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| 2 | Intelligence as aphrodisiacnp have fun man dont take every interaction with a female as a chance to hit on them but take a step back and think about it for a moment, have fun with the interaction, have fun with the experience that both you and the gal will be having in that moment. Enjoy the time and conversation. Trust me once you do, talking to them will be natural and they will want to talk to you and give you their number, because who wouldnt want to see a guy whom they can have fun with right? Make them feel, make th… | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | How to be a "cute" guy and seduce?personal experience thou don't try to ask people online, its actually really fun if you just start a conversation with a girl and ask them what turns them on. You'll realize to them the outside really doesnt matter as much as girl's looks to guys. Also a lot of times youll see something different. Just try to think critically about everything they say cuz somethings girls say some shit that doesn't make any sense, so take everything they say with a grain of salt then this whole seduction thing w… | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 06:28 AM |
| 1 | How to be a "cute" guy and seduce?one of my buddy is 5'4 so ya a lot of it comes down to confidence and not being a doormat seriously. | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Intelligence as aphrodisiacHave you ever heard of the saying that "the brain is the biggest erogenous zone". If you can stimulate a girl and make them think, make then feel like you understand them and you are listening then thats it. Although i personally think it is more than just saying something intelligent turns them on. It has to be something they understand and think is intelligent. For example, I work for NSA/CIA and talk about some crazy hacking technique, and the date has no idea what you are talking about then … | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How to be a "cute" guy and seduce?naw man my friends that are a bit on the smaller side gets just as much girls if not more... just make sure you are not like a fucking stick then youll be fine, if you are then go to gym and try not to be too much of a stick. Too much of anything is bad so just need to find that balance. Trust me, im the tall/bigger guy and i see my shorter friends get it more than you think | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Should I write her again vor drop her?I do the whole 2 txt thing then if no text within 2 days im moving on. UNLESS, you two seems really hitting it off with something concrete, such as she gets your sense of humor, shes into the same sort of stuff you are, or she has some quality that you dont see in other girls. If not then I wouldnt even give a second thought and just drop her. | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 06:17 AM |
| 1 | How to be a "cute" guy and seduce?oh and just so you know, "I always see how girls all want the big bad guy with a huge swinging Cock." Is not really true. Especially if you are in college. Babyface + cute will get you so fucking far its not even funny. Im assuming you are around that age | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 06:13 AM |
| 1 | How to be a "cute" guy and seduce?dont be an asshole like you are to him lol besides that make then laugh but not too much to the point you are a clown. Learn the boundaries. Learn to escalate. And learn to read cues. You already got the humor part down, now all you have to do is use that humor to flirt and put them into a mindset of being with you instead of just laugh with you. It's hard to describe, a lot of really comes down to how confident you are with yourself. Talk about stuff that you guys have in common always help. Be… | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | How to Find a Great GirlfriendYeah I'd definitely agree with that haha. Not so much on the eye fucking part lolz | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 01:02 AM |
| 7 | How to Find a Great Girlfriendis it me or is first bit of this article a bit trool... i quote "Eye Fuck Her"... | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 10:08 PM |
| 1 | I'll just hug you for now [slight rant]you know, it's really not that bad to be a virgin at 20. I have a bunch of friends who did not lose their virginity until they are 22 or 23. Now they are pulling more girls than I ever did. It really all comes down to being confident about yourself and be a decent human being. Girls can see that right away and if you are really well adjusted, they will come (pun intended). I would highly recommend you lose that mentality and start just having conversations with all kinds of people. Let it be old… | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 11:44 PM |
| 2 | I'll just hug you for now [slight rant]my best advice would be to simply do you. find yourself, find your hobby, find your real goal. After that the girls will come. Its counter intuitive I know, but it is one of the best advice I have ever gotten in my life. | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 02:33 AM |
| 1 | How to take advantage of being physically attractive (but still mentally weak)Quick tip, joke about yourself being fat and tell stories about it. It works really well if you need something to joke about, just be like "guess what, I used to be the chubby kid that you would totally make fun of" then play it off by saying "just make sure you get that cake away from me or else you'll never have a single slice" or something like that. I used to be skinny fat and I play off of it all the time. After making the girl laugh (hopefully genuinely), then you can start flirting. Studi… | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 11:25 PM |
| 5 | I'll just hug you for now [slight rant]It really seems like you were just trying to get in to their pants. I mean if you were a girl, would you want a guy who clearly wants nothing more than getting into your pants? From all of the "slight rant", it seems like that your only goal was to have sex with girls. That should never be your goal. like /u/Kenic_In_MD said your goal should always be having fun with them. Spend time with them, hang out with them without expectation. The more you tunnel vision onto having sex, losing your virgin… | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 11:18 PM |
| 76 | [UPDATE] Do guys appreciate girls asking them out?This is one of the most attractive quality a women can possess. This shows that you are capable of making your own decisions and be okay with the result. It is really intoxicating. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 04:02 PM |
