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It depends, it's not the healthy eating that's unattractive its the trying too hard that is. If you're posting your food and macros and shit, it comes across as boring and tryhard and lowkey autistic. A candid of you eating a salad while you look good? That's fine, but in the same sense a candid of you eating a burger while looking good is just as fine. Nobody is going to hate you for eating well, but people will be put off if you take it too seriously and try too hard on tinder.
/r/seduction13/05/26 08:26 AM
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i like to break it down to learning/unlearning. Learning: confidence is competence. The same reason your stereotypical IT nerd is amazing at diagnosing IT issues, versus why he sucks at socialising. He's very competent at IT. It's why his company pays him a shitload to work under pressure. How do you get competent? you get in reps. You continue working at something until you master it. The exact same reason why he's not confident in social situations is because he's not competent. Why? because f…
/r/seduction13/05/26 07:46 AM
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honestly dudes say fridge protecting the snacks, but it's neccessary for women to do this shit. They get plenty of interactions from some good some bad guys a lot more than we do. So their friend is trying to protect her. It's not inherently evil that her friend wants to protect her tbh. But I do notice that when I do bypass the fridge it's because the girl is interested enough in me that she tells her friend to go away, or she's curious enough that she doesn't listen to her friend and waits for…
/r/seduction13/05/26 03:02 AM
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I'll try my best here brother. The most obvious thing here is that you're in pain, and that's ok.. we've all been there, that's a canon arc for 90% of men. So you're not alone or weird for feeling like this, BUT you've done something very dangerous, you've shifted from pain and (self) humiliation into blaming society by saying that it's fundamentally broken and other people are undeserving. You've let your envy and resentment and your FOMO of some "ideal" disney youth-love life destroy your empa…
/r/seduction13/05/26 02:13 AM
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by unlearning. Your first thing you need to unlearn is entitlement: You're blaming feminism, ethnicity, loneliness, money, dropping out, "plowed through" women and even "ugly" men. How entitled do you have to be to think that the world is constantly plotting against you in every turn in life that everything else but yourself is the reason you can't find a gf. I could go on for days about how dumb and wrong your mindset is but I don't have the patience or time, the fact is you need to unlearn bei…
/r/seduction12/05/26 04:28 PM
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no. im almost saying the opposite. im saying that historically, men would calibrate their social skills and game with the help of their friend group.
/r/seduction12/05/26 08:17 AM
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Sure. I would rather not look at it as "winning" or "losing" battles. I would look at it as learning, and even "competing" itself has lost it's meaning to sound like it's something negative. I don't mean we should compete and hate people or be toxic, but we should compete as in lets try to improve and become better men, and in that we need other great men to show us the potential that we can reach. Compete like a beast, win and lose gracefully but always find the lesson in the method and result.
/r/seduction12/05/26 03:25 AM
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oh yeah, dude just had a look and congrats on the cut you look great bro! keep it up. ok i don't mean it magically solves your problems, but most men (maybe you're an edge case) see good results because the lower body fat reveals the chiseled jawline, abs and silohette in clothes. Not to mention the mental clarity and confidence that comes with it. Making you more sociable as well and thus exposed to more approaches. For you, as you've said earlier confidence is the key issue and you did mention…
/r/seduction11/05/26 12:42 PM
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agree with OP. whether you like it or not the world is competitive, you may not have asked to be here but the reality is that everybody is hypercompetitive. The problem is that we've demonised "competition" to mean something toxic. Sure there's definitley toxic people (read 48 laws if you want to know how they operate) but competition isn't a bad thing, it's the most efficient way for our species to progress. So, the question is this; will you fight like a man or will you perish like a dog?
/r/seduction11/05/26 07:53 AM
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>historically maybe yes.. which is the point I'm making. Alot to unpack here brother, but I'll try my best to answer some things. >criticism toward men being men yep, that's very true. The mistake I see men making is listening to women and nerds. Look this might never help you, but you just have to "be a man" like be yourself. And not in the "be yourself brooo.. she'll love you bro.." way, I mean you have to be authentic toward your needs and wants. Because you're important, you're a person too …
/r/seduction11/05/26 07:04 AM
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imo? at any age it's not worth it the way redditors think it is. It's not some magic pill that you find a roster because you're talking to random people like that. But cold approaching is amazing for just making small talk to get your social reps in, so you do it not for a result but for practice and preparation. The main thing people don't realise is that you don't want to "negotiate" a womans attraction toward you. You don't want to convince her she likes you. The attraction has to be organic,…
/r/seduction11/05/26 02:41 AM
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Oh I definitley am. But here's the thing I think you are too, and I don't mean that as an insult. I'm just saying that we can have a pissing contest all day about who's got it the hardest but it doesn't change the fact that having friends is attractive and the historically "normal" way of finding a partner.
