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I had a Tinder date two weekends ago and after we had sex I held her for 30 min and pet her hair/scratched it and then asked her to scratch my back. We kinda cuddled like that until we got too hot, but yeah I always cuddle unless I'm not feeling it or she doesn't want to.
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:32 AM
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All the time. I have a bridge piercing and others and I would like to meet the same type of woman but it hardly ever happens unfortunately.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:54 AM
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Yeah, we gotta just push past the bullshit and think "clean slate" when we meet a new person.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:13 AM
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Man this is awesome. I can count on one hand the number of times a want has chased me like that. Rare thing for sure and it feels amazing when it happens. Almost like whoa do I deserve this?
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:46 PM
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Yeah I typically have it thrown back in my face as well. Doesn't stop me from sharing my feelings though. I use it as a filter to help me pick a decent woman.
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:23 PM
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Leverage your social circles as best as possible if you are introverted. That's one tip that has helped me meet women by word of mouth.
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:07 AM
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34 m here. I waited until I was 22 when I lost my V to who I thought would be my forever person. But I found out one woman was not enough for me and now I've been poly for over a decade. I am not upset for saving myself and she is still very important to me. But I also missed out on saying no to a lot of women I probably could have had great memories with. It also took me a while to get good at sex afterwards so idk. My values have also changed. I would say if it is important to you right now, t…
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:27 PM
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Yeah this is a good one. Give them the excited "we should hangout and get to know each other more" line too. Idk if that constitutes as flirting but it would tell me instantly that you are interested in me more than just a friend. Playing with your hair or adjusting your outfit in front of him is more natural for females I think, so that's fine. But I don't know if all guys pick up on that. I think eye contact that says "I want you" is really important with smiling too. That's my advice from a m…
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:43 PM
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Just accept it and move on. It sucks, but I have ran into this more times than I can count. You need to also determine the value you have on your friendship and what matters more; being mature and dealing with those feelings effectively or finding a way to protect your mental and emotional health. Either way, good luck, it sucks a lot imo.
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:37 AM
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Word up.
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:04 PM
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"You look great baby, let me know if you want to go see a movie this weekend."
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:17 AM
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At least I know she's into me, yeah I say go for it.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:07 PM
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Maybe 2-5 times? I look pretty young for 33 so I looked even younger in years past. I have always had a hard time dating women my age or older. Younger women typically like me more.
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:24 PM
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Social circles are a very good way to get noticed by women. Don't distance yourself from your friends just because they are in relationships or married, etc.
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:46 AM
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Yeah, like I can't just be friends with certain ex girlfriends. It's like having a little creature inside my chest twisting my aortic valve whenever I see her.
/r/seduction29/12/21 11:51 PM
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I started going to business seminars when I was in my late teens and early to mid-twenties. Because I was often in situations where I needed to approach and speak to new people, my general fear of being judged went away. So I took that and got over my fear of rejection by just doing it. Be as confident and charming as possible. If I get a number and she texts/calls me back great. If not, keep it moving and try again. I rarely got feedback so you can never tell whether you're doing a good job or …
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:51 PM
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I have a naturally inquisitive personality, I assume the other person wants to hear about me and my day, I like to be goofy and random, and I am thoughtful and considerate. Women seem to know when you're being genuine about asking how their day is, good morning texts, etc. So my biggest piece of advice is to always be genuine.
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:18 AM
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Sounds like you had a great plan, the right kind of girl, and you were the right kind of guy. But not something easily replicated by anyone. Still pretty cool man, congrats hopefully it goes well.
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:44 AM
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"Continue being a nice guy, the right girl will come." - I have attracted lots of women with this quality, but it almost never seems to be the one I want. Regardless, I'm still attracting someone so it's working, which means it's successful.
/r/seduction05/09/21 03:12 AM
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I second that, thanks broski.
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:24 PM
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She's dragging you along as an option because you make her feel good, but not good enough. She probably doesn't think you are worth the investment to move forward with. I could be totally wrong, but this is what I think is going on.
/r/seduction31/08/21 08:33 PM
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Find out what his love languages are. And lean into those. Ask him if there's kinky stuff he's into (that you're willing to try).
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:54 AM
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Omg because you were too shy? Oh my fuckkkkkkk. What can I do about thatttttt. My brain is gonna implode and then explode. That's probably why this girl sat down next to me in an empty restaurant, talked to me for 15 min, gave me her # and then never texted me back!
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:38 PM
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There's also a difference between what a woman finds attractive in a man and what he needs to work on. And the two need to be understood and not mixed up, otherwise you will go insane trying to fix the process of meeting and identifying a good romantic partner.
/r/seduction04/06/21 06:42 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction29/01/21 03:56 AM
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Thank you for sharing. Encourages me to approach more women in public.
/r/seduction29/01/21 12:43 AM
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Bookmarked the fuck out of this Steve post. Thanks for sharing and GG STEVE.
/r/seduction25/01/21 05:57 PM
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Maybe I have a misunderstanding of it, but I have definitely heard it used in other contexts.
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:35 PM
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Commonly known these days in online rhetoric as "simps".
/r/seduction08/01/21 02:19 PM
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Thank you for sharing I'm guilty of some of these.
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:13 PM
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