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nah I can get women my age but older women got some things the younger ones cannot offer. Have only been with a few women that would be considered "older" at my age but they all took better care of themselves hygienically, were better at communicating their wants in bed, and are more flattering with flirting and dirty talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:29 PM
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Feel the second paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:43 PM
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I have ADHD and go on a pretty large amount of dates. I will say i think it has hurt me more than helped Pros: I have a lot of interests because of it which makes talking on the first date easier Cons: Suck at texting, Sometimes lose focus during dates stories and have to faux like i listened, Need pretty intense sex to entertain me/keep me focused/aroused, The issues it causes my day to day life bleed into dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:43 PM
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No problem, you have really good facial structure. You should maybe try growing your hair out like Kelly Oubre Jr i think it may look good on you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:44 PM
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Would say overall the women have the edge on the men. For men: 7 is the most attractive followed by 10,11,3 and 8 For women: 8 is the most attractive followed by 5,11,6,4 no one crazy attractive but no one absolutely ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:17 AM
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gonna add that you get the dude DMs even as a guy. idk if it is as much of a confidence boost though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:22 PM
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Decided to run an experiment on Hinge because i was bored. So I usually get around a like or two on hinge a day from women but was curious what i would get if i opened it up to men for an evening. Was expecting a slight increase but got 20+ likes and multiple roses just that evening before turning it back to only women. Not much to make of this as the horniness gap is already well acknowledged but the attention was nice haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:46 PM
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Don’t have much of a type but like attractive women. Small preference for blue eyes and a fair complexion but thats about it Preferences: 5'6-5'10 pretty eyes slim Requirements: attractive above 4'11 Smart not obese
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:58 PM
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agree and disagree. like many of the commenters have said technically TRP is more about just learning how to make yourself more high value. Despite this i agree with you and think most of the followers don't actually want to improve themselves and are more blackpiilled than anything. It has been coming up more in this sub but i think a lot of the guys in here that think they are average are a decent bit below average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:41 PM
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For most men I think plain old attraction is the main factor however I really do like a Women who is fashionable. If a girl can dress well it really helps me fall for her. I am unsure if it has to do with just matching modern standards as I find some older aesthetics more attractive than others. ​ I feel like while the standards for women's beauty in general has changed a lot there are things that have remained static. While things like the ideal body have changed others haven't and a harmonious…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:24 PM
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I agree partially. it really varies but i would say it usually Atleast has some positive impact, wether its only a little or a lot for some people. for me only 20 pounds made a huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:28 PM
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start treating the balding with finasteride and minoxidil. If you start early in the blading you can do a fairly decent job slowing the balding
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:02 PM
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your body generally gets its most gains after about 20 sets per muscle per week. If you have done that amount take a rest day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:41 PM
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Yeah i have seen that study and agree it is exponential. I will say however idk if the ratio is always 80/20 and i think on an app like hinge its a bit more balanced. I am above average looking i think but don’t think I’m top %20 attractiveness and am 5’11 so not like crazy tall and i still get a lot of action on hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:19 PM
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Love to hear it, i happen to have a date tonight from hinge hoping it goes well. But yeah tinder used to be a bit better but now just seems like a barren wasteland
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:02 PM
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My experience: They are very tough if you are an average or below average man. I used to be a lot worse looking and cleaned myself up a lot and it was a night and day difference, almost like i crossed the “threshold”. Hinge is also the only useable one in my opinion. The match rate on hinge is way way higher than tinder. On hinge i can get some really attractive women and have had some great dates come from it. Tinder is pretty meh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:01 PM
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Hinge actually attempts to do this with their algorithm. Unlike an ELO system other dating apps use Hinge uses a Gale Shapley and tries to identify your type. It isn’t perfect but works crazy well for me. I live in a large metro area but pretty much only see girls my type on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:58 PM
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I only have used Hinge and Tinder and Hinge is a lot better than Tinder for me. On Hinge I genuinely get women in my league sometimes out of it without trying to hard. This surprises me since people usually hate on OLD On tinder i have to do a lot of swiping to get a quality match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:53 PM
