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Why can’t they just use paternity tests to hold the actual father responsible for providing for the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:22 PM
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Why is it illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:05 PM
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No. That’s a fact. Stating verifiable facts in reference to peer-reviewed data is not. Interpreting that data in a distorted, misogynistic way is not supported. People make choices based on incentives. Research has shown that men get more QOL benefit from marriage than women do. And if you think women are incentivized financially, then go marry a woman with equal or more income/assets than you and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 05:34 PM
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Lol. Friendzoning is not shaming, dude. It just means we aren’t romantically or sexually interested but would like to be friends. This is generally due to a lack of physical attraction or perceived romantic incompatibility. It shouldn’t be taken as shaming or even insulting when someone wants to be your friend. As for moving from friendship to relationship, I personally do not like to feel like my male friends who I thought were just genuine friends are actually just waiting to fuck me. I do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 02:41 PM
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Anything that stereotypes women in a negative, sexist way is misogynistic, yes. I know that’s a difficult concept for you trpers to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 02:08 PM
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Plenty of men want commitment and plenty of women want to date around. But redpillers shame and degrade the women who choose to date around for fun in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 10:37 AM
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Nothing is wrong with learning how to pick up girls. One big reason you see older men with younger women, actually, is those older men have better game. The older men are doing a better job making women feel valued, which imo is what we want. TRP isn’t exactly teaching that. They teach misogyny, manipulation, deceit - all things that worsen dating for everyone on a systemic level. Consider that every woman damaged by some TRP Asshole stays off the dating market for 2-3 years. During that time, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 09:57 AM
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I never rejected anyone. Literally no one ever tried asking me out directly for almost 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 06:12 PM
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I think men need to be more aggressive and gentlemanly. I was attractive enough to get model scouted in my 20s. But I went 11 months without sex when I was 24-25 - arguably the most attractive year of my life, and it was not “voluntary.” I was 5’8”, 110, 30D-22-35. For people who think that is too skinny, it isn’t as skinny as most models so stfu. As soon as I got on Tinder, I matched with every guy I right-swiped. I was “involuntarily celibate” because I literally just didn’t know how to get la…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 04:04 PM
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I would think the married people would be having the most sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 03:55 PM
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It is easy to have a one night stand. It is hard to maintain a casual relationship, Difficulty level works in this order: One night stand<dating/relationship<fwbs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:21 AM
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Im not asking for a solution for my problem, as it is easy enough to just get laid infrequently and with new partners, though this is obviously not ideal. The long term solution, obviously, is to just date more seriously. However, historically, I have spent a lot of my life not wanting to get very emotionally involved, which I think is a common phase many people go through. I will start dating seriously after I move since I have finally resolved issues with my ex. However, that doesn’t change th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:20 AM
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I am extremely direct. Guys will always say things like, “I don’t want to hook up anymore bc I don’t want a relationship right now.” (When I have explicitly said I am not looking for a relationship, though I’m often open to that possibility). “I don’t want to hook up anymore because I’m too busy.” “I don’t want to hook up anymore bc you get too emotional” (my feelings are not their business and they don’t know what I feel! Wtf?). “I don’t want to hook up anymore because you’re moving soon.” Once…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:30 AM
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Then why is it so hard for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:48 PM
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I dunno who tf these women are who apparently have no sex drive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:37 PM
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You should try it. It’s super hard and much harder than maintaining a regular dating relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 07:45 PM
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It doesn’t lead to loss of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 06:01 PM
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Yes. I’m not looking for a relationship ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 06:00 PM
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How frequent? Maybe I’m going for too high a frequency or maybe I’m spending too much time with them. It’s actually hard for me to actually bang two guys at once. It seems like even guys I’m just tryna bang will ask and get upset. I’ve been told “you have no feelings” “you’re a horrible person” “you’re an emotionally out of touch bitch” “you’re emotionally oblivious” “you’re selfish” I also get, “we shouldn’t hook up anymore bc I don’t want a relationship with anyone rn,” or “... bc I don’t want…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:52 PM
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I dated a guy for 4 months who I feel like was basically just using me for sex. I broke up with him. He apologized so I took him back. He was just trying to get as much sex out of me as possible until he found someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:38 PM
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I started becoming attractive at age 12/13. I got model scouted just after my 13th birthday. But I didn’t get my period until I was 15. And women are at higher risk for maternal mortality until a few years after menarche.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:28 PM
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I’m realizing this. I think a one night stand doesn’t really require explaining. But once you make it a regular thing, it definitely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:10 PM
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Stop telling women what defines us. Feminism fights so that women can define ourselves. Feminism is about giving women freedom of choice to be who we want to be. That means we can choose to be as masculine or as feminine as we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:45 AM
