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jonnysunquest/r/seduction12/12/18 10:01 PM
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The whole ignoring and neg jive may work, especially on strangers, because it plays to a person's insecurities, need for attention and wanting what some else has. It's like playing to a person's weakness. But, in your case, you have, it seems, a girl who is into you. Instead of playing to her weaknesses, you can go the far nobler route and collaborate with her strengths: kindness, playful flirtation, true compliments, fun ​ Good luck tonight!
/r/seduction13/12/18 11:41 PM
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Firstly, I don't think you are alone. In fact, I know you are not. Many people have mostly acquaintances and superficial friends through college. Let's face it, most people are, despite their posturing, really kind of self-centered, intellectually and creatively vapid, have no interests beyond video games, sex and tv. That's reality. And I truly don't say that from a place of arrogance or superiority, but connecting with people on a meaningful level is rare. But, there are good people, your kind…
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:02 PM
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Hey, I'm so glad it might help. Being cheerful with everyone and having fun is just a great way to live and be. ​ The old PUA's game would be to ignore her and give attention to other girls around her, but I think that stuff ain't cool, imo. Sounds like you really like her and she likes you. Just be mindful for clues she may send you, smile at her, and wait for your moment to arrive.
/r/seduction13/12/18 08:13 PM
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You are 24 wondering why a 15 year old looks like a 21 year old?. No disrespect, but, there ain't a lot of math to be done here-- meaning, the differences between age and emotional, sexual, psychological maturity vary greatly in this bracket of life. Girls tend to be more mature than males in this age group. The ages are closer than you may think. ​ But I agree with you, it's true society, especially pop culture entertainment, the fashion and cosmetic industry, and all forms of advertising push …
/r/seduction13/12/18 06:41 PM
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good point. the seduction community tends to focus on the chase and the pursuit and not what to do after the first night of orgasms. ​ I think that's where other subreddits kick in ;)
/r/seduction13/12/18 06:10 PM
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Damn. Good god. Take me to her island, Mr. Rourke!
/r/seduction13/12/18 06:07 PM
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I'm going to respectfully file that under you chose the wrong friends category. Having had success with this method, actually wearing shit I thought was weird, only to get compliments from girls, suggested to me my attractive female friends with fashion sense know what women like in this capacity more than I do. But, I don't doubt it hasn't worked for you. Looking at QC's instagram is a good way to see fashion trends for men. just an idea
/r/seduction12/12/18 11:56 PM
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Night club stuff is its own special zoo. ​ People are dancing. And drinking. And it's loud That's what allows for these unique and compelling circumstances: ​ The dancing allows us to create close physical proximity and even touching with a woman, without coming across as a creep. Even if you hate to dance, do it. You may feel self conscious and embarrassed, dance anyway. No one cares about how well you dance. The Women who love to dance often love when guys dance with them...unless it's a "girl…
/r/seduction12/12/18 11:45 PM
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Agree with all this. Female friends can be a great resource. In fact, if you want to dress to attract a woman, invite a female friend (whom you find attractive) to go shopping with you. Let them pick out the clothes. The ones you that make you feel embarrassed and silly, but she finds "so cute on you", these are the ones you buy. ;) Then swallow your fear and wear.
/r/seduction12/12/18 11:12 PM
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Rehearse in your mind the scenario: ​ Imagine yourself in some moment together, one you can really visualize... ​ see her...see you...see the place ​ replay this scene over and over again, before you go to sleep... ​ You know she likes you. You know she's into you. You just know it. Now you have to take that chance. What's the worst that can happen? She laughs. She says no thanks? Small stuff. You got this. ​ Now imagine what you will say... ​ Say what's natural to you, but consider reacting to …
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:19 PM
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I applaud you for taking the time to dig deeper than the generic PUA game plans and to come with up with your own personal ideas, strategies and thoughts. We are individuals and we need to be true to our own core values and sense of measure otherwise any technique practiced by rote could come across as disingenuous and artificial, which will either attract the wrong type of person or push people away. ​ With grooming, clothes, styling, diet and exercise there is a tremendous amount we can do to …
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:02 PM
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Strange as it seems, abundance tends to bring on more abundance Attraction breeds attraction Also, in my experience, and I’m generalizing, women tend to want what other women have. And they can become quite competitive, bold even downright sexually naughty to get it.
/r/seduction12/12/18 05:21 PM
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Agree with the disagree. Basics are fundamentals, like food, air and water, always needed, to be forsaken or undervalued at one's own peril. The nuances and specifics of each basic becomes much more complex once we examine the variables at play. ​ For example, confidence. There's a fine line between being suave/truly cool and being arrogant/emotionally cold. And between that fine line there are countless variables to consider when learning how develop, express and capitalize on one's confidence.…
/r/seduction12/12/18 01:53 AM
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One of the mistaken notions is that "nice" is bad. There is a difference between nice and being perceived as needy, desperate or unattractive. ​ You are right, finding the courage to ask, and not be devastated by rejection is a full-on win...and if you displayed that with either grace and/or dignity and/or a sense of humor the that will leave a favorable impression with her and keep the confidence in you. ​ Next time tho, do your recon ;) Boyfriend. Boo On to the next crush!!!
/r/seduction12/12/18 01:44 AM
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Are you talking about a girl you will see again? If so, I'd recommend to not force anything. Keep cool and a positive mind. Wait for the next time. Build slowly, but playfully, trusting your instincts if the gal is into you or if she is indifferent to you. If she's not into you, be polite but keep expectations low--you never know, she may have a friend who you may fancy. If she's into you, enjoy the art of seduction. ​ If you want to escalate as to take conversation to the next step such as an i…
/r/seduction12/12/18 01:37 AM
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while you are waiting for the right one you could be missing out on what's left meeting the right one will make you want to end the pursuit of others otherwise, as long as you are honest with yourself and are not hurting others, I say experience as much as you desire
/r/seduction12/12/18 01:26 AM
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