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whatever her interests are.
/r/seduction05/07/16 11:02 AM
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I think the answer to this goes back to our genetic history anthro-style. Men see a promiscuous woman and they realize they wont be able to identify their offspring. Men's psychosis tells him to not waste his time raising a child that isn't his genetic line.
/r/seduction14/06/16 10:20 AM
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whining
/r/seduction13/06/16 07:46 AM
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Sign up for things.. sports, dance lessons, game nights, social events of any kind really. Then show up ready to meet new girls.
/r/seduction30/05/16 10:26 AM
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Sounds like a flake.. Or that she likes you "kind of".. but doesn't want to lead you on.
/r/seduction30/01/16 03:45 PM
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play an ice breaker game
/r/seduction14/01/16 10:42 AM
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do you prefer blinds or drapes?
/r/seduction29/05/15 03:07 PM
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I just ask them questions about themselves.
/r/seduction29/05/15 02:24 PM
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sure yeah. but don't make it the only way you can communicate. you have to follow it up with what actually is your style. there must be some compromise. but i can understand her need to know even just a little bit about you before going on a date.
/r/seduction09/05/15 10:40 AM
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simple answer: absolutely. more complicated answer: not if she is already dedicated and dating another man. your job then is to wait and treat her well as someone who care about her well being would. if she is being treated terribly, you are still there to be a friend only, not sneak.
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:04 AM
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the odds are good. but the goods are odd.
/r/seduction08/09/14 04:09 AM
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go away. then come back with how you've decided to become. they will assume it's because you've been away.
/r/seduction12/08/14 02:44 PM
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i think it's different for every single girl... but from my perspective, write honest hello texts that show you are genuinely interested in how she's doing. but don't get carried away. you don't want your physical relationship to turn into a texting one. you're just checking in. you prefer to see her in person still, i assume.
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:51 AM
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We want "real" sometimes. That might mean talking about something she can relate to. Sounds like you found something she can sympathize with, bringing you closer as human beings, and possible lovers.
/r/seduction13/05/14 12:18 PM
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Gotta play their game man. They sound like theatre women. They wanted a pet. But in actuality, they wanted someone who was willing to play along. You should have tried. But I like your beer choice. You could have always offered to get an appetizer to share.
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:02 PM
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singing lessons? are those expensive? i've been thinking about doing that since i can sing damn good but need professional advice.
/r/seduction08/04/14 12:59 PM
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haha. yeah, that sounds about right. porn made real life less interesting to me. now i have to get really creative if i'm gonna get anywhere.
/r/seduction08/04/14 12:58 PM
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Hello. I am a female. I scan this subreddit because I find it helpful for advice that can go both ways. I finally "got some" for the first time as a 32 year old. I am similar to you in that I've been told I'm attractive, am fit, slim, smart... and have had the opposite sex pursuing me. But I am shy and old fashioned in certain ways. I found it was best to find someone for my first time who was already experienced, and wouldn't mind unexpected surprises. You could remind your girl that she might …
/r/seduction08/04/14 12:56 PM
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Well, I get told I'm weird all the time. Doesn't effect the action I get too much. It's just who I am. Might even make me more interesting.
/r/seduction09/02/14 05:33 AM
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did you read it? he said Don't fuck her for a month.
/r/seduction30/12/13 08:56 PM
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Well, things can change between us. So it's agreed for now that we won't date each other. That's why I'm wondering about reworking the terms. Or if I should wait it out. Cause I don't understand the feelings I'm suddenly having.
/r/seduction30/12/13 10:38 AM
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wow. interesting point your friend made though. things aren't always gonna work. but if what you're feeling is real, then taking a chance should be an option.
/r/seduction30/12/13 12:30 AM
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tricky tricky
/r/seduction30/12/13 12:29 AM
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I guess girls finally feel comfortable admitting it now that they've seen ALL of you.
/r/seduction30/12/13 12:28 AM
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ok. i see this. even thought about bringing it up... since we often talk about our lives in detail. what I wanna start with is, "wtf!.." but that might not be awesome.
/r/seduction30/12/13 12:28 AM
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eek. hmf. ugh.
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:29 PM
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it really helps to get perspective though. so in some ways, i need to figure it out on my own. but if i get stuck in my own head, i might be blind to the truth and get wrapped up in things that aren't important. the feelings i have are... i guess i just want us to be together when i'm having a good time. i wanna share my experiences. i like it when we comfort each other during hard times. these are all "friend" things though. the attraction or the "fun" that comes with getting intimate is a bonu…
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:28 PM
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you are speaking from my soul... this is exactly what i'm afraid of. your last piece of advice is good. if i still am confused a month from now, i might try this approach. jeeze you guys are smart on this subreddit
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:24 PM
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what a WILD theory! But thinking back.. this kinda makes sense. However, since it's opposite from every other idea i've heard, I'm still quite weary. I will take this into consideration and test it though. Gotta work out the science.
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:21 PM
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Ok thank you. That's good advice. When you say, "take some time", do you mean away? Or just, wait a while to think about it?
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:16 PM
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never leave it! follow up!
/r/seduction11/12/13 03:44 PM
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Haha... good one.
/r/seduction11/10/13 12:18 PM
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not a bad suggestion. good luck.
/r/seduction19/07/13 02:33 PM
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an english accent? are you american? how could you have made this mistake.. .though I find that quite interesting. it can work both ways though, in your favor and not in your favor if people think you're a poser. i had a brazilian friend with a thick australian accent because of where he learned english and most found it quite HOT. I like the idea of you and your friend forcing conversations with girls on chance. cool idea. Definitely a motivator.
