jorgander Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	I give her credit for honesty		jorgander	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/13 01:00 AM

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2	Do you guys think "creepy" guys exist? Just because you haven't seen something doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Yes it's not common but I've seen and read enough about it to assume statistical relevance. Personally I have tastes that do not preclude older women, so yes it's possible I would find an older woman attractive were she to have particular features. But that's just me. It sounds like you don't like extreme age gaps and aren't at all attracted to older guys, and that's completely fine. But it doesn't mean no one else is like t…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/23 07:32 PM
1	Do you guys think "creepy" guys exist? In case your questions aren't rhetorical... Just because a man is married doesn't mean he loses his biological imperative for everyone else. It may be immoral to act on it but that's what I like about TRP - it dispenses with morality for the sake of analysis; adding it back in later is left as an exercise for the reader. Older men hit on younger women because younger women are more attractive and they think it might work because they have seen it work. Most (all?) of what guys do in the pursuit …	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/23 06:34 PM
17	Real Feminism(tm): A Short Primer on the First Wave Warren Farrell in The Myth of Male Power: Early feminists sensed this: they were strong opponents of protective legislation. They knew that as long as the princess was protected from the pea, women would be deprived of equality. The modern-day woman’s ‘pea under the mattress’ is the rough spots in the workplace. When today’s feminists are proponents of protective legislation, they oppose equality. I haven't studied early feminism and don't know what Farrell is basing this observation on, but ass…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/20 01:00 AM
38	The Invisible War Pt.2 - Scarcity is a cruel mother Any relationship whatsoever, friendship or romance, platonic or sexual, exclusive or open, is based on perceived value or the potential for it. Even your most casual friend, you would not associate with if there were absolutely nothing good in it for you. Because every association must have something good about it - humor, interest, wealth, wisdom, attraction, sex, business connections - anything you can imagine that could be considered positive. Likewise, those that associate with you only do s…	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/19 08:51 PM
4	Revenge Story: This was in my Quora this morning, I thought I'd share (copied and pasted) Never marry., ever I get that you want to help others avoid the pitfalls that happened to you, but be careful about assuming that just because something happened to you, even multiple times, that it is guaranteed to happen to others. You are right - a man is delusional if he thinks it can't happen to him - can't being the operative word, not won't. Marriage is difficult, even very difficult, but not impossible.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/19 09:47 PM
16	I Got Cheated On and Dumped by My LTR of 4 Years: TRP Lessons This should have been the the most important lesson learned, as an enormous amount of respect is lost when people smear each other to friends and family. Being right about it makes absolutely no difference. Even women, who are allowed to have emotional breakdowns, look bad when they do it.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/18 03:31 AM
10	Maroon 5's failed attempt to use The Redpill To their greatest dismay, a massive backlash of rage ensued from the press, who immediately associated them with this subreddit. The greatest corroborator of TRP is vilification by mainstream media and pop culture.	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/17 02:12 PM
2	"If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present. " - Lao Tzu Meditation doesn't do much for me, but kudos to those who have gotten it to work for them. Some nitpicks about your diction: Mindfulness is the ability to know what is happening in your head in any given moment without being carried away by it. This is not simply mindfulness, but self mindfulness, or more generally self awareness. This gives you the ability to respond wisely to any event. Probably you mean to say it gives you the opportunity to respond wisely. Simply mastering your fear doesn't …	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 03:05 PM
3	Rollo Tomassi – 2 lectures at the 21 Convention True, I doubt they are after obscene profits, and even if they are, I have no problem with it. But $800 for the earliest early bird ticket is quite a chunk of change for the average guy, not to mention airfare, hotel, and other expenses will put the total close to $2k I'm sure it will be a great experience for those who can afford it.	/r/TheRedPill	26/04/17 08:11 AM
1	Waking up early will change your life. Yes, and that is great for you and you should structure your day around it. However, not everyone is wired that way. And of course anyone can change, but as I said, at what point does the effort required to change outweigh the benefit it provides?	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/17 02:36 PM
