jonmatifa Archive

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2	How to be more attractive to woman Women are generally more attracted to how attractive you think you are than how attractive you are. There are exceptions all around of course.	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/19 08:33 PM
2	Need serious help on how to argue properly? It sounds like you've got some kind of communications breakdown. In my experience, arguments over trivial things happen because the bigger things never get discussed and so those little things become outlets. It turns very passive aggressive quickly and suddenly your relationship turns into keeping score rather than looking out and caring for each other. My advice is to treat her concerns as respectfully as you can, as you pointed out these issues are not trivial to her. You don't have to believ…	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/19 06:17 PM
18	How to stop hating women And to be clear, I hate men too. I hate all humankind. Well I think this is probably the bigger issue, I don't see any sense in isolating the reasons you hate women in particular when you have a negative view of humanity as a whole. Do you want to be someone who is more accepting of others, who doesn't harbor this hatred any longer? Do you see others who get along just fine with everyone else around them and wish you could be like them? I think you should become very clear about what it is you w…	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/19 10:20 PM
5	I think my boyfriend is being radicalized Educate him on how you see dominance as different from confidence. A lot of men seem to be swayed by the red pill because they're looking for models of "confidence" they can internalize and emulate but come up short for one reason or another, so the red pill offers answers where they otherwise couldn't find any, but the red pill offers dominance in lieu of confidence. Dominance values are based on one's relative position compared to others, its externally focused and driven. Confidence is about …	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/19 08:03 PM
7	i feel like i've completely lost myself as a person. the person i was doesn't exist anymore: my being has been consumed by self-help and red pill. Redpill provides a framework for many people for self-improvement, which is good in a way, but does so with the implicit understanding that there will be some sort of extrinsic reward for it. Namely getting laid/getting a girlfriend by increasing your sexual market value. Ideally, one would start to see the intrinsic value of self-improvement once they got started and would no longer rely upon the extrinsic motivation for it. Extrinsic motivation for self-improvement is problematic because those…	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/19 10:06 PM
2	"The wall" men vs women. A rant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ROJKEwYEx8Q	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/19 11:21 AM
25	I'm pretty angry about how bad I've been duped. Interesting how starting to accept yourself made it easier for you to accept others as well.	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/18 01:47 AM
26	Feeling torn The fundamental problem with the conclusions drawn from those types of studies is that they dismiss the fundamental humanity of women. We all experience our biology having a major influence on our impulses, that's a part of being a person. How many times have you been extra irritable when you were tired? Or used some alcohol, marijuana or prescription drug to influence your mood? There are countless factors in fact that influence our mood, energy, prefences, opinions etc. Some of them more influ…	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/18 01:28 AM
4	Falling out of love and being cold People change, that's normal, and with a lot of that change comes realignment of values, identity and thoughts and feelings of love. Not everyone is as forthcoming about what they're going through, and a lot of these kinds of processes can be very difficult to grasp. You may grasp that you no longer feel like you did when you first got together, and now that you feel like you or the relationship has changed and you're no longer growing from it, that its time to move on, but you're not capable of…	/r/ExRedPill	26/10/18 10:05 PM
2	My Redpill Story AMA What do you have against therapy? There are a large variety of practices out there and even larger number of therapists, its not all the same.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/18 08:34 PM