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Discussionjonni_velvet/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:11 PM
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you cant actually believe men are not the vast majority of perpetrators of violent crime. Talk about head in the sand, ignoring all of history lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:20 PM
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LOL sorry it just sounds like you are in denial of reality. ask any police or first responder. they will tell you that 95% aligns with their experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:04 PM
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10000% I am a sucker for pretty boys and pretty boys only. and Nothing better than a pretty boy whos also fit and masculine and mature. literally cream of le crop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:16 PM
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I’ve been approached by many fuck boys in my day and I’ve literally never been interested. the low effort, half assed attempts and their one track mind is pretty obvious right away. I think casual hookups without full sex are great. but usually, yeah it involves a guy who actually sees me as a human and a potential friend and can communicate like an actual adult lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:14 PM
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You can literally suck your own dick, I live in Texas and trans teens are banned from treatments as minors, restricted from certain school sports, a city has now declared they will be fining anyone using the “wrong restroom”, and texas made it a crime to be drag anywhere a minor might be before that was appealed. Just because you’re ignorant to whats happening and your head is in the sand, does not make reality a “boogeyman”. it just makes you sound daft as fuck. this is happening it MULTIPLE st…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:52 PM
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Start donating to women’s organizations that help provide healthcare to women in the US who lost access. this is the most important thing you can do right now. donate to organizations that help immigrants seeking asylum who are being unrightfully denied. or organizations that protect children who are separated from their parents during immigration/deportation. When the time comes that they go after trans, donate to m organizations helping trans youth and helping people escape oppressive areas. w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:05 PM
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I have an amazing partner, who voted for women’s rights, and who told me we can abscond together if things get scarier here. hes awesome so no, I’ll keep risking it with him, even if we have to become outlaws one day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:21 AM
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I almost dont even see it as just shitting on men due to thinking you’re superior, it’s retaliation for the incessant misogyny and sexual harassment women face. unfortunately the ones who suffer most, are the innocent men reading those things rather than the rapist misogynists who read it. its a never ending loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:24 PM
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100% there is almost always financial incentive involved in age gap situations. both sides know what it is but both lie about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:31 PM
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those aren’t actually girlfriends lol. as he stated, those are women who wanted food from him. 😂 thats why they dont stick around long, and why he keeps complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:53 PM
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LITERALLY (and poor people 😂)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:51 PM
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Lmao wow read him for filth, perfect response. Its always their inability to realize what league they’re in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:50 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:25 AM
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LMAO thanks for sharing. thats so insane. like actually sounds like a prank show how cringey that is. I’m very surprised you made it as far as you did, I probably would have thought his vacation to the bathroom was an opportunity to escape lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:50 PM
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most of them who feel the need to preach on that, are fat or broke themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:48 PM
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😂😂 omg abysmal incel rhetoric, that’s hilarious. I know in your fantasy, redpill men get laid, but no.. thats why they’re all mostly incels. they admit this. None of us here have fucked them 😂 definitely not me keep crying and being lonely away from my general direction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:59 PM
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I’m sorry. Your comments pull at my heart because your situation is so fucked. I hope you understand, regardless of being outnumbered, you are not in the wrong. I have no idea what the fuck happened to our ancestors in the 1900s but all of them and their perspectives on sexism and mental health and abuse are completely fucked. Like completely. We have come a long way but it wasn’t long ago, so I’m sorry them being stuck in old ways has negatively manifested onto your son. Honestly it happens to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:55 PM
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coping with… what? that I dont have to socialize with incel redpillers in real life? I’m pretty content with them staying in their basement caves. The vast majority of men are not misogynists and do not at all relate to the creeps that only socialize on reddit. I only associate with good men. that’s literally reality. At least in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:00 PM
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yeah, I’ve been replying to your other comments and glad you found my original reply. I’m sorry you’ve been through that, and echoing my last reply- keep leaning into your social group and friends. meet new people and try new things with them. its so much brighter outside of these hate groups. I’m dumbfounded on where to begin with your son, I’m sorry you lost him and I’m proud of you for disinheriting him. since hes not open to therapy, but maybe try to keep an open mind and hope for him. Hes y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:56 PM
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some of it is all jokes, but under every joke is a slew of bot comments and replies posting offensive or bigoted shit. because all you need is that $10/mo blue check mark and your comment will be immediately put at the top of replies. it’s nearly impossible to avoid it. its not worth it when it has this affect on you. and because you have real world examples and pain, it’s probably so much worse. definitely continue to lean into your friend group and push yourself to socialize more and more and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:48 PM
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wtf. I’m so upset you believe this crap because its just manipulation orchestrated to keep you down. and yet its soiled your sex life. it’s upsetting because aging is genuinely not the end of the world by any means and it sounds like you’re still in your peak beauty?? please enjoy it! we wont be able bodied and active forever, fuck anyone who tries to age you prematurely. And by that, I mean when we’re hitting 60+ and getting sore. not fucking 30 lol. its not at ALLLL all men who think women hit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:22 PM
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lol curious what was said on the date you left 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:08 PM
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nope. this guy is just one of the delulu “forget about women, what ablut men” types we just need to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:06 PM
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this is so false. honestly I’m approaching 31, and also feel like I’m getting hit on more than ever in life. I feel incredibly beautiful and I think other women are too! so many age beautifully and gracefully and there are plenty of ways we can change our looks up to keep us feeling refreshed and attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:48 PM
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try reading through more or r/nothowgirlswork lots of amazing men in that group, lots of insightful women pointing out hypocrisies and lack of logic in things said about women. it shows a stark contrast between online trolls vs real world empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:47 PM
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I’m sorry but reddit incel hangouts and twitter are just cesspools of trash and dead internet. you need to focus more on real world activities and socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:18 PM
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Uh please do NOT project these mentally unstable incel dudes’ mentalities onto all other men. these dudes dont go outside or date much if at all, this is NOT your standard man in here. this is NOT representative of real life in the slightest, I have so many great amazing men in my life who would literally just laugh at these dudes and never relate to them. but that’s because they actually speak to women and go outside and socialize normally. this is just a group of jaded, bitter misogynists who …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:14 PM
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thats also what I’m referring too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:42 AM
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I agree fully, so much offense spam dead internet comments being mass posted out there. its shock value and intended to drive division, thus internet engagement. its insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:27 AM
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Strong disagree. I hear the most troglodyte ass shit online, while I have literally never had to stumble across anyone so unpleasant IRL. Those people are spam posters, trolls, bots, or simply asocial and dont go outside much. people dont just immediately blurt out the most offensive click-baity shit possible in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:25 AM
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it sort of sounds like you’re describing the brain dead troll or bot level of activity found on most social media. I wouldn’t take that as representative of the way things are in real life. thats just spam internet comments. I think any kind of “kill men/womem” stuff is disgusting. any sort of gender discrimination imposed on a baby also gross me out, from getting mad at gender reveals all the way to killing baby girls because of one child laws. Just absolutely revolting and people who mentally …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:23 AM
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Nope. Context matters a little too much. You’ll know when someone is bad, but each lover can be great in their own way, for that time in your life. The relationship and connection you have tends to strongly influence how you feel about the sex. your current lover always tends to be your best lover
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:57 AM
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if you’re passionate with someone, they tend to know what you like in bed. quantity vs quality also applies. its apples and oranges. you cant just bar graph compare two lovers. No one is prioritizing number of orgasms reached like a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:52 AM
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you can’t have one without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:44 AM
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both of these scenarios can be quickly solved with communication so obviously you’d go for the person you have more feelings for/actually want a future with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:35 AM
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yeah, I sort of call bs on that too, whenever people say it. if your actual soul mate 10/10 girl came to you, I dont think you’d reject her. and if you would, thats just silly to shut yourself off to possibilities regardless of context
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:41 PM
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In my opinion, no matter how attractive a man or woman is, if they loudly parrot “I only want casual sex” to anyone who approaches, its just hugely massively unattractive, even to people open to casual things. its not a good look, or a brag. I’d just say “I don’t really know what I’m looking for, I’m open minded” and see where that takes you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:32 PM
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I guess from the perspective of someone in a lot of alt communities, that don’t subscribe to rigid “norms” or judgments, with plenty of friends across the board from asexual, demisexual, nonbinary, trans, dominant, submissive, switches, gender swapping.. Even in bdsm or poly/open communities. Heck, even in alt hangout spaces like anime conventions, ren fairs, gaming cons, arcades, etc… there are plenty of women who play the dominant roles and approach or at least show strong interest and lead th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:46 PM
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I know you were asking sarcastically, but imo there is body language that does demand it. Not being shy, and holding eye contact with a woman charmingly, even waving hello, is a good move if shes feeling your attractiveness and checking you out. Its a little intellectually stimulating to be challenged/to be allowed to chase, instead of being pursued heavily/with too much eagerness. unfortunately still involves the instant mutual spark to get you guys staring at each other, so that’s a whole diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:17 PM
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I mean, I respect his choice. but I dont think it’s understandable. shutting yourself off from even attempting to try, is going to guarantee you end up alone and unhappy. At least if you try, no matter how many times you fail, you have the chance of succeeding eventually. its a numbers game fully, and giving up ensures defeat. I’m a pretty dominant woman, when I was dating I did my fair share of approaching, or being the first dm, or being the first to reach out, or second texting. Sometimes it …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:00 PM
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unfortunately not as “goes without saying” as you’d think, considering how many posts end up in the relationship subs about trying to escape physically abusive situations. a good example is that there are FREQUENT. Literally FREQUENT posts from women about thier male partners penetrating them while they’re asleep with NO prior consent to that sort of thing. It’s alarmingly way too often people have to ask if thats okay or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:49 PM
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I’m hoping you realize referring to random people in a sweeping assumption as “autists” is super ableist and gross. do better for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:46 PM
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I’m a woman. So not sure that logic really clicks since I’m advising the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:44 PM
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interesting, I know a lot of great men and women who met and successfully became a relationship from dating apps, because there are really great people who still use it it sounds like you’re just describing the people you were able to personally match with. I dont think this is making the same point you think it is…….. it just seems like you’re attracting what is in your specific league.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:50 PM
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the most red pilled I’ll ever be is admitting its the 5’5” on his profile coupled with him being so young immediately stating hes into a serious relationship (his age range might not be as keen on quick commitment). I bet they also told him not to upload shirtless/gym photos. I have no idea why they say that. its awful advice. showing off your results/body is a great way to garner attraction. source: a past situationship of mine was a long hair, body building, 5’5” dude. his shirtless pics were …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:36 PM
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literally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:26 PM
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you need intense therapy. yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:20 PM
