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| 47 | Friend has LVM ex, should i not be their friend? | Story time ☕ | jojosbabymoms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:03 AM |
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| 1 | Friend has LVM ex, should i not be their friend?Thank you guys so much for your input! You guys were pretty unanimous on the end game, and I’ll continue to keep doing what I’ve been doing. I’m not gonna bother with her anymore; it’ll be almost two months since we spoke and that means she has no desire to reach out as well. I have more important things to tend to <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Friend has LVM ex, should i not be their friend?I did, once again she said “how is that your problem who I talk to?” So it’s like yelling at a brick wall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Friend has LVM ex, should i not be their friend?It’s funny because her other friends cackle and giggle with him as if nothing happened and didn’t question it ONCE that he went to another state with her, and I’m the only one who sees everything wrong with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:40 PM |
| 15 | I feel like a lot of us have been here- never again.I sincerely want no children, and I also don’t want to to raise a grown ass man <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:17 PM |
| 13 | How do you guys feel about the character that was played in Acrimony? Shes dealt with a LVM for years and has became bitter from it.She was completely justified, but honestly all could’ve been avoided if she listened to her sisters the moment she was recovering from her hysterectomy. She could’ve had a fulfilling life despite not ever being able to have kids.....but i don’t blame her for being so ANGRY. And on top of that? The other woman from all those years ago got ALL THE BENEFITS SHE WAS WAITING ON AND INVESTED IN. I was so mad for her too shit she had all right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:15 PM |
| 36 | Men deceive women all the time with hats and beards, yet women never call it out!But when i wear a full face of makeup, I’m the issue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:12 PM |
| 59 | If women just stopped having children with LVM our society would have flying cars by nowI refuse to believe someone is THAT blind to their own home life.......oh my god??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:11 PM |
| 19 | I cringed so hard throughout this video.I love her other content but I hope proposing to men doesn't become a trend.I would rather chew rocks for breakfast than get on a knee for a man......oh dear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:06 PM |
| 5 | Friend has LVM ex, should i not be their friend?You’re so totally right....didn’t even think of that becoming a cycle. To add things on top of it she left our state to go elsewhere for a while, and brought said ex with her. She hasn’t spoken to me since maybe bc we both know the massive elephant in the room has to be discussed sooner or later, and indeed it will turn into the birthday dinner discussion all over again: unproductive, defensive and gaslight-y. I’ll keep this at the very forefront of my mind and keep doing what I’ve been doing an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:55 AM |
| 23 | Friend has LVM ex, should i not be their friend?Yeah the conversation wasn’t even productive, it was mostly me trying my HARDEST to simplify what i felt and i feel, to this day, she didn’t understand my point. Her main point was “ok but how is that your problem? It’s my life and my choice, not yours” And I’m just.....dude I’m your best friend you literally cried your heart out to me about this asshole and now he’s here as if nothing happened? Ugh, it’s very gaslight-y indeed i didn’t even see it that way. i just knew it rubbed me wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:46 AM |
| 10 | Friend has LVM ex, should i not be their friend?And that’s the other half of why i wanted you guys’ input too; i want to support her but she’s cried to me so often after the breakup, literally questioning her self worth and thinking she deserved her treatment bc of some fucked up karma. In my right mind i cannot support her talking to someone who made her feel that way, and it feels like a punch in the face too. She asked for my help, time and advice in consolation for her breakup and here she is back with him again?? It bothers me so so much… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:41 AM |
| 2 | False AdvertisingAnd you must be ridiculously dumb to think i was born with red lips and metallic golden eyelids......no shit I’m wearing makeup i don’t wake up with such glowy cheeks everyday dude damn. Get some glasses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:45 PM |
| 25 | This was on the ‘trashy’ sub. Dunno- sounds like legit advice to me! 🤷🏻♀️It’s trashy bc the bummy men feel attacked LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:25 AM |