4	Waking up early will change your life. Some of the arguments for waking up early can also be made for staying up late. For example, when you get up early you are awake when no one else is awake, or having time to be alone and introspective. But sure, a couple points actually do apply to the morning, such as running when the sun is coming up. I can't speak for others, but my mental battery certainly does not start at full, and is a painful lesson I've learned many times throughout my life. I don't completely disagree with the idea of …	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/17 02:11 PM
17	Guy on OKCupid sub (probably newbie/lurker here) conducts an "experiment" with the intent to expose gender bias. Gets what would probably be expected results. Sub's hamster wheels in high gear spinning at 50rpm. I know that a reasonable response to critique is unlikely, but there were a couple who attempted a thoughtful rebuttal, saying something like younger women who date older men do so for different reasons than older men who date younger women, and these differences validated the apparent double standard. Obviously OP is correct, but it was nice to see some logic and thought put into one or two of the responses.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/17 11:57 AM
2	How I quit porn (my own xpost) I don't understand redpill's fascination with porn. I think it's similar to Alcoholics Anonymous' fascination with drinking, in that they've had such a problem with it and feel the need to warn others, and this is not a bad thing. For sure, any addiction has negative effects. But not everyone gets addicted. For every addict, there are five who partake responsibly. If you're one of the addicts, or potential addicts, then by all means abstain. But the majority of us want to experience what life ha…	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/17 12:41 AM
4	What is it with feminists and gay marriage? We transitioned from 2/3 feral to 2/3 civilized around the same time we shook this tradition off. It's trendy to shit on religion, but most don't realize we've traded one for another, meaning dogmatic beliefs still reign. While one can argue that the net result is better - belief by science is better than belief by faith, etc. - the reasons faith-based beliefs were shunned still persist. Instead of spreading religion we're spreading democracy. Our temples are universities and government building…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/16 08:00 AM
6	Why They Haven't Banned Us Wait, what? That sounds like a personal preference. While I wouldn't put OP in the same bucket as SJWs, he does have a bit of that "I don't like it, therefore it is bad" mentality.	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/16 12:12 AM
3	Ayn Rand's Philosophy of Sex Most of this forum is about conning the woman into thinking that this person in front of them is what they desire by appealing to their base emotions and social programming. It's what all humans do, heck, what all animals do. Women use makeup, push-up bras, and girdles to make themselves appear better than they naturally are. Animals have elaborate courtship rituals to make themselves more attractive for sexual selection, or puff up their hair and raise their spine to appear larger than they act…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/16 08:42 AM
1	It's only sexist when men do it. Well I agree that consistency is better than sanity. Better an insane rule applied consistently than a sane one applied selectively.	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/16 03:18 AM
3	It's only sexist when men do it. The mere existence of that kind of business in society perpetuates the notion that it's legitimate. I think he's saying that's part of the problem. Legitimacy should be determined by how well a company does, and if a company does something unpopular like only sell to a specific race or gender, the vast majority will stop patronizing them. Unless, in the case of this taxi company, that gender is female. Do you think corporations "go green" because they care about the environment? Of course not. I…	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/16 02:32 AM
1	How to Win at Life Through Emotional Domination Individuals are honest only to the extent that suits them (including their desire to please others) People almost invariably arrive at their beliefs not on the basis of proof but on the basis of what they find attractive (Blaise Pascal) The participants who theorized on creating the best pot did far worse than those who just created. What most people think We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. (Aristotle)	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/16 12:37 AM
0	Male porn stars should be paid the same as female porn stars You get what you negotiate, not what you deserve.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/16 06:29 PM
