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| 5 | How beautiful women view the average guyDo I doubt my ability to seduce a pretty girl? Hell no, I’ve done it many times. I’ve been with hotter girls than her. HURR DURR Women are currency worth only their looks M I rite? When I found out my ex-girlfriend knew her, I asked her to find out, for science’s sake, why she didn’t want to hang out with me. DAE NUMBERS GAME? This reeks of low self-esteem. I think maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaybe that would explain why somebody may not enjoy yo… | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 02:35 AM |
| 1 | People here need to STOP bashing routinesThe only fair fight you're ever in is the one you lose. There's no such thing as an "illegitimate" set. Are you afraid of being in ill reputation with all the "pure" PUAs? I'd argue that treating talking to women as some sort of art form that needs to be preformed "correctly" is more harmful than knowing what to say during the first 5 min. Sure, you shouldn't have to rely on it if you want consistent results (there's no moral imperative), but think about this: was your bike riding invalid when y… | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 06:41 AM |
| 5 | Significance of race on seduction?I can tell you with 100% certainty that it has EVERYTHING to do with seduction. In fact, since you're Asian it's not even worth trying anymore. Your time would be better served complaining about other people on Reddit and masturbating on pornhub. The best thing you can do right now is feel bad about your race (if you wanted women you wouldn't have been born Asian). Whatever you do, don't approach, because it'd be weird. I was just on /r/askscience because I was curious about how there can still … | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 09:32 PM |
| 8 | How do i grow Balls?Think about this: If I ask you to name all the books you've read, you couldn't. If I told you the title of a book, you could tell me whether or not you've read it. Now, when you think about approaching and freeze up because you don't know what to say, you're imagining you're going to have to tell her the titles of all the books you know. In reality, once you get into the conversation, it's more like being asked which books you've read. The beauty of that is that whether the answer is yes or no, … | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 02:53 AM |
| 1 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!I see where you're coming from. I like it because it's a lesson I should have learned eons ago. My problem with overcoming fear doesn't mean that this project doesn't have value to it. I argue against what I did being a form of procrastination because a good to-do plan gives you a couple advantages against not having it at all. First, I may know what I want to do, but it makes it easier to remember and stop being distracted from what I want to do having it in a list in front of me. Second of all… | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 12:54 AM |
| 1 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!Oh please. I may have given myself a clear path to having my shit together, but we're all up shit creek together! | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 07:41 PM |
| 1 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!I'm half way across the country, sorry | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 07:34 PM |
| 1 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!Fair enough. I've found notes to myself to the effect of "why don't I just fucking do it?" Are you recommending less time making a plan of action or without planning, throwing ourselves "into our environment"? The first point - sure, I had free time I could have spent better (could have spent it worse though). Not taking any time to plan out a week or look back on it seems reckless and inefficient. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 07:12 PM |
| 1 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!X=.25 X=.25 X=.25 X=.25 I guarantee you that time would have been spent doing something dumb. If we're being real, the majority on LoL and 4chan | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 06:47 PM |
| 1 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!I have a 275 C&J & a 175 snatch I really like lifting! | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 06:42 PM |
| 1 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!I'm glad you like it! I appreciate feedback too. If you find a way to make it better, it gets better for me too! Even if you just find a flaw, I can think of a solution. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 08:46 AM |
| 6 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!It's week 3 so this project is still pretty new to me. Keep that in mind when I tell you my results because otherwise they'd be rather underwhelming. I got my old keyboard out and started to play it again which I had put off for over a year. I lucid dreamed for the first time in 7 months. Finished Book of Pook. Reconnected with my cousin. I went into the city and got back into the game. Swam again for the first time last semester. These are the things I attribute directly to having the project. … | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 08:42 AM |
| 3 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!I don't know how much I can take credit for the idea itself as opposed to the project. It takes heavy inspiration from the first 2 or 3 habits of 7 Habits of Highly Effective People which I only read thanks to Owen from RSD. Getting a binder and putting it on Google Docs was my idea though :) | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 08:11 AM |
| 12 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!It is, there's a lot of start up energy required. Afterward though, it's a lot less like homework because it's only an hour a week of reflection and planning. It's not graded or peer reviewed, you can write whatever you want. I'm not giving you a page requirement on your manifesto, what am I? Your mom? You don't get points off for profanity. I'm not going to judge your goals - nobody is. Also, the pay off is way more. You get way more than a sticker and an A in red pen. Feel free to treat yourse… | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 08:08 AM |
| 5 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!I couldn't recommend more taking the time to buckle down and complete it. So many problems not only in pick up but all throughout my life can be attributed to a weak reality and the lack of confidence that springs from it. I think trying to achieve big goals (getting good with girls) without a sense of why as gathering a crew, a ship and supplies for a 3 month voyage and then around month 2 1/2 going "so what are we sailing towards anyway?" | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 07:51 AM |