/r/seduction19/07/13 05:43 AM
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while texting? hm. you better be cute and clever about it. kinda like a cat and mouse thing.
/r/seduction19/07/13 05:32 AM
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good point. no regrets.
/r/seduction09/07/13 07:40 AM
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that is a tragic story. if only you had tried to kiss her early on to discover it wouldn't work. the crush may have ended early. then again, what if you had chemistry then and not now........... does chemistry have a time limit? ooooh.
/r/seduction08/07/13 02:54 PM
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dammit. i've had so many guys try to cheat on their girls with me. it's just unbelievable. only one i gave in on. cause i admittedly was desperately in need and he was good "with his hands". i felt so bad after i couldn't get over it.
/r/seduction08/07/13 11:14 AM
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damn straight. but based on your story, i might give it one more shot. then just leave it alone.
/r/seduction08/07/13 02:01 AM
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or regrettable
/r/seduction08/07/13 02:00 AM
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hm. you have a good point. if you know how to touch someone, this can make one feel the desirable sensations we're talking about. if i worked at it, I suppose I could make him feel amazing, and I would have to teach him to make me feel amazing. i'm wondering if this is worth the try. it's not like we're dying to be together in that way. we just really like each other's company and are compatible in many other ways.
/r/seduction07/07/13 08:52 AM
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agreed
/r/seduction07/07/13 08:50 AM
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I guess it seems like it should work because we both really like each other. But I've felt what it's like to kiss someone with SPARK. It's quite amazing, instantaneous, and is totally unpredictable who it's gonna be. It just seems strange to me that chemistry can make such a difference. Does anyone have any science documentation on this? I find it fascinating. but you're right. i probably won't seek to continue things past friendship.
/r/seduction07/07/13 06:49 AM
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A CHALLENGE!!!
/r/seduction09/06/13 11:24 AM
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i don't give men what they want if i know they look hot. but sometimes i just gotta admire and let them know what i think. it's a tough line.
/r/seduction08/06/13 09:49 AM
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I think i just went through this entire list within the last 3 days.
/r/seduction08/06/13 09:26 AM
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If love were my primary concern, that is exactly what I would do. But my job takes precedence. This may have always been a contributing factor.
/r/seduction02/06/13 09:42 PM
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ok. i'll have to think on this. gotta find something new outside of my comfort zone. EEK
/r/seduction25/05/13 12:52 PM
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Thank you so much for your advice. I put a profile on online dating and realized how ridiculous that seemed since it's so easy for me to meet people. But seriously though, I am known for knowing "everyone" in this town. It's hard to find newbies. I might have to ditch my friends and attend some new activity to get over this. That can be quite hard for two reasons, I already do so MUCH! The second reason is, I show up to something new only to discover I already know half the people. And those hal…
/r/seduction25/05/13 12:21 PM
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yes. i read the instructions and it said though this site is tailored towards men, i can post as a woman for advice.
/r/seduction25/05/13 07:56 AM
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thats a pretty good article. i can think of many personal examples where this reigns true
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:51 AM
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it's hard understand why i do what i do around men. i at least try to be as honest as i can.
/r/seduction12/05/13 03:26 PM
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I guess you make a good point. If prior communication had been provocative or a quick fling, I would want the first text to be just that or I would wonder what he's getting at. If it's an old friend that I always considered getting with but never did, I would want the first message to simply show interest. I can then decide how much interest I'd like to show back. This is perhaps a bad approach for men. Give me too much time to think and I'm gone. At times, flirtatious expectations can turn me o…
/r/seduction12/05/13 09:35 AM
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the unknown is, yes. i can usually tell right away what a guy is looking for if after 3 months and a breakup if he instead writes, "Hi JP. Wanna hang out this weekend?"
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:32 AM
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makes me wonder why he's contacting me. it's polite. from it, i can't tell if he wants to start something up again, he's obviously been thinking about me, but i can't tell how much. it's safe to respond. he could want to hang out again alone, or with friends but you wont' know until the conversation continues.
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:21 AM
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I am a gal. I'd like something intriguing like... "hi JP! long time no chat. how are things?" it's a great starter. If there's a response you can judge whether she is interested in rekindling anything or wants to meet up.
/r/seduction12/05/13 07:40 AM
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I personally like the last paragraph of advice. thank you for spreading the word.
/r/seduction12/05/13 07:29 AM
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depends. if you're a girl, then yes. guys get intimidated.
/r/seduction10/05/13 10:16 AM
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hm. when i read that first lord of the rings book and they talked about how you tried to hold your gaze against that elf queen lady... my eyes were struggling just reading that part. hahah. my dog is so intelligent i have a hard time staring him down, but we do play staring contests all the time. I'm usually the one breaking but lately I've been ahead.
/r/seduction24/12/12 05:13 AM
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Admittedly, during an acting class our instructor told us to walk the room and make eye contact with everyone we passed. By the end of it I was so scarred I couldn't look above the ground, had to stare by my feet and had to cover my eyes for the next 45 minutes. I don't know what it is about eyes.
/r/seduction23/12/12 04:41 PM
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I can't!!! Eye contact is so hard. Ok, what if I'm wearing sun glasses... does that count?
/r/seduction23/12/12 01:29 PM
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I guess turning it into a joke is a good idea. You could say, "I could settle down with someone like you".. bla bla
/r/seduction14/12/12 09:32 AM
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girl here. not true. 79% true though
/r/seduction01/12/12 03:53 PM
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