3	My Recent Experience Saving My Own Life With Self Discipline. Gain Power By Controlling Yourself. I made flash changes and realized just how easy things are when you DECIDE to change. Everyone is different, but for myself and anyone I've come across, saying that to achieve change you need to make a decision is misleading. While it does takes an initial decision, the vast majority of the work takes place in the days or weeks following the decision as your mind/body adjusts.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/16 11:03 AM
6	A look into why SJWs are censoring the Immigrant Rape Crisis. For that reason, the definition of rape is ever-expanding. Just as the definition of sexism and racism is ever-expanding. If they're continually watered down like that, these words will lose their effect. The word rape still has meaning because as OP described, people still associate it with violent and obviously non-consensual sex. Regardless of the PC definition of the word, as that association deteriorates we will need to invent a new word for what it used to mean, else how will we refer to t…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/16 12:14 PM
1	CorporateLand: Start Selling Now Yes, you are correct. Until you work for yourself in some capacity, you can only go so high. Any increase in your salary will only come when the boss has had an orders-of-magnitude higher increase (relevant). The point I was originally going to make, but as I wrote was devolving into an all-salespeople-are-assholes post, was that most of them come across as opportunists, transients, and politicians who don't know/care about the product or service they are selling, don't care about the people who…	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/15 04:15 AM
2	CorporateLand: Start Selling Now A slashdot article tangentially talks about this from the standpoint of why people are not entering STEM fields as much as the US government would like them to. The reason I saved the article is this comment: That is my main reason for sticking to Engineering. Sales guys, stock brokers, marketing people... Those positions are not rewarding, and you have to leave your soul at the door. Science, Engineering, Construction, Mechanics are the jobs for me. Always will be. I couldn't live with myself k…	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/15 01:58 AM
22	"No man has been special enough" -70 year old The 2nd floor has wives that love sex and have money. I originally heard this as "wives that love sex and are not annoying"	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/15 10:26 PM
1	Ordering Drinks: The Basics Oh, and be likable. Be patient. Understand that the bartender is probably working as fast as they can. Thank them for their service. Tip well. While not a revolutionary concept, I've found that being patient and tipping well is a small sacrifice for long-term benefit. I tip well anywhere I go, but my usual places regularly comp drinks by "forgetting" to put it on my tab. I've had nights where 10 drinks between a few friends came to be $26, and I don't mean 10 Bud Lights. And when they do this I …	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 09:45 PM
1	RP Truths in action... Just to round this out, her attraction/admiration for you weren't just because you acted authoritative toward her, but also because you know what you're talking about and she is able to see that. She wants to follow for the sake of following, sure, but she also wants to hitch her wagon to a star, not a garbage truck. It's important to note that the two are inseparable. The moral of the story is that if you expect someone to follow you, make sure your actions lead to positive results.	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 04:58 PM
3	Favorite Quotes The problem with beauty is that it's like being born rich and getting poorer. Joan Collins If you're playing a poker game and you look around the table and and can't tell who the sucker is, it's you. Paul Newman People almost invariably arrive at their beliefs not on the basis of proof but on the basis of what they find attractive. Blaise Pascal We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. Aristotle If you look good and dress well, you don't need a purpose in life.…	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/15 12:47 PM
6	The Unknowing Chad. ... but its not your responsibility to save the dude ... I see it more as a charitable action than a responsibility, similar to how it's not my responsibility to give a homeless guy 5$, but it may still be a good thing to do.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/15 06:51 PM
4	The Unknowing Chad. If I was in his position I don't think I would want to know. I'd rather suspect and end it without knowing for sure. I understand that it's called bad news for a reason, and who wants to feel bad, but it's reality we're talking about here, not some depressing movie. Face it, deal with it, and move on. It's bad enough when someone else lies to you or omits part of a truth, but willful ignorance is just... a whole other level of stupid. Speak for yourself; should I find that an unpleasant truth wa…	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/15 06:45 PM
23	My Omega to AF TRP year. Great post. One particular idea that struck me: I read TRP (recommended books, bodybuilding, diet etc), listen to podcasts and RSD Tyler, cut all alcohol, lift and watch diet. Months go by. I started seeing results in my appearance. . I worked on my resume and references and started applying for jobs. No results at first. This is what stops a lot of people from getting there. They try a little bit, but it hurts their flabby soft body to lift and run. Or it's painful to get rejected by employers …	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/15 04:26 PM