| 2 | If you're thinking self improvement, I have a project that can put your progress into overdrive!Thanks! The vast majority of effort is given upfront. I'm on week 3 now and it takes about an hour between reviewing last week and revving up for next week. Those goals on the paper are typically nothing more than stuff I keep in my head as things I should be doing but never do. It's more effort, but it's the effort I want to be spending to achieve my goals. It's worth it to me. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 07:46 AM |
| -1 | So, there's lots of stuff on how to pick up girls, but what about some tips for a girl who wants to pick up guys?For our British audience, that's the American equivalent to when you say "OI SAY OI SAY, OL CHAP" | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Be honest, be shameless, and take full responsibility for everything.Could you or somebody care to elaborate on what being vulnerable means? I feel like I'm not opening up, but then "opening up" doesn't have any meaning for me. How do I into vulnerability? | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Your friends will hold you back.If your friends were to fit you perfectly as you are now, they wouldn't have been your friend in the first place. They would have become frustrated with the old you and you guys would have never clicked. Not many people understand the plasticity of their disposition and place in the world. You didn't. Be more patient with your friends. So patient, in fact, that they may never see the world through the eyes this community has helped you bring out of yourself. Appreciate them for what they are, ev… | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 12:54 AM |
| 4 | I'm having a "crash here if you want" kinda party in about a week. How to propose sex to a chick that will be here?I'm not worried about rejection, I just don't want to fumble an opportunity. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 02:33 AM |
| 28 | What is your original romantic/seduction move that has made you the most proud?I met a girl at a party, I could tell that she thought I was attractive so I go up and talk to her. She's really into it and I try and go in for the kiss. She dodges it. I think to myself (because it's already been an embarrassing night with other girls) "Fuck it, I got nothing to lose, lets keep trying!" I keep trucking anyway. Eventually, our foreheads are against each other and she's smiling like a goddamn hyena. I go in for another one and she puts her head down so I get give her a kiss righ… | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 02:36 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend's thoughts on gameoh yes, you're so beautiful - I'm so lucky to talk to you I feel like, with the right tonality, that is an acceptable answer. | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 02:31 AM |
| 2 | [Anti-FR] Blown out by woman I was not even hitting on. The Story of the Meddlesome Ex-gf Playing Wingman: A Cautionary TaleConsider not being upset about it: You're not a lame ass chode, why do you care that the HB thinks you are? Your happiness is not contingent on whether or not she likes you. If you ever talk to her again, don't let it phase you. Tell your ex-gf how you feel. If you don't appreciate what she does, tell her. Consider that you can completely cut her out if she doesn't comply; you don't need that shit. | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Seoul: need advice on the pickup environment."Is 250 EPM still impressive when you have 500 APM?" It lets her know that you're at least in Korean silver league. DHVs for days! | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with the "One-Upper"I was room mates with a guy like that! Only he was a dog! As am I. Woof woof woof, bark! | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 08:36 PM |
| 6 | My biggest fear is that ...If you have 0 chances left, you'll have an equal amount of opportunities when you compare it to how many chances you'll have if you don't try at all. There's a chance that one of them will say yes, however. What you're doing right now is using that chance to protect your ego. You're squandering a chance to grow by staying in your comfort zone because you assume that "Well, maybe I could get her..." is better than "Yeah, I fucked that up, I can't get her." You want to keep that reality of maybe a… | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 01:31 AM |
| 1 | It's frustrating being this bad at day game. It really, really is.That's more or less what I intended. I wouldn't have dreamed about talking to a hot girl about it 2 weeks ago. Now I feel like, if I were outcome independent (didn't care what happened), I would talk about shit like that. By that, I mean that, for science, I'm gonna approach a girl tomorrow and talk about nerdy shit and just see what happens. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 04:42 AM |
| 1 | It's frustrating being this bad at day game. It really, really is.I feel like this may very well be the problem. This is the idea that I could go up to a girl and talk to her about how I got into diamond league is SC2 just because and that would be more attractive than trying to talk to her about high heeled shoes in hope of finding some sort of convoluted agree-ability and commonality, right? | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I am in need of some adviceThe problem is that you're waiting for an opportune moment instead of simply making one. You're a MAN! That means you get to be forceful and take what you want. If you want a conversation, next time you see her you can stop her on the sidewalk and shout "Hey! I want to talk to you!" Don't even worry about being awkward, don't worry about the outcome. It is what it is. I can guaran-goddamn-tee the outcome of whether or not she accepts the offer is going to come down to whether or not you picked t… | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 01:35 AM |
| 5 | Guys, I just did it, my third direct approachThe way I like to think of it is the way that The AA guide put it. It says something to the effect of "it's like a test that, short of taking your dick out and slapping the prof, you cannot score less than a C on." It takes so much pressure off for me. | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 08:20 PM |
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