| 16 | How a man treats you when you're sick or going through a hard time is a good indicator of the future.I’m so happy for you, you got someone that treats you like a human and with so much respect. Fuck your ex he’s gross i hope you’re feeling okay 💖! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:06 AM |
| 9 | LVM playing dumb to dodge responsibilitiesThat’s singularly of the most irritating texts to receive when you’ve explained your grief as clear as day; at that point i don’t even respond anymore, sit there and simmer in your stupidity I’ll get over my anger 🚴🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 09:59 PM |
| 84 | Love this! 😂 So sick of the “women are here to fix broken men” tropeHell yeah im not dealing with any deep seated trauma, that’s for a therapist i got enough of my own | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 24 | DON'T chase a manthe sperm swims to the egg, not the other way around 👁👄👁✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 02:21 AM |
| 26 | Stay single, sisSex will never be that good for me to lose my dignity like that......omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:49 AM |
| 2 | I used to be the worst for paragraphs. Now I just dip. Bye!I wish i knew this in the past and saved myself the time and dignity. I really sat down and wrote paragraphs to this dude and he had the nerve to ask me to explain how he hurt me😐SIGH! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 9 | Are you sureee you’re looking for someone smart? Are you positiveeee you’re only 27?he has no right to be so choosy when he looks like a piece of salami with sunglasses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:08 AM |
| 104 | Stop mistreating you female friends, especially over a fuckboyI got into a fight with so many of my friends because i refused to be jolly and giddy with them over their toxic relationship. Sis i don’t like him and i will never like him, love yourself and leave him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 05:48 AM |
| 8 | Why waste your breath?Don’t waste your breathe on that paragraph baby go get you someone better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 05:45 AM |
| 14 | Imagine being quarantined with someone who doesn’t even consider youLMFAO THE EFFORT HE MADE TO NOT CONSIDER HER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 02:00 AM |
| 9 | Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔I was getting catcalled and followed home at age 9 by men that used to just lurk around my elementary school....and the security guards barely did anything about it they never asked them to leave the premises | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 09:53 AM |
| 4 | Always look for the positives - UK in lockdownI’m actually sad the gyms are closed 😭i been trying to get my buff back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:15 PM |
| 4 | nOOh fuck no sis is stuck on stupid imagine letting your kids starve in the name of being a pick me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 03:27 AM |
| 33 | I wonder why he "can't figure her out" ....wow! It’s almost like she’s not interested! that’s so wacky!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:16 AM |
| 23 | sEx pOsItIvItY iS tHe FuTuReWomen should be able to decline sex without being lectured/pressured into doing or being someone they’re not. You don’t want dick then you don’t! It’s cool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 08:35 PM |
| 10 | The RedPill loves pretending like they’re some kind of groundbreaking independent thinkers like men haven’t been pushing this exact same “sEcReT kNowlEdge oN tHe TrUe NaTurE of WomEn” propaganda for centuries now.🙄 There is nothing new under the sun☀️Have y’all seen the RedPillWomen subreddit? My god literally full of pickmeishas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Porn has convinced men that violent sex is OK. It ISN'T. A man who wants to strangle during sex has paired sex and violence.I just saw a story on that sub to see what you were talking about........it’s sickening people really “rape bait” as a fantasy i HATE IT HERE!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Porn has convinced men that violent sex is OK. It ISN'T. A man who wants to strangle during sex has paired sex and violence.I’m not saying no, i know there’s people who sit for those reasons but even so, repeating trauma like that doesn’t help therapy needs to be sought. I too have been raped and i damn sure wouldn’t want to be in that situation again, controlled or not that’s mental self sabotage. Just because someone uses a mechanism to cope doesn’t mean it’s a good mechanism; i hope you have access to mental health counselors or psychotherapists so you can overcome your trauma :( I’m sorry that happened to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:08 PM |
| 61 | Porn has convinced men that violent sex is OK. It ISN'T. A man who wants to strangle during sex has paired sex and violence.This is why i will never understand DDLG and rape kinks. There’s people who have gotten raped and continue to suffer the mental consequences of that event, hell a lot of them are suicidal because of it, but for someone to do it as a way to spice up the bedroom is absolutely sickening when there’s men and women who want to gut themselves for a trauma they did not cause. And DDLG is closeted pedophilia i don’t care what you say; why are you wearing a diaper and pacifier to cope with life? Why are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:51 PM |
