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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 535 | The feeling of asking someone out, taking your shot and getting rejected, is a WAY better feeling than beating yourself up for not asking at all. | Field Report | joos11 | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 07:28 PM |
| 80 | When all else fails, what’s your Hail Mary ? | Lifestyle | joos11 | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:02 PM |
| 38 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too late | joos11 | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 07:59 PM | |
| 2 | Its a question that seems to be commonly asked, can someone help me understand the elusive second date? | joos11 | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 06:16 PM | |
| 1 | Forgive the beta question. After a good Tinder date, do you text her the next day or give it a minute ? | joos11 | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 05:55 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | hiring a coach or learn by myself?You’re over thinking it. Just go talk to women, you’ll get better. It’s that simple. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?Basically probably. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 11:43 PM |
| 24 | You're doing online dating all wrong, here's how you save time and your sanityYou didn’t even let him get to the good part where he tells girls how weird they look. | /r/seduction | 21/05/23 07:07 PM |
| 329 | Advice for a 37 year old virginStop looking at porn on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl lost interest.. not the first timeWe all know that feeling and it sucks that you’re going through it. Humans are fickle creatures. These things happen randomly and subtly and you can’t control them. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:31 AM |
| 10 | Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say?I’m not. But in the circumstance of just saying hey to strangers on the streets, OP shouldn’t be too surprised of low response. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 03:36 AM |
| 18 | Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say?I don’t want to discourage you from saying hi to women or starting conversations. I also think saying ‘hi’ to strangers is something we all probably wish there was more of, but we never really do. Maybe you can even make someone’s day by simply saying hi to them. I just think it’s important to realize that it’s a bit different out there for women, and we can’t take a rebuff personally, as she is just being protective. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 10:40 PM |
| 95 | Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say?I totally get what you’re saying and have been frustrated in the same way. But, have you ever come across one of those lists where women only describe daily things that threaten or scare them ? For example, a lot of women will look into their car before getting in, just to make sure some attacker isn’t waiting for them. And it’s something that i bet most men don’t think about. I live in the downtown area of my city and walk a fair bit, and I’m sure i even see women cross the street to avoid simp… | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I build my confidence man?And i totally agree with the activities thing. Being involved and interested in stuff is great for anybody. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | How do I build my confidence man?Oh no, please be social and friendly and try to make friends and meet people. I just mean, don’t let the reactions of others rule your world. Be at peace with yourself and let your own opinion of yourself be the ultimate measure. And then be open and outgoing and you will find the right people and they will find you. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 06:00 AM |
| 24 | How do I build my confidence man?Firstly, learn how to use a comma. Secondly, work on improving yourself ! Don’t worry what others think. Be healthy and positive. Read, exercise, be outdoors and try your best to be the best version of you. Really be happy and comfortable with you. And when you meet and talk with people and feel happy and excited about it, remember that they are just as happy and excited to meet you. We are social creatures, we go out so that we can engage with others. You never know who is dying to meet you, my… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:46 AM |
| 11 | You are f***ed.I needed the reminder tonight. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | old man who has never been with a girl?It’s true, nobody owes you anything. Meeting women is a lot like meeting anyone, get yourself in social situations, say hi to people and be friendly. If your intentions are true and honest, and you work towards goals while remaining positive, you will find what you’re after. You sound bitter and angry, which will not serve you well when making new friends. I do understand how you feel, dating and meeting people can be frustrating. I know this shit is cliché, but be yourself, get yourself out of … | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Shortest date ever (7 minutes)Sounds like she was mad and wanted to leave. Why are you posting this. Grow up. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Should I just lose it to a hookerI’m just going to go ahead and take that as a compliment. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 95 | Should I just lose it to a hookerWhen you meet the right girl, and sex happens organically, you’re going to regret rushing it and paying for it with a stranger. When you’re in your 30’s and sex isn’t this huge unattainable obstacle anymore, you’re going to regret losing it to a prostitute. If you’re laying in bed one day with your wife and she asks how you lost your virginity, you’re going to regret the story. Don’t rush it man. It happens at different times for different people. These are the years of your life. And what you w… | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | The feeling of asking someone out, taking your shot and getting rejected, is a WAY better feeling than beating yourself up for not asking at all.Yes sir. I have to agree and chime in on the part about, ‘well you don’t really know if she has a bf or if is her way of blowing you off…’ That is completely besides the point. She may very well not have a boyfriend. I don’t know the reasons. She rejected me and that’s that. Who knows why, it doesn’t matter. The post is more about the fact that i asked. Gave myself that opportunity. That’s all. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 09:18 AM |
| 7 | The feeling of asking someone out, taking your shot and getting rejected, is a WAY better feeling than beating yourself up for not asking at all.That’s literally exactly what the post is about, how I’m viewing it. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | The feeling of asking someone out, taking your shot and getting rejected, is a WAY better feeling than beating yourself up for not asking at all.Yessir 🙏 | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:58 PM |
| 5 | The feeling of asking someone out, taking your shot and getting rejected, is a WAY better feeling than beating yourself up for not asking at all.Way to go ! I’m a teacher too. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | How to get over the fear of messaging a girl?What’s the worst that could possibly happen ? Probably not that bad right. What’s the best possible outcome ? Focus on that one. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 07:31 PM |