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I aint buyin it 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:44 PM
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I dont think you’re his target audience, but why does someone’s tattoo matter …….. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:42 PM
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Lol we can agree to disagree on that one, he’s hilarious and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:33 PM
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eh agree and disagree. I agree in the sense that attraction is already determined. So regardless of if your pickup line is “hey…” or “is your father a baker?” or even “how are you doing mlday”, if someone is attracted to you it likely will work no matter what. The same can be said for an awesome conversation starter coming from someone they aren’t attracted to- doesn’t matter, wont work. buuuuuuut there are ABSOLUTELY things attractive men can say that resorts them right back to zeros. things pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:07 AM
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same with my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:52 PM
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every single mother I knew, didn’t stay single for too long really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:45 PM
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sort of what this example sounds like. if I was driving I’d want my partner to be honest and direct with me. it would save me 5 minutes every time I went that route they showed me. that is someone whos actively working with me as a partner so I can grow and learn more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:48 PM
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sounds like a mutual partnership (the best) if you’re taking turns then rather than one person being a submissive partner ~
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:45 PM
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Nope I am LITERALLY explaining the current law to your trogs 😂 its not a hard concept and theres a reason it is the way it is. not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:06 PM
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hes 100% responsible as the father. yes the baby still has a mother lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:30 PM
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because you’re wrong and completely illogical. of course I’m not interested in being dumbed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:29 PM
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Equality is a woman getting the full control and decision making over her own body, much like a man has. Its still his baby even if he can’t successfully pressure her to abort, he doesn’t get to choose that part of the pregnancy. He does get to choose if he impregnates her though. and any child he chooses to create, is 100% his responsibility as well, regardless of if he voted abortion or no abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:30 PM
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Yep agreed, including men. They choose to participate in baby making, or they can choose not to. either way, they dont get to punish the child by skipping out on their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:57 PM
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many women are choosing abstinence in response to this. just like many men choose abstinence or safer sex instead of making babies with people they dont want babies with. simple stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:51 PM
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The uterus owner gets the final choices on what happens with her own body. Women know this. Men know this. Men need to act accordingly, ahead of time, with this information. Dont have sex with a woman you aren’t 100% comfortable getting pregnant. Men have that power and choice. they aren’t helpless. sex is not required. Sex is for actively making babies. they can choose not to get her pregnant, and choose who they have sex with. Its really not difficult logic. Once he creates the baby, the choic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:15 PM
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Nope, they’re entitled to keep the baby a man chose to help create. he still made his choice. hes still just as responsible as she is. theres a reason the law completely disagrees with you. its because theres absolutely no logic in what you believe. you just want men to not have responsibility of their own children. because you are biased in favor of the man rather than the baby. but you’re completely wrong and illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:07 PM
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He does have a window of time before sex to decide he doesn’t want to risk the pregnancy. he doesn’t need to have sex with her………. once he does, that baby is entitled to his financial support whether he likes it or not. not all women are willing or able to choose abortion, either way he is still the father of that baby and thus responsible for it from the moment he chose to participate in making the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:51 PM
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I’m very clearly arguing women control their own uteruses and no one else does. hence why men make the choice when choosing to have sex. because men know this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:36 PM
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Abortion is not consequence free and women are entitled to not believe in having one for themselves too. and no, actually it shouldn’t. Consent to sex IS consent to accidental pregnancies. 100%. for both sides. Men know that the person with the uterus has the final decision in pregnancy. He has the final decision on if he wants to have the sex or not. she gets the final choices on what happens with her own body. Women know this. Men know this. Men need to act accordingly, ahead of time, with thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:34 PM
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Nope sorry, nothing entitles either parent to skip out financially. Man or woman, they both are financially obligated to that baby. neither of them get to skip off and be dead beats.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:28 PM
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Absolutely, and she gets the final choices on what happens with her own body. Women know this. Men know this. Men need to act accordingly, ahead of time, with this information. Dont have sex with a woman you aren’t 100% comfortable getting pregnant. Men have that power and choice. they aren’t helpless. sex is not required. Sex is for actively making babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:25 PM
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Stop having sex with women unless you’re 100% comfortable and consenting to the choice she’ll make wth your DNA. its simple. no amount of regretting your decision makes that baby not yours and not your choice. and therefore, it IS your responsibility either way. and you owe that baby support. dont make babies (aka have sex) if you dont want a potential baby with that person. because you know ahead of time, that that person is the one who has the choice over their own body. men know this ahead of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:23 PM
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no one has autonomy over another person’s body. no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:15 PM
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Lmao. The point is that its not a valid argument. BOTH genders are forced into the consequences of an unwanted pregnancy. Women more than men. BOTH genders know, well before the sex has happened, that only the uterus owner makes the full decision of medical procedures on their own body. That doesn’t absolve him of the choice he actively chose to make. He doesn’t get to decide later that he changed his mind, he needs to take responsibility for what he’s signing up for when choosing to make babies…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:04 PM
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this can be true, but theres just as many men who do still care about the well being of the baby even though they dont want to be financially “punished”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:50 PM
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Yes 100% having sex is consent/participation in actively making a child. because we all know ahead of time, that only the person with the uterus can actively choose what medical procedures to undergo. sounds like we’re on the same page I think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:49 PM
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If she can choose abortion or no abortion, the man can choose sex or no sex. He doesn’t HAVE to participate in making the baby. He doesn’t have to cum anywhere with any woman he doesn’t actively want to risk getting pregnant. Men know that sex makes babies. please stop acting like its this unpredictable outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:44 PM
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Nah. The dude has the ability to ditch out all the way up to the point of cumming. thats his choice. Men KNOW that sex makes babies. Stop infantilizing them. They need to exercise their ability to choose, by making sure they’re 199% comfortable with the woman they are cumming in, that she will make a choice they both agree on. If he doesn’t feel that way, he shouldn’t have sex with her, ESPECIALLY without a condom and pulling out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:42 PM
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Lol do you not think men have a choice? you dont think men are intelligent enough to know sex makes babies? that is LITERALLY making a choice dont have sex with or cum in someone unless you are actively 100% comfortable with getting pregnant together and respecting her choices that come from that. That is literally a choice, you choose where to put your DNA. Stop infantilizing men. They know sex is for babies. If you want no strings attached sex, get a vasectomy. and make sure its effective. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:34 PM
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Thats an awful thing to even imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:31 PM
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This. Implying that a man cant take custody of the child and has to watch it be put up for adoption is false. He can absolutely step in and force custody. And yes, she would have to try to give up her own parental rights in court. If she cant give up her rights, yep she’d be a deadbeat mom like any deadbeat dad, and she would be the one owing the child support. I don’t understand how people see this as unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:30 PM
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typically paying child support also entitles you to some form of custody and visitation as the established father unless there are specific circumstances in which you are deemed unsafe. so yes then you would be entitled to influence over the child’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:25 PM
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wouldn’t you make that EXACT same argument about a man not wanting to pay for a child he specifically chose to participate in creating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:24 PM
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this has to be the daftest thing I’ve ever read A man has a choice. he has a 100% choice. He chooses who he gives his DNA to and who he does baby-making activities with. That’s literally when hes signing up for a potential pregnancy. you dont get to also control a woman’s body because you regret your own choice. that’s misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:23 PM
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he actively made the choice when he chose to provide the DNA, exactly like you said. Giving the DNA is where men get their choice. Not over a woman’s body. You cant force a woman to carry, you cant force a woman to terminate. you simply choose what you want to do with your own DNA and who you want to trust with it. Thats a massive ability to choose. why are you pretending men aren’t actively able to make this choice…..?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:20 PM
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Oh man, the misogynists are going to blow up in this thread. There are a LOT of childless, angry virgins in this sub who genuinely believe men should be able to leave a wake of babies behind them and never have to take responsibility for any of them. simply because “wah I dont want to pay the consequences of my actions” they also refuse to acknowledge men have a choice in - who they cum inside of, and who they use protection with. They think a man is “trapped” or “tricked” into having a baby. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:11 PM
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I appreciate your fantasy at least 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:57 AM
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whats your experience/success with dating being so upfront about these things with them? or do you mostly just date in poly circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:56 AM
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this is my experience too. No man has ever asked me or cared in the slightest, and I would have been honest if they did. very much a green flag. although I did ask my current partner about it deeper into our relationship, more in a conversation about past relationships/our experiences with love. he gave me his ballpark which was definitely a few multiples of mine. he didn’t ask me even after I’d opened the conversation, even after I mentioned he didn’t ask lol. Very attractive secure man 💜 (alth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:37 AM
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Lol that definitely proves you are not in the top 5% or 1% in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:22 AM
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theres lots of women in that sub too, you usually see more of them in the comments of each post. thats why it feels silly to generalize when it can genuinely be so different I agree men can be more lustfully driven to extremes. I think women tend to be more demanding when it comes to wanting back to back to back. this is again typically only in a comfortable mutual set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:43 AM
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yeah, I dont want to make sweeping generalizations. Some women are the higher libido, some men are. I also think it flips a bit through the years, as we age someone who once had a lot of libido, declines. at least for most of my friends, 20-30s, they’re always trying to get it from their mans more 😆 in a comfortable, mutual relationship women can really go crazy with the back to back sex. everyone’s different though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:32 AM
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I totally agree. the lack of realism gets a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:30 AM
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women can tend to be the hornier ones in a relationship women dont just go fucking anything because they’re horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:24 AM
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I agree! this sub has an obsession with “settling” but I’ve never really thought of it that way. Everyone is different in their own way, apples and oranges. They can all be great and all be super different. I’m not ranking anyone on some list. Its just the energy, vibe, connection, spark, that makes it happen. When good conversation is just flowing out, thats when you know its worth it! and the best part is, that energy is going to be different for everybody and there is no one size fits all her…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:43 PM
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woo hoo!! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:30 PM
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Yeah. As funny as it is, if you pretend you dont care about hooking up at all, you’re a lot more likely to hookup vs the dude whos super forward about it and makes it obvious he’s looking for casual pick ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:06 PM
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I think what makes a man most attractive is that instant confidence, comfortability, humor, and just spark that makes it easy to talk. when someone is intellectually stimulating you, making you laugh, putting in the effort and rizz, that makes him more attractive than other men at the bar. it doesn’t really matter if he would be your top swipe on a dating app. when I hear “chad” I think like super regular looking white douchey dude. Polos and short hair and all look the same. Its just never been…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:57 PM
