jonblaze32 Archive

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1	Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls? Mating strategies =/= desire to have sex. Women have a wide and varying relationship to sex and, fairly commonly, have higher sex drives than their male partners (especially in their 30s and 40s, when it tends to peak.) If you don't want to be poly, that's fine. What I'm claiming is that setting up the rules of a poly relationship based on your conception of what women 'naturally' desire rather than building around what your partner actually desires is not going to end well. That conception pres…	/r/seduction	12/11/19 06:16 PM
1	Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls? Sex doesn't necessary have to involve intimacy. Similarly, intimacy doesn't have to involve sex. It's just a particular social script that has become part of our culture that makes it seem that way. This script is built, in part, around restrictions on women's sexuality that arose from patriarchal institutions of 'maximizing the value of the daughter' for marriage when people began to settle in argicultural communities and marriage was more about primogeniture and family alliances than about hea…	/r/seduction	12/11/19 06:16 AM
1	Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls? Why can't a girl hook up with many guys? Women enjoy sex. I've dated women with a much higher sex drive than me. At least in my experience, many men unconsciously equate their partner's sexual desire with their own value. A woman they are dating having sex and enjoying it becomes threatening to their identity. If you don't have the capacity to work through those feelings it generally doesn't matter who your committed partner is dating or even whether the interaction is more sexual or romantic. I…	/r/seduction	12/11/19 06:05 AM
15	Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls? Yep, I've been in a poly relationship for a couple years with a wonderful woman. Though if you want to be involved with other people you should expect and be supportive of your partner doing the same. This generally requires confronting and dismantling many traditional social expectations about women in men.	/r/seduction	11/11/19 06:54 PM
12	Do I have to be masculine to attract women Lots of women and non-masculine men are confident. Confident just means that you have a strong sense of who you are and can embody that even if challenged.	/r/seduction	04/11/19 08:15 PM
1	Do I have to be masculine to attract women Trust, there is lots of women out there who roll their eyes at uber masculine guys. A couple of my really attractive friends like fluffy guys, for example. One just got married. The main things you'll want to embody as a non masculine guy is pursuing your passions, being in touch with your emotions, being caring and empathetic towards people around you, being confident, having lots of friends, and being a valuable member of your community. I'm not the most masculine guy, and some girls don't get…	/r/seduction	04/11/19 08:11 PM
1	Depressed and feeling like an incel In addition to some good advice already said, I'd say to be more intentional about designing your life around having a social foundation. Figure out things that work for you. -find a job with other young people -cycle through some living situations where you are living with people your age -form "study/homework groups" with people from class. Don't seek out just high status looking people. Some of the best people I've met in college have been super awesome and they look completely different th…	/r/seduction	22/04/19 01:27 AM
1	A message to all the younger guys out there. I invest alot of time in our local rave scene/community, help put on shows and run camps for different music festivals. I have a full time job so money is no issue. I usually get a hotel room for dates which works out nicely as I get to see and experience lots of different destinaion spots in Cali. The girls I'm interested in aren't interested in money and material things anyway so I'm happy with it. :)	/r/seduction	30/06/16 09:40 PM
1	A message to all the younger guys out there. I think its more about demographics and congruence. I live in a van and I do decently well.	/r/seduction	30/06/16 05:46 PM
5	I'm going to start approaching people that I'm not even Intrested in to improve my social skills I agree. I think Manson's point was generally don't lead people on for practice.	/r/seduction	10/06/16 11:19 PM
4	I'm going to start approaching people that I'm not even Intrested in to improve my social skills The idea is not to treat people at means. People aren't "practice" they are someone you either connect with or do not.	/r/seduction	10/06/16 09:49 PM
2	Why She Goes "Cold" After You Make a Deep Connection Show, don't tell.	/r/seduction	21/04/16 03:22 PM
2	[LR] Two girls in 24 hours. One from OkCupid, one over the phone ordering delivery. How it happened, lessons learned. http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp It's why there is basically no STDs in the lesbian community.	/r/seduction	14/06/15 04:45 PM
-4	[LR] Two girls in 24 hours. One from OkCupid, one over the phone ordering delivery. How it happened, lessons learned. Cunnilingus is a relatively low risk activity. It is higher risk receiving head without a condom.	/r/seduction	14/06/15 06:02 AM
1	Um, sorry, we sort of lied (Or: Don't take most romantic advice women offer) The think the economic critique ends up being more incisive, the idea being that capitalism found traditional male social roles to be an excellent terrain for exploitation. Traditional breadwinner-stay at mom dicotomy? We'll double the labor pool. Automation/outsourcing taking male-centered production jobs? We'll have a transient, mobile and desperate labor pool to work with.	/r/seduction	31/03/15 09:07 PM
0	Um, sorry, we sort of lied (Or: Don't take most romantic advice women offer) This. The "feminists bred a nation of whiney baby men" narrative is silly and breeds weird expectations in men. If you are a feminist, you'll do fine given what you stated. Same as if you are not.	/r/seduction	31/03/15 07:50 PM
5	[FR] Another Tinder Date this Monday evening There are a couple good blog posts about tinder optimization. They distill down to: Have a few good pictures, one of which should be you in "classy" mode and another in "hobby" mode Be brief, succinct and know what you want in your bio Like things on FB so you might catch a % on interests I also matched more just by putting my height in my bio as the first thing. People are superficial on tinder.	/r/seduction	30/03/15 03:41 PM
4	Why aren't I attractive to the girls I WANT? You have the mentality that you deserve what you want because of who you are.	/r/seduction	07/01/15 12:04 AM