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I disagree. I think good relationships are easy. If it’s difficult, prob not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:05 AM
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Dafuq? I put a shit ton of effort into trying to get laid while avoiding relationships. It’s a constant struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:04 AM
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Do you have the link to that thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:18 AM
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You say “she had gotten no indication of commitment or even affection.” So? That doesn’t mean we don’t expect someone to call us after we fuck them. At the very least, we hope to keep getting fucked. Also, maybe the women are perceiving affection even when the men think it is “clear.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:17 AM
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I am also as direct as your example with guys I friend zone, if I think they have a romantic interest in me. If I have no reason to suspect romantic intentions, obviously I don’t say that. I have a lot of guy friends who are just guy friends, with no prior sexual or romantic interest ever expressed. i have guy friends I’ve friend zoned and I have guy friends who friend zoned me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:15 AM
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Men who have sex with women they aren’t into without first clarifying their intentions are only to have casual sex are not being direct and honest. I, a woman, am always direct and honest. Whenever I have negotiated a casual sex arrangement with a man I am not romantically interested in, I tell him that upfront so he can protect his feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:12 AM
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Wtf? Women can’t read minds and know when guys are “pumping and dumping.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:10 AM
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If I’m casually hooking up with a guy I’m not into, I explain that upfront so that he can protect his feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:09 AM
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I think both men and women should be honest about their intentions so as to avoid hurting others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:08 AM
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No it actually is not that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:57 AM
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I like competent leaders. If men are leaders at work and with other people, that’s obviously cool. And if they want to give me respectful advice, that’s nice. But if someone starts trying to boss me around, that’s not something I tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:57 AM
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This is true for me in nearly all my relationships with men. The one exception was with the one ex who I now call “the asshole.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:54 AM
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Yeah I actually probably have had more trouble with men who can’t decide or men who pick bad places so I have to override their shitty decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:52 AM
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Yes and this is often just about being agreeable and easy-going. Studies have shown women are more agreeable than men, on average. But there are guys who are like this also. The only time it is a problem is when they say, “whatever you want” and then shoot down your suggestions. One strategy you can use with friends, but prob not so much with romantic interests, is to just say where you are going and invite them to come along. This is very efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:50 AM
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Your problem here imo was that you were an outsider. You weren’t a member of their squad so they probably would not let you lead them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:37 AM
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Yes. I’m very good at this. I just tell them where we are going and we go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:30 AM
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There’s a difference between wanting the man to help make decisions and wanting him to take charge completely
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:29 AM
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I leave men who try to take charge :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:26 AM
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If that’s all TRP were about, then it wouldn’t be written in a way that is so sexist and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:04 PM
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I agree. I posted about this as well. They need another place to go for dating advice. Dating/sex/romance is an important part of a woman’s life as well. Where can women go? I had an ex tell me I’m not good enough for anyone to want to date. Where could I have turned in the wake of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:03 PM
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Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:00 PM
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Lol that isn’t true. How tf do you think single women decide where to eat and drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:59 PM
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That isn’t true. I rarely get approached by men. I get hit about 2-6 times per year even though I’m supposed to be very attractive. I’m 5’8”, 110 lbs, 30D-23-35. I get told my body type is “most guys’ type” and that I look like a model. Women tell me I’m gorgeous. Men I have dated have said “prettiest I have ever met” “prettiest girl in room” “most beautiful girl in the world.” I realize I am now aging (31), but even when I was younger, I rarely got approached. If I want a guy to actually hit on…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:55 PM
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I thought TRP held that everything is the woman’s fault. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:47 PM
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I don’t! I accept most approaches! Most guys who approach me actually seem out of my league! Lol Even if the guy isn’t someone I’m attracted to, I almost always accept because I’m so rarely approached that I appreciate his initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:45 PM
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No. That is not correct in the US. It is slightly lower in some Asian countries and slightly higher elsewhere. Look it up. This also has nothing to do with being fat. In fact, very thin women usually have straighter bodies. Are you trolling me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:31 AM
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The ideal waist to hip ratio is supposed to be 0.7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:38 AM
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What does it stand for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 09:16 PM
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How can we give these men somewhere else to go for help with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 09:05 PM
