joshff1 Archive

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1	What healthy advice do you have to not feel bitter and jealous of successful guys, especially ones who are younger than you? If it is that much to you, socialize with the intent of vibing and taking risks, dont focus on getting that specific girl. Talk with everybody and just do something you were too afraid to do and be present. You can go out with the intent to talk to girls but your main goal should be to vibe and get to know people.	/r/seduction	03/01/25 10:33 PM
25	Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them? Yup, the key is for you to be the prize and make her qualify herself to you.	/r/seduction	03/01/25 10:26 PM
3	5 questions regarding your pill, please share if you can. I have had sex with over 80 women and dated probably over 100 at the age of 23, I think there is a lot of truth to the red pill and the general theme of "if you're attractive enough you can get away with anything". However I do believe that it depends on what type of women you are talking about. I have female friends that I trust and have seen their behavior and I think generally blue pill is valuable once you meet an attractiveness threshold with women, and depending on the particular subset of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:08 PM
1	What is the Most Amount of Women You Can Talk to at Once? I would say 3 is pushing it and any more is too much. I just have too much going on to support more than that atp.	/r/seduction	06/12/24 01:20 AM
5	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? Yup, the issue is that its something that in most cases can only be learned from experience. If I had told myself that when I was younger before I learned I would have just brushed it aside.	/r/seduction	03/12/24 12:24 AM
19	Dating without dating apps is so much better. Yeah, its definitely crazy how success with women makes you realize how wishy-washy they can be and how promiscuous a woman will be if you're attractive enough and at the right place at the right time. Makes you never want to spend any energy on any girl that doesn't give you that treatment from the start.	/r/seduction	03/12/24 12:20 AM
18	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? Its cliche but the best way is to cultivate abundance. If a girl isn't matching your energy or treating you like she should, you just hit another girl up. Also, I would recommend trying to date multiple women at once for a bit and you'll realize how time consuming and boring most of it is, you'll naturally want to then cultivate your interests and do things for yourself.	/r/seduction	03/12/24 12:00 AM
1	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? Don't be afraid of walking away if you're not being treated the way you deserve.	/r/seduction	02/12/24 11:57 PM
1	What is too nice? Or what’s the difference between a nice guy and regular hood dude not even that, they say that because they're not attracted to them	/r/seduction	27/11/24 10:27 PM
5	How to handle girls who “just want to be friends first” Yup, when I was just starting I didn't realize what was meant by "they need to chase you". Now that I have had success it's true. It means women are so fickle and wishy-washy that it doesn't make sense to chase them because the moment you prioritize them over having the best situation for yourself, they lose attraction to you. Additionally, any girl that is actually worth being with won't make it hard for you to be with, meaning she'll want to make plans with you, be receptive when you show inte…	/r/seduction	27/11/24 10:17 PM
15	Don't feel good enough no matter what A mental shift that's helped me is to realize that girls don't know what they want and it's pretty unpredictable which girls will even respond to you. You could have a 6 rudely reject you then go home with an 8 later that night. It's not worth getting butthurt over girls. When it comes to how girls interact with guys they are so wishy-washy and rely a lot on emotions.	/r/seduction	26/11/24 09:04 PM
1	People who move on immediately after a breakup aren’t “filling a void due to your absence” they simply just don’t care, especially about you. Not necessarily, some people can just pick themselves up faster and/or more immediately have other options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 08:52 PM
2	It seems like males slow to commit AND slow to break up It depends. Premise 1 is mostly for men with options. They don't want to be exclusive necessarily if they're having sex with multiple women. Premise 2 I have no clue other than the fact that men, generally, get complacent in relationships whether you're chad or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 08:41 PM
2	Approaching women in a limited pool of your social circle poisons this pool for you I mean it's pretty obvious no? In any limited circle it's pretty common sense that unless you get obvious signs of interest it's best not to approach right or at least you're better off playing the long game?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 08:30 PM
8	q4a how much of sex is acting for you? Parts of it are acting but only because it seems to turn her on more which in turn, turns me on more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 08:27 PM
1	Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived. I would say in terms of real life your point of only encountering girls of similar socioeconomic status is true so I’ll give you that but I wouldn’t go so far as to say that the vast majority of girls I’m seeing and matching with in apps are that way. Granted I have been afforded a great opportunity by my parents, socioeconomic situation I was born into, intelligence, etc. but before I started going to the gym and before I got braces I was invisible to women and probably 95% of the success Ive h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:40 PM
0	Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived. I agree with you but when 70%+ of new relationships form from dating apps you have to take into account how people evaluate each other on apps when making insights on the global scale of dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:31 PM
1	Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived. I do fine I just mean at my age my relative career success hasn’t afforded me any opportunities that I wouldn’t have otherwise had. Not to say that having a good career won’t do that but it won’t to any great effect in your young 20s	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:27 PM
1	Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived. I do well, I just mean that my career status hasn’t made any difference in my success. Like if I worked at McDonald’s but looked the same I’d still do just as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 06:47 PM
1	Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived. I agree with you but young people specifically young 20s don't care about the moderately successful or gainfully employed part. Like I am 23 and a software engineer and have my own single apartment, better than probably at least 80% of my peers but it's meant jack shit in dating so far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 06:09 PM
