, inhabit the uncomfortable space on the left where everyone around me has uncompromising positions that they expect everyone to agree with, and they have the social power to ostracise anyone who doesn’t. I don’t talk much about politics in real life. I do with my girlfriend, but she’s smart enough to understand nuance and I’m lucky for that. My male good male friends don’t talk much about politics, but the general vibe is we feel like a lot of leftist stuff is bull…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/25 02:03 AM
4	How do we decouple the unspoken idea that a woman’s sexual selection of a man is a form of cosmic justice that rewards him for being a good man? I use the term perfection to how, generally, women align their minimum standards with the highest display or that trait they’ve experienced/witnessed in men previously. The standards are relative and dynamic.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/25 12:10 AM
2	How do we decouple the unspoken idea that a woman’s sexual selection of a man is a form of cosmic justice that rewards him for being a good man? In my opinion this all boils down to biology. Female sexuality and sexual selection is truely just the pursuit of perfection. All women want the absolute best possible man. There’s basically no downside to a woman selecting for and pursuing the male with the best genetics and the most resources. There’s even barely a downside to sharing said man with other women if he has enough resources. Males have a different evolutionary mating strategy - impregnate many, many women, then pick the best ones …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/25 06:20 PM
18	Is Slut shaming purely hatred for Male sexuality? Yeah, you’ll find most people that complain about the behaviour of others do it because subconsciously they’re competing. Men slut shame women because they can’t compete with the men they’re sleeping with. Women shame men for choosing younger women because they can’t compete with them either. Women even do it with compliments. Why do women insist all women are beautiful? Less attractive women do it because if everyone is beautiful, no one is. And attractive women do it so less attractive ones do…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/05/25 08:15 AM
26	Is Slut shaming purely hatred for Male sexuality? I think it’s because society puts men into very binary categories. You’re either a winner or a loser, one of the ones at the top or complete trash. Add to that the very deliberately pushed idea that good men are the ones that stick around. So if you’re a woman that’s had casual sex you’ve lowered yourself to the standard of all the “trash men”. In reality it’s more that sexually valuable men tend to have a whole lot of casual sex with a whole lot of women. And sexually less valuable men tend to …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/05/25 04:56 AM
2	The phrase "men were the ones who created patriarchy" is just a deflection from pointing out their Cakism and hypocrisy when it comes to male gender roles. I think that’s more defined by a lack of means than a lack of will. Pre agriculture people had to survive day to day and had no concept of amassing wealth or resources. A period of Millenia where agriculture began and tribes had enough free labour to spare to spend on fighting other men for more stuff and women can’t really be ignored. Personally, I’d argue that if you don’t act a certain way only because you’re incapable of it, acting that way is still your natural sate. I guess you call male d…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/25 10:46 PM
-5	The phrase "men were the ones who created patriarchy" is just a deflection from pointing out their Cakism and hypocrisy when it comes to male gender roles. Male dominance exists simply as a fact of nature. Men have more physical strength/durability and more aggressive tendencies. All evidence points to male dominance of women being absolute for the entirely of human biological history, until we developed societies that changed that. If male dominance of women is the natural state then that means that any society we have where women are not entirely dominated by men is not a patriarchy, and is a net benefit for women. More than that, since men are n…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/25 10:43 AM
21	I feel abandoned by men, what has caused so much anger? I don’t know what the psychological phenomenon is called, but if you want someone to act a certain way one of the best ways to do is to reinforce that they already have that quality, and then that person will always strive to live up to that if they take it on board. So you might start telling your 7 year old how “responsible” you think they are and they’ll grow up always trying to live up to that. Whereas if you tell a child “you always such a screw up”, then they’ll use that to rationalise poo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/02/25 11:49 PM
2	Why is the left losing younger men to the right? Yeah I agree you have to extrapolate what good masculinity is vs what’s bad. What’s funny is a lot of the stuff that’s considered good masculinity that hasn’t been co-opted as a genderless trait are actually types of benevolent sexism, like paying for dates and other “chivalrous” things.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/02/25 07:22 AM
1	Why is the left losing younger men to the right? There’s definitely a reason those viewpoints above all others get pushed by media. The right knows they can court men to their side and get their vote, just by amplifying the left. Of course, the left thinks they can play that game too and amplify the sexism of the right to court women, except that women are just less on the fence in general, so there are far fewer votes to be gained by the left by aiming at women.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/02/25 02:21 AM
4	Why is the left losing younger men to the right? I mean my post about how the left isn’t allowed to discuss or criticise DEI was removed by the mods. But for being off topic of mens issue.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/02/25 01:59 AM
