jolivarez8 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Victim of Domestic Battery- But I'm the Aggressor Although it’s not much from a stranger, I’m sincerely glad you were lucky, for both your sake and your children’s. It’s that kind of system that kept me from going to the police when I was a victim.	/r/MensRights	25/06/21 04:27 AM
7	I want to know how me and my family can help further a certain cause. Also, some advice would be helpful. That gets at the heart of the issue. Another note though, I’m in medical school and honestly a good part of getting good at some things is brute memorization and that includes which questions to ask patients because we have tests with actors where we get points deducted for not asking particular questions to patients. I was never trained to ask IPV questions to males (because of the guidelines) and even as someone who has suffered IPV it doesn’t pop into my “routine” questioning easily because I…	/r/MensRights	24/06/21 06:12 PM
3	Why? Why would you do this? Currently a med student and male students have been reminded several times that it is to the physicians benefit to have a chaperone at all times with female patients to avoid cases of false accusation and law suits. In fact, even as a student I ensure that I have a chaperone when conducting certain exams on women. In some fields like ObGyn I had chaperones any time I had to do a physical exam as some institutions require it for all doctors and students be they male or female.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/05/21 02:46 PM
3	Females You are right that I don’t have a lot of experience with women. I’ve only dated 10 or so with my longest relationship being 2 years. Still, out of the 10 I only had the issue you are having with one and she had some serious issues she needed to work through which she admitted to and apologized for. Also, most people should care about themselves primarily and others secondarily. I consider good relationships to be mutually beneficial so a women caring for herself should want to be with me and wan…	/r/MensRights	10/05/21 10:56 PM
20	Females That doesn’t sound like a great relationship at all. If you are avoiding her because she’s like the women in the post why are you even with her? If you were a friend of mine I’d suggest finding someone who you can actually confide in without worry.	/r/MensRights	10/05/21 09:26 PM
20	Double Standards Start calling her Cardi Bill Cosby and when people ask why you can bring up her drug-rapiness so people will respect her less the more she is compared to Bill Cosby.	/r/MensRights	21/03/21 12:28 PM
27	A man was brutally beaten and sexually assaulted (by having batteries forced inside him) by two women and half my town are laughing about it and cracking jokes It really isn’t something the laugh about though. Some groups move for definitions like this so that rape of men isn’t counted in “rape” statistics. This affects the amount of financial support governments will be willing to put forward to support men suffering from these situations or worse.	/r/MensRights	19/02/21 09:35 PM
2	If Birth Control is free under ACA, Vasectomies should be too If I’m not mistaken, one way insurances get around approving birth control is by stating the denial is for religious reasons and only having exceptions for medical indications like having abnormal/heavy menses which hormonal birth control can help with.	/r/MensRights	22/11/20 07:27 AM
-30	You evil bigoted sexist pig... Why are definitions bullshit? In this case an ideology is defined to determine the focus of a movement. Why would you expect a self-identified feminist to care about men’s issues (generally) when feminism explicitly approaches equality of the sexes by advocating only for women’s issues? I’d rather have ideologies well-defined so that people who actually care about the issues of both sexes can self-identify as gender egalitarianists for example. Once you have those people leave the feminist movem…	/r/AntiFeminists	20/09/20 06:32 PM
0	Saw this today Oh yeah because physical and emotional abuse as well as confinement is incredibly hilarious. /s. For someone to reasonably believe jumping out of a third story balcony is the better option the shit they were going through was probably pretty fucked up, guy or gal.	/r/AntiFeminists	10/09/20 03:29 AM
1	Quiz that "determines" whether your relationship is healthy or not puts all the problems on men Same sex relationships in general have higher rates, but yeah women have higher rates of having had a past same-sex partner being abusive compared to men from what I’ve read in the past. Although I believe bisexual women experience the most domestic violence, but I can’t remember if that was attributed to male or female partners.	/r/MensRights	25/08/20 08:27 PM
