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Huh? Weird personal attack considering all I said was that some women are more active and fun in bed and that maybe your friend was with guys who didn’t meet her needs in a similar way, and you are the one who listed all his faults. The “to make up for his faults” was meant in regards to her perception of him and how that differed from yours. If you think that some people aren’t more fun/attentive in bed than others...I’m not sure I’m the one who needs more experience.
/r/seduction15/01/20 07:13 PM
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Could be that the dude was very attentive in bed to make up for his faults and she was used to guys that didn’t do that for her. Goes the other way too. I’ve been with attractive girls who were no fun, and less attractive ones who were nothing but fun. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction15/01/20 05:15 PM
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I think most women in LA that are attractive and actually looking to meet up use other apps. Tinder here feels pretty scammy
/r/seduction10/03/19 07:58 AM
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I usually just don’t comment on it, or laugh it off, just focus on trying to have a really good fun time, and I find that this means we will be hooking up in some way at least. So I don’t try and push sex, since she did clearly did tell me no, and just hookup as far as she wants to go. Then if there really was no sex, I know that date #2 is for all intents and purposes guaranteed party in the sheets. I don’t mind not fucking for one night if it means setting up a pipeline of sure bets. Half the …
/r/seduction03/08/18 10:17 PM
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the app is very shitty and a complete waste of time, i've deleted it so long ago On that, we can definitely agree. I’ve had way more success on other apps, and the quality of the women has been way higher. Girls with actual jobs and actual interests as opposed to Instagram “models” and floozies.
/r/seduction29/07/18 06:02 AM
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I wasn’t going for most efficient, I’ve also never been interested in that - I like the chase and the interaction of a date. I like women and not just for sex. I also don’t think your method is in any way generalizable for most people, and for a wide variety of women. I’m guessing your approach is off-putting to a whole lot of potential dates. Also read the original post I commented on, that person was confused about something simple like just messaging women on Tinder. Do you think he’d be effe…
/r/seduction29/07/18 05:47 AM
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Because while some of that is true, what I wrote is no less applicable for anyone. No woman likes waiting while a guy just talking at them forever and not making a move. No woman likes an indecisive guy who doesn’t have a plan. No woman likes being jerked around by a guy who is drawing something out over multiple dates for no good reason or because they aren’t confident enough to do what’s needed. Maybe this doesn’t work if you are trying to chase down some girl out of your league, but if you ar…
/r/seduction29/07/18 05:38 AM
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The wine and beer place I usually suggest isn’t that expensive, so I don’t mind paying, but if a girl starts getting her card out I usually also tell her she can get the next round. I feel like paying for at least the first round is a good move when you invited the girl out. It’s part of being a good host. I like being a good host. That said, I never just buy drinks for a random girl in a bar to try and get her attention. That’s a sucker’s game.
/r/seduction28/07/18 10:32 PM
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Ask a question about one of her pictures, or something she wrote. Nothing complicated, and not too long. It's just that easy. Don't ever send a long complicated response, save that for in person. No girl wants to read a novel of a response and have to reply to five different points / questions. Keep it light and show some personality.
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:06 PM
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It’s not about offering it when you walk in the door. It’s about having things on hand to make her feel comfortable if she asks so that you can be a good host. There’s nothing wrong with something being premeditated if the idea behind the premeditation is to make someone feel comfortable. That’s called being thoughtful.
/r/seduction28/07/18 07:18 PM
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I’m not going to lie, rules 1 and 2 do apply to me. I’m a good looking guy and I try to stay fit - not cut and shredded muscles, but fit. However that won’t mean anything if I can’t also be present and charming in person, and also have a plan in mind for how to move interactions along. I kick myself thinking sometimes about how bad I was at that at first. No woman likes to feel like like she is there with a guy who doesn’t have a plan or ability to move things to the next steps… You want to avoi…
/r/seduction28/07/18 07:01 PM
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Sure, but I also have found that one of the most important things is not wasting time, yours or hers. Having a regular plan, and locations in mind, can get you through that getting to know each other process fast so that you can determine whether or not there’s something worth pursuing. It’s really easy to set up a bunch of drink dates, some of them do end up going really well and turning into hooking up, but a lot of them will end up turning into either second dates or one of you just aren’t in…
/r/seduction28/07/18 06:58 PM
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It sounds like you have your own method figured out! I just find talking over a couple beers, or glasses of wine, to be a really effective way to cut through all of the getting to know you bullshit quickly, and most importantly find out if there is compatibility/attraction. Going for beers 2-3 times a week doesn’t break the bank and gives you a good number of opportunities to find someone you are actually interested in. It’s funny, I almost feel like a coffee first date is something that I’d say…
/r/seduction28/07/18 06:36 PM
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Would it be difficult to try? I’m not sure if the rental market is not set up for that sort of thing and getting a lease would be difficult, or if it is just culturally odd. If you can swing getting a place and sharing with some friends, independence is worth it.
/r/seduction28/07/18 06:33 PM
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That’s not what happened. He saw my reply on another post and said that my comment should be it’s own post. Everything I wrote fell out my head and onto the keyboard and is based on my own experience.
/r/seduction28/07/18 05:53 PM
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Making her feel comfortable with her decision to hook up. Clearly you aren’t going to offer her a fucking toothbrush when you two walk in the door...that would be bizarre. You want her to feel that she can spend the night and put herself together in the morning, and that you are thoughtful. Be a good host. Also morning sex is better with clean mouths.
