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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 269 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a move | Inner Game | joshm4191 | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 04:32 AM |
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| 2 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himYou may not realize it but you're lucky people have been honest with you. I have had that a couple of times but it's extremely rare for someone to give their honest take on how they feel about your personality. It's always 'you're fine the way you are.' ok cool, thanks but you refuse to actually answer the question. I'm the same way man, one of the biggest discoveries of my life has been learning I'm an INFP personality type. It has blown my mind to learn there are other people exactly like me. … | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himI don't understand what that has to do with anything I communicated | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 07:10 PM |
| 41 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himThanks for saying that the personality does not match, and isn't necessarily worse. I'm what most people consider traditionally attractive looks wise as a man, I get a lot of attention for that but my personality does not match my looks at all. I've been told so much "you could get anyone you wanted" and it hurts so much failing to get anyone at all. I'm not self conscious I'm just a weird person and I think very differently than most people, I almost feel like I don't understand humanity a lot … | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Always losing from other menWell this isn't going to be the answer you want to hear but you should seek mental health counseling. A therapist or psychologist. You're putting the cart before the horse. Life isn't about women or getting laid, you need to learn how to be a fully actualized human before you worry about that | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveGotta admit my man I dont know, just trying something new. But I think they do all different kinds of dance not just swing, I'll probably try a few and see what I like | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:50 PM |
| 2 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveKeep trying it gets easier every time, that's important to know! | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveSo thought I'd try swing dance. It was honestly the first thing I saw lol. May try others though! | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveAre you good at making casual conversation and beginning friendships with men or women you aren't romantically interested in? If not then that is your first step, working on how to be outgoing. You need to achieve that first. Secondly, you need to approach taking to her as you would with anyone you are being simply friendly with. People, especially women can sense when you have underlying motivations behind your words, it comes out as incongruencies in your speech and body language. Obviously th… | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 11:22 AM |
| 2 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveSounds like you're on the right track, keep at it! | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 11:11 AM |
| 2 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a movePracticing little by little man. Move eye contact into saying hello, then adding more dialogue as you get more comfortable. And always remember to live yourself first above other people's opinions | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 01:23 AM |
| 8 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveIt was on the street after leaving the bars new years night, saw a woman getting beat up by a guy, looked like he was pulling her into his car. Ran over and fought him. I'm a big guy he backed up quicky and pulled a gun and shot me. Fire and rescue got there quick, it was a busy night 11 people got shot in the city including me. Stay away from alcohol man, nothing good ever comes from it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 12:26 AM |
| 3 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveLmao might be one to try! That would at least be funny, definitely gonna try it out! | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything more essential than confidence?That's the take we are looking for right there. Godspeed brother 🙂 | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 11:48 PM |
| 3 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveDon't think about women like that because they can sense it. I'm not joking, women perceive things like social cues and visual behavior patterns way better than most men. You gotta work on the way you view women and sex and then that won't happen they will just be a normal person to you. | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 11:42 PM |
| 3 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveI won't let it stop me that's for sure! The struggle makes the man, and I wanna be the best man I can be. I'll hopefully update reddit in the future on my journey. I no longer depend on women for my self worth but being able to talk to girls and date is definitely necessary for a man's development, so I plan on still practicing it. Thanks for the kind words! | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 07:01 PM |
| 2 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveI certainly agree. I'm not going to go on a soapbox about technology but it really has made us lonelier than ever. And I live in the Midwest, we are raised around alcohol and it's almost inescapable. But there are certain alternatives. I went to a dance class this last week, I've never danced in my life but everyone was very inviting, the vice president even emailed me after making sure I would come again for a class. The church has been hugely supportive. I am going to start going to a book clu… | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 06:59 PM |
| 21 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveDon't let the opportunities slip away, you never know when you could lose the ability to do it. Don't let yourself have that regret later man. | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 06:20 PM |
| 3 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveThanks for the kind words and suggestions! I have learned some basic signs for when I cant talk. Thankfully I can still talk just at a very low volume. So I have been trying to do social activities that are in quiet environments. I have been focusing on church activities a lot, and honestly focusing on my own person growth through reading and studying. Maybe one day I will recover through medical services, but if not I will still make this the best life I can. | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 06:19 PM |
| 4 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveI am hoping that I can recover my voice eventually. I will keep working with doctors to try to recover if I can. But when your life changes so dramatically like this you have no choice but to adapt or whither away and die. I will admit I have some really depressing moments, like seeing girls I wish I could talk to or missing out on social events because of my voice. But I'm overall happy. I'm happy to still be here and I have a lot of people that love me. It's all about perspective, and I've bee… | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 06:16 PM |
| 20 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveI absolutely agree. Your life can end over the dumbest things, avoid violence whenever possible. In my situation another person's life was in danger, and I felt the need to step in and help, and I almost payed with my life. I think the best thing to take from my story is fuck bars and fuck alcohol. The majority of violent crimes are committed with alcohol involved in some way. Find better environments to spend your time bros. | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 06:14 PM |
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