/r/seduction11/05/26 02:08 AM
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That's very true too, alot of people settle in life. Not just in dating but for their careers, health, respect. So that does come into play, but ig the point I'm trying to make is that in my example even the guys who settle still get a chance at finding something. Nowadays it's more common that people don't even get to settle because of the lack of interaction and root cause being lack of friends. Most dudes settle into their mediocre lives, but alone.
/r/seduction10/05/26 05:10 PM
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i like your perspective on the loud talking people. I used to be pissed off at this, but you're right if they're not hurting anyone or annoying people purposely there's no harm. I'm not from the states, and whenever I travel and see American tourists they get a bad wrap for being really loud. American tourists are my favourite people because they're social and will shoot the shit with you. Could be a tourist thing, who knows who cares.. point is that we're demonising human nature and interaction…
/r/seduction10/05/26 05:08 PM
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yeah 100% bro, i should have been clearer. I meant that back in my day that's how men learnt to talk to women was that we were way more social. Due to whatever nowadays, social media or whatever dudes just aren't out there hanging with their boys and women aren't as available in normal settings. It's like the only place to meet women is in the clubs where it's hyper competitive, super transactional and not everybody likes going out to clubs so less men are involved in this. Funny thing is that w…
/r/seduction10/05/26 12:21 PM
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LIke others have said, it's hard if you're a blackpill because you spend 80% of your energy bitching and moaning rather than hitting the gym or making friends. The funny thing about seduction is that whatever "pill" you feed becomes the path you go down. Men underestimate how much more women are socially calibrated than us on average. Like the saying "boys play football, girls do nothing" at recess, in reality from a young age women are constantly honing their social skills. So women can smell t…
/r/seduction10/05/26 10:37 AM
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Correct, you need the right friends and honestly you don't even need a group who solely go out to get women. You just need a well adjusted group socially, and when oppurtunities arise they do normal people shit like meet women. Nah im not underestimating what im saying, because I didn't say it was hard or easy I also think you're confusing my point with yours. I'm not talking about a PUA community like you're suggesting I'm talking about being properly socially calibrated. Being a lone cold appr…
/r/seduction10/05/26 10:30 AM
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You have rigid principles and you stick with them. Sounds like you want a relationship? if so, only advance or do things for a woman if her goals align with yours. "How do i know if she's genuine?" that's the game, you need to figure it out. Also, being an absolute chad is going to help. Getting ripped, rich and socially amazing will help you. So work on those things too, because I've found out that a woman who's primally attracted to you as a man can't even comprehend playing you, she's way too…
/r/seduction10/05/26 06:49 AM
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I agree with you, but I also think having friends or being social as you put it is the biggest advantage. I read somewhere that "partners" correlate directly with extroversion. Which in my few decades of life has been proven right. For your point number 1 I don't think these guys needed "professional" coaches, their friend groups were the coaches. Male friends are the best thing you can have because they will tell you to your face you're a fucking fat nerd.. but out of love. Sorry to be pedantic…
/r/seduction10/05/26 06:42 AM
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unc here, it used to be natural and like all things in life some guys were great, some guys sucked. But the thing was that most guys at least found a partner. The reason people are needing help now, not even from PUA guys but just from youtube videos and everything is because we're outside less and communicating in person less. Back in my highschool days you were a pussy if you had to text a girl to date her, now it's normal. And yes most guys did have help along the way, that help was from thei…
/r/seduction10/05/26 06:38 AM
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i honestly don't give a shit.
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:08 PM
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advice doesn't apply to you. you might need more help.
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:10 AM
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yeah if you're retarded. But for the guy above, he's already getting complimented by random women in their 20's. That's insanely rare, all he needs to do is stop being a bitch. And I'm serious about that. Sure for someone like you maybe you need therapy, but this advice don't apply to you.