7	Quiz that "determines" whether your relationship is healthy or not puts all the problems on men Women can have relationships with abusive women as well though so it would still be relevant, but yeah the content is easily generalizable anyway.	/r/MensRights	25/08/20 07:36 PM
27	You don't get a pass if you're a woman. Rape is rape. It’s a trend in the media for a reason though. The underlying reason being that they would be in trouble legally for using that term incorrectly by current legal definitions. A lot of places have legal definitions which do not allow women to rape except through use of an object to penetrate the victim. So honestly it’s not the media’s fault but rather the legal bodies which have determined what constitutes rape in their area.	/r/MensRights	02/08/20 06:32 PM
4	If a woman takes your sperm or even if she pretends to, she has the legal right to take your money too. I believe he’s referencing the case in the US where a child was raped and the woman ended up pregnant and the court required the kid to pay child support. Edit: I was mistaken. I thought he was talking about this 14yo in that situation: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.usatoday.com/amp/14953965	/r/AntiFeminists	19/07/20 09:12 PM
1	Paygap Ah, sorry that I didn’t catch that. I had just seen the anti-extreme feminist comments and some people can be a moderate feminist and be against the extremists so I wasn’t sure. Thanks for your insight, I know ya can’t speak for all women, but I am still interested in hearing what any women might think about these kinds of topics so I appreciate it.	/r/AntiFeminists	16/07/20 05:39 AM
-3	Paygap Just wondering, would you consider yourself a feminist or egalitarian? Some people equate only one with equality and some equate both with it so I was kind of interested in a woman’s take on which seems a better movement to associate with.	/r/AntiFeminists	16/07/20 02:14 AM
19	Dozens of women admitting that they would rape a man, because men cannot say “no” to sex If she’s raping you and you said no then either she isn’t attractive to you or you aren’t in the mood for sex for whatever reason. If it “depends on what she looks like” then you probably wouldn’t have said no in the first place if she was pretty so it wouldn’t have been rape (unless you are a minor and she wasn’t). If you think it’s alright for a pretty woman to rape you when you aren’t in the mood then maybe you should reevaluate your self-worth or explore your newfound kink I guess.	/r/PussyPass	07/07/20 11:03 PM
2	Female Teacher gets Arrested for having sex with a 15 year old student and gets pregnant by the student I am glad that I was mistaken in this case as well. I’d much rather there be more places which hold everyone adequately accountable for that horrible act.	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/06/20 06:39 AM
4	Female Teacher gets Arrested for having sex with a 15 year old student and gets pregnant by the student Thanks for that, it seems I included Sweden in the wrong sentence after rewriting my post from memory when my reddit app decided to restart while I was typing. I am sorry for misrepresenting Swedish law.	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/06/20 06:29 AM
15	Female Teacher gets Arrested for having sex with a 15 year old student and gets pregnant by the student Forgot to mention this is with regards to the US; however, several European countries have similar definitions that make it difficult or impossible for women to commit rape. Most places have definitions that require penetration for rape to occur. In this case a woman must sodomize a man for her to be considered a rapist. Unwanted sexual interactions are usually categorized as other lesser charges and are not considered rape in most studies regarding rape. In some places such as England, Wales, S…	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/06/20 01:24 AM
26	Female Teacher gets Arrested for having sex with a 15 year old student and gets pregnant by the student Most legal definitions of rape make it impossible for a female to commit rape. Therefore, any news source that says she committed rape is liable for legal suits by the female rapist for things like defamation of character such as libel (written in an article) or slander (if spoken in a broadcast) which they obviously want to avoid.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/06/20 10:49 PM
3	What did you expect? It’s also pretty cool that they have some leeway for how they act out the script. I’ve done some work with WWE and it was interesting seeing some wrestlers talking about changing part of the act last minute and practicing what it might look like backstage.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/06/20 03:21 PM