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don’t project your whiney emotions onto me. no one is triggered but you. these claims seem ridiculous to you only because you never go outside or interact with other humans socially. I dont need to prove to you that my boyfriend is attractive and a great person. I know you love ogling pics of more attractive men, but give it a break for a day!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:41 PM
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she bailed huh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:42 PM
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Lol you also sound like a miserable incel. I’m not going to post photos of him no matter how much you want to see him as “proof”. this sub is funny and I get a lot of laughs from you guys. a lot. but I also have a great life IRL and a great man who checked all my boxes. Some of us actually log off and leave mom’s basement and have lives outside of reddit we go back to. you should try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:42 PM
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I don’t care what you believe, at all, you can whine elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:40 AM
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lmao this is such a daft response. truly daft. this is my lived, true experience. I’m not going to prove to you I have a great and also hot bf. Not going to prove to you my friends have never been attracted to chads. If you cant take that discussion as my lived truth, that would be because your head being in your ass is preventing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:06 AM
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? lmao how would you like something proven to you? you don’t believe anything you read regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:35 AM
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I usually preach on “leagues” a lot, because none of these incels stay in their own. ever. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:21 PM
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I feel like I literally see this CONSTANTLY in this sub 😂 they genuinely cannot imagine that women’s taste MIGHT slightly vary from what heterosexual men consider attractive in a man. Like it seems so obvious those two things would be very different, but not to these detectives. No, these detectives decided any woman who doesn’t date a frat level douche of a player for his money, must be settling. right? RIGHT?! SHE SETTLED FOR HIM AND IS UNHAPPY NOW RIGHT??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:48 PM
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definitely agree. I think when you spend a lot of time online reading sensationalized stories that are about 90% fiction for every 10% real story, you might start to apply this to real life and assume this is the average/majority case. it just doesn’t work like that. you cant apply whats happening to a very small minority, onto all women everywhere. its just not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:29 PM
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dont you think theres a large chance these men on reddit (who happen to be jealous of anyone who has dates/women and are spiteful about it to begin with) are just ASSUMING these women are settling and stating that as some sort of fact? why do they think they can tell a woman “you settled for your husband” when she doesn’t feel that way herself at all? and she’s totally enamored and happy? YOU as a man perceiving someone as “the prize” vs “whats settled for” is ultimately meaningless if you’re no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:55 PM
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they don’t understand what relationships are, nonetheless marriage. they’re essentially speaking about something that is just a figment of their imaginations for them, because none of them have ever been part of it. so I wouldn’t expect any realistic, based-on-experience views to come out of any of these discussions. its like fiction for them. they only know the scary stories they read on reddit. thats as far as their experience goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:13 PM
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you nailed it completely. its all c*pe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:10 PM
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cant you have someone thats great in sex and also dominant and confident energy, while also being a good man and good provider and great choice for a husband? thats who I’m dating now, I’m not sure why this sub makes it seem like you have to choose one or the other. Also the amount of women I know who prefer and are attracted to the type of man most of yall would claim as “beta” while being completely unattracted to “alpha” chads or whatever, its pretty much 95%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:03 PM
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Nah, its basic courtesy while courting someone that when you ask someone out, on a date, you treat them since its a date you invited them on. I’m assuming its not a date if not. would not consider that man for a second date or as a potential partner. easy litmus test- they aren’t a worthwhile type No ones making a fuss but you, I have a partner, I’m doing fine, we are on the same page. worry about your own first dates~
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:33 AM
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go get him girly he sounds like your type!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:08 AM
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I make six figures and probably more than you lmao. thats all you girlfriend, you can keep him!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:55 AM
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Not attracted to that type at all lol you can keep them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:51 AM
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yikes dude. yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:32 PM
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These are NOT red flags for me, I do these things myself, and with my man: playing video games, watching anime, violent and horror movies, heavy metal, watches porn (only occasionally), weird kinks (theres a limit lol), reads a lot, has depression (other mental illnesses may change my answer but I am depressed as well), eccentric, uses reddit ———————————————————-/ these are completely neutral: wrestling/mma, crypto currency, socially acceptable drugs, specific diet, shy/quiet, bad relationship w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:24 PM
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I would assume he only wanted to be friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:10 PM
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personalities are out the window huh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:59 PM
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how many vaginas have you experienced up close and personal? lol No one is defensive, you are literally just denying reality lol. and yes, riley reid is absolutely tiny and yet can be stretched in unimaginable ways, like two at once type of stretching. She didnt go from 0 to 100 double penetration style. She practiced and learned to relax her body like that for those scenes. Her vagina still goes right back to being the same size when shes done. All vaginas are capable of learning how to do this…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:07 PM
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correct, tearing and bleeding happens a lot for size queens. probably part of the kink. but the more you practice, with more foreplay and lube and stretching, the less you will have that problem. That’s literally the entire point. I know you really want to mansplain vaginas to us, but this is one of those situations where you have to put your ego aside and realize women are more aware of their own vagina’s abilities than you are. Every single vagina on the planet can stretch out to that level. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:57 PM
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sorry bud but unless your dick is literally larger than an entire baby, every single vagina in the world can take a big dick. EVERY ONE. Not that we all want to, or that it wouldn’t be painful and hard and take lots of stretching and time and lube, but it is absolutely 100% possible for every single vagina unless there is a medical condition involved. That is LITERALLY what vaginas are meant to do. Literally. As much as I feel “I could never take a huge —“ and be terrified of trying, I know that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:38 PM
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can you explain how this is either logical or true using actual biology of a vagina in your explanation? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:34 PM
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also proving hes never touched or encountered a vagina in real life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:33 PM
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there is no such thing as a vagina that cant be stretched as much. they literally are all created to push out entire babies. your penises are not the max size limits at alllllll. Every single vagina can push out a baby. Every single small vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:27 PM
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😂😂😂 best response this man has never encountered a vagina since being born.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:18 PM
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I’m fucking laughing at this but you’re missing basic sex ed here dude. thats just not how it works. a vagina can hold in a small tampon, and also stretch all the way to the size of a fucking human baby. It is LITERALLY designed to change size and shaped. it will always still go back to the original size. It is full muscle. Its not like loose elastic skin that gets worn down. some women know how to “open” that possibility up on a whim. dicks do not change size, the spongey tissue fills up and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:14 PM
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I would try, but ultimately I would want him to be fully cooperative with any investigation and get any evidence needed to fully prove his innocence without a question left. its very very uncommon that a young person, regardless of gender, is going to want to openly admit to their wrong doings, especially one that will land them in jail, especially one that is so heinous. They have INTENSE motivation to lie in this scenario, like literally their life depends on it. So while I would blame him for…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:45 PM
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this is the part of the whole “false accusation” obsession online that confuses me. like y’all really dont think these men have more motivation to deny this to the ends of the earth even if it was true? who has more incentive to lie? who has more to lose if they dont lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:38 PM
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I’m ready for men to be able to get their own artificially implanted uteruses and give birth colostomy bag style
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:11 AM
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Theres no real man to be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:53 PM
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leave me alone creep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:37 PM
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you sound morbidly lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:37 PM
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you sound bitter about not getting it yourself. really really weird comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:20 AM
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well duh. someone can be hot and still unlikable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:48 AM
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if y’all aren’t even having conversations outside of sex, you do not actually like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:48 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:45 AM
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wait till they find out sex with someone you actually like is even better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:28 PM
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yeah, I wasn’t replying to you. I was speaking to her. you’re just being triggered and weirdly over emotional at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:29 PM
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yeah, hopefully makes some sort of positive impact rather than negative. there needs to be a better way for therapists to help with these kinds of mindsets. they can be toxic and really drag a person down to a dark place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:04 PM
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hahah oh my goodness thank you! 😊 shes my whole world and so freaking cute lol and yeah I mean honestly I cant help but try to help in these scenarios. Seeing people end up alone and unhappy triggers the sadness in my empathy. I do like to debate, and I really do want to urge people like this to change their mindset and address this stuff in therapy so they can move on to healthier ideals, but it might all just be falling on deaf ears. Not sure you can really out logic people who are stuck feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:42 PM
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aww the typical misogynistic pretending/projecting that I’m emotional to attempt to discredit my comment lol how unprecedented on this sub, who would have guessed a pissy man would project his big emotions onto me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:39 PM
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Lol reminds me of the joke in the movie Trainwreck her sister is like no! you dont marry best sex guy. best sex guy is crazy. and probably in jail her: “well I was thinking about reaching out to him” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:19 PM
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its also objectively, very childish. Sure, many teen boys will feel this type of comparison/insecurity. because children talk immaturely like that. most grow out of this insecurity by adulthood. So unless you’re like 21 or under, yes this is objectively very childish and very much so putting the cart before the horse. I dont know any adult men in real life who think this way. its just dudes on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:55 PM
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You can absolutely get control of this, if you dont want to end up alone and being perceived as unattractive. it’s absolutely self sabotage, in every definition of the word. its actually sadder knowing you cant grasp that part of it even a little bit. Your ideals of sex sound really unrealistic and not based in real life. Can I ask how old you are? because unless you’re a teen looking to swap virginities with someone, yeah this is the type of self sabotaging that will wind up leaving you alone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:39 PM
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objectively, it is definitely very pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:29 PM
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1000% we wouldn’t have made it out the gate on the first date with this level of insecurity. havent ever met/dated any guy who thinks like this in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:15 PM
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right? are they basing this off of real life or just the fake AI stories they read on reddit? what percentage of women over the age of 21 are actually throwing out “blabla is better at sex!!” arguments these days? like really? they really think this is common/normal? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:14 PM
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it’s incredibly sad you’re ruled by this insecurity despite not even having a partner. I don’t understand this level of deeply ingrained self sabotage. also if a man doesn’t have a lot of sexual experience, how is he supposed to immediately be the best? thats such a weird standard to want to hold yourself to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:01 PM
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Well firstly, men who are this deeply insecure about themselves and obsessed with thinking of other dudes cocks literally repel me like magnets. More unattractive than almost anything. there is a 0% chance any man I’d ever talk to or sleep with would have this type of insecure mindset. Not a single man I’ve dated has mentioned anything even remotely close to this. So no, in the hypothetical I wouldn’t be offended, I would be super relieved that I realized I was with an insecure dick obsessed lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:52 AM