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Pretty women actually most often get raped by men who are the ones punching above their weight classes. Guys with options don’t have a need to not respect women’s boundaries. And it is you MRAs who insist that these pretty women shouldn’t get to say no to sex if they are naked.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 09:30 AM
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Actually these are the numbers regarding male and female sexual experience: 65% of straight women orgasm during sexual encounters 95% of straight men orgasm during sexual encounters Studies have shown, especially in casual sex encounters, that men do not feel responsible for making the woman orgasm, but women do feel responsible for making the man orgasm. It would be much more fair to say society is peculiarly and singularly obsessed with maximising the male sexual experience. It is notable that…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 09:20 AM
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“Victim points” are not a thing. No one wants to be a victim. That is degrading and humiliating pretty much by definition.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 09:17 AM
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This is all wrong. If you give gifts of attention, jokes, flirting, she will stick around for more, OBVIOUSLY. When I first met my ex, I thought he was kind of a dork. After the first night we hooked up, I thought, “Oh gosh what was I thinking?” But I just kept going back because he made me laugh and he made me feel special. Now I don’t know how I could have ever thought anything negative about him because he was so great. He makes guys like the ones in this group look like pieces of shit. He wo…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:52 AM
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Women actually score higher on IQ tests now. The thing is, the men who are most “alpha” in society are the smart, successful leaders - founders, CEOs, etc, who are also tall and attractive. Almost none of those men believe this misogynistic horseshit. The 6’2”+ handsome, unicorn tech CEO actually has no trouble admitting his girlfriend is smarter than him. The 6’2”+ hedge fund manager has no issue calling his FWB and telling her she’s smarter than him and could easily be doing what he is if she …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:20 AM
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Wtf is NC and AWALT? None of you guys should be having a casual sex relationship with a woman you have to manipulate. Find someone who wants the same thing you want and be straightforward. But generally sex is better, for both men and women, when it is more than just a “booty call.” If she’s asking for something more after 2 months, that’s because she wants something more and doesn’t want you wasting her time and keeping her from other options. The way you should respond to that, ethically, is b…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:08 AM
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This is the most bizarre thing I’ve ever seen. Women - bottom? What does that mean? What the actual fuck? Women mostly orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris, especially the clitoral glans.
/r/MGTOW27/04/18 12:48 AM
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Bc you are condoning actual rape! Are you kidding?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 06:24 AM
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Do you believe you have a moral obligation to eat out every woman you hook up with? Do you have a moral obligation to give every woman you have sex with an orgasm?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 06:22 AM
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The guy doesn’t have to do anything for me either. No one should be forced to do anything they don’t want to do. Period
/r/MensRights26/04/18 06:21 AM
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In the video, no one said anything about people being able to take back consent after the event occurs. Again, that is completely illogical.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 06:16 AM
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That drunk 18 year old was fucking nuts obviously. No one thinks what she did was okay. That said, women do have the right to stop sex from happening. If I change my mind during sex, I have the right to tell my partner to stop, and it is not okay to force me at that point.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 06:13 AM
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Okay well this is obviously ridiculous.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 06:08 AM
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That’s what it looks like tbh. Pretty alarming this community even exists
/r/MensRights26/04/18 06:01 AM
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I DONT CHANGE MY BOUNDARIES
/r/MensRights26/04/18 04:01 AM
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The problem is men like you don’t even think it is rape!!
/r/MensRights26/04/18 03:19 AM
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What I am a feminist and that’s why my sexuality is fucking direct.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:27 AM
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Upsetting? Wtf? Regardless, if I say I DONT WANT SEX, that should be fucking clear
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:26 AM
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IF I SAY NO AND YOU AGREE TO NO SEX, then do not try to fuck me until I fucking tell you I changed my mind, you fucking moronic rapist asshole!
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:22 AM
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No YOU literally JUST SAID THAT I have a right to set boundaries for what is done to my body
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:11 AM
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That doesn’t matter. You should err on the side of caution to avoid raping people?! If you think no might mean yes, you could just tucking ASK
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:10 AM
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You know men actually pay to look at naked women. Men also pay to watch naked women do things to themselves. But you say if a woman gets naked for free, she should expect to get raped?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:08 AM
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Wtf are you saying?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:07 AM
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MEN DONT HAVE TO AGREE IF THEY DONT WANT ME TO TEASE THEM Men actually pay to see strippers in strip clubs. What is this about? But they’re going to complain if a woman wants to get naked for free and not fuck them? A woman who gets naked for free deserves to get raped? Maybe guys could see a lot more naked women if women didn’t have to fear rape so much.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:04 AM
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There are at least 10 men in this subreddit who are justifying rape and saying I don’t have a right to set boundaries. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eyu4h/comment/dxz9aql?st=JGFVUWUP&sh=2d08a982
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:02 AM
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That if I say no to sex, men should respect my boundaries, you idiot!!