6	Hilary Clinton:"Don't you want to see a woman president?" [the problem with feminism] Rand may be that way in certain contexts, but in the 'big picture' context, her philosophy trumps most if not all. The base of her philosophy - the idea of social constructs living or dying based on whether they actually work - is about as red pill as you can get. Your misrepresentation of her philosophy is not surprising though; in fact there is a very good reason why she is often misrepresented. Consider if you, knowing what you know how about democracy, capitalism, no-taxation-without-represe…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/15 07:31 PM
1	Real Rape vs "Rape Culture" (Featuring Lena Dunham!) Comedian Takes On False Rape Accusations! Rape culture, as defined by feminists, which is the only form actually worth arguing against [...], essentially states that rape [...] is far too narrowly defined and perceived by society. I think this is why some people have difficulty accepting the idea of rape as defined by feminists. When most people think of the word rape they imagine violent non-consensual penetration, and would rather use a different word to describe less violent encounters that don't involve penetration. Is it a bad thin…	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/14 10:59 PM
2	20K reasons for tech companies not to hire women ... I will always actually care about what is being done and how, ... I feel the same way. I know it's easier and more lucrative, but I would be less happy than I am now, especially since I know what it's like in the bottom layer. From a comment on slashdot: That is my main reason for sticking to Engineering. Sales guys, stock brokers, marketing people... Those positions are not rewarding, and you have to leave your soul at the door. Science, Engineering, Construction, Mechanics are the jobs for…	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 07:12 PM
0	Mom shocked that young, "very pretty" girl chooses confident son over "introverted" son They just call it "confidence". "Confidence" is the refined ability to manipulate a weak intellect. It's like make-up for men. Women who fall for it are the equivalent of blue-pill men - they can't or won't see clearly. As far as I'm concerned they can have each other.	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/14 02:54 AM
4	Mom shocked that young, "very pretty" girl chooses confident son over "introverted" son It's our duty, however, as TRPers, to shirk opinion and view life from a basis of reality That's not reality, it's someone's perception of reality. And you can argue that perception is all there is, but we wouldn't have the whole red/blue pull dichotomy if there weren't some closely held detrimental perceptions. Just because people perceive a certain way doesn't mean it's your duty to follow it.	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/14 02:40 AM
2	What are you doing to increase in your SMV? Others have mentioned learning a foreign language, and I would add that if you routinely talk to foreigners that don't speak English well, it makes you aware of your lack of enunciation. They will ask you to repeat things and it can be awkward at first but in time it makes you more self aware. My GF is Russian and although she speaks English fluently, she had a difficult time understanding me at first as I tend to speak quickly and don't hit every syllable. I had to learn to say everything corre…	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/14 03:46 AM
34	The Red Pill and Depression Stanford professor Robert Sapolsky gave a very good lecture about depression that IMO gives the best description that non-depressives can understand. To summarize part of his lecture, imagine you are walking around outside and are suddenly attacked by a wild animal and mortally wounded. As you lie there dying, what goes through your head? Probably thoughts about losing your loved ones, what you haven't yet accomplished in your life, not being able to see your kids grow up, etc. Well, depressives…	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/14 07:37 PM
68	Oh man, /r/TheRedPll ... another solid thread post on TRP hate http://i.imgur.com/vRpZfQV.jpg	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/14 07:47 PM
9	Being controlling is for losers! James Marshall talked about this. For some reason I can't link to the exact time, but it starts at about 44:45, and his main point is at 47:48: The only way in seduction that leadership is of any value, and that you have an authority as a leader, is if when the person follows you, they benefit. A good leader [...] leads through making sure their subjects benefit every time they ask them to do something. The TLDR is don't just control or lead for the sake of controlling or leading, make sure your…	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 08:49 PM