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yeah I’m saying I wouldn’t date someone whos lacking any really. I wouldn’t be with a cheater, or someone who couldn’t support themselves well, or someone I wasn’t at all attracted to. I know its a hypothetical but in the hypo I’d stay single not that I expected extremely rich but my partner and I both do well for ourselves and he’s extremely handsome and faithful so I don’t think that bar is too high 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:22 PM
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yeah, those would be considered statistical outliers to most people. so again ignorant to apply that logic to all cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:03 PM
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YIIIIIKES
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:47 PM
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I personally met a dude who believed he was falsely accused.. twice. Eventually realized the dude was a rapist who didn’t understand consent/intoxication. he truly believes they were both misunderstandings. they really think these things sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:43 PM
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I landed on handsome, faithful, and well off I dont have to pick just two but I dont need half a mill as a requirement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:20 PM
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Most people who are susceptible to abusive relationships have trauma from the abuse they endured as children, not because of women’s “early sexual marketplace selections”. thats an incredibly ignorant thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:54 PM
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“why is she being manipulated and controlled by that jerk instead of by me?” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:28 PM
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its always the last two parts of your question. you can immediately tell in the way they type, and the self proclaimed red pill, these types are always lonely creepy older dudes, every single time. and theres a very clear reason they are the way they are, everyone senses this exact essence and avoids them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:45 PM
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yiiiiiiikes. I’m seeing a lot more now of why you’ve ended up the way you are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:15 PM
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wait so you actually dont think those guys did anything wrong and deserve to be in jail? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:45 PM
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wait till you guys see why he was found guilty in the UK version of the trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:44 PM
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people who have trauma, tend to gravitate towards toxic or traumatic people. men or women, doesn’t really matter, people tend to only go for that when they are in a very low, manipulable place. so yeah, if that upsets you, welcome to reality I’d still prefer a partner who isnt susceptible to that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:11 PM
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tie cherry stems in knots with your tongue in front of them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:18 PM
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people who are looking for relationships, are offput by players. people who are looking for sex, like players. some people get a little bit confused in the middle but for the most part its really that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:08 PM
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the worlds smallest violin playing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:38 PM
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awww did the little preteen get triggered and emotional?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:35 PM
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nothing charming here, its sort of just like watching a sad clown. one whos not employed though. so do you think women’s anatomy changes with sex? do you think there is some sort of permanent “racking out” that happens? are you 13? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:06 PM
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well firstly, not a single person on reddit believes you’re actually sexually active. likely incel. secondly, you come across as wildly unattractive in every way. third, so may I ask, do you consider/describe yourself to be racked out? do you think you’ve destroyed all the future value you have now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:56 PM
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I dont think you ever need to worry about having a girlfriend! thats a relief at least
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:53 PM
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you dont have to. everything you type is literally DRIPPING with insecurity. it’s obvious to anyone who reads any of this. you’re wrapped up on this because you’re incredibly insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:51 PM
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I know this is the fantasy, but NONE of the promiscuous men or women I’ve ever met throughout my life have EVER struggled to land long term partners. Literally none of them struggle at all with this. they’re attractive and good people. this is an online/incel obsession. Real life people, with real life dating histories, aren’t crying and obsessing and getting insecure about body count. I don’t understand the obsession people have hoping that these people face life long consequences and cant get …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:49 PM
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you’re the one obsessing over other men’s cocks being where yours might go. idk why you’re surprised that other people aren’t that insecure/jealous retroactively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:43 PM
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Can you explain what racked out means? and how you think it changes anything about a human being? can I also ask what your experience in dating is like? how many people have you dated and slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:38 PM
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I think the biggest key to your words is “girls that are compatible with them”. everyone OP described, they date girls compatible with them. sometimes, they date people these other “lonely” guys would turn their nose up to. sometimes people have unrealistic expectations. I think forever hoping for someone who is not compatible with them to come along and actually be interested is the downfall of a lot of people, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:25 PM
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I think a lot more men are like you, when you stop comparing yourself to the reddit crowd of incel dudes. not exactly representative of real life men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:07 PM
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yep but when a horny woman gets into a relationship… that’s when you’ll actually realize how much hornier they can be lmao. she’ll be trying to get it constantly. man will just be trying to keep up 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:04 PM
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So much negativity, and yet single women all over have been preaching for a long time now that being happy alone is important. Once you are happy with and love yourself, it actually opens you up to other people loving you. being perpetually jaded towards women and hyper focused on finding sex or a partner are not helpful qualities to have because these ultimately repel people away from you. it’s unattractive completely. Focusing on building yourself up, is entirely more productive than lamenting…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:47 PM
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you are absolutely correct, you are not inferior. You’re a human being like all of us, and you have so much more value than just sexual desirability. life is about so many things. the focus can be what you make it. I think this is a really healthy mindset to have, and believe it or not is actually attractive to other people in turn. I’m not saying this should be your goal, but if you just focus on your own life/happiness and building yourself up, you might stumble onto someone who appreciates th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:20 PM
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absolutely believe this part lol 99% of these dudes online are not landing young women. thats why they’re online getting loud about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:30 AM
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Lol trust me, I do not need advice from you related to dating/trust. Thats like taking money advice from a poor, indebted person. Actually a laughable concept. I simply would never consider a man whos this insecure, as a potential mate. they fail the minimum test. not worth being with. we will never be compatible. thats fine, they can find someone compatible with .. that. also not a problem over here at all, my partner is very secure, he’s laughing at the responses to these threads with me. He i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:40 PM
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its fine if you think that lowly of other women. That means your level of insecurity is not compatible with my standards and never would be. I never have, nor never will be a cheater. I do not lie like that. Its fine if you want to assume I do, but I never will. and any man so deeply insecure that he insists I might, is not good enough for me to invest time in or have a child with. the relationship is immediately doomed, I’d still 100% blame them for their own insecurities, but yes I’d be leavin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:59 PM
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No attention for the incredibly creepy dude, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:54 PM
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you sound utterly repulsive and problematic, please don’t respond to me further. yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:43 PM
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Okay then this is 100% a user skill issue, if you’ve approached thousands of women and every single one has “tested” you by rejecting you rudely. you sound like an absolute repulsive creep when you describe it that way, 1000s of failures? dude, you’re one of the ones we advise to stop approaching women entirely. This is unique to you specifically, you need to stop. thats not normal. Leave women alone at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:33 PM
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Absolutely this. Just the level of depravity you have to have to try to fake a child as someone else’s, is an insult. to insinuate you think that lowly of me is the deepest insult I can think of, and not something you just casually bounce back from being accused of. Also yeah, it assumes you’re receiving a constant supply of cream pies to the point where any pregnancy, any time might have more than one potential dad. Thats a full blown insult. It means you think I’m a cheating whore and that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:30 PM
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Yes I would absolutely blame them 100%. I’m not a cheater and I’m not going to be insulted like a cheater simply because other people in the world have cheated. If you dont trust me, and you dont know my character and know I wouldn’t do this, and can only prove that I’m not receiving constant cream pies from others via a DNA test, that means our trust have effectively ended and therefore, so has the relationship. If you dont trust me not to act like a cuckoo bird, we aren’t on the same page abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:21 PM
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Hilarious assumptions there bud, but wrong. I probably spend a lot more time outside, speaking to women, then you ever do lmao. Your comment makes it sound like your only experience with women is watching them on TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:03 PM
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how are you being accused without saying anything..? where are these interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:01 PM
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most of my friends, dont complain or think much about it. I’ve never seen them get rude or defensive unless a guy was actually being pervy or something. some friends are more receptive than others but I’ve never seen any of them be flat out rude. they may say at most “no thanks” if they’re not interested and the guys usually move on nicely. I think this is just a generalization that doesn’t apply to all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:32 AM
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its not going to go away for the woman at all, who will forever realize how much you distrust her and think shes a whore. soo it will likely follow you forever, until the resentment builds enough for her to leave. its not all about the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:26 PM
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Lol just wanted to say I absolutely love the way you debate and my partner and I are sitting here laughing at all these men tripping over their own hypocrisy, and literally cannot understand the script being flipped. also, should have asked relationship status in the post. All of these men super worked up that their partners are constantly getting cream pied by other men, are probably just incels. Like these men don’t actually have any success with women at all, they will always remain childless…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:22 PM
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lmao okay bud
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:17 PM
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its a put down based on the complexes people have around that body part, not the part itself. yes it can absolutely be taken as an insult to small dicks I wont deny that, but thats still not what it actually “means” as slang
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:02 PM
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I have the opposite experience. none of my friends have the same type at all. the only shame or conversation about it that would ever come up, is if hes treating her poorly and they want to help her. certain extremely high status partner might be more attractive, but anything short of that and I cant imagine them forming their natural attractions around who their friends vote the hottest. some women like thicker guys, some women like super skinny guys, and all in between. its not so stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:00 PM
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hmmm well thats odd and usually the opposite of what my friends complain about. but I promise if they were actually worked up about not being approached, they wouldn’t be inviting men to go out with them. thats like a shield against being approached. maybe stop discussing relationship status or who you think is attractive out loud if you’d like to prevent this further. seems they want you to be proactive about it and they’re disappointed you dont put yourself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:57 PM
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in many parts of the world, its a friendly saying. in other parts of the world, its intended to be a misogynistic put down. we used to sing that we were in the committee of the itty bitty titty community, it was meant as a joke and not a put down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:54 PM
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there are plenty of places you need to go throughout a night out that wouldn’t allow guns or knives in bags. its unfortunate its not always that easy I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:23 PM
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thats true though, that its a joke about personality 😂 you could hear “big dick energy” all day long and actually have a small member. its not really about the body parts at all. its about the ~energy~ you give off. saying small dick energy isnt implying you have it because you’re small. its implying you seem really forwardly insecure and making it everyone elses problem. dats the whole point I dont think anyone is actively trying to have you take it literally to be about your size
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:07 PM
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Nothing wrong with only wanting to attract men and not actually caring about attraction to women. Its fine to call it what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:50 PM
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very very shameful indeed lol all circles back to “men really only want to attract other men” mentality- its so so true for some of these guys. very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:48 PM
2

very very weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:47 PM