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:01 AM
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What the fuck? IF I DONT WANT SEX, I TELL THEM I DONT WANT SEX. If they agree we will only fool around and not have sex, are you saying I should just not trust them and expect them to rape me? Because that is what these men are saying.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:58 AM
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But it is concerning and alarming how many rapists are in this group. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eyco8/why_do_you_guys_protest_when_feminists_say_1_in_5/dxz8xki/?context=3&st=JGFVJTA6&sh=d4bed825
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:56 AM
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Well that is not okay either. That is really fucked up.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:55 AM
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What? There have been tons of comments from MRAs saying women who get naked should expect to get raped even if they say no firmly and repeatedly. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eyco8/why_do_you_guys_protest_when_feminists_say_1_in_5/dxz8xki/?context=3&st=JGFVJTA6&sh=d4bed825
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:55 AM
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I am not an asshole if they AGREE to this. Also, I am often willing to give them handjobs. I just won’t want sex because that puts me at risk for stds. You guys shouldn’t expect women to do what they literally tell you they will not do!
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:52 AM
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Oh I see. That is fucked up. I’m really sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:51 AM
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Wtf? Have you been reading all the responses to my posts where men say that if a woman gets naked she should expect to be raped and if she says no that is sending “mixed signals”?!
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:51 AM
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I am not a troll. Do you honestly agree with this guy? https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eiszk/comment/dxz6i1h?st=JGFVA4KC&sh=ec2e5a10
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:46 AM
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So you are literally saying men can’t help but rape if they are turned on. If that is true, they shouldn’t agree to only finger a naked woman and not have sex with her.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:45 AM
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Wtf? How am I a troll? What am I saying that you disagree with? No means no. Do you honestly disagree with that? Do you agree with the other MRAs who think naked women have no right to deny men intercourse?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:41 AM
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Wtf? Just look at this thread please https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eiszk/im_a_feminist_that_got_banned_from_rfeminism/dxz7oeg/?context=3&st=JGFV1HQM&sh=cee46c00
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:40 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eiszk/im_a_feminist_that_got_banned_from_rfeminism/dxz7oeg/?context=3&st=JGFV1HQM&sh=cee46c00
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:39 AM
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Wtf are you talking about
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:38 AM
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Look at this thread please. There are others as well. I don’t know what you are talking about re feminists. Feminists say no means no. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eiszk/comment/dxz6i1h?st=JGFUUMVJ&sh=ec5e320f
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:35 AM
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Thank you. Please look at this thread. There are others as well. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eiszk/comment/dxz6i1h?st=JGFUUMVJ&sh=ec5e320f
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:34 AM
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If you knew anything about female sexuality, you would know that women can get off without penetration. Just fooling around is fun and risk free. And most guys appreciate the opportunity to play with a beautiful woman, even if there is not intercourse.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:33 AM
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Wtf? If men AGREE to only finger me and to not have sex with me, do you think I should just assume they are lying and are going to rape me? Bc that is what you are saying.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:32 AM
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It isn’t funny. A bunch of you are saying similar things. Notably they are saying a naked woman can’t say no to sex. They are saying that women don’t have a right to set boundaries at just fingering, etc. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eiszk/comment/dxz6i1h?st=JGFUN8AC&sh=cff7fd9a
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:29 AM
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No. The men in this group who insist they should be able to rape women who tell them no are the ones who need help.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:26 AM
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?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:25 AM
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No. Most women do not want to ignore them when they yell you no. To fuck a woman after she tells you no is rape.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:20 AM
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I do not. I’m trying to figure out how many MRAs are rapists. The answer is a lot
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:18 AM
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So you’re a rapist.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:12 AM
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That does not make penetrating me after I said no okay. If a woman says no, firmly and repeatedly, you should respect that. Why would you want to risk raping someone, you idiot? Just respect that no means no.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:11 AM
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I just read it again. Clearly you are a rapist
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:10 AM
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So you are a rapist. Confirming stereotypes about MRAs
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:09 AM
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No it is not. Not if I say. “I do not want to have sex. I only want to fool around.” That is clear. That should be respected.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:02 AM
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Ignore biological factors? So are you saying that if men are hard, they can’t help but rape?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:01 AM
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No I’m calling out your bullshit
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:40 AM
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Saying no firmly and repeatedly is not a fucking mixed signal, you retard!