5	A guide on how to destroy /r/theredpill Why do they even want us gone so bad? I would say it's because we entertain and sometimes arrive at politically incorrect conclusions and we do not engage in polite fiction. It would be similar if I asked, for example, why the majority of improvements to science, technology, medicine, etc. have come from cultures in northern temperate regions. Is it because these regions had more resources? Is it because survival was not so difficult that people there didn't have time to invent things, but still…	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/14 10:34 PM
2	"I’m An Anti-Sexist, Liberal Doctoral Student, Wife, And Mother Who Supports The Men’s Rights Movement Over Feminism, Here’s Why…" Interesting read I found It takes a lot to motivate people, which is why persuasive literature often exaggerates. Even if men are not actually to the point of being considered obsolete by the average feminist, but are still marginalized in some way, it is a problem. You yourself mention systematic force several times. It doesn't have to be systematic and it doesn't have to be force. The point is that there is a general trend that favors feminine behavior and disfavors masculine behavior, and that this gynocentricity has…	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/14 05:18 PM
0	What a REAL Rape Culture Looks Like. the argument actually put forth is not that then and now are different in degree but rather that then and now are different in kind Correct, which is why I added the second paragraph to my post saying that what they say is 'rape' is seldom actually rape, and all they will accomplish by calling it that is to change the definition of the word rape in peoples minds. I think it is good to understand what a real rape culture is like such as what occurred in WW2, and to call contemporary western socie…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 04:58 AM
13	What a REAL Rape Culture Looks Like. Circumstances in the western world are certainly better than elsewhere, especially during times of war. However. This type of reasoning is easily argued against by saying "just because what happens here and now is better than what happened then and there, doesn't mean that what happens here and now is ok". In other words, it's still wrong for me to steal $5 from you even though someone else had $1000 stolen from them. But I agree that 'rape culture' as described by feminists is laughable, and is…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/14 07:20 PM
5	PSA: Do not give an "I like virginal girls" vibe to plates or prospective LTRs. The author of the post you replied to was describing trends he sees in society. If you disagree with him, you should argue that instead of discrediting him as "some butthurt little kid" and his words as "hate speech". And don't misconstrue my message too; I wasn't talking about freedom of speech, but that what is true, possible, and relevant is shared here regardless of feelings or political correctness. Anyone who gets stuck on words like slut, plate, or beta bux will miss the point and won't l…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/14 07:34 PM
2	TRP and your empathy levels... I don't lie and I hate liars. I tell the truth and I do it for my own personal reputation. I may be a huge asshole who will hurt the feelings of others, but nobody will call me a liar. I've been with several girls who I was honest with about my unavailability. Not that I was cheating on a GF/wife with them, but in the sense that I had plans to travel in the near future, meet other women, etc. and wouldn't commit to anything now. For some reason they still slept with me numerous times, only to ge…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/14 06:43 PM
4	PSA: Do not give an "I like virginal girls" vibe to plates or prospective LTRs. And that's what I like about the truth. It doesn't care that it's unpopular, that it hurts feelings, that it contextually applies to one gender, race, or nationality more than another. The truth is sexist, racist, and whatever else can be thought of as offensive. Calling out the elephant in the room and saying the emperor has no clothes on will get you arrested. You are correct; people will call this hate speech and may try to ban it, but that says more about those people than it does about the …	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/14 06:15 PM
7	Q: "What Do Women Want?" A: "Everything." When women list what they're looking for in a man it's an entire laundry list that often goes on for more than 50 points Forget what they want in a relationship, here's what they want in an introductory message.	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/14 08:02 AM
14	Woman drops by /r/seduction to do some subtle shaming -> #1 sub front page Don't take fishing lessons from fish	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/14 08:09 PM
6	50 Shades - More TRP Hard Proof Not to beat a dead horse but this is what RP is really about. Take charge, maintain frame, etc. but realize that with power comes responsibility. Be someone worth submitting to before you demand submission. Don't just take charge and bark orders. Train mentally as well as physically. Keep things interesting and challenging. Don't expect rest and allowance.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/14 04:32 AM