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they’re maybe only upset if you lament about being single/lonely but refuse to do anything about it. sounds a lot more likely. its not self serving, it seems to be for YOU, so I find your last sentence really odd that you think they’re upset for themselves not being approached enough lol. like what kind of jump is that? also, fyi, if a woman is telling you it’s appropriate to walk up to a girl, you can probably believe it. She wouldn’t be saying that if she thought you would bother the girl or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:45 PM
1

You just dont want a woman verifying if you’re cheating or looking at anything inappropriate? why not? its just “verifying”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:10 PM
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tell her so she has a chance to run away from men who’s trust is irreparable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:50 PM
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its crazy how swiftly the point whizzed right over your head. So by defending this, it means you cheat on every woman and have csam on your phone that would cause someone to leave you? men are so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:42 PM
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this same concept can apply to women too, and they ARE acknowledging there is a shared toxic trait in the partners. sometimes our brains are subconsciously drawn to certain toxic “patterns”. we end up in similar situations with people who aren’t right for us. I think recognizing that and wanting to understand it is important to stopping it. if someone is your only option, they likely know they have that power dynamic over you, and you have to be willing to be independent on your own if someone r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:32 PM
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100% true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:50 AM
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you do not understand nuances and body language then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:13 PM
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a lot of people have standards they dont live up to. there are about 50/50 people on the planet, a lot of single and lonely women in the world as well as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:44 PM
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I said two or more times. not just a passing glance, eye contact. not just a neighborly smile, a wave or something. not only do you not understand social cues, you dont even understand the words you are reading. no one even said to stay home?? it just about not harassing women who get it all the time. why so hyperbolic and emotional? stay home if you want but your entire comment is just made up and no one said any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:43 PM
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more baseless generalizations that aren’t true for all women and aren’t helpful to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:02 PM
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this just isnt true for all women. “unattractive” women arent going to be hyper focused on looks or only wanting attractive men. unattractive men should go for these women. women who are a bit awkward or anxious, aren’t going to expect charming. awkward and anxious men should go for these women. women who work and aren’t super financially well off, aren’t going to expect a partner on the opposite end of the scale. So financially unstable men should go for these women and they can find what works…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:50 PM
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you’re dead on with this one. nuance is lost on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:43 PM
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You’re misunderstanding. Its about READING SOCIAL CUES. Coming off as desperately looking for a date with anyone interested is IMMEDIATELY clear to all women, we always know. and they immediately lose interest in being your friend or chatting. so yes, don’t join a group just seeking a date. it will be obvious, and it will be unattractive. focus on yourself, and having a good time, focus on the hobby, and treat new female friends like you’d treat all new male friends. you will be SO much more suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:42 PM
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damn. yeah you need therapy as well. and that poor woman needs to escape you asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:04 PM
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so you’d want to ruin dozens of other children’s and women’s happiness, who are also people’s kids, in sacrifices for one mans “happiness” (men like that don’t actually understand happiness) so long as hes getting lots of sex? and that doesn’t seem vapid as hell to you? how are you not incel now? are you in a relationship? would you want someone to treat your partner that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:49 PM
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more capable of being a complete failure and deadbeat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:42 PM
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are you incel? is that why you feel so strongly that your kid should abuse people and abandon your grandchildren just to get laid? instead of just getting an escort or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:42 PM
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this is by far the most pathetic thing I’ve heard someone defend lmao. men having sex is not more important than a wake of hurt people and abandoned grandchildren. absolutely braindead incel take. just really laughable this whole thread. I think therapy would genuinely help you. otherwise you will stay stuck like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:36 PM
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what is your logic here in thinking people might pick the second option? lol like wut eta: I was proven wrong, I forgot how asocial and morally bankrupt incels genuinely are, so of course they’re picking the narcissist that gets sex and abandons their grandchildren and hurts as many people as he can in the process lmao. because they are horrific people when you actually examine their character and values, and thats how they’ve ended up where they are. I forget theres so many of them just lurking…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:23 AM
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literally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:01 PM
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LMAO damn you got infinitely stupider with that statement so it answers my question well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:19 PM
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are you one of those conservatives who’s actually stupid enough to believe that 8 BILLION people is not already a high enough, self sustaining number? you realize we’re already fast tracking overpopulation, right? you realize our resources are already in danger, nonetheless when 8 billion people continue to multiply?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:45 PM
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you covered it very very well. it seems very obvious why people dont want kids? we finally have the internet and access to the actual truth of what happens to various people when giving birth. and who can even afford it in this economy? we cant even hardly buy houses
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:41 PM
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No need to project your girlfriend’s lack of care or desire to put in effort onto everyone else. my boyfriend and I both do a ton to spoil each other and plan surprises or dates, in fact I’m usually the one whos savvy on restaurants to try or events to go to. we both pay and we both pick thoughtful gifts for every occasion. we’re also constantly picking each other up “just because” random treats and gifts or flowers. so you only speak for yourself here. another baseless generalization formed thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:02 AM
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agreeeed. I love all humans, men included! I love my friends and my partner and men are just as individualistic as women and cant all be lumped together. but some individuals can make you hate them real quick. I wish all rapists and murderers would literally die, I think woman beaters should spend significant time in prison and be shunned socially. I absolutely think its a hyperbole- most of these women have male friends or colleagues they care about. most men read this and dont apply it to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:50 AM
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Wow. I’m so sorry so many people have failed you at every freaking step. Its enraging. Remind me not to go to Canada. Even in my forced-incubator red neck ass state of texas, the moment you tell the cops you’ve been raped they’re going to suggest going to the hospital and getting a rape kit. dismissing you entirely or even putting on record to others that you’re lying would probably get them sued.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:22 PM
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hows it working out for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:35 PM
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can I ask where you live that this occurred? I’m so sorry. this seems horrifically illegal where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:27 PM
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hes a lonely troll, dont feed it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:26 PM
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Yeah, the context clues implies that if a man would tell me that, I wouldn’t automatically assume he was actually innocent just because he wants to believe he is. Because people have massive incentive to lie. so similarly to everyone else, I would just lose interest and see it as a possible admission of wrong doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:29 PM
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oh yeah, true. sort of a different topic all together than the question ~
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:39 PM
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definitely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:35 PM
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Damn you’re bad at context clues and just copying and pasting. very vapid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:29 PM
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Agreed fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:01 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:01 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:57 PM
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I definitely believe there can be situations, specifically in date rape, where a person feels assaulted and nonconsensual, and the other has this idea “I didnt do anything wrong, it was totally consensual”. I believe both of these perspectives can feel like “reality” to the individual person, and they believe their side is the one thats true. so I would immediately have doubt about what the actual truth of the situation is. I knew a friend who confided in me that he was “falsely” accused of assa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:47 PM
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this is an inspiring story, but I hope you learn to embrace the love you have an let it heal those scars from the past over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:23 PM
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You definitely wont though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:06 PM
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great advice there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:04 AM
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I love that you were open to it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:01 AM
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this is a pitiful mindset for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:19 AM
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if its not for you, then move along. but other people may be open to new perspectives from those who have been in the same place as them and got out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:30 PM
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Very true. The ones deep in redpill have a huge uphill battle to overcome before solving their dating issues. its sad that type of content targets such young men the way it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:49 PM
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meh I somewhat disagree with that. a lot of us are partnered and just like debates. but that post did in fact show that a lot of that type is in here, so figure maybe more proactive dialogue is helpful compared to just asking them to be vulnerable about their stories with no goal other than spectating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:38 PM
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I agree with point 1 a lot! I think when people “give up” and keep their head down, they might not notice opportunities slinking by them that may have otherwise worked out to something. is there any tips you’d have for men of what “hard effort” is actually effective for you and works out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:36 PM
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is there anything you did to boost your attractiveness? or anything that helped you most?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:33 PM
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wow thats a great story! language learning app is a new one I generally hold the same beliefs as you , that investing in your OWN happiness and future is the best path for finding someone you click with. just the effort and putting yourself out there while not worrying about other’s’ approval I think is a very attractive quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:32 PM
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I see what you’re saying, but that doesn’t apply to everyone. if you do see the original post, there was a lot of really heart felt responses. Most of them just blamed themselves and their own issues, they weren’t all pointing the finger at women. most just feel so undesirable they gave up completely. so I’m just hoping maybe a discussion from the POV of someone who actually went through it and came out with a partner after all, maybe that type of dialogue will actually be able to help inspire s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:29 PM
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this is such a funny argument- you’re just bashing people who make more than you because you seem scared about not getting a girlfriend. really weird but the world actually does not revolve around you. there are over 8 billion people. procreation is doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:41 PM
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I think you need to embrace yourself and other like minded people. who gives a fuck what others say? you may find actual happiness there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:49 PM
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I dont think they’d see you that way. have you ever seen the television show dating on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:52 AM
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personally, I would never date any of my friends or within my friend group. and I dont really have my exes as friends. I like to keep it separate spheres. I dont really do dating in the direct work place either with few exceptions. most of my guy friends I’ve had since middle and highschool, and kept through adulthood. some I’ve just met organically in other ways or through other friends. the guys I’ve dated, were also random people I met out and about or on dating apps. no mutual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:50 AM
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well, its not enough on its own, but if you’re already attracted to a man, its just going to add a lot to his appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:38 AM
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yeah, I mean.. knowing a man cares about your healthcare and rights as a human is an immediate sign of his values, and immediately attractive. my partner who’s apolitical letting me know hes going to vote on women’s behalf this year made me instantly love and appreciate him more, which definitely just makes him even sexier to me. it’s attractive just thinking about him saying it. it may also be that anyone who’s pro-forced-birth is so horrifically unattractive that by comparison, knowing a man e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:25 AM
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its definitely based on the individuals….. my partner and I both have a lot of opposite sex friends. I think context is what matters most. a longterm friend vs just recently met, someone strictly platonic vs another with a history or past flirting, or if anything had come up to otherwise make your partner suspicious I wouldn’t think twice of my partner liking everyone’s insta photos. but if I suddenly knew a girl was dming him inappropriately and he was liking all her photos, that context change…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:16 AM