1	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic Yeah what’s happening definitely isn’t normal at all. But it’s been escalated by media attention on culture war topics. The hate is not something people are born with, it’s deliberately cultivated to distract from class struggles. Here in Australia right before the last election the current PM (right wing) brought up transgender women in sports, because he knows that it’s a wedge issue for the left. And right now, months before the next election the right wing party is bringing up banning the fl…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 12:20 PM
3	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic Often what people need most of all is to be accepted and heard. This sub is for people like me who do believe in things like wealth equality, lgbt rights, reproductive rights, democratic socialism, welfare, etc. but who can’t talk about other issues in mainstream leftist spaces. So if this sub feels hateful, sexist or racist to you it’s probably just that this is where leftists can be critical of mainstream leftist rhetoric and you’re not used to seeing criticism of those things outside of right…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 06:11 AM
2	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic The application material is scrubbed by an intern or whoever of racial/gender identifiers before being handed to the team that decides based on merit. Could probably even scrub it with an AI. This wouldn’t help with bias in the interview stage, but it’s better than nothing.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 05:30 AM
2	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic I mean you’re kinda telling on yourself a bit because I don’t think anyone here has actually complained in any capacity about “DEI workers” or diversity in general, they’ve only complained about the policies. I advocate for blind hiring/selection policies in the workforce, you advocate for hiring based on race. Only one of us could ever be classed as racist by any definition. But my further point is your brand of pro-DEI policy leftism has led to a backlash that is now actually hurting the peopl…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 02:45 AM
1	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic Thanks for demonstrating my point so succinctly.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 01:30 AM
3	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic Equity up to a certain point is good I think. Like, getting people to a point where they have shelter and food and education is just purely good for society. People need a certain baseline of needs met in order to contribute meaningfully (and have dignity). But the western left only focuses on the right side of the bell curve when it comes to “equality”. It sees the white male CEO’s but ignores the white male destitute.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 12:55 AM
1	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic These days it’s my opinion that any hierarchy is pretty much irrelevant compared to class hierarchy. Almost all disadvantages faced by minorities is due to wealth inequality. And most hate is fuelled by stresses related to poverty. Solve that and then we can start doing some idpol shit, until then it’s just a distraction.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 12:51 AM
2	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic It’s like teenagers children all drugs are bad and evil - they take one puff of a joint and realise you were lying, then disregard everything else you say. If you lie to people’s faces you start running out of credibility.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 12:44 AM
0	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic Name would be considered a reference to race and gender	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/02/25 12:38 AM
4	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic I mean if I was taking some “affirmative action” on hiring myself I’d make it so all applications had to be stripped of all references to race, gender, sexual orientation and place of education before being put in front of the hiring committee.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/01/25 03:31 PM
5	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic I mean you’ve basically touched on the whole point of this sub. Left wing men don’t really have a platform as we tend to get silenced and shunned by either side of politics if we express our views. Which is why any young man that might have views like ours gets easily courted by the right.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/01/25 03:25 PM
7	Trump winning the election is very bad for men and men need to be concerned about trump winning. Enough men have problems that aren’t being listened to that all it takes is someone like Trump to go “you, yeah you, I think you’re alright and think those other people suck, vote for me” and they’ll base their whole worldview on him. I think this result is indicative of men in crisis, not an example of male privilege/patriarchy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/11/24 09:08 PM
2	Young women are the most progressive group in American history. Young men are checked out. (Young men are increasingly voting conservative and as a Young man myself I’m not surprised, lots of male issues are ignored, invalidated and scoffed at. The left need to fix this) The loud hateful side is always going to appeal to people that are pissed off.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/24 12:48 AM
7	Young women are the most progressive group in American history. Young men are checked out. (Young men are increasingly voting conservative and as a Young man myself I’m not surprised, lots of male issues are ignored, invalidated and scoffed at. The left need to fix this) If men have a problem it must mean men are the problem, right?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/24 12:44 AM
7	While Harris is better than Trump, she is no male advocate nor progressive As far as I understood the teamsters president has stated that he believes democrats are better for the union, but he has to represent the people he represents, the majority of which are working class republican. Basically acknowledging they’ve been brainwashed. So I wouldn’t use their endorsement as evidence the democrats have worse union policy than the republicans.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/08/24 03:51 AM