2	Remember, Red Pill Theory without Self-Improvement is MASTURBATION I agree with you. I hit the gym somewhat regularly and try to stay generally healthy, but for the most part I focus on working out my brain more than my body. This means learning new languages, exposing myself to different cultures and worldviews, and putting myself in 'new' situations on a regular basis (new environments, etc.). Not only does it keep me interesting to people - they find out about this if they take the time to get to know me; if not they are not worth my time - but it keeps my e…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 03:26 AM
2	This is getting out of hand. Perhaps we are defining religion differently. In this context I was using it to mean the belief(s) people have that allow them to justify effecting changes in other people. But I understand it can have other meanings, such as referring to any faith-based belief.	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/14 10:36 PM
6	This is getting out of hand. Religion in any form will always exist, simply because the average person lacks the will and intellect to think things through for themselves. As you say, we are moving from traditional God religions to others, which I would say are related to social justice (feminism, alternate lifestyles and sexualities, etc.). For example, social justice dictates that criticizing Russia for being anti-gay and trying to convert them to Tolerance is ok. However, it also says that God religions should be more se…	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/14 10:17 PM
1	As a woman, what can I do to be the best wife an alpha male could have? Let's presume you manage to find a man who is man enough to take care of an LTR and meets standards of being well organized and having a general plan. Not enough TRP content stipulates this. Like feminist/hamster literature, it assumes the opposite gender is the only one capable of evil, and "our" gender is just innocent bystanders that get taken advantage of. I would love to read, even on a regular basis, critiques of both genders as they relate to each other. A lot of the advice in here should…	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/14 07:09 PM
7	[NSFW] The Feminist campaign to normalize the disfigured & obese "The imperfect but honest image of a woman's body" This is my problem with a lot of what's posted to TRP. Just because someone does not prefer the stereotypical thin/athletic woman, or does not center they're life around trying to get laid 24/7, there must be something wrong with them. Perhaps you didn't mean it that way, but it's how I read it.	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 09:34 AM
2	Ex just texted me that she is contemplating suicide. While I'm not advocating encouraging her to do it, one thing it would accomplish is to let her know her attempts to control him by threatening suicide will not work. It's impossible to deny, whether or not she is serious about suicide, that by telling him she is attempting to illicit a reaction.	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/14 04:40 PM
3	Corporations are responsible for the blue pill. It was Dave Chapelle	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/14 04:28 PM
1	Lose a lot of weight and look healthy... well expect to be shamed by the fatties /r/fatpeoplestories	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/14 05:05 AM
0	Is there a wall for men? I read on TRP a while ago (I don't recall the particular thread) that males are born into a wall, and I thought it most accurately described what is expected and given to us. Even from a very young age, we are expected to suck it up and silently persevere.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/14 09:26 AM
2	Women Never Suck Dick In Their Stories But your experiences say little about what's true in general. Coincidentally, 1 out of 15-20 women that have talked to me about their sexcapades volunteered that they gave head.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 01:57 AM
2	A Tale of Two Women I agree, and it was not my intent to say we should care about fixing anything. I did, however, hope to get an answer about why many of us don't seem to realize we help to create what we complain about.	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/14 03:33 AM
2	A Tale of Two Women What's more likely than your scenario of one BF per three years, is that there will be several failed attempts at relationships in between each (maybe a lot of failed attempts) that will last much less than three years each, and if she has had sex on the first/second/third date for each of these, she will have had it a lot more times than you suggest.	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/14 03:28 AM
2	A Tale of Two Women I don't really have a problem with it either, extreme cases aside. The only time it's a problem is if she has children or other baggage from a past relationship.	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/14 03:21 AM
1	A Tale of Two Women I wasn't addressing the OP in particular, but instead was addressing the more general idea that I see pervade TRP; I just mentioned it here as it is obvious. I agree with what the OP did and most/all of what you say, and I would also have the same reaction, or at least not judge someone poorly who did. I am also a big fan of exploiting trends and habits of society, as long as I'm not an asshole about it. However, were I to screw around a lot when I was younger, I wouldn't then act surprised/frus…	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/14 03:20 AM