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cant say I’ve heard this before, getting approached can be tough. big mixed bag. lots of people who approach confidently, aren’t exactly relationship seeking people. I met my partner on a dating app, I know a lot of good couples with dating app success stories. but other people meet more organically as friends and then start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:52 AM
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have you ever considered a dating website or organization specifically for autistic people? have you ever attempted to meet any women with autism? just curious if thats an avenue for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:38 AM
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I hope for you that maybe one day, if you dont keep your head ducked out completely, you may be able to meet someone just as unconventional as you are. and I hope you will at least will give them a chance~
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:29 AM
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its weird that this seems like such a puzzle to people in the comments….. a HUGE part of the vast majority of women’s attraction, in every sense of the word- sex , relationship, affection- is based in mental and emotional attraction, as well as physical. period. they are intertwined and most women dont have a separate hyper focus on the physical to find something genuinely sexy. Sexy excites and tantalizes the mind as much as the body. women say this over and over and its like in one ear and out…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:26 AM
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well then its simply a lack of intelligence on your part. you are determined to deny reality for your own narrative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:39 AM
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its crazy you cant fathom people having different tastes. do you not see how different women look from each other, just based on taste in style/fashion……. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:09 AM
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yes its true for women! and your assumptions are simply not true. I love all of my girl friends a lot, but I think most of their male partners are 0% attractive, just absolute No’s, while they are super into them. Sometimes girls will sit around a bar or whatever event for fun and point out the person they think is most their type, and its always drastically different. and men online seem to refuse this answer, but a majority of short men find relationships and marriages just fine. another examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:43 AM
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I agree. you can easily swipe on 1/10 men on a dating app. Very easily. but factors like age/lifestyle also play into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:05 AM
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all of this. especially the BE attracted to part. I see tons of “objectively” attractive men by society’s standards of “attractive” in my city. But if they’re not really my style or type of guy, doesn’t really matter how conventionally attractive they are to others, it doesn’t do it for me. a great example is frat dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:01 AM
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people have VASTLY different tastes. its crazy how much it really varies. thats why its always funny when people get so caught up in whatever their perceived “beauty standard” is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:50 AM
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Yes, instantly, hes freaking gorgeous. everyone else notices it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:40 AM
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masturbation- healthy and a-okay using porn as visual stimulus - this is fine posting any pics you want/wearing anything you want - A-Okay addicted to porn - no OF or following on IG - no pics of ppl we know - nope strip clubs - no , I dont know why this is normalized for non-single people. I think porn and masturbation is way less weird than when people have the mentality of “if I’m not kissing or having sex with this other person, its not cheating”. I think any kind of mental or emotional flir…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:22 AM
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something something you are just a victim to societal conditioning 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:44 PM
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truth but some really shine through 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:23 PM
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Yeah, I think so. My partner and I have pretty open communication and a “I’m glad you told me” rule- even if its something thats hard to hear. if he told me he was feeling insecure, jealous, paranoid, scared, fearful of something.. okay I’m glad he told me and I can work with him and find out why. He can have full access to my phone if it helps bring peace of mind (hes never asked, but I would if he did). it seems preemptive. if he jumped straight to “I actively think you are being cream pied by…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:28 PM
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I’d let my partner have full access to my phone if it gave him peace of mind. I dont have any problems with device transparency at all, I have nothing to hide. lots of couples do that. I do think if he asked me to go get a paternity test or like another new STD test just in case I started sleeping around, I’d be waaaay more hurt. infinitely. I’d so much rather him just want to check my phone than actively saying he thinks I’m being cream pied by others and lying about it. at that point, the fear…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:17 PM
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dont even need to read this to say this is an insane take
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:04 PM
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if its any solace at all, a man immediately wanting to meet in person with minimum conversation can actually be a negative thing. meeting strangers online can be really dangerous for women. we have to have a whole security-confirming-identity layer to online dating. I wouldn’t want to meet someone right off the bat like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:05 PM
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right? the irony is palpable lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:01 PM
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I agree, although plenty of women still like short men and many short men still get great relationships. thats why I originally thought it was funny, and not meant to be a brag, because aside from materialistic people anyways I’d say a majority of people have all varying preferences about heights/social statuses/body type/whatever. Its funny how others blame all of their dating problems on not being 6’+.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:31 PM
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thats interesting, I like that perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:48 PM
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I prefer when they smear it across my forehead while whispering “siiiiimbaaa”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:36 PM
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agree. what difference does it actually make 😆 unless they just spit it at you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:20 PM
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“bathes daily and washes ass” would be a very credible flair in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:58 PM
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yeah its not about credibility or authority either, idk how you missed that part twice now, but it doesn’t add anything but cringe. hopefully you resolve your learning disadvantages in the future so you can understand basic sentences better!! best of luck lil guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:12 PM
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yeah thats fair, but sometimes our “abstinence only” sex education can be a little fear mongering when it shouldn’t be. having oral sex is not an immediate sign of someone having STIs lol. you have to actually get their bodily fluids absorbed into your bloodstream for transmission. this is much more common in penetrative sex than it is for oral sex. because you don’t often have open wounds in the mouth absorbing bodily fluids. condoms also can fail and still spread bodily fluids so its not fool …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:10 PM
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thats fine! you can research the transmissibility rates all you want, its well documented. and if you’re not having any sexual encounters to begin with I don’t think you need to worry about it~
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:55 PM
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Okay I will keep it simpler for you to follow along: it adds 0 credibility to your opinions, and does not make you sound attractive in real life in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:54 PM
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I mean, when you’re giving a blowie, depending on the “finishing move”, the cum isn’t always in the back of your mouth ready to swallow. plenty of it will still come out since you typically keep the movements going until the orgasm is complete. So sure, you could see that as “spitting” instead of swallowing, I’d say thats pretty common. definitely not unheard of at all. sometimes you leave more of it out than in. not sure it thats making any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:52 PM
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thats an odd thing to hyper-fixate on and I never mentioned not having consent, but just FYI that oral sex is much much much much less transmissible for sti/stds than penetrative sex. Its not impossible but its absolutely much more rare. I think its weird to have that immediate assumption of someone you’re hooking up with..? if you’re not okay with any casual sexual encounters of any kind that’s totally your prerogative and no one should be forcing you to have any sexual encounters of any kind a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:45 PM
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Yep, and the whole point is thinking that flair somehow makes you “credentialed” or gives any authority or credibility to what you say is LITERALLY the laughable part of it. and it just shows insecurity, and wanting to attempt to pride yourself online, which is where it becomes very apparent they aren’t attractive or successful in dating in real life. I never said it was for attraction purposes, that person jokingly asked me if I was interested. I said definitely not. I don’t think there’s anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:36 PM
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thats just tragic. the misogyny in africa breaks my heart for all of the victims there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:48 PM
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yeah I definitely catch your point there, even if those people are totally wrong 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:10 PM
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unfortunately no, I assumed it was a total joke, but if its an actual attempt to appear attractive for this sub its very deeply cringe lol also a vast majority of redditors are not what I would consider in the “potential” category at all, these things typically dont translate well IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:05 PM
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Sorry, but thats not what virginity is and you are definitely not a virgin after having sex, anal or not. you might be able to make that argument after oral, but not anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:54 PM
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I lol’d at your flair 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:53 PM
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nah, you’re fine to have preferences as long as you don’t get nasty towards people who feel differently. I’d definitely never date or hookup with a man who didn’t enjoy going down on women. thats an immediate deal breaker for me too. and also wouldn’t hook up with anyone who doesn’t kiss after oral, I’d compare that to your cum play idea. Those men are automatic ineligible lol but everyone can do as they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:46 PM
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Yep I have a good career and options already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:25 AM
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you “just have a baby” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:22 PM
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I’ve said that exact thing myself. being a dad would be great. its so much different. as a bisexual, it could work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:56 PM
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not sure what this commenter is alluding to, but off the top of my head as a Texan women are literally being hospitalized left and right for sepsis and any countless issue, because they’re being forced to carry dead babies. women and girls are literally dying over these laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:51 PM
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you do a LOT of learning and changing from 16-26. its not uncommon to lose some partners along the way as you grow differently. once you hit a level of experience where you know exactly what you want, it gets easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:20 AM
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dude what ..? this is even crazier than saying people just “convince” themselves they were raped after a consensual encounter. that’s literally not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:17 AM
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its crazy to me that there are factions of men out there who really believe all other men only value sex rather than also valuing intimacy and romance and connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:07 PM
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just a very pessimistic way to generalize everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:05 PM
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😂😂 “I observe and evaluate silently” “did you read?” lol such a funny little thing to say. Such a funny little attitude to have. I can understand why people feel very uninspired to speak to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:39 PM
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sounds like you’re showing them you don’t lead the way either. maybe they’re matching your energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:56 PM
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thats what this person just claimed men are doing to show romance too so hence the OP post, if you consider if bare minimum, that’s probably why people lean into fantasy movies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:38 PM
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so you just don’t talk? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:36 PM
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yes. they want the long romantic gazes, deep kisses, long speeches of declarations of love, the chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:32 AM
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isnt this the same exact way women show romance too? massages, acts of service, cooking special meals, gifts, words of affirmation, spoiling him ? women do in fact, also romance their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:20 AM
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alternatively, as a woman who does have a lot of personality and a masters degree and six figure industry, tons of friends and artistic hobbies, tons of passions and interests in video games/movies/anime/nature/science/music, on and on… and as someone who doesn’t have full on sex right away… yeah most men still just want sex. and they’ll be “sooo into you” but still cant stop ruining it begging for sex lol. Its a great litmus test, if a man can hold good conversation and interest for more than a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:46 PM
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I mean, the same way this works for men…. only being good for a one night stand and not much else isnt a compliment. sounds like shes saying she knew he was a quality guy and not someone to treat like meat or take for granted? its not the same as telling a woman shes only good for sex and not a relationship? thats the exact opposite. women and men alike can prioritize being marriage material over pump and dump material ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:44 PM