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:36 AM
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No. At least 15% of women have been raped. 7% of men self report that they are rapists, and that study didn’t even include cases like mine. If I say no, that does not mean try to sneak it in when my guard is down. Yet this has happened at least 5 times (a 6th time it was sort of borderline) and I’ve been told that’s my fault. If I say no, that means no. It doesn’t matter if I’m naked or if I’m wet. No means no. Consent to fingering is not consent to intercourse. No still means no.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:34 AM
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No feminists think women can change their mind after the fact! That doesn’t even make sense! You ate completely illogical!
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:32 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eiszk/im_a_feminist_that_got_banned_from_rfeminism/dxz1kt5/?context=3&st=JGFSH7NI&sh=89af1f2c
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:30 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8eiszk/im_a_feminist_that_got_banned_from_rfeminism/dxz1kt5/?context=3&st=JGFSH7NI&sh=89af1f2c
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:27 AM
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I do make it clear!!! I set clear boundaries!
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:27 AM
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Also just bc you are aroused doesn’t give you the right to rape
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:24 AM
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I don’t really agree with the enthusiastic consent standard. While it is certainly something to aim for, a lack of it can’t be assumed to imply there wasn’t consent. If people don’t want sex, they need to be assertive about that. Why weren’t you able to stop it after you said no? I don’t understand how that’s physically possible.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:23 AM
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I’m not lying. I posted this in response to comments from guys in this group that upset me. If you don’t believe this, then just say you don’t. Do you think women have a right to say no to sex even if they are naked? Yes or no?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:19 AM
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I explained that almost none of the surgeons doing these surgeries know the anatomy involved. Most of them have not been trained to do them. That is the problem. It makes them much more unsafe than they need to be. This blatant disregard for surgical anatomy is unique to vulvas.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:18 AM
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He said he was qualified to do it. My dad, a plastic surgeon, also talked to him and to his colleagues. Do you trust doctors who say they are qualified? What do you do to check surgeons’ credentials?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:17 AM
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I did not consent for someone with no training or knowledge of the anatomy to do my surgery. The surgery done was not at all what I consented to. If a woman consents to a breast reduction, is it okay to completely remove her breasts and her nipples too? No, it isn’t.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:16 AM
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No I’m saying if I say no, no one should be penetrating me without my consent. Period. It doesn’t matter how hot and heavy it gets. I still have the right to say no.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:13 AM
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Guys in this group who are just really making me mad. I have been really understanding with the guys who technically raped me and I did not press changes. But it is upsetting to me when people defend this behavior. I should be able to set boundaries for what I want done to my body. Period. No means no. It’s not hard
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:09 AM
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Maybe these “victims” were men who did not respect that no meant no.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:06 AM
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What? I posted this in response to men in this group saying that if I’m naked, men can’t possibly be expected to understand that no means no.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:04 AM
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There were no crosse singles. Saying no firmly and repeatedly should be enough to get through to you fucking idiots!
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:03 AM
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Are you retarded? Do you know nothing about female anatomy at all?
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:02 AM
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I never said that. Learn to read
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:58 PM
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I’m not attracted to women, you idiot! Believe it or not, there are plenty of good men out there who are feminists and not rapey like you
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:58 PM
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Men don’t have to agree to just finger me. They can walk away, you idiot! Obviously I have sex with the ones I like eventually but I cannot fuck everyone. I already fuck way too many guys. Fooling around is a way to have fun and avoid STD risks. I get very afraid of cervical cancer, as 25% of men have high risk HPV. Aren’t you guys the ones complaining about women being sluts and giving it away too easily?
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:57 PM
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NO MEANS NO YOU FUCKING MORON this is EXACTLY why women’s reports should be taken seriously and men like you should have to face consequences
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:55 PM
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The only reason this would keep happening is because a lot of men are rapists. So now you are telling me to expect men to be rapists. I hope you realize you are contradicting yourself.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:54 PM
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Also you were the one who literally defended rape if the woman is naked.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:53 PM
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Dildos do not feel as good as real penises
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:52 PM
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I never said all men are rapists. According to self-reporting studies, 7% of men are rapists. Given the definition of rape was narrow, I’d guess even more think “no” means “sneak it in when her guard is down.” In my sample, it’s about 5%, but I hook up with well educated, successful, handsome, tall guys who are not sexist and would seem to be low risk.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:50 PM
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I never said male circumcision was harmless you fucking idiot
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:48 PM
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I didn’t ask to have my labia minora completely removed or my clitoris completely denervated, you moron. Surgeries should not be done without knowledge and consideration of the anatomy. Surgeons should not be doing surgeries they are not trained to do on anatomy they do not know. Also, for consent to be valid, it must be informed. When doctors are regularly misrepresenting training and risks to patients, there is no informed consent. Get it? If you consent to a nose job, does that mean you’re co…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:46 PM
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What claims do you need evidence for? I’m not here to debate. I’m on Reddit to get support for my medium article.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:43 PM
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No, asshole. I have a right to set boundaries when I want. I tell them I will fool around but I do not want to have sex. That is my right you fucking rapist imbecile. Consent to touching is not consent to intercourse, retard. No still means no. I can even, and you might have trouble with this one, say, “Hey I don’t want to have sex, but you can finger me.” The fact that men cannot understand that “no” means “no” is their issue. Since rape culture is so fucking pervasive among you morons, I will …
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:39 PM
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I never said averages were the same, you idiot. Learn to read. I’m not engaging with your bullshit anymore
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:37 PM
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Ugh GOOGLE IT
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:36 PM
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The whole exterior package is the VULVA. The vagina is only the cavity, you moron. Doctors do cut up vulvas. Do your fucking research
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:35 PM
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I mean trans people can do their thing. I have no problem with them. And I’ll date a FtM trans man if he is 6’2”+ and has a big dick. Oh wait ...
