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| 2 | What mating strategies challenge your sense of morality? | Discussion | jojogiraffe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy: The Leapfrog Hypothesis | Discussion | jojogiraffe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 11:42 PM |
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| 1 | Q4Women who complain about getting hit on by creeps: How did you meet your current BF/husband and how was he different?maybe, my boyfriend is 6’7 tho, but we met online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women who complain about getting hit on by creeps: How did you meet your current BF/husband and how was he different?Most people consider me very attractive, but I’m also a lot taller than the average man and I tend to be a bit more reserved and aloof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women who complain about getting hit on by creeps: How did you meet your current BF/husband and how was he different?I work at a sports complex, he was a referee. Would always come over to my court to chat between his games (sometimes during) and flirted with me. I told him I had a boyfriend and wasn’t interested but he persisted. Sometimes he would sit down at the table where I’m working and sort of invade my personal space, the final straw was when he touched me. I went to Managment after that and told them I could not work around him anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women who complain about getting hit on by creeps: How did you meet your current BF/husband and how was he different?I have only been hit on once IRL and it turned into me filing a complaint for sexual harassment, so not a great experience. I know why men don’t hit on me in public and I’m glad; I like to be left alone. I met my boyfriend on tinder and we’ve been together for three years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Have you ever been manipulated into having sex by an older man?I’m not attracted to older men at all. Prefer someone my own age. I’ve only had sex with one person so I would say no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Women in LTR's (married and cohabiting), how often would you have sex if it were just for you, and not for your husband's benefit?Just me? Multiple times a week. Maybe once a day, but I can’t say that for sure. I don’t have s a very high sex drive on my own, but I love doing things for and with my SO and he can get me going from 0 to 100 in no time. Depending on how busy the week is we can go multiple times a day (PIV or other sexual activity). Probably 5-6 times a week on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Do women really need emotional connections to have sex?I absolutely do, but I think my particular case is unique. I know some women who also need or prefer them and others who don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | [q4men] Men on here who always badger about how being a woman is living life on easy mode- how do I get my Stacey rewards?I love how my comment was downvoted 😂 who’s bitter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | [q4men] Men on here who always badger about how being a woman is living life on easy mode- how do I get my Stacey rewards?damn, no wonder I’m broke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | [q4men] Men on here who always badger about how being a woman is living life on easy mode- how do I get my Stacey rewards?Hold up. I’m cute, where’s my money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 12:10 PM |
| 3 | What's your n-count?Just one, my boyfriend of 3 years. 21f. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that people have 'types' in looks/personality?I absolutely have a type, in the sense of “people I find attractive”. I’ve been with one person (my first and only boyfriend) for three years, but before him I only really vibes with a certain type of guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - Do you care about the n count of your male SO?makes sense. I was a little insecure about it early on for sure, but it never really bothered me that he had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - Do you care about the n count of your male SO?you sound like me, except I know bae was with more than 5 people before we met. We’ve been together for three years tho so I win 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the ‘Jim and Pam’ type exist?My boyfriend and I have been together for three years - long distance, mind you - but we’ve definitely been through some shit. We vibe really well tho and definitely enjoy each others company. I would consider him my best friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Those of you in a relationship, who is better looking: you or your partner?Me. I’m a model and former college athlete; tall and slim with great bone structure. I consider my partner to be extremely attractive, and he certainly gets a fair amount of attention himself. He’s the smartest person I’ve ever met, and very accomplished. So on top of his good looks he is also successful and well rounded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | So what makes you a catch OR interesting??Ha, this should be fun. Tall, slim, attractive brunette. Former collegiate athlete and now an independent model. Psych major with plans to attend graduate school and eventually pursue a Phd - ambitious and career minded. My current job isn’t very attractive, however. Also very family oriented. Want 2-3 kids and wouldn’t mind working from home while they are young. Loves to cook and enjoys doing housework. In the gym regularly. Outdoorsy. Lost of varied interests and hobbies - philosophy, politic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/19 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Do most men disgust you, or make you feel uncomfortable?I used to work in the kitchen of a restaurant where it was mostly male staff and we all got along great. They were all about my age or a few years younger and I am still good friends with many of them today. Older men are a different story. Guys my age that I don’t know? Fine. Guys around my grandfathers or dads age? Also fine. The sweet spot is probably men in their 30’s and 40’s. These are the men that will sometimes try to approach me in public or will message me online regardless of my relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Being hyper masculine is a lot more important than being cute/handsome/pretty as a man.This reminds me of something my professor showed us in human sexuality. Basically a scale of human faces: hyper-masculinized on the left and the hyper feminine on the right, with sort of androgynous looking faces in the middle. As a function of where they were on their menstrual cycle, women rated the attractiveness of the male faces as more or less so. When women were ovulating they wanted a more masculine looking man, and at all other times found the male face closer to the middle to be more d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/19 12:32 PM |