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I think the lesson here is to use communication tools to talk to your partners about what you like in bed. things should be an equal give and take. sitting here pointing fingers back and forth seems silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:24 PM
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damn you’re literally one of the ones this post is about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:19 PM
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case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:06 AM
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do you not think these men have agency and dont know exactly what they’re signing up for when spending money on their dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:05 AM
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I’m not interested in talking to you, way too many weird vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:03 PM
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its been pretty consistent the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:59 PM
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Yep, anyone who has a different perspective than you, when you choose to ignore other’s issues, is totally lying and manipulation immediately. and then demand they answer your straw man lol. that definitely makes sense, huh? this question brought out all the weirdos who this hits very close to home for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:42 PM
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I don’t even know you, never seen your comments, but I love you for how triggered this person is because of you. changing their flair just for you 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:36 PM
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very weird reply, you seem to have missed the point of what her comment was even talking about, you didn’t ask a question, just claimed its a manipulation tactic, she responded that you’re ignoring the facts of the situation being discussed, and you say this? lol no one owes a reply, theres no ethics involved. especially when theres no point/no one’s listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:27 PM
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yeah, I just cant imagine wanting to live my life with a “bought” partner. its surprising how many men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:16 PM
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I wouldn’t say I “care” in the sense that it never crosses my mind or lips, but I definitely see why it’s problematic. in their heads, it’s literally “well you know what! I’ll go find a younger woman, in a country where the american dollar is stronger and I can leverage a lot of financial control, because she will be more subservient to me than women in my country. she wont talk back, or say no, and she’ll be grateful for my money and clean my house and cook all my meals and give me sex without …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:45 PM
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yeah, avoiding harassing women in the future will probably help you a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:48 PM
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so did you: a full blown creep
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:33 PM
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Yeah its annoying when people tell you the truth about yourself. Its hard to hear or accept, but if you’re wondering: you’re a creep and this is why women want nothing to do with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:34 PM
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those men are equally whores so I wouldn’t really put any weight to the babble they spew. they’re too dumb to grasp the hypocrisy. theres nothing wrong with enjoying casual sex for either gender, nothing wrong with not wanting casual sex either. they’re going to whine and criticize no matter what you do. do you put any credibility to a whiney dog howling outside? no, we ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:32 PM
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I’d like to add that some men try pressure/coercion no matter who they’re talking to lol. I’m not a virgin, I still don’t have sex right away. I cant even tell you how many guys have begged/pleaded, like even if we get to the level where I’m like “hey, I dont want to go all the way to sex, but I’m down for some foreplay with you!” like they will STILL try to convince you with their salesman pitches. Its pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:09 PM
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you sound like one of the creeps she’s describing in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:03 PM
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spoken like someone who only wants sex and will remain forever alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:16 PM
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Yeah I also think immediate sex often can ruin things, or make it awkward, or put a weird taste in your mouth and make you less likely to be invested mentally. So if you dont like someone, who cares? if you DO like someone, you might be scared to ruin it jumping into something too intimate too fast. also, if you wait, it will be more special with more connection. That anticipation and emotional connection is worth 100 one night stands. So of COURSE you will find people wanting to let it build. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:15 PM
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this is funny because the man DOES have a choice about not wanting to be a father. he makes that choice every time he cums. HOW he cums explains what he is hoping will happen. it would be the most absolutely moronic thing for men to be able to have unprotected sex any time they want and face 0 responsibility for very real children he actively chose to create. the choice is with his cum. Period. end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:54 AM
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your PS part - yes there are actually a ton of dudes like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:18 AM
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every dude I’ve ever been with casually was 100% about eating 🐱. many would even insist on it when I wasn’t going to return the favor. sometimes repeatedly. sometimes for weeks. men who like vaginas are very into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:11 AM
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the last part is important. we dont drop our standards at all, we gain nothing from unattractive men. but I’m definitely way hornier than my boyfriend and always have been for most people I dated. a lot of girls in relationships are like this. outside of a relationship, I am celibate. and I wont even let a gross dude sniff in my general direction, nonetheless have sex with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:14 PM
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I absolutely respect and think sanitation and other blue collar workers are great people who deserve more recognition and thanks. but yes I would never date a person in that type of field. we may just be too different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:22 PM
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also neither. because in real life, your choices arent only between a mediocre introvert or a old fat dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:14 AM
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Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:10 AM
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yep but even then- those 38 year olds would have to be much wealthier than average to pull. an average 38 year old is still not appealing to most women outside of his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:15 PM
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should also look up the evidence that wasnt excluded from their case in the UK, and look up Johnny’s other assault case by his former employee. There are literally voice recordings of him being abusive that were played, her therapist, assistant, doctor, all testified to what they knew, and people still somehow aren’t seeing it for what it really is. sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:24 PM
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Cant speak for every single group, but most of them the #1 rule is no inappropriate, sexual, or defamatory posts. they get deleted instantly. the posts are meant to expose cheaters/players/abusive/violent men, any talk of body parts or appearance is deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:15 PM
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I mean, only typically had seen that from the desperate ladies that are getting rejected elsewhere due to their “ease” or reputation they already have, and it’s usually after having their whole tab paid for and such. My experience is most young ladies will immediately walk away or be creeped out. glad if thats not the case for you, but that definitely doesn’t make this an average experience men can go find 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:57 PM
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yeah I’m still speaking on the way women are belittled for these things more than men are despite being very similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:35 PM
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idk where you got the idea that men’s skin ages better. that is not at all what I witness play out. men age in much more ways than hairline as well. skin, body type, and sexual function to name a few. I genuinely see women age better in those categories, but men are just not scrutinized on the same level. I think thats OPs point and your statements sort of inadvertently prove that its a commonly held belief
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:21 PM
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unless you’re very wealthy- good luck enjoy trying lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:18 PM
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No. if anything, other women are more in their forefront of thought than random men. There may be a specific man they care to impress, but its not the lurkers staring at them from afar. even in my statement above, most women dont agree with this- they only care about what helps them feel like themselves and expressive. I’m speaking on women who DO have the mentality that they need to impress or live for others. Much like how men only seem to want to impress or compete with other men, women in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:15 PM
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what you said is mostly true but too many generalizations and sweeping assumptions- many men have horribly aged faces or bodies despite working out and many women do in fact care about this and not just money. Acquiring wealth wont always help you unless you’re pushing several hundred thousand or more. many women age well by taking care of themselves, and many many of their partners will be impressed and turned on by her accomplishments and wealth and not just her youthfulness. but I agree thats…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:12 PM
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“old white men” trope refers to the abusive politicians who have put the world in the state its currently in….. its applied to those in power who are taking advantage of everyone. its not something you hurl at random men in target lol also, your comparison is like the old white karen trope. people hate on them too. OP is actually referring to the scrutinization of women as they age. I’d say in general, women take better care and age a lot better than men. but they’re scrutinized much more severe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:07 PM
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yeah you see a lot of that. but I even meant more social politics- not letting people die because of our broken healthcare system, ignoring the homeless and giving them no resources, stripping rights from women, and trans, and gay people left and right. Treating immigrants like animals in an immigration founded country. choosing gun access over school children, bcuz yknow NRA is allowed to fund politics for some reason. it makes me sick. heck, even biden selling weapons of war to a place committ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:19 PM
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Conservatives have pretty much declined into insanity either way so theres really no connecting, bonding, or agreeing with them. Money is not more important than human decency to fellow humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:29 AM
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I would really, really, really suggest not lurking on reddit, especially subs like this for advice. you seem entirely too young and gullible and impressionable. like I genuinely think this sub will be bad for your health, and I’d exit and just go focus on what makes you happy. the right person will come along. not everyone is obsessed with youth. thats internet porn brain. do yourself a favor- stop being influenced by the redpillers on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:42 AM
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Hmmm idk. I think it depends on who does the dumping. I wish nothing but the best for all of the men I broke up with- even the casual just talking stage ones- they were really great just not for me. I see their flaws but wish them happiness. I dont think they or their new girlfriends took it well or ever wanted to see me happy or be friendly after- I’ve been blocked and removed by most of the more serious ones despite not reaching out or anything. Would have been nice to be friends and see them …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:11 AM
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hard pressed to believe that you dont meet people in your intellectual sphere/similar life stage/have things in common. Hearing someone say that strikes me more as “your ego inflates you above other people” , definitely not your intellect inflating you. I’d try to be more humble in your searching and appreciation of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:28 PM
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zero intellect = zero prospects sorry you might not get it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:29 AM
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do you want to talk about life plans or career or mortgages or similar growing pains or family loss or even friendship dynamics where you both have similar shared experiences or do you want to hear about sorority drama, graduation, roommates, and her entry level job she just got lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:50 PM
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spoken like a lonely and sad human lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:26 PM
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are you usually always single/no prospects? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:43 PM
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sounds like a shallow and miserable life, especially when you hit your own expiration era and no young woman will look your way. better start saving $$, you’ll need a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:37 PM
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I think most people are attracted to those in the same intellectual sphere as them - older people tend to date their own age, younger tend to date younger. they have more life experience and interests in common. its still a small percentage of porn brain humans who focus solely on looks and youth for dating. most human beings do not do this when dating. thats just a fact that gets skewed for you because of being on the internet more than being in real life situations and seeing real world couple…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:23 PM
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yiiiikes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:10 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:05 AM
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they are absolutely the problem. if a girl tells her friends shes happy and into it, they’ll be encouraging. every other situation……. no matter how hard you try to convince yourself, its not jealousy. they are saving her from an unsatisfactory situation. not a single woman is jealous of any type of attention a woman needs to be “saved”’from. the mental gymnastics to arrive at that and not realize the girl is too timid or soft spoken to reject you, and lets her friends bail her out instead, I’m s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:43 PM
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yeah same, but to me the difference is the type of comment. she could say like “damn, good for him” rather than like … “he should be running over to me” lol the intent of the comments is very different. alluding that hes super attractive isnt that big of a deal as they both have eyes. alluding that you want him to come rail you I think is hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:25 PM