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:34 PM
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I never said innocent men don’t deserve protection under the law. Rape is extremely common!! Wtf
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:33 PM
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I do care. I’ll look at it later I guess. It matters what they are counting as violence
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:32 PM
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Yes does not mean no, Asshole. Fuck you.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:30 PM
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Okay I will look at that article later but it does not seem believable at all. They are probably just calling incidents that can’t be proven “false.” At some point when I am constantly having men penetrate me without my consent, it is hard to take this seriously. Based on my personal history, I am inclined to believe women because so many men are rapists and it’s annoying af.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:28 PM
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Men actually lie more often than women, at least in business negotiations.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:25 PM
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The numbers matter because false accusations are extremely rare, like I said. If rape were not so common in the first place, false accusations would not be so believable. Maybe consider that.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:24 PM
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Sorry I am not particularly knowledgeable about parental rights on either side. This is not an interest of mine. Parents should have equal rights to children regardless of gender. I don’t know what can be done to fix it.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:23 PM
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Masculine women are still women. Feminine men are still men. That’s what makes sense to me. Just because I have a vagina doesn’t mean I have to be feminine. But not being feminine doesn’t mean I’m not a woman.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:20 PM
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Okay, then they should stop calling them vaginas, stop promoting an ideal of invisible genitalia, and stop cutting them up.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:14 PM
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Also, if things are so equal, explain this: https://medium.com/@jessica86/ob-gyns-dont-learn-the-nerves-and-vasculature-of-the-clitoris-ccc56e55ac90?source=linkShare-437fc91ea47b-1524697697
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:08 PM
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Well you pissed me off with your unbelievably sexist comments. So enjoy my “crazy” rants. 🙄
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:06 PM
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Why would your brother marry a POS woman? At some point, the people you choose to date are your choice. How can you get all the way into a marriage with a POS? Doesn’t make sense.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:05 PM
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Wait are you saying women have physically attacked you? Why would they do that? Maybe you were trying to rape them lol.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:04 PM
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Maybe killallmen comes from the fact that we hate men like you who want women to be dependent on men for resources and think women sacrificing sexual desires for resources is any way to live. Fuck you.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:55 PM
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The medical literature STILL presents women as asexual.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:51 PM
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What generation are you? How old are you?
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:45 PM
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So you are saying there was too much stigma to study female genitals but not too much to cut them off? Def not too much to study genitals and try to say there is a correlation between masturbating and morphology and to cut them off if they looked a certain way?
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:43 PM
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Oh I didn’t know oral cancer caused by hpv was so common
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:39 PM
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Where does it say women are more violent? Quote the text or send me a screenshot somehow
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:53 PM
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A few isolated examples do not demonstrate that false accusations are common,
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:52 PM
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Literally every claim I made is supported by academic research. Your disagreement does not make it untrue. Whether false accusations are common or not (they aren’t according to research), at least 15% of women have been forcibly raped (excluding numbers for alcohol and drug related rapes since you guys complain about those) and 7% of men self report that they are rapists. Most of those 7% are repeat offenders. I personally have been technically raped 5-7 times (depending on how strict your defin…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:36 PM
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Women are much less likely to re-offend, yes. There should be more STEM opportunities for girls. In my generation, women were discouraged from STEM related activities and interests starting at a young age, girls schools didn’t have good math and science programs, stereotypes about girls being bad at math were still common. In engineering school, I dealt with a lot of sexism and prejudice from both classmates and professors. If you are a pretty woman especially, people automatically assume you ar…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:34 PM
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Okay but it’s not just about hysteria. Men have done a lot to deny, suppress (even through surgery) and ignore female sexuality and anatomy. Why are men so invested in pretending vulvas don’t exist? Explain that to me please.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:29 PM
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Have you personally suffered any injustices due to the inequalities you describe?