| 1 | If women care so much about having a guy be taller than she is, what good does wearing high heels do?when I was younger I wanted to be at least 6’3. In terms of things I can change about my body and height not being one, I can see why that might be “odd”, but why not? Everyone else in my family is tall, it’s a norm for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/19 02:02 PM |
| 7 | If women care so much about having a guy be taller than she is, what good does wearing high heels do?I’m a 6’1 woman dating a 6’7 man. I rarely wear heels outside of modeling gigs and date night, but I love being even taller than I already am and I certainly don’t mind the way they make my legs and butt look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Would you prefer Bumble IRL?I actively pursued my boyfriend from the beginning and after talking for a few weeks asked him out. That’s fine with me haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Q2women: would you trade periods for male pattern baldness?nahh, my period is super chill since I’m on birth control. I like my hair thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/19 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, since makeup adds like 3 points to your attractiveness, should men have the right to embelish their looks as well?my boyfriend definitely doesn’t seem to care. I don’t think he really likes it, but he has complimented me when I’m all done up before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/19 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, since makeup adds like 3 points to your attractiveness, should men have the right to embelish their looks as well?I stopped wearing makeup a few months back and I still receive ample compliments about my appearance; now I’m curious to see what people would rate me as with and without haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/19 12:09 PM |
| 3 | The whole "men are more valuable with age and women are less valuable with age" mythwere talking about mate/reproductive value from an evolutionary standpoint; wherein a woman is valuable as long as she can reproduce and men become more valuable with age bc older men can still sire children and in some ways it’s indicative of the resources they may possess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | What mating strategies challenge your sense of morality?I’ve read Buss! In fleshing out my project my advisor wasn’t sure if my topic would initially be interesting enough, but as much as I have seen and heard through class and my own reading there is lots of discussion on what strategies men and women use, but not necessarily an option from the same or opposite sex on how they are being used. So I am looking at both why they function and also why some, more than others, make people feel uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | What mating strategies challenge your sense of morality?Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What mating strategies challenge your sense of morality?I should have guessed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What mating strategies challenge your sense of morality?I have already conducted a survey on the topic with my research advisor, merely just looking for opinions of those outside my study now! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What mating strategies challenge your sense of morality?I’m not familiar with this acronym, but I think I know what you’re referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What mating strategies challenge your sense of morality?a discussion of mating behaviors that question your personal sense of reality; even better if they relate to my research topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart?So we assume that “Chad” is an exemplar for someone who’s good looking and exudes masculinity. On social media especially I notice lots of guys who may fit this criteria, and the women they mostly gravitate towards do indeed fulfill the role of “Stacy”. The problem is figuring out whether most women actually want to be with a Chad, or if they only compare themselves to his partner as a marker of intrasexual completion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart?corrected intrasexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 05:00 PM |
| 6 | Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart?One possible reason may be that men may be viewed negatively for bemoaning their appearances, where for women it seems fairly common. Both subconsciously and consciously we compare ourselves to others, either as a way to feel better about ourselves or bc we see people who we desire to be like. Intersexual & intrasexual competition is fierce for both men and women; women especially may feel the need to put others looks down to make themselves appear more desirable. Are you referring to male count… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 04:56 PM |
| 2 | It is a PUA delusion that most men are too afraid to approach womenTo the comment about women not noticing average men, that’s somewhat true. If I recall, okcupid released some data about women’s ratings of men having a negatively skewed distribution where as the ratings of men for women had a normal one. I do agree tho that most relationships now are formed through work, friends, school and online (where I met my partner). I’ve never been cold approached by a man and I can’t say that I would ever want to. There are also scenarios where such a gesture would be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/19 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Do women actually want sex as much as men?Some interesting research about this. Most of what I’m aware of says the following: on average, men have higher sexual drives, are more permissive of causal sex, and desire more partners over the course of their lifetime. So for all intents and purposes, men on average do show a greater desire for sex. There’s also a chance that women do want sex more than they report, either because their responses reflect the social desirability bias or as an indication of stigma surrounding female sexuality, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Would you want to have been born the opposite sex of what you are nownahh, I love being me the way I am right now, always have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move?I’m well aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move?The guy I’m with now approached me first but I was the one to initiate taking our relationship to the next level. Having been rejected myself in the past I know that testing the waters to gauge how am interaction will go can be strenuous. I suppose culture/media could be influence, where men are often expected to approach the female. I’m of the mindset that if you really want to engage with someone then you will make a move, whether you’re a man or a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Do girls really wanna meet a guy at the gym?I have headphones in blasting music while I’m working out. I like to be left alone during this time bc it’s therapeutic for me and I genuinely enjoy working out. The extent of my interactions with anyone at the gym is usually just asking if they’re finished with a machine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 02:32 PM |
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