| 15 | 3 Ex-Boyfriends Describe Their Relationship With the Same Woman - Jelenny | GlamourAM I LYING LMGOAOD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 03:55 AM |
| 84 | 3 Ex-Boyfriends Describe Their Relationship With the Same Woman - Jelenny | GlamourIt really pisses me off to see such beautiful women be with rock looking, amoeba shaped men 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 23 | Than you FDS! This felt really good to do. Before FDS I would have either agreed to, or felt guilty about saying “no.”YES QUEEN WE LOVE BOUNDARIES! AND REJECTION! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:47 AM |
| 2 | have some Rihanna inspo to start your morning 👸I have to get some of her lingerie they look super sexy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Healthy dating and marriage should not be this exhausting“I fucking hate my husband” really sent me to hell and back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Pickme friendsOh wow then yeah she’s most definitely a pick me 😭since You didn’t disclose it in your initial story i thought otherwise. Wow what an ass I’m so sorry you had to deal with such low intelligence and low value people. I hope you and your family is okay and doing well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:09 PM |
| 14 | Pickme friendsShe’s not necessarily a pick me, she’s just friggin stupid and has no self respect and no respect for the people around her. I’m glad you dumped her though, she’s toxic regardless of her pick-me ness or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 2 | This is why FDS exists. Carefully vetting our partners is imperative!I swear to god when we find a way to reproduce without a man it’ll be all over for them, this is so disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Also, “I want a guy who is financially stable. I don’t wanna be some guys mom ” = Gold-digger🤨Hypocritical insecure men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:35 AM |
| 9 | Ladies we are almost 3 months into 2020! Have we all dropped that pick-me mentality yet?!WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS FOR THESE MAN CHILDREN ANYMORE BYE BITCH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Y’all. The AUDACITY!!LMFAOOOOO these men are unbelievable holy shit dude, I'm so sorry you got the run around like that and you got called names. his dick is most definitely small | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:11 PM |
| 18 | Also, “I want a guy who is financially stable. I don’t wanna be some guys mom ” = Gold-digger🤨girl: how tall are you? guy: WELL HOW MUCH DO YOU WEIGH YOU MUST BE A FUCKING WHALE SHALLOW BITCH also the same guy: I need a female with big tiddies, flat tummy, fat ass no cellulite, thick lips and a FFFFAT PUSSY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 7 | you’re single until there’s a ringEither do something about it or don’t comment on my relationship status—i act accordingly bitch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:07 PM |
| 64 | What I’ve been saying!That’s so fucking weird like WHY THE FUCK YOU FEEL THE NEED TO DO THAT DUDE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:27 AM |
| 38 | What I’ve been saying!The amount of shame I’ve gotten for not liking being tied up and punched around is kinda dumb?? And i don’t wanna sound like a pick me at all but if you really need to get your head stuffed in a microwave to get the slightest nut, i don’t think thats normal. And why don’t we just respect other people’s vanilla likes? 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Stop explaining basic facts to stupid peopleDon’t be scared to say Fuck off ladies it’s so great, told these cat callers to fuck off and they almost jumped me for rejecting them 🥴men are so stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:41 PM |
| 22 | COSMO Magazine Once again Promoting Abuse As Sexy by Publishing a story from an “anonymous” woman who had sex with a man who LITERALLY USED TO THROW BRICKS OF CLAY AT HER HEAD.NO THEY JUST KEEP SEXUALIZING THE FUCK OUTTA ABUSE AND DEGRADATION I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WOMEN WHO GET OFF ON BEING TREATED LIKE A PIECE OF USELESS GARBAGE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 47 | COSMO Magazine Once again Promoting Abuse As Sexy by Publishing a story from an “anonymous” woman who had sex with a man who LITERALLY USED TO THROW BRICKS OF CLAY AT HER HEAD.Literally hurls multiple blocks of clay at her head, writes profanities on her locker and assaults her: “I was just trying to get your attention in high school tho it wasn’t that bad!!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:41 AM |
| 33 | 1. FDSers don’t have crushes. 2. We don’t fall for mind games either. #blockdeleteHaving a crush is so mentally taxing and honestly sets you up for disappointment and failure i stopped being infatuated with people so long ago because my feelings were never reciprocated, and the image i had of them in my head was SUCH A LIE LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 02:31 AM |