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:10 AM
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yeah well depends on where you start. If this guy is truly getting mired and complimented from women (remember 99.9% of men don't get compliments ever) then all he needs to know is to stop being a bitch. That's like a 5 min lecture this guy needs. Whether he accepts it or not is up to him, but again could be minutes. For someone like you it could be decades.
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:09 AM
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So you're saying that you get mired from women all the time, but people shouldn't work toward that? lol wtf. Bro, the social skills can be taught in a matter of minutes, the gym grind takes years. Bro needs to start working out yesterday.
/r/seduction04/05/26 05:01 AM
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I love this about SEA, not because I want to hit on girls but because people are so friendly and open and everybody feels seen. It's a great society, I wish the west could be like this but unfortunately welcome to the west, where everybody is out for themselves. It's not all bad, but it is a thing and you're not crazy.
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:29 PM
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>im fair skin which doesn't mean shit in the west. I get it, I love SEA and travel there regularly but compared to the west ya'll have an unhealthy historical hardon for skin colour. I'm brown (not mexican or indian) and it has nothing to do anything in any western country I've been too. Even the super white ones. Good company, what does that mean? you're nice and polite? That's the baseline, what makes you interesting? Nope, SEA men aren't seen as creepy. In fact, Asians are going through their…
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:28 PM
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This is so true. I was "monk mode" for years. until my friend snapped me out of it said I have everything going for me already, it's just time to live my life instead of living in the tutorial or "hyperbolic time chamber". I see monk mode or training mode as building a foundation. Then I see being social/having game as the multiplier. There's only so much foundation you can build in the the tutorial some needs to built out in the real world. You can hit the punching bag all you want but you need…
/r/seduction23/04/26 01:05 PM
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Why are some foods eaten so readily at the drop of a hat, and other foods are passed on until theres no other options left? Because some food is nicer than others.
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:41 AM
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sure just make sure that there are oppurtunities there and not just girls
/r/seduction14/03/26 08:57 AM
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never been, but by your description it sounds like a sausage fest. So if you're correct then you might just need to move somewhere else, again not for girls but for life oppurtunities.
/r/seduction13/03/26 04:47 AM
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I see, it's hard for me to know without knowing where you live or whatever but I can try give general advice. Yep, bars are common. Maybe clubs and stuff if that's your thing, festivals, concerts, sports, volunteering, run clubs and all the things you've mentioned. If what you're saying is correct, then your town sounds like a sausage fest. If it really is that bad then you might need to move somewhere bigger. Not because you want a gf, but because it sounds like your town is small and you might…
/r/seduction13/03/26 04:23 AM
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then go where the girls are?
/r/seduction13/03/26 04:12 AM
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penpalmaxxing
/r/seduction13/03/26 02:50 AM
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"and whos this?" in some time of flirty way (be creative). its not weird if you ask from the jump, that's a normal question. Not really about the lines themselves but the energy you put out there. Sorry re-reading what I said is probably not that helpful, but truthfully you just gotta ask and not be cold about it. That's part of the game. If she makes a deal out of it then joke about it, "wow, so you just give your number out to all the girls?" "well only the pretty ones like you" or some corny …
/r/seduction13/03/26 02:47 AM
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Like another guy said, you have to actually be in good shape for this. Different situations require different tools. It's not like a bar where you can just go up to people and practice sleazy pickup lines, it's a public area where some people might not be receptive to that stuff. So even cold approaching might be seen as threatening if you're not just casual about it.
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:50 AM
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best advice here. you actually need to be fit for this situation. I've seen it first hand, I'm not fit enough yet but my friend does it all the time because he's fit and social like you described.
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:45 AM
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i reccommend making study groups or increasing your friend group, thats the easiest way in college. The cold approach thing should be supplemental (not very successful in college from my experience) but haiving friends helps you meet people
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:15 AM
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not op but id suggest to talk, don't make the goal dating in this situation make the goal getting over your anxiety and building social skills. it also helps you build character and experiences.