17	A Tale of Two Women While TRP has a lot of wisdom and should be required reading for every young man in first world countries, I have a few critiques of it. One of these is that it seems to require women to provide sex early on in order for them to be considered viable for an LTR, but vilifies them for it later in life. Basically, how does expecting them to put out early and often not contribute to the cock carousel? Because it seems women must choose between easily putting out in order to be taken seriously when y…	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/14 12:15 AM
5	"Don't get married at 23, be selfish, cut your hair, get tattoos and ride, ride, ride that cock carousel!" To summarize, they use anecdotal evidence to refute a general idea, and this goes far beyond TRP or even the internet. I hate it too. If I cut off my penis, then refute the statement "men have penises" with "not true, since I don't have one", I've missed the point.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 08:23 PM
11	A woman past the wall actually admits it exists, found it downvoted to controversial in a women's subreddit. http://i.imgur.com/UwRhN89.jpg	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/13 10:23 PM
44	Girl wants the moon, has nothing to offer. Female dating profiles typically have a laundry list of requirements about what they expect, but don't say much about what they can/will do.	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/13 06:23 PM
14	MGTOWs aren't necessarily bitter men that have given up on women Agreed. For all the enlightenment this sub has, you'd think we could get past the narrow-minded way of reducing a man to the amount of sexual partners he has. By all means, use sexual critique to judge sexual success, but many of us, myself included, read TRP for reasons other than to improve sex life, and too often the question "well, are you getting laid more or not?" is the sole response to something. An alarmingly high number of people here are mouth breathing fraternity members ready to sti…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/13 12:05 PM
2	MGTOWs aren't necessarily bitter men that have given up on women I understand what you are saying and I even partially agree, but I have to say that with such a selfless attitude, there is a good chance you will get taken advantage of. And if that doesn't happen, you should play the lottery because you are a very lucky man.	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/13 11:34 AM
5	No one gives a shit about you. broke people vs billionaires	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/13 08:31 PM
2	Is suicide the only logical solution for a beta unwilling to be alpha? The rules are set http://i.imgur.com/DaI7N.jpg I think a lot of you missed the point on this one. Surprising.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/13 06:27 PM
5	Why is r/theredpill so loathed? TLDR: People don't like the truth Consider the name "the red pill" and Neo's reaction upon swallowing it. There was disbelief and anger before acceptance. Even if they have some inkling that TRP might be correct, it is easier to engage in polite fiction than consider the depravity people are capable of. TRP cares little about politics, feelings, social boundaries, or any qualifying characteristics (gender, age, skin color, nationality, etc.). No one is beyond scrutiny or deconstruction, as it sh…	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/13 05:01 PM
1	Woman decides that she wants to ride the cock carousel before she hits the wall and ask her BF for an open relationship. BF responds like a boss. I see your point, but it is good to be reminded of why we must be vigilant, sort of like how a movie snob will occasionally view films like Sex in the City.	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/13 01:34 AM
2	National Geographic Agrees: The Human Alpha Male Is Real Does anyone else think that a lot of this is simply a waste of time? I understand that social queues are picked up by others, do have an effect on their opinion of you, just might make a difference in some situations, etc. etc., but it all seems like a colossal waste. I imagine someone who learns and practices these is also a used care salesman with greasy hair, a cheap suit, and crocodile skin boots. I don't mean a "waste of time" in that it will never succeed; I'm sure there are people these t…	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/13 07:57 PM
14	The mindset of feminists/betas when it comes to self-improvement, as presented by Calvin and Hobbes Profile picture rule of thumb: if it isn't shown, it's not attractive. I've seen profiles where just the top half of a head was shown...	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/13 07:26 PM
15	"A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her." -Oscar Wilde I like TRP because it is largely from the perspective of my gender and I identify with a lot of it. However, a bigger reason I like it is that it is deconstructive without care to feelings, social standards, any notion of 'polite' or 'nice', etc., and this is how it should be - nothing should be beyond scrutiny. We call out the elephant in the room and have no fear of saying the emperor has no clothes on. And some people do not like this; while they may disagree with our conclusions, I feel they…	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/13 06:42 PM
