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Just remember that we all have different timings, life doesn't really have set number of things you should've done at certain age. Just because you're 20 doesn't mean you should've been with x amount of girls, or be in x grade in college, that kind of thining will only make you feel miserable. As for your incel thoughts, no one in this life owes you for the things you do, just because you like someone doesn't mean that person has to give you a chance, or reciprocate your feelings, and that goes …
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:44 AM
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Ok, I think I've had enough of this kind of subs lol "Men at +30 are bad too" like... No shit? Who could've thought that single men and women past their primes could have psychological issues? or that they'd be less attractive? Bunch of clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:27 PM
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I once broke up with an ex because she had too many issues, like, she needed a psychologist, not a boyfriend, and I didn't know how to deal with her constant problems and sadness. I think I literally told her that, we're still pretty good friends, but she's def never going to forget it, and she took it quite personal, to the point where now she's afraid of opening up to others, fearing they'll get tired and leave. (she hasn't changed much either) So... Imo just part from the fact that you no lon…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:45 AM
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Well I haven't gotten married, let alone divorced lol so I won't pretend to know exactly how it works, but there just have to be ways to protect yourself from such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:26 AM
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That's quite a flawed logic. You don't get into a marriage just so you can get orgasms and you don't need to lose half your stuff over divorce, i'm shocked at how many men don't know what prenups are. I remember this post about how marriage should be a 5 year contract to avoid divorce the heart brake and losing money, like.... Just don't marry then? or get a prenup? You're drowning in a glass of water, life isn't that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:14 PM
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I don't think people hate dudes who are virgins or anything, just the dark, sociopathic, internet Incel™. Well yeah, being a virgin doesn't make you an incel, it's not the same thing Source: a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:09 PM
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Equal? Nowadays it's like they're pushing to be better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:07 PM
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Anyone that sets up expectations gets frustrated when things don't go their way, it's a normal reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:06 PM
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It's a legitimate problem, but it's Men's problem are always shrugged off, the common reaction would be to shame the guy, "don't be a pussy" give her what she wants, wish it was me, etc, etc. First of all, because men are that desperate for attention, second because men are suppossed to always want sex, that's all they want, that's all they pursue. In my case (23M), I'd find it really disgusting, I'm not into nudes, and I'd probably have a panic attack if a girl grabbed my crotch out of nowhere,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:00 PM
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It'd feel weird, but yeah, those kinda women are crazy, it's not something to laugh about or be jelous of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:54 PM
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We don't use logic here tho, if a woman cheated on you, they're all cheating sluts, if a man cheated, all men are pigs that only think about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:17 AM
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It'll always be one of my favorite stories lol 2 years ago (we were both 21), a girl I was dating got into a relationship out of nowhere, with a guy she had rejected all the way through 4 years of college, every time she spoke about him was to complain, and whenever I asked her why she never gave him a chance she gave some really good reasons. So, I was about to ask her to be my girlfriend in Feb 16, but due to some extremely bad luck and circumstances, I couldn't see her until Feb 19, when we m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:00 AM
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No one ever debated a woman on why they should like them, that's ridiculous, except for me tho, and I somehow won lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:43 AM
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It could be better that you have no experience, rather than bad experience. Given how we are, trust me, you would've never heard the end of it if you were the one to break up or let down your SO. You would've scrutinized and demonized yourself for every single thing you did wrong, and it would've been way harder to try again.
/r/seduction27/10/20 08:19 PM
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Thanks for the message, I needed it. I've always done the same thing, and yeah, it's an ever ending cycle of "trying to be better" and always failing, when sometimes your problems are just that you are different, not broken. I'd give you a gold award if I had one.
