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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 150 | 22 year old woman killed in Denmark because of misogyni - the most equal country in the world? Femicide and hatred of women - the state of the union 2022.I always think about how the original Swedish title of “girl with the dragon tattoo” is “men who hate women” obviously Sweden has differences compared to Denmark but there is a similar “equality” narrative pushed there as well that is obviously not encompassing the scope of reality thank you for this post because I have totally been fantasizing about finding a great Danish husband and leaving my country… but this is a good reminder that scrotes know no boarders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 01:48 AM |
| 21 | What is female liberation?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 04:46 PM |
| 17 | No second date, so he wants moneyproves how men think we are a transaction not a human | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 03:23 AM |
| 275 | Men Abuse Women Who They Perceive to be BETTER THAN THEMYep — a couple years ago I met a guy through mutual friends who seemed great and I really liked him. One night we were hanging out and he said “wow you’re so smart and funny and hot, you’re going to go so far in life.” Immediately after this we started hooking up and he assaulted me. I always thought it was because he was intimidated and wanted to exert power over me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 12 | Been seeing this guy for a few weeks and he does meet a lot of my requirements however he watches porn, a few times a month he says he can get it to zero if i don't like it, it does make me uncomfortable though. Idk should i still give him a chance or find someone who didn't watch to begin with?HOW LONG HE IS IN THE BATHROOM holy shit I just had a come to Jesus moment. my ex would be in the bathroom for SO long when we were out — either just us or with family/friends. I would get really frustrated and embarrassed. this entire time I literally thought it was because he wasn’t eating well and had IBS or something but he was TOTALLY watching porn!!!! he even admitted to me he was addicted and that in high school he would go to the bathroom to. watch. porn. I’m SHOOK and so grateful I dump… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 05:25 AM |
| 87 | Men are incapable of being honest even for the purposes of peeingright? Like just tell them to suck it up and accept reality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 8 | How do you find out a guy’s dick size without sleeping with them?it’s unfair 😵💫🙃😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 05:44 AM |
| 16 | How do you find out a guy’s dick size without sleeping with them?the way I’ve thought A LOT about this lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 05:13 AM |
| 103 | How do you find out a guy’s dick size without sleeping with them?I just want to weigh in and say that unfortunately it might take seeing a man naked to truly know. When I first started seeing my ex I tried to feel over his pants one time when we were making out so I could get a sense of what I was dealing with before we had sex. I freaked out because it felt like he had a tiny dick. I even told my friends about it and considered breaking it off before I got too attached. Well I guess it was just a weird angle/material of his pants or something because he ende… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | FDS Unite: Young girls need us!Exactly. Young boys are so porn sick and girls think they have to put up with it/perform like it’s normal. I tried to discuss this w her but it’s hard when we live far apart and she just wants to fit in w her friends and boys so badly. I really feel for her generation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 07:02 PM |
| 15 | FDS Unite: Young girls need us!Yes please we need this! My cousin is 16 and her mom (my moms 1st cousin) is sooo strict and doesn’t talk about anything with her and she feels super in the dark. A few years ago I had some alone time with her and told her she could ask me anything because I felt protective and know how hard it is for girls her age right now. Now she Snapchats me questions whenever something comes up and not too long ago she lost her virginity. She told me every time she had sex with this high school boy she wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 05:55 AM |
| 9 | There is no surefire way to avoid LVM - you are not responsible for what comes your way, but you are responsible for what you choose to entertain.really love this comment — I’ve been feeling really down lately, angry even that I have had to (and continue to) learn confidence and boundaries because I wasn’t taught as a child. And angry that I feel like I’m doing it in silence. So thanks for even just acknowledging that it’s a conscious effort bc I often forget to give myself any credit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 07:24 AM |
| 15 | Has anyone else felt better about their body/personal ownership during the pandemic?Exactly!! So affected by everyone else and how they’re perceiving me instead of how I perceive myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Just because you were “easy” before, doesn’t mean you have to stay that way forever. It might be hard, but start drawing boundaries and require that people follow them. It’s not selfish, and it’s not bitchy.Yes!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:59 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.1000% and to value our bodies more, like way more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 04:25 AM |
| 16 | Moved me to tears bc the bar is so lowLITERALLYYYU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 07:53 AM |
| 96 | have you ladies seen this? I’m laughing so hard (but also crying)“Creative directors” thinking their arty-ness will get them so far 🙄🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 01:32 AM |
| 27 | Why is there a rumor circling around that FDS women are ugly?One of the hottest girls I know is the one who told me about FDS lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 16 | High value dates for the current moment?Okay definitely always going to keep in mind the part about him wanting to impress his celeb crush/dream girl. Excellent litmus test | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 11 | About apps and social media, do they really benefit us? I think not.It’s literally a fact that ALL popular social apps started as hot or not sites in the early-mid 2000s. Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, Instagram. I’m sure the list goes on. ALL are created by men to rate women’s appearances. If this is how it all started how could it ever be good for us to use them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Informative video about men who constantly are seeking sexualized images of women, and why it’s not ok100% lost cause, I guess I just wish I had this video to feel more justified in my argument lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 18 | Informative video about men who constantly are seeking sexualized images of women, and why it’s not okwhen I would call out my ex for liking these kinds of photos he’d be like ‘bUt ThAts WHat iNstAgRam iS fOr!!’ wish I could have showed him this video | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 28 | Will this ever end? I know I’m enough, that I would rather be single than with an LVM. But I feel sick w loneliness—I live alone and we’re a communal species. The lockdown is fucking me up. I re-downloaded OLD in a moment of weakness and this was the first guy I matched with. JfcFR!!! omggggg I don’t get the guys who think it’s fake like what.... I’ve been going on walks and hikes w friends. Was feeling content/accepting of my singleness but sometimes it just hits me so hard how I haven’t hugged anyone in months, no one has been inside my apt for more than 10 mins since April, I haven’t cooked for anyone since feb. I have a pet and I’m so grateful for that but a pet can’t rub my shoulders or joke around with me lol. It’s overwhelming to think about how long it’s going t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:13 AM |