| 11 | 10 Hours of Walking in NYC as a WomanWhat a fucking pick me! I had a friend who did the same who basically said i should be grateful and that she was actually jealous of me for being sexually harassed.....girl what??? 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:12 PM |
| 13 | Sis, what IS you doing?The moment i get a wyd text after 5 hours of no response i just stop speaking to them PERIOD YOU DONT LACK THE EMOTIONAL RANGE TO SPEAK TO ME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Enough saidGo get a blow up doll if you want a custom bitch with no brain and personality 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 9 | Want this to be me one dayI’m not even an assistant yet but i feel appreciated 🥺❤️thank you queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:08 PM |
| 28 | Want this to be me one dayMe when i become a physician’s assistant 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:57 PM |
| 252 | No more ride or dieAnd no being anyone’s therapist; so sick of women expensing their mental health for a man who don’t give two fucks about them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Neeeext!Yeah when they realize what an idiot and asshole they’ve been! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 09:14 AM |
| 81 | Neeeext!A reasonable request: “Hey can you just spend more time with me? I miss you a lot and we barely hang out” y’all beta males: yOU FEMALES!!! ALWAYS ASK FOR TOO MUCH!!! THATS WHY YALL SINGLE AND IMMA GET BITCHES LEFT AND RIGHT 😡🔫✌🏼💦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:18 PM |
| 38 | Anne Hathaway is more of a bombshell now than ever - a response to "the wall" BS. 2010 vs 2020 - using more comparable events, lighting and photography.She literally hasn’t aged a day 😍when you’re unproblematic you age like fine wine 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:26 AM |
| 53 | Be Less Agreeable to Scare Abusive Men AwayThe best compliment i ever received was that I’m scary; it’s good to know a guy knows to fear you when you’re mad idk why it flatters me so much. I was getting ready to get undressed at work yesterday and my manager’s boyfriend was sitting with his back turned playing SMASH. i told him to not turn around and he said “oh don’t worry you terrify me i know what’ll happen if i do, i have respect for you either way though” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:23 AM |
| 12 | [Discussion] How do you protect from this?I’ve been SERIOUSLY doubting that statement for years now girl.....I’m so happy single bc i cant hurt myself and i don’t have to accommodate anyone that isn’t me😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 07:08 AM |
| 35 | [Discussion] How do you protect from this?This is exactly why I’m so scared to catch feelings for anyone ever again; I’ve had this happen to me and it’s the most gut wrenching feeling ever, sent me into my deepest depression ever because he rubbed it in my face that i wasn’t good enough for him and was fucking other girls and TELLING ME ABOUT IT. My god men disgust me at this point when i see posts like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Truth Hurts.I’m constantly being told to lower my standards if i wanna find someone. “Stop expecting a man to be perfect!” I’d rather be alone than be treated like a plan B—why should i have to lower my standard to find a man but men can expect the upmost of a woman when he himself has absolutely nothing to offer? Fuck that, treat me like the world’s most amazing treasure or leave me the fuck alone sir! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:29 AM |
| 14 | Playings games bad or good ?Of course! Don’t listen to them they don’t sound like true homies if they’re demonizing you for being tired. You don’t owe anyone an explanation love, adult life is tiring and hard enough as it is. you’re not a terrible person for feeling this way and just because you had sex with him still doesn’t entitle him to your time! You got bills to pay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 08:33 AM |
| 14 | Playings games bad or good ?You don’t owe him any reply; y’all are adults with busy lives, if he can’t accept that you aren’t attached to your phone 24/7 then he’s childish. We get so tired after work texting seems like another strenuous task, he wouldn’t guilt you about how many times he’s texted you if he really had something to do with himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 08:09 AM |
| 22 | Straight to degradationI bet the ladies are just lining up at his door! 😍🙈so romantic!!!!! Tell me more about how I’m worthless! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:32 PM |
| 8 | The REAL clingy sexOne of the dudes i used to deal with always berated me for being “clingy”, texting him to see if he’s okay. But the moment i ignore him for a few hours he’s texting me off the hook asking “why don’t you talk to me??? Do you hate me?? Omg i wanna talk to you!!!” 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 05:52 AM |
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