/r/seduction27/10/20 08:09 PM
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It's true. the "mold" you fit in is as important, if not more, than your attractiveness itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 07:22 PM
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They are extremely disciplined, you don't get to the top of ANY sport without working your ass off. it's just easier to look greater in a 1 v 1 sport, Basketball is 5 v 5 and there are waaaay too many factors like injuries, refereeing, teammates' talent, coaching,the bracket you get in the playoffs, team match ups, etc, etc. Growing up with a father doesn't necessarily show up in your work ethic, but it DOES on your character. Lebron and KD pulled off one of the weakest moves in NBA history by c…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 07:10 PM
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Be a 6'3 10. No other way around it. Only way women will throw themselves at you is if they get their knees weak just by looking at you OR if you're famous and they admire you.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:31 PM
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KD too and Kawhi is a weirdo, they're still the most successful players in the league lol I'm just saying success isn't everything. You can tell the difference between someone raised in a nuclear family with a strong father figure (Steph) and the guys that didn't (James, Kawhi and KD).
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 06:05 PM
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What about Lebron James, Kawhi and KD? they all grew up without a father.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 05:23 PM
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This guy is deluionsal af, just let him be haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 04:25 PM
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Good input, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:33 PM
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I can agree with that, there def is more danger, no way around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 01:59 AM
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Thanks. I agree that past does matter, and although most people don't change, it doesn't mean they can't. Life is precisely about change, most of the things you mentioned are just habits, ones that can be broken. I, for one, used to be scared of commitment and responsibility, I broke up with 3 Girlfriends bc of it, and never confessed to my best friend. My best friend and my last ex were wife material, I should've stayed with her or gone after my friend, but I didn't. After that, you could say I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 08:18 PM
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Post it here as a reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:25 PM
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it was removed. I want to read it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:47 PM
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The outrage is precisely bc of the bs laws. Not fair to the child? well... it's not even his biological dad so...
/r/MensRights19/10/20 09:42 PM
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Where do you live? I'm from mexico, male avg height is 1.70 and even here it's weird to see men shorter than 1.60, like I legit don't I've met another man shorter than that in my 23 years, although it should be more often in the south. I want to move to Canada but I'm afraid I'll look like a kid haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:17 PM
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Haha so was my ex, the one 8 inches shorter that was too uncomfortable. She was a bit shorer tho, you're 1.52 m she was 1.50 and I'm 1.68, 1.70 with shoes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:10 PM
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That's like voting for Biden over Trump, both suck regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:06 PM
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It's just the bare minimum of being a decent human being lol Treating others like humans instead of NPCs you can get something off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:04 PM
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I'm as beta as it gets, and I've had 3 wife material gf's, that I broke up with cause I'm a dumbass and it was too much pressure/couldn't put my shit together. No, not all western women ride the CC, jesus you speak like you knew the whole female population, hope one day you grow up and realize how stupid all these "pills" are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:48 PM
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BS, I'm the living proof that they do care about other stuff lol If you're an average man, or even a little below average, As long as you're not human garbage, don't have any addictions, care for others, treat them with respect and know how to listen, you can get a good gf. Knowing how to listen is the greatest skill you could have, most ppl love speaking about themselves, the more you make them talk, the more they enjoy spending time with you and the higher they think of you for some reason hah…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:20 AM
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Eeeh I don't know about that, I have an ex that is 8 inches shorter than me and it's quite uncomfortable, the girl I'm currently dating is 3-4 inches shorter and it's great, but my personal favorite was an ex that was basically my same height, the way we'd hug, look into each other's eyes and kiss was magical due to our faces being at the same level, it felt much more intimate for some reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:38 AM
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I mean that's true but some women are just delusional. Some are shorter than 5 ft and want 6'2 dudes, a difference in height of 4-6 inches is enough for the purpose of feeling smaller and sexier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:57 PM
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So you're just gonna ignore every single celebrity like the Kardashians, actors like Henry Cavil whose only trait is being hansome, and the massive amount of ppl that make their living on Youtube, onlyfans, instagram, twitch and other websites JUST for being hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:35 PM