| 5 | As a virgin, it hurts me to see teenagers younger than me make out and hold hands. Seeing sex ed for teens sadens me. I have so much sorrow and regret from missing out on teenage expereinces and I would really like some words of encouragmentDon’t be 25 lamenting the same things. You and only you can fix this and feel better. You can’t change yesterday but you can absolutely control your tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?Be honest with her man. I’m about ten years older than you. And totally regret misleading girls to have sex. The guilt only amplifies. There are so many people out there who are looking for what you’re looking for and honesty is the way to find them ! | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Best books on attracting girls?I actually googled that 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Why would a guy not take his clothes off all the way during sex?I banged a girl with my toque on last week and felt like a pimp. Don’t ask why. Just did. Stayed warm too. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Is it even possible to be good with women and have a 9-5 job?Came to say this. Like are you kidding ? 9-5 ? Yes. You can work so many more hours than that and have plenty of success in other arenas of your life. It’s called working hard and being successful. Pull your boot straps up. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Is blowjob parties a thing?Look up ‘Rainbow Party.’ I think that’s what you’re referring to. It’s a semi popular YA book featured on Oprah once. The party itself seems to mostly be urban legend. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 04:24 PM |
| 26 | Where do you guys go with girls you just want to hook up with?Bed | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 10:52 PM |
| 3 | What one action can a guy do to make a girl instantly turned on?One time a gal had me over for a campfire in her backyard and she absolutely lost it when I was able to chop wood with the axe. Like she was honestly beside herself. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Dm if you want to talk... I’m very interesting cum see what I’m talking about. #sugardaddies especially welcomeIdiot | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 09:20 AM |
| 2 | 7 Things “Nice Guys” Don’t Understand About WomenIt can be a cold, fickle world mate. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | 7 Things “Nice Guys” Don’t Understand About WomenI think you’re right man. Just crazy how good the date can be, and sometimes not even a text after. There is just something discouraging about having to bang a girl on the first date to get her attention. | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | 7 Things “Nice Guys” Don’t Understand About WomenNo. A good date with kissing and actual fun. But not banging. Sending a couple texts afterwards and never seeing her again. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 11:44 AM |
| 17 | 7 Things “Nice Guys” Don’t Understand About WomenI’ve really been trying to figure out the ghosting after a great date. Happens to me a lot. Tons of chatting and laughter and kissing and a sexy passionate make out at the end. But also wanting to see this girl again and develop something with her rather than just banging on the first date. There must be some middle ground here where you can not bang a girl but see her again. | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Why Tinder Is A Waste of Time For Most MenLet’s not forgot taking her on one good date where she touches and kisses you and sets another date with you to just flake on that one and ghost. It’s a cold world out there. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Its a question that seems to be commonly asked, can someone help me understand the elusive second date?You make a fair point, but is that really the world I’m living in ? I can’t text a girl after a great night out. I just thought i was a little past all that, but i hear you. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Forgive the beta question. After a good Tinder date, do you text her the next day or give it a minute ?Agreed man. Thank you. I put too much thought into it sometimes. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Forgive the beta question. After a good Tinder date, do you text her the next day or give it a minute ?Thanks man, solid. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Forgive the beta question. After a good Tinder date, do you text her the next day or give it a minute ?Yeah man, thanks. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Forgive the beta question. After a good Tinder date, do you text her the next day or give it a minute ?I knew i was gonna get roasted for that question but damn you’re a freak dude. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Generalized problem with ghosting after agreeing for a date33m here, and i dont agree with you at all. women are impressed with a phone call. and dont text first asking if you can call her. just call. in the nicest way possible, grow a pair mate. and good luck | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Should I fake standing her up, to play with her emotions, she says she is not ready for a relationship after saying she likes me.Grow up man | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 05:58 PM |
| 13 | Two dates in a row blocked my number after the dates?I have been blocked / not responded to in all circumstances. I’ve had really fun dates where we laughed and chatted plenty and did not fuck and i never see them again. I’ve also had great dates with romantic sexy kissing and touching ands cuddling that i never saw again. I’ve also had dates where i took her home and banged her and yes surprise surprise, never saw her again. As frustrating as it is, you just can’t take it personally. My only advice is to have some kind of intimacy and leave her w… | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too lateim overwhelmed with the responses. keep your chin up man | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too latejust go where the fear is. really well said. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too lategreat suggestions. i had a buddy who killed on couchsurfing. Hashruns sounds great. Thanks mate. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too latethis is all exactly what I needed to hear. thanks for the encouragement and community. unreal | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 02:41 AM |
| 14 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too lateyou guys are awesome, thanks | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Does Kino Feel Unnatural to Anyone Else?I always found a great time for kino was change of location. The best or most successful dates I've been on is meeting a girl for a drink and then walking together to another spot to get a drink. I walk right beside her touching hips brushing arms and you can immediately tell by the pushback if she's into it. If it's going well I'll tell her to sit right beside me at the bar. (If it's a casual open booth type of thing) and then it's pretty natural after that. | /r/seduction | 05/05/17 07:10 PM |
| 3 | When a girl purposely bumps into a guy standing at the bar, how is he supposed to start a conversation?What are you cringing at? I hope it's yourself. A girl purposefully bumps into you at the bar and you get on Reddit to find out what to do next. How about, grow a pair and talk to a human. | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 07:29 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Sexy Personal Trainer (Pics Included from Start to Finish)That was all really good except for the 'cum' over at ten. That's the worst. Otherwise, nice work. | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Im 23 and a 17 year old wants to be fwb with me, what do I do?This shit really bugs me about seddit. This is not a question for a bunch of strangers on the internet ! You are the one who will live with the feelings afterwards so make a decision for yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Do this quick exercise if you experience approach anxiety when you go out.Seriously damn get to the point this video could've been thirty seconds | /r/seduction | 16/04/17 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Ways to give a girl pleasureplease explain your 'spitting' technique it sounds killer | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?'I have a goldfish.. oh sorry i thought we were talking about shit that didnt matter.' | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 03:44 AM |
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