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personal anecdote but from what I have seen the whole men liking shorter women thing isn't true and the discrepancies are caused by women's height preferences. Neither me nor any guy in my pretty large male friend groups find taller women unattractive, in fact most of us find tall women more attractive. I'm a hair below 6 foot so have only been with one women taller than me but really enjoyed it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:26 PM
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Fair points and agree on a lot, probably got carried away with facial analysis stuff. yeah i have pretty bad eye structure and get by fairly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:03 AM
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Oh yeah Eyes/jaw are the most important which is why i listed them first, however i listed the other things as if they are very off it can be a pretty big hindrance. I should have mentioned hair transplant under baldness only i still count that as surgery which is definitely on the more intense/less accessible parts of looks maxing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:41 PM
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Looks maxing can definitely help however there are multiple important parts of attraction that cannot be changed in adulthood. some examples of things that cannot be changed without surgery that heavily effect attractiveness are: Eye structure: Eyes that are overly round, outside tilted downward, or show a lot of the upper eyelid are generally considered unattractive. The only way to change this is eyelid surgery or even more expensive bone restructuring surgeries. Jaw Structure: Recessed and mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:41 PM
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23 male: Masculine: 121 Feminine 106 I was expecting high in both, i have ADHD so i have a lot of interests. I am a huge sports bettor who loves studying any game i get into. Love contact sports and am getting into boxing recreationally . However i also am into skincare, fashion, home decorating, cooking and other feminine things so i was expecting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:22 AM
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Yeah def have noticed that. Especially When i get a match with someone who i think may be out of my league. I have had few of my quality matches engage in good conversations and lead to dates but you are right a lot of them, especially the very attractive ones are usually low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:56 PM
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Not really answering your question but i feel like i am one of the rare men who can get their looks match on online dating. I only use Hinge which is 10000000 times better than Tinder for men and have had good success. When looking at an objective rating subreddit like r/truerateme the rates i get are similar to women who i could get online dating. I advise ditching Tinder and using hinge if you are a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:39 PM
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Fucked up was probably a reach. Maybe a little weird is the right term. I just felt it was weird to have my dating profile open to people i had no intention of interacting with just for the sake of getting likes and slme confidence boosts. On hinge people can leave messages and some of them were pretty endearing which made me feel like i was slighting them even though i was probably very insignificant to the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:41 AM
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Lmao i did something similar once. I am decently attractive and get like 2-3 likes received a day on hinge (I don’t use tinder) but opened it up to Men because i was curious. I got 30 something likes that day before realizing what i did was kind of fucked up (im not gay at all) and switched back to only women. It is crazy how horny men are compared to women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:52 AM
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(23M) i find my preferences are similar to what women want which is kind of funny. Obviously attractiveness is the main factor however i really like when girls are well dressed (fashionable in some way wether it be city girl, indie, athliesure, or southern bell) confident/not awkward, tallish (5’7 -5’8 is my ideal), good hygiene, smart, and has a job. None of these are harsh requirements but definitely give a big boost and i am able to find a good number of women like this fortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:52 PM
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Im a guy who has casual sex pretty frequently and really disagree. I don’t really feel used if it is something quick and don’t really like when the girl starts to think its something more. I really don’t like leading people on it feels very weird to me Im obviously only one guy though but i think most of my friends feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:56 PM
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A lot of cuckold content in the sub the past few days
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:44 PM
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Yeah this is primarily my big issue with a lot of these arguments. Like you can’t expect women to not want the attractive guys that give them attention. I definitely wouldn’t say its all of male red pillers and i think technically its not part of their beliefs. A lot of them realize that its a ridiculous claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:58 AM
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I am a man with a very good body and i kind of agree and disagree. Agree: women aren’t automatically attracted to ripped dudes (its a plus but i think its fairly insignificant compared to other things). Where i Disagree: from my experience Women like bigger arms, thats the main thing they find attractive in a ripped guy and they would probably prefer a husky guy with big arms if they could choose (not fat but not six pack shredded). The issue is that having fat on your face heavily affects your …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:49 AM
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