| 13 | Will this ever end? I know I’m enough, that I would rather be single than with an LVM. But I feel sick w loneliness—I live alone and we’re a communal species. The lockdown is fucking me up. I re-downloaded OLD in a moment of weakness and this was the first guy I matched with. JfcLmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:41 AM |
| 19 | Will this ever end? I know I’m enough, that I would rather be single than with an LVM. But I feel sick w loneliness—I live alone and we’re a communal species. The lockdown is fucking me up. I re-downloaded OLD in a moment of weakness and this was the first guy I matched with. JfcI just deleted it lol not worth the hassle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Do they really like women?LMFAOOOO I almost spit my drink out reading this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 8 | HVM behavior — my friends bf has been watching YT videos during quarantine so he can trim her bangs and now they’re out of town so he made her a combI think you’re right — and I think there are a few FDS posts dedicated to this theory as well lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 61 | HVM behavior — my friends bf has been watching YT videos during quarantine so he can trim her bangs and now they’re out of town so he made her a combokay so their story is so cute: he makes furniture and she responded to one of his craigslist ads 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 7 | Some quotes to practice, memorize, and repeat. Don't bow to the patriarchy, queens.“You should learn how to say NO” -“Violet” by Hole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:56 PM |
| 16 | Ladies : take note !the first time I had sex with my ex he triggered me by accident (I will have flashbacks if anyone lays on top of me/puts their body weight on me). When I said that I was being triggered and why my ex goes “so you’re calling me a rapist?” I should have run for the hills right then and there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 05:58 PM |
| 12 | "nice guys" before & after being rejected:I feel you — one time I was in Vegas with a bunch of friends who decided to do drugs and I wasn’t feeling the vibe so I left the club and went into the casino. I didn’t think anything of it (going inside alone) but a TON of men started coming up to me and leeching on me. One of the security guards came over and asked if I needed company. He sat with me for a while before walking me back to my friends. We had good conversation and it meant so much that I didn’t even have to say anything for him t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 09:41 AM |
| 7 | Abuse and respect are opposites.THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:56 AM |
| 3 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity I’m honestly not even famous and my ex found a private subreddit about me that he couldn’t get into. The deep fake porn freaks me out. I get a fair amount of creeps sliding into my DMs, it’s just going to get soooo much worse if I actually become well known | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:35 AM |
| 5 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity Straight up the worst I’ve ever felt is bc of how other women treat me — there’s way more I haven’t even mentioned in this post. I have hope that women can adapt (definitely more than men!) but we need to figure this shit out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:30 AM |
| 2 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity Yea please dm I have a lot to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:21 AM |
| 6 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity THIS omg all of this Dude I was nodding so hard reading everything you wrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:20 AM |
| 5 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity YT is an interesting idea -- definitely want to think about this more bc the stories are truly endless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 02:15 AM |
| 3 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity got it got it makes sense -- and thank you !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity wait who are you talking about — the guy who dmd me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:18 AM |
| 3 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity thank you so much for saying this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity lmao I honestly am kind of a masochist -- thanks for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:31 PM |
| 2 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity Thank you so much <33 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:30 PM |
| 18 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity You are absolutely correct: the system has been completely fucked from the beginning — performers being owned by studios and exploited. Have you seen the documentary “Girl 27” ? It’s about a dancer who did backup for studio musicals — she got raped by an executive and tried to sue him and it destroyed her entire life. I want to look into those references you name at the end but the one thing I keep thinking about is do you remember when the ACLU decided to sue Hollywood over gender discriminatio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 10:04 PM |
| 32 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity I’m so sorry to hear this and you’re totally right: women can’t win. Thank you for saying this, it’s depressing but true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:33 PM |
| 14 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity OMG I wish this was a thing .. I would pay lol And thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:16 PM |
| 11 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity Thank you, idk how I’m doing it lolol I feel crazy most of the time. I’m definitely gonna publish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:01 PM |
| 48 | can’t wait to come forward with all the fucked up sexist shit that’s held me back in my career only to have libfems bash me for it bc I’m hot and refuse to take on any kind of “digestible” victim identity 10000% — men exploit women by exaggerating the notion that our worth is solely based on physical attractiveness. It’s not just reserved for the creatives/those in front of the cameras. All the female talent agents/executives/casting directors I know are completely tormented by the superficiality of Hollywood and most have very low self worth. It makes me so sad because they’re all very intelligent and hard working | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 08:56 PM |
| 6 | The Misogyny from nerds. I though this was a interesting video to share.Lmao remember when kaley cuoco was like I’ve never experienced misogyny: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.latimes.com/entertainment/gossip/la-et-mg-kaley-cuoco-redbook-feminism-breast-implants-sinus-surgery-20141230-story.html%3f_amp=true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 09:20 AM |
| 11 | It’s still abusive.my ex was so drunk one night he got mad at ME when he disrespected a bouncer and caused a damn scene — when we got home he went into the other room and smashed a memory card full of photos I had taken/put together for him for Christmas with a HAMMER.. ladies I cannot even begin to tell you how done I am with shit like this, it’s never acceptable in any circumstance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:59 AM |
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