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:14 AM
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I think it has, but I think its more nuanced than people say. I don't have any socials beside FB, and I've noticed that seduction is advertising now. Advertising your lifestyle, looks, wealth and status on Instagram is not the whole story, but it's a piece of the story now which is insane considering I can remember 20 years ago people would call you a nerd for even knowing how to type fast on a keyboard. Seduction has changed in the sense that you're always accessible and you are always showing …
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:08 AM
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this is gold, it's not about talking to women its about connecting with humans, its about practicing the type of energy you put out. I remember I had a real weird issue for a bit where I just couldn't talk to other men naturally, put me in front of a girl and I'd do amazing.. but another man I just wouldn't be comfortable or put out weird energy. Until I realised the better I became with men and becoming friends I would get even better with women.
/r/seduction12/03/26 11:47 PM
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- There's ugly women out there for ya - You put in the effort and you will improve, nobody said you're going to be prime Brad Pitt after hitting the gym for 2 years, but you can go from a 0.1/10 to a 0.5/10 im of the belief that clothes and gym give you at least a +3 each. I'd say 99% of people could hit at least a 6/10 and thats without charisma or money. - If you're talking about somebody whos disabled or horribly disfigured, well disabled is another story you might have a point there. horribl…
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:51 AM
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i believe there is, i just think it comes with caveats. its hard to find them, they might not be in your country. sometimes you haven't grown into your potential enough to be that someone who has someone The main complaint i see from the younger people even my generation is that nobody wants to put in effort. That's fine, just don't complain.
/r/seduction12/03/26 03:53 AM
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I don't know much about you but I'll try to help. - The biggest thing about clothes is that they emphasise your body. That means the more in shape you are the more amazing you will look. I've been fat at some points and have been able to hide things, but once you're in shape you can chuck on a $3 shirt and look like a million bucks. So keep that in mind. - Pinterest (cringe yeah ik) is great for inspo, I've been using it for a little bit. Just make sure to type in what you are imagining in your …
/r/seduction11/03/26 10:36 PM
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I'm impressed as 80% of the comments here are correct. It's about the energy not the words. One thing I always say is that the prep-work has been done. That doesn't mean standing in the mirror at home practicing your smile or pickup lines.. you're way too late by that point. The prep work was done years in advance, going to the gym, working on a positive mindset, researching fashion that works for you personally, becoming a good man to those around you. All of that shit affects your energy, and …
/r/seduction11/03/26 10:23 PM
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can you explain
/r/seduction11/03/26 10:14 PM
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great observation, huge problem like this where I'm from derived from what we call "Tall poppy syndrome" meaning anybody who tries to get better or stand out gets cut down. So before we get cut down we downplay our achievements and strengths before others do it to us. People get uncomfortable where I'm from if you start getting confident. It does serve a purpose but it always has negative consequences like you've explained. I guess the solution is just getting used to feeling uncomfortably confi…
/r/seduction11/03/26 12:02 AM
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ohhh i see bro, yeah that makes sense lol. nope that's a massive part of it and i think alot of people miss that. great point
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:23 PM
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agreed bro, and congrats on the wife. i do think these conversations are important so we keep each other accountable.
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:20 PM
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yes thanks for the insight.
/r/seduction10/03/26 08:38 AM
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you need to meet more people. you'd be surprised at how many people do not know this.
/r/seduction10/03/26 08:08 AM
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How do you find belonging? are you joining actual "game day approach" groups or some shit? Not being snarky, I've just never heard of them. For people where I'm from, seduction just means being able to flirt well enough with women that they'll like you. It's not really a group activity. Probably one of the most personal journeys you can go through tbh lol. As for the internal issues, I know what mine are I was just giving perspective that they're mostly always independent to picking up women. An…
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:02 AM
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i agree with OP, the best thing I've been told and implemented was to treat everything like a "test". You detach yourself from results, or judgement.. you're just testing something out. When you test drive a car you don't create an emotional bond or identity to the car, you test to see if it works for you. Same goes with a certain personality type, you use it as a tool and test it to see if it serves you. You test out approaching people, you detach yourself from the tool because you're not actua…
/r/seduction10/03/26 03:49 AM
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nope i was in your thread 2 days ago, and said the exact same shit lol.