3	Woman hits wall at 100000 km/h and doesn't know what to do. I don't take pleasure in injuries caused accidentally or purposefully, such as a car accident or premeditated assault, but when misfortune befalls someone, and it is obviously their own fault and/or they have little to no excuse to not have known better, I feel no guilt at finding amusement in it. I would feel similarly if a man drinks Budweiser all the time, thinking he will play volleyball on the beach with sexy ladies, but instead gets fat, has kidney problems, and is avoided by the ladies.	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/13 05:57 PM
39	I am stealing this line from an 8 year old girl (heard this morning): Kids, drunks, and sometimes the angry	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/13 06:56 PM
1	How to be more alpha (for introverts) As an introvert, going to bars is like going to a zoo - don't join the monkeys in their cage ('frame control' and 'state control' above). Be among them but not one of them. Recall the scene from Braveheart where Wallace's childhood friend, now older, confronts him with a big rock and says "test of manhood". Wallace abruptly says "you win" and starts to leave. Let them win their silly penis fencing games. The average bar chick will see this as beta because she defines alpha as a loud and obnoxiou…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/13 11:20 PM
2	"All men are rapists" posters in Canada I had a similar back-and-forth not long ago that started with me raising the point about discretion. I don't think she even noticed we were in agreement about the fault issue.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 10:34 PM
13	"All men are rapists" posters in Canada Taking advantage of her while unconscious (e.g. passed out) is obviously wrong for him to do. However, if both get drunk and end up having sex, and she would not have done it otherwise, it should obviously not be wrong for him to do. Warren Farrell weighed in on this: As long as society tells men to be the salespersons of sex, it is sexist for society to put only men in jail if they sell well. We don’t put other salespersons in jail for buying clients drinks and successfully transforming a no in…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 10:07 PM
18	Still in the process of swallowing the Red Pill, starting to see blue pill/hamstering everywhere I look They do it because it works, but just like 'bitch' and 'slut' aren't the terrible insults they used to be (heck, some women even self-apply these), 'creep' and 'rape' will eventually lose significance as well, and it has nothing to do with who they apply them to, and everything to do with how easily and broadly they are applied.	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/13 11:08 PM
3	I'm a women who learned of of this sub, been lurking for weeks, and currently trying to swallow the large, uncomfortable red pill that I've realized you've all smacked me in the face with; reality. I'm a goddamn hamster. While not exactly the same, your post reminded me of this comic. Others have said it, but I'd like to repeat that you are not completely in the wrong since he has let himself go. Sure, you are wrong to fuck around, but it sounds like he does nothing to encourage you not to. Monogamy shouldn't be just having to fuck one person, but wanting to as well. To be honest he is lucky to have you, in spite of your cheating. If I were him I'd be hurt by it, but then if I only sat around playing video games…	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/13 04:35 PM
2	Woman shames ex who got her pregnant. Comment questioning her responsibility gets downvoted and ignored. Perhaps it's this girl	/r/TheRedPill	26/06/13 04:04 PM
10	Warren Farrell quotes (credit with inventing the women's tag line for men - "success objects") There are many good ones; this one was quite profound: Early feminists sensed this: they were strong opponents of protective legislation. They knew that as long as the princess was protected from the pea, women would be deprived of equality. The modern-day woman’s ‘pea under the mattress’ is the rough spots in the workplace. When today’s feminists are proponents of protective legislation, they oppose equality. [...] People don't realize that government intervention, overt recognition by society,…	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/13 01:39 AM
7	How feminists misunderstand masculinity I've discussed the gist of what you're saying, albeit in the context of the abortion argument. You are not trying to "screw over" the other side, and genuinely want to promote good values for everyone. I should say though, that I've met more than a few women who were into the sort of thing that your second example portrays. I was raised to be "nice" to women, and it felt terribly awkward to choke or slap them around during sex, or pee on them in the shower (all things they asked for), and as a r…	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/13 03:18 AM