/r/seduction28/07/18 05:51 PM
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Same for me. I usually would suggest a bar near me that is beer and wine only but had a cool atmosphere. If I think the date is going well but not quite at the going home point, when I bring up a change of venue I normally suggest a place that has nice cocktails. At that point you only need one and can nurse for a while while talking. Plus I feel like you get bonus points if that second place is a cool spot and the drinks really are interesting and tasty.
/r/seduction28/07/18 05:45 PM
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Perfectly put
/r/seduction28/07/18 05:36 PM
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What I mean is that if you ask her back to your place and she seems hesitant and says no or gives an excuse, don’t pressure her - she’s internally conflicted about her desire to hook up, and her desire to not seem easy. Also a lot of times a girl will be hesitant and say something like, “I can’t have a super late night because I have to be up early, but I can have another drink.” Or some variation. That’s pretty explicitly telling you she’s interested but not willing to sleep with you on the fir…
/r/seduction28/07/18 05:11 PM
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I don’t have any good suggestions for you. I’ve lived either with roommates or on my own since I was 18 and I left for university. So anything I’d suggest would be hypothetical. I do know that having a place of your own in an expensive city, like LA where I live, is incredibly helpful for your game. Lots of girls have roommates here and hooking up is really helped by being able to say “let’s go back to my place.” Also bonus points are instantly mentally awarded by her (in the form of making her …
/r/seduction28/07/18 04:50 PM
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It doesn’t need to be drinks, like you said. Also the drinks don’t need to be $20 bougie cocktails, you can go cheap. I used drinks because going to a bar is the simplest, most universal, dating situation, and also a really good way to measure the time spent having a conversation. I mean...I wrote that for someone confused about how to reply on Tinder, for god’s sake - simple seemed ideal.
/r/seduction28/07/18 04:41 PM
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No. You give the girl a new toothbrush in its original packaging, like what a dentist gives you, and then toss it if she leaves it
/r/seduction28/07/18 04:34 PM
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“I bought the saline to try and clean something out of my eye, the case came with it. Take it if you want.” “A friend left it” Honestly I’d never seriously question why anyone had an extra case and solution if all I wanted to do is go to sleep. Nothing worse than sleeping in contacts and if tired you don’t give a fuck. The goal is to make her feel comfortable...no one wants to have to worry about dry chucks of plastic in their eyes.
/r/seduction28/07/18 07:53 AM
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Will do
/r/seduction28/07/18 03:07 AM
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Never just say “hey”. Say something related to what they wrote or what is in their pictures. Message back and forth a couple times, be funny and ask questions. Never just respond with a statement that doesn’t end with you asking another question. You’ll get a feeling for if they are playing along and matching your conversation or if you are having to drag responses out of them. If they are playing along, say, “let’s meet for drinks, what’s your number?” Don’t waste any more time getting to that …
/r/seduction28/07/18 01:17 AM
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Here’s the key: you need to be in the right place. If you live in LA or NYC, or a similarly large city, you’ll find that the opportunities are endless, and also the dating window is much wider. As a guy in your 30s you’ll find that you are able to hook up with women from the low 20s past your own age (it’s just not weird for a guy to be single in his 30s), and in a big city they aren’t sad sack divorcees with 2 kids at home. Before I started dating my current girlfriend I was single for like 9 m…
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:58 PM
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For real. If you live in a place like LA, SF, or NYC there is an unending supply of single women and the dating window is much much wider. If you live in a small town your pool is smaller and if you aren’t married with kids at 30 you are a weirdo.
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:35 PM
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It’s a couple steps farther removed from friend networks than that. Pretty good app.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:18 AM
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I get so many matches on Hinge I’ve had to start ignoring them. No way to keep 14 different conversations going at once and actually get good results. They really need some sort of feature that lets you like someone, but save them for later so that you don’t immediately have to start a conversation instead of their single threaded “likes you section”, or even the general matching, where you have to initiate conversations with any chick you might be interested in just to see the whole list.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:15 AM
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I see what you're doing, stealing all the words from the comments for free
/r/seduction14/02/15 12:46 AM
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Yeah, I think a game is needed to shift everyone's mindset at the same time from "I'm just having fun" to "I'm having fun and horny". Also if there is ever a night where one of the girls gets picked off by a guy, that might be the night to try. Every girl in addition to you and your girlfriend increases the chances that someone's not going to feel comfortable with hooking up.
/r/seduction08/02/15 11:08 PM
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I think that probably depends on where you are though. In Los Angeles, yeah, you're going to look like a douche. In a ski town in the middle of winter it probably doesn't move the needle...
/r/seduction30/01/15 08:25 PM
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Curious about your aversion to scarves. Not only do they keep you really warm, but to me they are a great opportunity to show a little personality.
/r/seduction30/01/15 07:01 PM
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To me it seems very depending on where you live. I live in Los Angeles where nobody gets married early, everyone expects to be doing their own thing and having fun until sometime mid-30s. If you live somewhere else you might be surrounded by bitter divorcees and / or the people who have a lot of issues. The consequence of how things are in LA is that dating in your 30s is super easy as you have the entire range of girls 23-your age to choose from, and since you are likely more established / have…
/r/seduction23/01/15 08:39 PM
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After 18 there are no rules other than have fun.
/r/seduction23/01/15 06:07 PM
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Vancouver?
/r/seduction20/12/14 09:25 PM
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I think this is the right answer, but to more directly answer OP's question, I think that athletic plus slender has the largest overlap with difference women's range of preferences. It is the least objectionable for a lot of girls. Anything too skinny or too bulked up starts polarizing.
/r/seduction20/12/14 08:58 PM
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