/r/seduction10/03/26 03:07 AM
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Yep, most people in this community including myself struggle with validation. Even when I'm successful, i have inner game, im 6'5, great career, handsome, dress well etc.. all the qualities a shallow woman wants and yet I still yearn for validation. Seduction for most of us is not the place to earn validation, it's just a symptom of something deeper, probably some childhood bullshit that we all need to figure out as individuals. I have game and all that BS, but I don't lie to myself and think "j…
/r/seduction10/03/26 02:58 AM
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It's true, I also want to add this. Inner game = foundation approaching = multiplier outer game (or being good at flirting) = multiplier No point approaching if your foundation is zero. Because 0 (inner game) x 2 (approaching) still = 0.
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:39 PM
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you're miles ahead anybody else. a tip that helped me was that everything in life is just a "test" right. like you're a scientist testing different methods for yourself. If you get rejected for doing a certain thing, it's not YOU personally, it was you, a humble guy just trying to test whether a method is worth using or not. Try 1000 different things, those things aren't your core values or your personality or true beliefs they're just tests, and you're trying them out because you want to see wh…
/r/seduction09/03/26 10:14 PM
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100% i have friends in both categories. Some guys make it fucking easy, like my good friends, we all care about each other and want to see each other succeed. Then theres another dickhead I used to kick it with, dude will literally sink the ship just to try his best to shit on me. Then wonder why he has no friends.
/r/seduction09/03/26 10:12 PM
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I respect you for going for it, really. But fuck me dead, am I the only one in this sub who thinks this is extremely autistic? It's great you're working on game but game is the multiplier, your looks are the foundation (of seduction). Are you taller than 6'2? no? ok are you sub 12% bf? do you have a 6 pack, are you making 100k+ are you wearing good clothes. etc. Point no.1 is correct, that is the bare fucking minimum. yes, reddit will lie to you and say you're beautiful but 99.9% of us are not. …
/r/seduction09/03/26 09:15 AM
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go out more with your friends it helps trust me. you need to be able to talk to her friend and give her attention too. if you have enough game and are attractive enough the initial girl will talk to her friend to leave her alone. I've had mostly just girls ask that friend to talk to me to ask her for her number or something. Your issue probably isn't the friend, its that you're young and probably still need to work on your attractiveness. TLDR: git gud. actually, not kidding you have some work t…
/r/seduction09/03/26 09:01 AM
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5'8 bald and heavyset. I know you said you're working on your diet, which is fantastic but you're still undercooked. You will have better results once you're ripped. The lines are way too corny and way too much pressure. Not to mention its super hard to just cold approach in the street which it sounds like you're doing. Even doing those lines in a social bar setting is hard. I'm 6'5, pretty handsome good body, dress cool etc, if i go to a bar I would get like at least 3-5 women approaching me. A…
/r/seduction05/03/26 03:35 AM
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i understand what the guy was trying to say, but fuck your comment is just too funny lmao.
/r/seduction05/03/26 01:35 AM
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100% this. although i understand some women lie. They're just people.. some lie, some don't. some want to have sex with 100 men, and some don't. this is a really dumb question because nobody here knows these women or even OP. all this thread did was make me realise how retarded this sub is, how easily they project their situation onto the world.
/r/seduction05/03/26 01:08 AM
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A few things at play here Like others have said - she could be lying she doesn't want to come off as a hoe They could be telling the truth, she's just not as sexual as you are Some are attracted to the FWB and think that the situation will force a relationship down the line People are people, we don't know the people you're talking about. It could be 1000 different things. Don't listen to anybody being overly one-sided. It's reddit, people here are negative and love misery, so they'll assume she…
/r/seduction05/03/26 01:06 AM
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I've been approached by women in alot of different ways when I'm out at bars or whatever. Yes there's the blatant approach but that's reserved for women who are either lwk crazy or drunk. But the main way a girl will approach is just by hanging around your vicinity, or making eye contact or something. Sometimes she'll send a friend over if she's shy or pretend to bump into you or something. Although I have been approached, you must know that it is still your job as a man to approach. There's bee…
/r/seduction05/03/26 12:16 AM
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100% girls don't like pool or darts, i even took a girl to play pool once (date), later down the track she told me she hated that shit lol. She liked me though so she endured it lmao. I have zero knowledge what girls do like though, as I'm a real dudebro.
/r/seduction04/03/26 11:08 PM
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