1	Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived. I would agree with you but only because it's probably because those guys who would be more attractive than her chose another girl and she settled with a guy that was more available.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 06:03 PM
3	Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived. For just sex yes they do, maybe not like 5s but 8s will swipe on 6s and 7s in they're in a pinch and horny. I would say its a stretch to say that men score easier with women better looking than them, if anything they have to be close and she has to specifically be higher on him than the average girl would. Also, for every guy you see that's with a girl better looking there are many, many examples of guys that can't get anywhere with girls higher than them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 05:50 PM
6	Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived. Bingo, women only go for their level or higher and will not consider any men they consider less than them for anything. Conversely men will continually go for their level or less for sex or short term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 05:45 PM
5	Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived. You're right but dating apps and social media obfuscate that fact by a large enough degree that it makes the point useless in reality. Like if for example you're a 7 and you want a 7. If she uses dating apps there are enough 8s within say 10 or 20 miles that she's swiped right on and have swiped right on her that she's still not going to get with a 7 unless you've made an impression in person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 05:37 PM
–	When women tell men "you need to vet better" what are these men realistically supposed to even be doing different? Believe me I feel that, you get redpilled and can't unsee how women act if you're the right guy at the right moment so you don't want to wait but you also know you don't want an easy girl if you're actually looking for something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 05:14 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. You don't need to be politically liberal as long as you don't lead with your political beliefs. You can be conservative and it's fine	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:46 PM
2	Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/parties It's easier said than done but you have to get friends, especially women friends, go to bars/dancing settings and enjoy yourself and you'll do well. If you then stand out at all (tall, have style, have muscle, particularly interesting) then you have your pick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:42 PM
–	When women tell men "you need to vet better" what are these men realistically supposed to even be doing different? Date women that won't sleep with you on the first date then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:33 PM
3	Cold Approach will SAVE you. It's by far the most rewarding way to get girls for sure.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 01:37 PM
2	Cold Approach will SAVE you. ^	/r/seduction	06/06/24 01:34 PM
2	Cold Approach will SAVE you. It does happen but it took me years to get to the point where it started happening. Also sometimes girls may not make it obvious but I've found that when I go out with a girl friend of mine she spots when all of them look at me so maybe go out with a girl friend more often and have them wing you or just find girls that do look.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 01:23 PM
1	“Just get rejected a lot” is the painful way to go The key is to look for signs that she's willing to be approached before you do it, not some random girl who hasn't shown you anything if you can help it. Granted I have not done much cold approach in daygame but in night game at bars its night and day difference approaching girls who've given you signs and girls who have not.	/r/seduction	02/06/24 09:41 PM
0	Have you ever regretted going for the kiss No, have only been rejected from it once and later on in the date i got it. Honestly I would say just go for it more than less because then at least you're not leaving any stone unturned and if she's truly not about it you'll know.	/r/seduction	02/06/24 09:33 PM
2	She pulled away after sex on first date Honestly dude, even if you really like the girl a good rule of thumb for selecting for the girls that really like you is let them hit you up after sex first.	/r/seduction	03/05/24 09:28 PM
1	Logistics is just as important as game Yeah logistics are the deciding factor in a lot of cases. You have to play to your strengths with logistics. Have dates close to your place all the time basically.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 09:09 PM
2	For the guys who had zero experience with women Two things. First was hitting the gym and improving how I looked to the point where I would have some ego to myself. Second is just taking risks when talking to girls and going on dates, in terms of questions, touch, asking to go back to your place, etc.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 09:06 PM
1	How do you build a roster as a loner? You're right. In my personal experience you can see the two ways in which people get into sexual relationships with one another, through friends/groups vs. spontaneous outside interaction (dating apps/bar/cold approach) and the level of attraction and effort you need to put into your appearance to get the same level of girls is much higher for outside interaction such that if you are starting from zero essentially with no hobbies, average physique, social skills, not super attractive it would be…	/r/seduction	20/03/24 06:48 PM
3	How do you build a roster as a loner? I mean, its not a positive trait for sure, but thats a bit harsh and untrue.	/r/seduction	20/03/24 06:14 PM
1	How do you build a roster as a loner? Reading through this thread is so relatable. I, like OP, am somewhat of a loner and do not have a large singular group of friends but have small, unrelated clusters of friends but am generally not great at making new friends. I have had rosters in the past from dating apps, but I have not had much success meeting girls in public at bars, events and such due to fear of approaching new people perhaps from feeling unworthy. Looking at it from that perspective its powerful, if you shift your mindset…	/r/seduction	20/03/24 06:12 PM
1	Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazy On the money, there'll be girls I'll match with on tinder who catfish their profiles and never respond to me but in a bar all they do is stare at me. All of these mid or overweight girls think they're hot shit because they can reject a decent looking guy on a dating app. But in real life I get looks from way better looking women than I'd match with on tinder.	/r/seduction	10/10/23 03:34 PM
2	How can we get lots of casual sex? Not disputing that, but you can get a lot of sex in a relationship doesn’t have to just be casual	/r/seduction	04/09/22 08:19 PM
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