1	Believe women™ Her choice is not okay. Providing incorrect suspect details to the police hinders their arrest and helps them rape more women. I’d go so far as to say she is a direct accomplice in helping them rape more women.	/r/MensRights	17/05/20 12:51 AM
61	For men it’s ok. For women it’s bad. Not all skin is creative equal. If the skin on your fingertips was removed and replaced with less sensitive skin it would affect your fingers’ function just like foreskin removal can result in reduced sensitivity thereby “inhibiting pleasure” which is important to sexual function for most people.	/r/MensRights	20/04/20 05:30 AM
12	A girl I know is just posting some casual abuse. The worst part is that she is already in a relationship, and the only like is her boyfriend 🤦🏻‍♂️ She might be the kind of girlfriend that will get pissed off and yell at him if he doesn’t like all her posts. I’ve had an ex like that before.	/r/MensRights	12/04/20 07:37 PM
3	Equality lvl. 100 An elective procedure is one that is not medically required and is instead requested by a patient. I believe it’s primarily only done for those suffering from dwarfism or limb defects such as one leg being significantly longer than the other.	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/04/20 08:59 PM
7	Equality lvl. 100 It’s a horrible process that’s also pricey, but people can get their legs broken and pulled slightly apart while allowing new bone to fill in the gap so as to grow a few inches/centimeters taller each time the procedure is done. Requires physical therapy afterwards too. In the US it’s not an elective procedure unfortunately so I can’t get it.	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/04/20 07:13 PM
7	Boys don't have bodily autonomy I figured by the implied tone, but the tone I judged could have been incorrect. Plus I feel like matriarchy-related terms don’t really get tossed around that much so I figured it’d add some exposure too.	/r/MensRights	27/03/20 01:36 AM
33	Boys don't have bodily autonomy It’s actually matriarchal, but yes.	/r/MensRights	26/03/20 07:23 PM
89	Society makes me feel like a pedophile just for being a man I’m pretty petty so I’d start doing those things to the female parents. “Oh is that your son? Yeah? Do ya have a birth certificate to prove it? Oh that’s suspicious... Every parent should carry theirs, I do. I’m worried for that little boy so I’m going to have to call the police, I hope as a supposed parent you understand my concerns.” —me, being a dick. If the police ask me why I make superfluous calls I’d simply reply that my concerns were genuine as I have similarly been questioned for not ha…	/r/MensRights	25/02/20 04:17 AM
27	Man give kids free skate gear, woman claims he is a pedo. At least you did something. A lot of people probably just walked/drove on by without doing anything.	/r/MensRights	14/02/20 02:06 PM
1	From swiggy's office in Kochi, India (Swiggy is India's largest online food ordering and delivery platform) Using the false category of 2839 and the reported cases category of 38947 would be 2839/38947*100=7.29%. Which numbers did you use for 90%? Mind you I still think 7% is a high number for false accusations, but it would suck for someone to try and use that number in a serious discussion and be proven wrong lessening the credibility of the speaker.	/r/MensRights	13/01/20 03:48 PM
2	I was slapped hard on my face by a girl😩 Meh, someone deserves a slap in return and since the bf is defending her slapping you then he should be fine taking the slap in her stead. I used to know guys that would have beaten the bf to teach the gf a lesson saying “it was all in good fun” and “we didn’t expect it to hurt”.	/r/MensRights	15/09/19 11:15 PM
3	I hate my school. (Followup on the textbook in comments) It seems pretty open ended. You could have fun with it and describe the privileges of an “underprivileged” group like women or minorities. If it’s good enough and the teacher is open minded you can get a good grade for the interesting read. I did a similar thing with a paper identifying the good points of polygamy vs monogamy once that got full marks simply for being a good discussion rather than for being the “right” answer.	/r/MensRights	10/09/19 05:21 PM
0	Even tumblr is starting to get it - a user complains that all men are comfortable with their body and gets corrected by other user stating that the same percentage of men and women face insecurities about their body Seemed excessively aggressive and detracted from the legitimate points within the argument. If someone wanted to really spread this kind of knowledge they would be better serving the cause with less offensive language and appropriate citations to reputable sources to let critics invalidate their own previously incorrect beliefs. No one can change your mind better than yourself so reputable sources are definitely important.	/r/MensRights	02/07/19 03:48 AM