| 2 | The girl is not the goal. The goal is to become a happy, driven, successful, self-assured man.This... If you are really looking to get more active with females then you probably should follow this post. Whenever I see anyone around me being successful with women, they are almost always goal oriented, a decent human being and treat others with respect. These are literally the most attractive qualities to women everywhere | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 10:36 PM |
| 2 | How to Date a Female Lawyerhow about just treat her like a human being and do what decent human being do on dates? I feel like this post is literally putting people into different containers such as you are on tinder so you must send dick pics to every girl. Lawyers are hardass/different type of animal. I don't know how I feel about this post but in my experience, if you are a decent human being and treat others with respect and have a clear goal there is never an issue with dating anybody. | /r/seduction | 24/05/17 10:32 PM |
| 1 | No pussy no cryHonestly it sounds like you are pretty introverted. Caring about nothing but gym and martial arts isn't something that screams hey I'm cool and fun. It kind of screams I'm a douche and please don't talk to me. From my understand of what the above comment means go out, have fun and find friends. Talk to people and be nice to them. Having the intent of making friends and have a good time instead of focusing on picking up girls. Once you have the ability to have fun with people, regardless of their… | /r/seduction | 17/05/17 08:50 PM |
| 8 | How has Mark Manson's "vulnerability" applied to your dating life?neither is an issue, girls would actually prefer to be approached genuinely. Just saying Hi my name is blank and I thought you were cute shows that you are comfortable with your own identity and can be yourself. It is attractive to girls. Many of my female friends agreed with this. I don't think what he meant from exercise your vulnerability is like go and tell them your issues. But from my understanding is that you should not be afraid to be brutally honest when you are communicating with each … | /r/seduction | 09/05/17 05:45 PM |
| 2 | How can you get past the shit-test of I have a boyfriend or I'm not looking for anything right now?its a rejection. move along dude | /r/seduction | 27/03/17 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl very open in person, but extremely cold when texting. WTF?I hate that shit test, lose all interest after any girl says that to me. However, if your approach is right, there is usually no reason for them to say that to you. Maybe that's just me, iirc I have only gotten that when I was having a shitty day or not feeling my 100% that day. Prob 1-2 times in the past 5 years. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Girl very open in person, but extremely cold when texting. WTF?it really sounds like she is just not really that interested. Cant say for sure because no baseline lol | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl very open in person, but extremely cold when texting. WTF?her behavior is pretty typical. Is she kind of passive aggressive normally too? | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Why is weakness, insecurity, or neediness such a turnoff to women?A healthy balance of both mental and physical strength is needed in attraction. Neediness/insecurity signifies problems and baggage. Women do not want to deal with them unless they are emotionally invested in you. This is because everyone has their own issues to deal with. You don't have to a complete Alpha but as long as you know and own your core value/true self then you are good to go. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Characteristics of an ideal wingmanHonestly, it is really how well you synergize with your wingman. If you are confident in who you are, able to talk to the girl and be of genuine interest, there should be no problem. Just two weeks ago, I set up my buddy with a girl by just walking up to her and asking if she and her friend wants to play a game of pool for a drink. My buddy is quite a bit chubbier than me, is a lot more introverted than me and I am taller and "more attractive looking". He was able to get her number, go on dates … | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Girl very open in person, but extremely cold when texting. WTF?"(I can tell by her fb that she has bf)" if she has a bf why are you still pursuing? There are plenty of fishes in the sea, don't be that one guy that ruins relationships. Also, if she does decide to go with you, why would you want to? If she is willing to cheat then there is no point for you. Another thing, if she is acting like that, then more reason for you to move on. Personally, I would never waste my time on any flakes, unless they have legitimate excuses or is willing to make up for it af… | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 06:18 PM |
| 8 | Girl I approached knew who I was...If you say you have changed, then you should give it a shot anyway. Maybe You'll change her view of you. In my opinion, it's actually better to have her on guard, means when if you can get through that wall, you can get through anything. Give it a shot, and don't take everything too hard. If it works out, great. If not learn from what you did wrong and grow from it. | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 04:25 PM |
| 1 | [Update] Girls playing hard to get - what should I do?Hey man, I think the most important thing is "HOW DO YOU FEEL" If you feel like it is worth it to pursue then do it. If not then just enjoy your time with her as a friend. I still think you could get at her if you want simply because she wouldn't invited you over and go to your bed like that at night. Personally I'd just lean in when you guys are in a good conversation, put your finger to her lips like shh, then say "stop" and look into her eyes and lean in and kiss her. But hey its you, and you… | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | [Update] Girls playing hard to get - what should I do?Dude just make your move and get on with it. She obviously likes you otherwise shouldn't won't invite you over and go to your bed. She tells you about other advances from guys to make sure that you won't be awkward. Just go with the flow and make your move. Lastly, make sure you are not outcome dependent. Just do you and make your move if you like her. | /r/seduction | 30/12/16 11:29 PM |
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