1	My first cold approach was interrupting her being cold approached lol Should’ve followed that guy around	/r/seduction	06/08/24 02:00 AM
16	Why are short men more likely to commit suicide Dating is one thing, but height is also linked to respect for men, and that’s a big one for self-worth.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/08/24 11:44 PM
3	Transitioning to male opened my eyes Unfortunately your male provide card probably comes with height and musculature. Not many people mention that only above average men get the male privilege, while all men get the downsides.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/07/24 01:46 AM
22	Senate democrats push for requiring women to sign up for military draft, leading to huge backlash. This isn’t a “men’s rights” bill, it’s an equal rights bill. The reason conservatives don’t want the draft for women is because they want traditional gender roles. They want the world back where men die in wars and women die in childbirth. If you’re a progressive man or women you should support this addition to the bill.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/06/24 10:39 AM
2	Getting laid with tourists, is it a good idea or not really? Generally yes it’s a good idea. Women traveling are low-inhibition, low drama, and intent on having as much fun as possible. They’re up for it, and a local is the kind of novelty they’d go for. How possible it is depends entirely on which country you’re from though.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 01:25 AM
3	‘Yes Means Yes’ Is Just Topping From The Bottom, It Isn’t A Valid Ethic, Law, Or Moral Use both. Yes to start, no to stop. You can start doing something without a yes, you have to stop if there’s a no. It gets complicated when it comes to intoxication or relationships though. When is someone too fucked up that an enthusiastic yes means nothing? When you’ve had sex dozens of times with someone without needing an explicit yes after the first time, does that mean any one of those times is rape if they later decide it was? Unfortunately it’s not always cut and dry.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/05/24 12:06 AM
0	If A Woman Thinks You are A Player, Do Not Tell Her Otherwise I’m so curious what you look like, cause I feel like I could suggest ways for any man getting a lot of matches to have more edge and more of a bad boy persona.	/r/seduction	29/02/24 05:38 PM
15	Found an abnormal psychology pamphlet at my campus store that noted some interesting thoughts on ED treatment. I mean this is just medically inaccurate though. ED in older men is caused by circulation issues. A woman embracing a man’s fantasy’s is not going to help with that, vasodilators are.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/08/22 02:34 AM
5	There is more to incels than just "entitlement" The problem is that a lot of women tend to ignore the fact that men have a huge evolutionary drive to reproduce, even moreso than women, because human men are naturally the sexually dominant sex. Sex drive for younger men can be very easily compared to thirst or hunger, as it is essential for genetic survival. In this way, sexlessness can be just as emotionally crippling and traumatising as being chronically impoverished or dehydrated. If we start looking at sexlessness and excessive rejection a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/08/22 03:41 AM
1	How to get girls who are down with friends with benefits kind of deal? Bit late but my two cents: Don’t be needy, but don’t be cold. Be friendly more than anything. Be very chill Most importantly, be good at fucking. If you want a girl to be in it for the sex, the sex has to be good. I’ve blown a couple of fwb relationships by not being on my A-game (hungover, tired, ect) one too many times and as a result found it very hard to get her to come back.	/r/seduction	11/07/22 05:32 AM
4	Is there any truth to the idea that modern society highly values fulfilling the sexual desires of men? Like with many things there’s a disconnect between the rhetoric and reality. The rhetoric is all about promoting female pleasure (and belittling men in general for being bad at achieving it) while the reality is still very likely skewed towards sex being structured around male enjoyment. It’s hard to measure though. To use an unfortunate analogy for cultural change; if you imagine trench warfare, one side has been dominating for ages and has a lot of territory, but recently they’ve been getting …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/07/22 09:18 PM
7	"I'm not that kind of guy" This is why it’s important to get a woman to qualify to you. Op is right that if you spend the whole initial interaction vying for her approval and offering things, she won’t respect you. But if you come out and say “I’m not the kind of guy that’s going to offer you anything” then that’s not gonna work well either. You need to do both, but differently. You need to display your value to her by having a visibly attractive lifestyle. In essence, you need to have a life that she wants to join in on,…	/r/seduction	30/05/22 05:30 AM
1	A girls perspective on ‘nice guys’ There’s a big difference between teasing/ banter and being mean. Negging was never a winning strat, but teasing a girl has always been. And you can challenge a girl without being cunty about it. Telling her she’s wrong and explaining is cunty, but saying “ooh that’s a hot take” “ooh I dunno if we can be friends now” is both teasing and challenging opinions of hers you may disagree with, and isn’t condescending.	/r/seduction	19/11/21 06:15 AM
5	Mark my words; in 5-10yrs, we’ll have a new set of words for, “simp”, and “pick-me’s”, and they’ll mean the exact same things Yeah that was a shit definition to put it mildly. I don’t trust male feminists because, as a man, I often get to hear what they say when not in front of women. Avoid that shit like the plague.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 09:41 AM