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lmao
/r/askTRP18/06/19 06:02 AM
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What?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:09 PM
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Doesn't make any sense at all, plus yo are not adding any value to the community with such an answer.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 01:03 PM
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Thanks Buddy. I hope it helps!
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 12:11 PM
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Thank you. Appreciate your comment!
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 09:01 AM
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The more you practise something, the better you get. Not only with social skills but with everything in life.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 10:53 PM
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https://www.goodreads.com/shelf/show/trp
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 09:00 PM
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Of course I have heard that voice, and of course I have been exactly where you are now. ​ Do not expect anything back from any interaction. If you talk to a girl and she doesn't give you her number, that's okay. You already won by just trying. That may sound stupid, but yes you won, you are now one step forward to your goal (becoming more social), and the second time you try, won't be as hard as the first one, an so on. ​ When I'm in a club, I have been rejected so many times. Long ago, when a g…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 06:23 PM
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Hey bro. ​ I wasn't obese, but yes I spent the day playing video games. I was as I descrived above. I didn't like social situations, I liked to be alone and wanted to live in a small town. Really moving to a big city was the best decision I have ever made. Because I forced myself to do so. ​ You are very young. My advice is that you may want to start growing good habits, specially social habits. But you still have to learn, you have to suffer, bad situations will come as they come to everyone, a…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 06:15 PM
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Yes you are right. An stunning read.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 04:51 PM
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I'd love to read what you want to write. I am really attached to this topic. ​ Cheers
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 03:36 PM
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I'm from a small town too, 600 population. We do the "Hi" thing too :d ​ As for your problem. Read 'The Power of Now'.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 03:33 PM
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My method for forcing myself to talk, is forcing myself to talk. Simply as that. At this point it comes natural to me. ​ At the beggining I felt like you. "I am not interested on what is he/she going to say, why would I talk to her/him?". In my case, I started to talk with people I were seeing almost every day and never talked before, as the caretaker of my building, the lifeguard in the pool, the monitor of the gym... It is as easy as "Hey, how are you doing today?" and then talk about yourself…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 03:30 PM
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Thank you. I wish you the best in this new adventure. I think you are doing the right thing.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 12:42 PM
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Most of those guys don't even want to change. Being in the comfort zone is very confortable. But I get your point.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 12:05 PM
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By killing that voice I mean that you have to learn to control your mind. A destroyed mind is the most self-destructive thing in the universe. Your past will always be there, but past is a tool to improve your current self. Do not judge your past, do not let him affect the present moment. Because if you are too busy thinking about the past, you can't make a change in the present.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 11:20 AM
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Of course. You gotta work for yourself, not for girls. Fat fucks with enough frame and confidence get laid too. But this doesn't mean you'll have more confidence to get girls If you percive yourself as a higher value man, thus you have worked and invested in yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 11:17 AM
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I understand your point. And yes, I think I didn't really wrote it properly. ​ What I wanted to say is that you don't have to feel special in a way that the world or someone owes you anything. Or focusing to much on getting the complicity from the rest of the world when you're just inexistent to them.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 11:15 AM
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By acknowleging that I am not the center of the universe. By knowing that 5 seconds after I would leave the supermarket that girl won't ever remember me. ​ And by forcing myself to talk. Even if I didn't want to. I would go to a bar and start a small talk with anyone sitting next to me. An easy example: There was a football a match on TV, and I'd just say "who is playing better?, I just got to the bar." ​ That's so easy to say. And sounds stupid, but it works. I learnt to become social just by f…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 11:10 AM
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As I said above. Background can make the change more difficult, but at the end an inner change is possible, since it just depends on you. ​ Character traits and determination are things you can implement in your life. I know guys who were smoking pot every single day, without work, living with their parents until 30. Now they do marathons, they are happily married and out of these bad habits. ​ Forcing yourself to get out of your comfort zone is a big step into this.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 11:04 AM
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You are right. ​ Sometimes we want to start building the house from the top. It is a harh true but, not everyone in this life deserves to be succesful. Investing in yourself is the key. If you don't take the time and courage to change yourself from the inside, the outside perception of yourself won't change neither.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 11:01 AM
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What is success for you? Having a great job? Growing up a lovely family? Earning tons of money? Growing a lot of good relationships? ​ I encourage you to write your own Mission Statement. So you will begin with the end in mind, and the steps you have to take will become more clear to you. ​ Mine is not a sucess story. Anyone can do that, really. Check who I was a time ago. My story is the story of someone who has improved his life by inner change mostly. And an inner change is possible for anyon…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 10:57 AM
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u/James_Rustler_ has already answered you! I agree 100%.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 10:53 AM
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I absolutely agree. Having an abundance mentality has bosteed my confidence in all fields of my life.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 12:00 AM
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Started to change at 22. Currently 24.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 11:49 PM
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Besides being with 2-3 girls at a time as plates, I have developed a very strong mentality, which for me is the most important thing. My mind no longer controls me, I have become more rational, and less emotional. I have improved drastically my relation with friends, family and people around me. I have become way more social, I talk to anyone. All my complexes from the past are gone. I moved to a big city and began a new life here. I meditate every day and I read as much as I can. I hit the gym …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 11:40 PM