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Lol you’re too pathetic to continue speaking to. you have to be trolling to actually think anything you just said is logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:27 PM
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you realize some men get custody, and the women would then be the ones paying child support? and taxes..? you realize, this is not at all comparable to the physical toll on your body being forced to go through pregnancy…..?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:53 PM
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they absolutely do not lol and likely never will with this mindset, also likely broke
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:48 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:45 PM
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damn this is always the part left out of the book!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:45 PM
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sounds like you took offense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:02 PM
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Yeah, dont try to use belittling little “sweetheart” comments with me, little angry man. I am telling you, even as unable to accept it as you are, every situationship I had, I as the lady had been the one denying a relationship, while the man wanted to pursue one and stuck around even after being turned down repeatedly. most of my friends are the same. overwhelming majority. Don’t project your little anger problems onto me. you’re just objectively wrong and inexperienced with women, all women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:54 AM
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no, just those who its clear they don’t encounter many women in life yet making sweeping incorrect statements about them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:30 AM
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well go find em then because I’m officially calling you a liar and you’re outing yourself as incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:34 AM
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it’s hilarious you dont think women have fwb too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:50 AM
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also I have the same shared experience- my experience has always been that men will stick around (sometimes even to their own expense and mental anguish) in situationships no matter how much you tell them its not going to happen. this has happened to me countless times and yeah, I was never having sex with any of them either. They held out hope and usually forced me to be the one to sever. its odd they dont think this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:13 PM
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it’s because they literally have no experience in dating so they only see these things from the outside. most “situationships” it’s usually the woman saying no to keep her options open, and many times they’re stuck entangled with a man whos messy or sleeping with others. So sort of like.. yeah they arent interested in committing to him. but don’t necessarily want to stop seeing each other either in the meantime until they find someone they like more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:06 PM
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I feel its just as likely to happen to men or women alike. I’m unsure why that seems hard to imagine, but as a woman I see this much more often where the man is trying to lock it down, and the woman either knows its not right or is still looking to find better out there, but keeps him around to enjoy the partnership in the meantime. who would have imagined that personal bias could skew your view of this happening..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:00 PM
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its always biased in the perspective of the person with commitment phobia. I genuinely dont think its gendered. People are very attracted to hard to get, emotionally unavailable types. its a stereotype for a reason. I have the same experience as a woman of leaving every relationship, or telling situationships that a real relationship or sex isnt going to happen, and they continue on and on until the point where it’s obviously painful to them and they’re possessive or jealous and hurt, and I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:58 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:52 PM
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this is the exact opposite of my experience. most situationships I’ve seen, its men following these women around, and the women do like them, do enjoy dating them, but dont see them as good enough to label it. the men dont push because they’re just “lucky” to be around. it IS the same thing as a fwb, its just the name for one thats gone on too long. They can both like each other while realizing they may not be together long term, but they just dont quit seeing each other because it’s enjoyable r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:48 PM
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wow you explained it so well in your last sentence and just immediately WOOOOOSH right over their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:04 PM
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😂😂 thank you for taking the time to explain this. hoping its a troll post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:02 PM
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that’s because your brain is filled with nothing but sex and immediately expecting sex from any woman you put time into. regular people dont sit there boiling and obsessing over who gets sex the most quickly ………. people who think like that are typically incels for a reason. they are mal adjusted to society and its very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:52 PM
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no, its not. theres no need to make it some “foolish” pride or competition thing. everyone is different….. so different people will react differently towards sex. and towards each person they meet. and yeah the point of casual sex is no feelings are involved. when you involve feelings for someone, it changes the dynamic of what sex is completely for some people and makes it different than casual sex. play boys do this too if they are genuinely interested in someone, especially if you dont want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:21 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:00 PM
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I’m not reading all of that, you aren’t capable of intellectual conversation from your vantage point so it serves no purpose. You can take it to the next person, hopefully a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:38 PM
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yiiiikes. Well speak for yourself if your blood is lower on the evolutionary path and you’re still a troglodyte. Humans are no longer wild animals. men like all of those kinks too, and much more. some people absolutely hate those kinks (the overwhelming majority, actually, so your point doesn’t even apply to many people) bdsm has nothing to do with me too, so that just makes you sound like a rape sympathizer, or a rapist, and/or completely ignorant of what kink and bdsm even is (probably from on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:13 PM
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eh sorry this is technically just one perspective. You could theorize all the same that humans have evolved past that being a basic need for survival. we are no longer operating on survival instincts. Many live and die without it. Many asexuals, physically, do not have the drive at all. We aren’t wild animals, and much like domestic animals can adapt to a lifestyle easily without it. it’s completely on an individual basis. One person it can be a “need” to be satisfied. For others it may just be …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:49 PM
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they dont care what she says, just that she sleeps around I guess. unimaginable. /s One day, (never) I’ll understand why guys can’t understand that some women, exactly like some men, enjoy casual sex and orgasms and dont have the same beliefs about sex as they do. The only difference is extreme differences in societal pressures and shame. Its genuinely not hard to understand that to many many people, sex isn’t a huge deal and it’s something to enjoy while your body is able
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:43 PM
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I really think we can eliminate gender and make pretty accurate assessments of age dynamics based on money/power dynamics as well. there are plenty of young men and young women who like to date substantially older (very small % but still a lot) and it’s usually because dating “older” is attractive because- they have a good career, good house, good money, they provide gifts and nice dinners and its very glamorous to a younger person. its very much less likely to occur just because of personality …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:50 PM
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you’re reading too into things to get intentionally offended for no reason since this is a very sore subject for you. it’s usually implied in context clues that, the person who leaves the relationship and is relieved and moved on quickly, is the person whos been wronged and has been trying and already gave up. Its implied that the person who spends weeks afterwards not understanding why and feeling hurt, is the person in the wrong or the person who has refused to see the issue until now. it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:35 PM
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I don’t understand why you’re upset. this person offered you very valid information- sounds like your ex tried to make it work with you and it flew right over your head. Who knows how long that went on. By the time the breakup happened, she’d already been sad, already mourned the relationship, already fell out of love, and already gave up. So when the breakup finally happened, she was ready and already let it go. sounds like you missed some of those signals, and your mourning of the relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:59 PM
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its one in the same cycle. but yes I should clarify this wont apply to people who have trauma/abuse in life who are trapped in a cycle of accepting abuse because its what they’re use to/think they deserve. unfortunately, they’re easily susceptible to abuse, and its like abusers can sniff this out immediately and thats why they’re chosen. thats really the only way these angry people find partners, until theres some final straw or therapy down the line and their victim finally flees.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:10 AM
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true. I guess I should say this applies to most women, but probably doesn’t apply to people with trauma or rough childhoods who are prone to stay in abusive situations because they think it’s supposed to be that way. Unfortunately a lot of people stay with abusers and struggle to break the cycles thinking its what they deserve/whats normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:49 PM
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facts. its like a breeding ground for them. the replies are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:21 PM
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you just havent let the mask slip. It WILL and they will flee as they always have for you. enjoy! get therapy it will genuinely help you so much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:38 PM
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The misogyny is literally ooooooozing from you and you’re not even aware of it 😂😂 yikes yikes yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:37 PM
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sure bud 😂😂 again based on your comments…. your character can be spotted miles away and it is exactly why people and women avoid you. I’m not a therapist though so this will be my last message and I suggest messaging a real doc instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:35 PM
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Women are disgusted by misogynistic angry dudes. so if you’re mad no women want you…… that’s literally why. No one is EVER pushing men to be this way except for themselves, and they’re literally self sabotaging. take it or leave it. I definitely suggest heavy therapy for you, if you ever want a chance of beating these “ever increasing standards” of…. not wanting to date a violent and hateful misogynist who’s stuck seething online and thinks its normal….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:31 PM
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saying that….. misogyny is super unattractive and obvious to women is.. off the rails for you? if it applies to you, maybe thats why its not clicking properly. This is really obvious to socially adjusted, non-misogynistic types.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:55 PM
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Lol its so funny when real women, tell them what women want and how they think, and instead of seeing it as valuable insight they just say NOPE! WRONG! How could a woman possibly have the answer?? better ask the men Like. L oh fucking L.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:51 PM
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yep. its very obvious. may as well stamp it on their foreheads. its why people avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:12 PM
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Yep- there is a very clear, very obvious difference between being upset/frustrated/venting/trolling/joking, and downright being a hateful or bigoted piece of shit seething on the internet. you can spot them a mile a way. even IRL. Its super super clear why they have no friends or partners: they are very maladjusted to society and/or misogynistic and have no ability to self reflect and realize this. People can sense this immediately and steer clear of them. They aren’t as sneaky as they think, pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:07 PM
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I think the only way misandry will ever be addressed, is by firmly stomping out misogyny. shaming and dissociating from any misogynists to where its no longer socially acceptable. otherwise its an endless cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:22 PM
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all your other comments are really spot on. While this does not apply to everyone, a lot of misandry is based on fear of what men do to women, the harassment they face from men, and anger towards how men’s violence and actions impact society, and how women were essentially sub human for hundreds of years under the thumb of men until very recently. Rape is such a huge issue for men, women, and children, and the overwhelming majority of perpetrators for all three groups are men. there is a LOT of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:09 PM
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yep- when I was dating if its wasn’t a hell yes from him, I’d lose interest so quickly. I don’t think I’ve ever been in a situation where I had unrequited interest/efforts that I didn’t lose interest within a couple of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:46 PM
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I mean.. think of it like “dont put all your eggs in one basket”. Single people will behave like single people. and you also don’t get to have your cake and eat it too (aka having exclusivity without having a conversation and agreement about it first) after ONE date, theres no guarantee it will work, theres no guarantee they aren’t dating others, and theres no guarantee they wont disappear in a day or two. why would you drop everything else to bank on this working out? if they’re you’re only pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:38 PM
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yep I’m sorry but you are misunderstanding what feminism actually is. which is not really your fault considering everyone on the internet is screaming different things about it. Feminism = equality for all genders. Including lifting up women’s rights where needed, and lifting up men’s rights where needed (especially in roles like parenting)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:23 PM
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as a pansexual woman, the only advice I can give is that making generalizations and getting “pilled” about any group of people, men or women or otherwise, is like shooting yourself in the foot. it does not serve you. No, not all men are alike. Not all men are violent or scary. No, not all women are alike. Not all women are mean or hard to approach. The more and more you generalize, the more stuck you will be letting women pass you by while you assume “they’re all the same”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:09 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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