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:27 PM
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I disagree with you on the pay gap and there are definitely systemic factors that hold women back and this has been demonstrated time and time again. You can read all about it in Forbes and HBR.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:26 PM
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This is a reason for feminism. https://medium.com/@jessica86/ob-gyns-dont-learn-the-nerves-and-vasculature-of-the-clitoris-ccc56e55ac90?source=linkShare-437fc91ea47b-1524680512 I’d also encourage you to read this article I found yesterday, which I think explains why we still need feminism. https://medium.com/@dinachka82/about-your-poem-1f26a7585a6f?source=linkShare-437fc91ea47b-1524680581 The way you write is very difficult to read, due largely to very long paragraphs.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:23 PM
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killallmen was a joke, made in poor taste, meant to make fun of men who think feminists hate men
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:20 PM
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Yeah I think that it is for the best to have equality everywhere so that includes in the criminal justice system and in courts. However, when it comes to the criminal justice system, it is tricky because as far as costs of controlling crime within a society, it doesn’t make sense to spend a lot of money imprisoning people with a very low chance of repeat offending I don’t think women are advocating for advantages where they already have them
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:18 PM
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Can you send a link to the original research cited in the Harvard article? Just because an article says men are violent, that doesn’t mean it was conducted by feminists. For example, you MRAs constantly say that rape statistics come from feminists. But the main researchers of rape proclivity in men and self-reported raping are MEN who do not identify as feminists, as far as I am aware.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 04:47 PM
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You actually have not provided any research that confirms that whatsoever. You (or someone else?) posted the NIH study. It does not say that, I asked you specifically to quote data from that study that supports your contention, and you could not.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 04:46 PM
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That is completely ridiculous. There is no evidence to indicate women are equally violent.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 04:31 PM
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Okay, that doesn’t mean that medicine isn’t still extremely male dominated. Like 80% of doctors are men. More women drop out of medicine it don’t work full time so male domination in medicine isn’t exactly at risk. God forbid any medical profession have more women in it, even when that has been shown best for patients.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 04:11 PM
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I’m confused. Previously, the problem was that women were financially dependent on men. Women also did not used to have any rights to their children. What stops men from leaving abusive women? Men are generally not resource-dependent, so why would they have to go to a homeless shelter instead of a friend’s place or hotel? Does men reporting domestic violence really lead to them getting arrested? Unfortunately, statistics show that children fare best when women have more control and power in soci…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 04:07 PM
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Again, 90% of homicides are committed by men. How do you explain that if women are equally violent?
/r/MensRights25/04/18 04:02 PM
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No. I read the NIH study that was posted here. I have read it in the past as well. It does not support that women initiate a majority of the time. Most research on domestic violence isn’t even conducted by feminists, as in this case.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 04:01 PM
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Empathizing with why people are assholes can be fundamental to dealing with them.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 03:59 PM
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Do they say those things in the feminism group on here? That is so dumb. I can’t believe they would allow that but ban me. I don’t even know what they banned me for! I think they banned me for this, which is a real problem that leads to harming women. So they realky should care about it. https://medium.com/@jessica86/ob-gyns-dont-learn-the-nerves-and-vasculature-of-the-clitoris-ccc56e55ac90?source=linkShare-437fc91ea47b-1524670245 But no, I do not feel responsible for what other feminists do. Al…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 03:50 PM
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Women actually have sex for the same reason men do. The top 3 reasons are identical. Men arguably have sex more for reasons like resources and revenge than women do, according to quantitative research. https://medium.com/@jessica86/getting-past-the-bullshit-about-female-sexuality-4642b2f6d5c5?source=linkShare-437fc91ea47b-1524670047
/r/MensRights25/04/18 03:28 PM
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It sounds like she must have struggled with inequality and sexism from men in her life, and now she is unfairly taking it out on you. You do not deserve that. I think maybe you could confront her about it. Maybe point out that you do respect women and believe in equality, but that it doesn’t seem like she is treating you equally. Maybe give some examples and asks if she really believes what she did was fair. Personally, I am a feminist, and I do generally believe if people aren’t feminist, they …
/r/MensRights25/04/18 09:05 AM
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Hmm I am unaware of that pattern but it is an interesting take.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:23 AM
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I am a feminist. But I got banned anyway lol. And I’m talking to other female feminists and female egalitarians (essentially same beliefs) now who also got banned.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:15 AM
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That’s a good policy. I don’t really see the point in banning. Individuals within groups can always choose to block people if they don’t want to see their posts. It also seems ridiculous to ban women trying to talk about feminist issues from a feminist group. I was told in r/askwomen that they ban a lot of people, which seems counterproductive. But they actually said one of the mods for the feminism group is an MRA.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 05:56 AM
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Wait why do you believe you have no power? You think MRAs are more disempowered than feminists? Have you personally suffered any of the injustices you listed besides getting circumcised? What brought you to this subreddit? Just curious. Also what are you doing to stop circumcision? I think you’d want to target the doctors doing them with studies that show they are harmful and also find ways to educate young parents. Maybe you could get to them through healthcare professionals somehow by getting …
/r/MensRights25/04/18 05:51 AM
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But also don’t you guys get mad at feminists for excluding men’s rights from their discussions of equality (but ftr they do consider men’s issues a lot too)? So why wouldn’t men’s rights activists also support women’s rights?