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Trust me I KNOW about being led on and given false hopes. It hurts like a bitch, my "crush"legit makes 2020 feel like a GREAT year compared to 2019. But at some point you have to grow up and realize that people don't owe you anything, even if they explicitly say they like you, and want a relationship with you, only to turn you down for someone else (like my crush did). It hurts, but it is what it is, and taking it out on everyone else is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:12 PM
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Another terrible analogy. Someone who takes a loan and has no money to pay back gets screwed. You don't lose a single thing if your "partner" doesn't want a relationship after a ONS. You enjoy the sex, and move on with your life, you don't have to "pay" anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:56 PM
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Nobody owes you for the things you decide to do in a relationship. You weren't forced to hook up or spend time with the guy, you decided to do such things, and got hurt when things didn't end up the way you wanted them to. Just becasue YOU pair bonded doesn't mean he did (like he obviusly didn't). "Sorry that I didn’t assume someone I pair bonded w would be cruel to me" That's just being naive, we're all capable of anything under the right circumstances, you should never put someone in a pedesta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:50 PM
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FDS has a delusional view on what makes Women "valuable" to men. No you're not a HVW just becaue you have a Phd and more money and success than the guy that's hitting on you. Men don't value the same things that women do, most would pick a fun, hot, loyal, and caring 23 year old college dropout over a cold and serious 32 years old nobel prize winner. Value is subjective anyway, you can't "decide" your own value when looking for someone else..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:38 PM
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not blatantly fuck the other person over. How can you fuck someone over for giving them what they wanted? Unless someone EXPLICITLY states "I want a relationship with you", you have no right to complain if it's not the case afterwards, how about not fucking someone you don't know shit about and holding them to YOUR standards? Hell, you can't complain even if they DO state they want a relationship and change their minds, you can retreat at any point, just like in sex, you can't force someone to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:02 PM
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Poor people want food. Doesn’t mean there aren’t predators trying to make money off their desperation. Terrible analogy. One night stands would be like giving food to someone starving, and said person complaining about not getting a drink too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:55 PM
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Women need men to be men. Survival instincts. Women don't like pansies crying about bullshit. If they did, they'd date women. So... your life basically revolves around what women want and think of you? That sounds so "alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:32 PM
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Then get a prenup.... You're drowning in a glass of water my guy, use some common sense, it's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:41 PM
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It's probably just parenting and growing up experiences. I didn't get to know her boyfriends and relationships as well as you did tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:32 PM
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So if you're sterile or can't have kids you just kill yourself? What a stupid mentality. Nature doesn't work that way either The first purpose of life is STAYING alive, how can you mate if you're dead, to stay alive you need to be fit and healthy aka EXERCISE and find resources to substain yourself aka WORK.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:29 PM
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I know it sounds weird to describe your sister like that lol, but I understand, my sister is 6 years older than me (I'm 23) and she's easily a 9-10 where we live But my experience is different, she had like 4 boyfriends, All of them legit below 5 imo, shitty jobs, bad looks, bad habits, drinking/drugs/smoking problems, you name it, and she actually withstood a lot in shit in her relationships. Only now, at 29, she's dating a guy like "R"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:06 PM
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You sure you're not from alabama tho? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:38 PM
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.... Is that a serious question? If so I honestly recommend you to go to therapy. Life is not just about women, working, exercising, being healthy, and taking care of yourself are basic human responsibilities, you cannot tie a basic healthy lifestyle to whether you can get pussy out of it or not. It's like when ppl complain they became a better person for someone and they didn't appreaciate it. Like... Striving to be better is what you're supposed to do for YOURSELF.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:36 PM
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Because it didn't work out maybe? lmao How is that even hard to understand? It's like saying "If college students plan on finishing their careers, why are there so many dropouts"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:30 PM
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Do you even live in any of those countries? Cause that's pure BS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:27 PM
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If you do all that JUST to get pussy you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:59 PM
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What's the point of marrying someone you're not plannig to stay with. Do you even know what marriage is for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:46 PM