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Appreciate the answer. ​ Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 11:16 PM
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That's a good start. Well done. ​
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 09:44 PM
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No worries. I got your point.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 06:26 PM
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Cheating? On a fuckfriend? What
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:14 PM
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You do need to have some sex.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:12 PM
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She began going for guys she wasn't previously attracted to 24h after fucking her best friend. Makes sense
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:46 AM
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She's 24. Pretty damn hot. I did not fuck her, coz I value friendship and I was fucking her friend, who was even hotter than her. As I said. I wanted to change her perception about me. I didn't give a fuck about fucking her or not. HB9 addicted to Social Media with tons of guys in line needed attention. Of course man.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:43 AM
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15 years ago we were 9 years old lol
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:42 AM
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Poor girl HB9 hit the wall at 24.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:35 AM
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I was just a friend in her eyes, and I wanted to change that perception. The term 'friendzone', in this post context, stands for this. I didn't even want to fuck this girl nowadays, I would just fuck her as I'd fuck any other hot woman. I see this girl like 15 days per year, so you see how I'm there for her lmao Btw, I am 24. Thanks for the stable man stuff.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:32 AM
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Read again bro, you did not get anything at all
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 10:08 PM
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I don't see how this comment can be useful for anyone. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 06:55 PM
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Thanks for the answer ​ Regarding to point 1. That's basically the story. I could not get rid the ''friend'' ticker until I took action. It wasn't really friendzone by definition, I liked this girl during my BP days, that's right. Now not anymore, but I wasn't comfortable with her explaining all the shit of her private life as If I was her best friend. ​ The only thing I wanted, is to change her perception about me, because she was the only girl right now that would keep see me as "just a friend…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 12:10 PM
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Knew her since 15 years. So, during this 15 years, she would never see me as anything else than a friend. That's what I wanted to point out.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 12:05 PM
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I was just hooking up. I have never cheat on a girlfriend, and will never do
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 01:25 AM
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Not really. 190cm, worked up. Shit happens in groups of friends.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 01:19 AM
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Any other feedback I'd really appreciate!
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:00 PM
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Thanks for your answer. Completely agree with the 2nd point. Regarding to the first one. What would you do in a case where the girl avoiding meeting up even thou she keeps texting you and sometimes throw sexual lines. I don't want her feel me I am needy bc that's a turn off. I have tried to stop replying for days and send audios too (which I usually do). Plus I have already had sex with her / sleep with her Thank you, appreciate ur advice
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:42 AM
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Thanks man!
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:38 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP16/01/17 04:01 PM
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It's the way it is. Don't set goals based on girls, because that brings no benefits for you nor for your SMV. And stop worrying that much about how you should act or what should you say. Do it instead. I'd wish you luck, but clearly that's not what you need.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 04:52 PM
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I was like your friend about six months ago. He won't listen, wait some time and when he wakes up then you can give him the advice
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:34 PM
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Who said you are a 7? You are not and you will ever be in a ranking. If you take control and your frame is better than hers, you can be a 10 on her eyes. Just be confident and take action
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:28 PM
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I used to think a lot, way too much, about everything, specially nonsense stuff or things that won't ever happen. Hit the gym, you will be tired at night, you won't think that much because of that, and you sleep quality will improve. Worked for me.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:20 PM
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Yes, she is into you. But stop being worried about that, better think about if she is worth your time. When you meet her, you take the control of the situation.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:17 PM
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Figure out how to build cash online. That's what I am doing right now in exactly the same position you are. You can't imagine what you can do in six months, putting half of the effort you put on the studies.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:10 PM
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Excelent post. Thank you for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 04:38 PM
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This post is amazing. Thank you for sharing OP. Been aplying what you are saying here for a while. Things just go better in ALL the fields of my life. Even If sometimes I have no fucking idea about what I am doing, I am still confident about it, and that makes the difference.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 08:01 PM
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God bless you.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 07:25 PM
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I was an exchange student in Sweden for six months, I had plenty of chances to fuck. I didn't do it because I had my girlfriend waiting for me, fucking with another guy. That's why I'm now here. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:33 PM
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Which condoms do u use?
/r/askTRP17/09/16 02:28 PM
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Yeah, I guess I am stupid.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:08 PM
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You are right guys, I will take your advice.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 02:48 PM
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That's a good idea.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 07:30 PM
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Get rid of her man. Shit happened to me too, never speak to her again. You deserve better than that. Work on yourself.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:56 PM
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I have been to the Netherlands. Pretty hot girls, too bad I had a girlfriend by that time. The best girls I have ever seen? POLAND. They are all hot, and they get creazy whit foreingers. Malta is a good option also, the girls there are crazy.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:54 PM
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