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What does worry me is how society as a whole is basically acting like in "1984" I see it everywhere. In all the subs/ideologies I mentioned, in modern feminism, BLM, LGBTQ movement, some "men" rights movements here and there. Way too much extremism, hatred, ignorance, falacies, "us vs them thinkng", and we've always been right and we can't do anything wrong mindsets. I don't know if it's just that I didn't notice before, or if it's actually just currently turning into a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:39 PM
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Hahaha well it certainly looks dumb as hell when you put it that way. It's all pretty much common sense, but there's not much of it nowadays. Some ppl do live in a fantasy world and get their hearts broken cause they expect too much or just don't know better, I was like that honestly, and as obvious as things are in retrospective, I just didn't have the common sense and knowledge back then, I was too idealistic and of course it didn't work out. But tbf it's not like I had someone to teach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:32 PM
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"I can't elaborate, so I won't" lmao And for the record, I'm not blue pill, I haven't even read about it. Ironically, MGTOW is what got me into these things and it's what I've heard/read about the most, I started with some bald 50 year old somehting dude's youtube channel. So no, I'm not bue pill, or MGTOW or red pill, or any of these "things" I just read many ideas, try to take the good ones, discard the BS and use my own judgement, like every adult should.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:30 AM
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Well, I thought they the same lol I'm not that familiar with the terminolgy here. But since incel means "involuntary celibacy" and MGTOW Men go their own way I assumed it was the same thing. Anyway, the way FDS members express about "LVM" or sometimes men in general is just as disgusting as MGTOW members did. I used to follow a channel or 2 in youtube but ultimately left them because it felt like disguised misoginy. I get the exact same feeling with FDS, although it's more entertaining because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:08 AM
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A lot of these ideologies look like cults at this point. It's hilarious how some ppl can't ackowledge they don't have all the right answers. You can take great stuff from red pill, FDS, MGTOW, etc. but it becomes toxic if you take them as the absolute truth and only perpetuate your already existing bias. Every ideology has strenghts and flaws, there's no need to be so radical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:58 AM
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They do...Just like men mostly value women for their looks... "not all men", well not all women either. Stop generalizing everything, get to meet the people you have in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:51 AM
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Care to add more falacies in your comment? "blue pill 101: Chose wisely" does red pill, MGTOW, etc. tell you to be a dumbass and pick whoever is in front of you? so yeah, don't ignore the evidence you have in front of you, learn to read people and make what you think is the right choice. "because they neeeever change" I never said ppl didn't change, life itself is about change, if your partner changes in a negative way for you or your relationship then leave or work it out, it's not that deep fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:46 AM
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You're not linking those incels' advices on how to rape women either, where's the evidence. I'm not even familiar with incel "culture" but that's BS. How can you even possibly know they commited terrorist acts? The way Women in FDS bitch about Men is the same way Men do in MGTOW (they count as incels, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:28 AM
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And I agree with that, that's why I said take away the misandry, resentment and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:18 AM
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"why does it always happen the other way" according to...your bias? You're dumb as hell if you think only "older" people prey on the young. It's just as easy to prey on older lonely and desperate people, I'm pretty sure I, as a 23 year old, could manipulate some 36-40 year old single woman for personal gain Don't even get me started on what 23 year old girls can do to older men lolPeople are so ignorant it hurts, trying to make a victim out of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:13 AM
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Lol I'm just being practical, the real world isn't like these crazy ass subs swear it is. It's sad watching grown ass men and women acting like 7 year olds in a school yard arguing about what gender is better. That kinda mentility is everywhere nowadays for whatever reason, it's like you can't love and respect the other gender because you're labeled an idiot, we're not at war, get over your feelings, be a better person and learn to chose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 12:49 AM
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I said their perception on men and the way they speak about them is like that of an Incel toward women. ie. The resentment with which they adress "LVM" or men in general sometimes. Didn't say they had their same reasons/situations
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 12:35 AM
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FDS, Red pill, MGTOW and incels are all toxic as fuck. You can't define a person's worth and value based on how they look or how much money, status, power they have. Women older than 30 are still human beings, just like "LVM" are human too, yet you all speak like they didn't deserve to live in the same planet as you lmao You don't get pass to be a misogynist or misandrist just because you got your heart broken or didn't get what you want, no, not all men or women are out to take advantage of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:12 PM
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That's not true. There's not resentment, misandry or entitlement in admitting that some men are just wasting women's time, playing with them, using them, etc. Just like Women do to men too. You have to learn how to read the red flags, and that goes for both genders.You also have to learn how to pick someone that provides value to your life, whatever "Value" means to you. People have to stop acting like 8 year olds, Both men and women are bad and shitty, it's not a gender specific thing, and both…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:47 PM
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The "strategies", awareness and self respect they preach is def something you have to teach to your daughters. Just leave the resentment, Misandry and entitlement out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:31 PM
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Oh they ARE talking about you. You just don't get it lol Anyone who rejects them, doesn't live up to their standards or dissapoints them is a LVM and gets all the hatred. It's pretty fun to read the sub tho. It's a weird mixture of "nice guy" "incels" and "red pill" Women who live in the red pill world, think they deserve EVERYTHING for whatever effort they make and being High value (self proclaimed), and talk about men with the hatred of an inecel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:28 PM
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It's true, no one denies such thing, and the sub's idea and philosophy are actually quite good, but the execution sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:22 PM
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Like they just posted a story about a man dropping a 25 years relationship, then getting killed by his next gf. And the comments are like: "One women gave up 25 years of her life, and the other her liberty because of that man, couldn't be me" or "Only one thinig of value was lost, and that's the time that woman spent" Like it's gotta be satire right? cause that way of thinking is just being straight up sexist human garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:18 PM
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Ngl, it's pretty entertaining. It's entertaining because they post many things about men that are actually true,as well as many valid points and advice for women, but also funny because most of the time they treat and talk about men the same way they swear men do about women. Most of the time I don't know if it's just straight up satire and they're trolling everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:14 PM
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Maybe she was that ugly lol
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:47 PM
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Kinda like if they didn't sleep
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:35 PM
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yeah, to each their own. I don't really care about "intelligence" (as in academic) in women. I'm way more attracted to girls than can dance, sing, have great social skills, nurturing personalities, etc. than to doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:51 PM
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Yeah tbh I don't even have a problem with paying, what bothers me is the entitlement of those women that think you have to pay everything because they took some of their their precious time to dress well and see you like had nothing to do all day long. As for Doctors I know, I exaggerated lol, but I do hear a lot about it, both my sisters, 2 uncles, a cousin, an aunt, an ex I'm cool with and at least 15 high scool classmates and are in the health sector (most of them medics and nurses) and I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:14 AM
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Doctors aren't only Medics lol I disagree regardless, being a doctor still doesn't make you a good person or a good partner. Most of the medics I know are narcissists to a certain degree The part about money isn't entirely true either, it preaches to be financially independent, yes, but men are still expected to pay for everything and there's way too much shit posting about men that don't want an expensive first date. If you don't have enough money (or are just no willing) to take the girl out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:17 AM
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Didn't say it was wrong, it's a response to your "Do you honestly think the posters at FDS don't know men read what they write?" It doesn't matter if men read it, they can't comment regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:08 AM
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I've read their handbook, trust me, it's not a show. It's just a bunch of people taking a doctrine to extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 12:59 AM
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Yo do know you get banned just for being a man right? So it doesn't matter if men read, they can't comment anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 12:57 AM
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One of their posts is about that actually. "Never accept the slightest disrespect, it'll never stop if you do" or something like that. So this couple has been married for 7 years, the guys hasn't made a single mistake (she says so herself), then one day after scary car accident, the guy goes to a Business dinner, to which the Wife agrees but warns him not to go drinking after. The Man goes drinking and comes home late (sober) and she leaves the house with their baby without the slightest intenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 12:53 AM
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Being a doctor or straight up just being succesful doesn't make you a high value person. It's ridiculous to assume others view value the same way you do. You can be the smartest Girl in the world and that won't mean shit to someone who values youth and beauty, Value is subjective af
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 12:34 AM
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That's actually quite funny, RP and FDS act like the trash they swear the other gender to be. It's basically "the other gender offers no value and has high expectations from us" therefore, if they don't fit our own ridiculous expections we'll treat them like garbage and move on to the next one.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/20 07:26 AM
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You should've been more tactful. Also, what your friend said is true, you don't really need to have a kid in order to be good with them/enjoy spending time with them, you should apologize.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 02:03 AM
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