/r/MensRights25/04/18 05:28 AM
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Hey so ftr I agree that most men do genuinely care about women. I think most modern men especially respect women. I just tend to argue compulsively. I do think feminism still has a place. But I’ve never seen men as the enemy. It’s just culture to which both men and women contribute, and that takes a while to change. But it has changed and most things are pretty equal now. And I do get that there are inequalities that are unfair to men. Btw if you are on Medium, could you clap for my article? htt…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 05:24 AM
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I am a feminist. I just think the feminists in charge of the group Reddit must be heinous crunts.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 05:19 AM
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Hey so I appreciate that you and the other good men out there care about women’s bodies. If you are on Medium, want to clap for my article? https://medium.com/@jessica86/ob-gyns-dont-learn-the-nerves-and-vasculature-of-the-clitoris-ccc56e55ac90?source=linkShare-437fc91ea47b-1524633316
/r/MensRights25/04/18 05:18 AM
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I’m not asking for sympathy. I’m trying to get it changed. Surgeons should not be doing surgeries they are not trained to do on anatomy they do not know. Get it? Your own behavior is a testament to men’s lack of empathy
/r/MensRights25/04/18 02:03 AM
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I am looking at the NIH study. Where does it say that? You need to quote that exact portion of text.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 01:46 AM
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What? You never provided any data that indicates women initiate violence more. Stop talking about logic when you can’t even provide data. You are ridiculous.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 01:33 AM
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That doesn’t mean the woman instigated violence in the reciprocal cases!
/r/MensRights25/04/18 12:24 AM
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It never says that 80% of reciprocal violence is instigated by the woman, dude. Read more carefully. This is ridiculous. If it says that, take a screenshot of where and send it to me somehow. But it definitely doesn’t say that ...
/r/MensRights24/04/18 11:43 PM
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It is accessible with academic research access, which you will Need to see most academic research. I could email the book to you
/r/MensRights24/04/18 11:42 PM
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Lol medicine is still EXTREMELY male dominated. What planet do you live on?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 10:29 PM
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Both men and women are less sexist now than in the past. Men, especially, are less sexist. There is lots of evidence to support that. Women did not used to have personal freedom or autonomy. They had very little social and political power. They were named the weaker, inferior sex. That is oppression.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 10:29 PM
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Why do you believe I know less than men than I do about women? Are you saying I can’t know men because I’m a woman? Even though they are fellow humans? Isn’t that kind of sexist?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 10:27 PM
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Women who lack empathy face a lot more social rejection. We are more expected to be nice, respectful, subservient. Disagreeableness is more common in men so it is more tolerated. A disagreeable women faces more consequences. Even basic assertiveness is penalized in women. You see that in how female assertiveness is more often interpreted as aggressive and rude. This has been covered a bunch in Forbes and HBR. False rape accusations are not common. My belief is that most of the time there is simp…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 10:20 PM
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It’s not a personal belief. The empathy gap is well supported by a tremendous amount of evidence. Again, look up studies in google scholar. And again, I specifically clarified “on average.” I also said it is unclear whether this arises due to nature or nurture. https://medium.com/@jessica86/ob-gyns-dont-learn-the-nerves-and-vasculature-of-the-clitoris-ccc56e55ac90?source=linkShare-437fc91ea47b-1524607941
/r/MensRights24/04/18 10:14 PM
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Uhh again, 90% of homicides are perpetrated by men. Explain why that is if men are not more violent, on average, than women. Oh yeah I’m not sure how to quote text in my responses. How do you do that?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 10:11 PM
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To me gender and sex are essentially the same. I don’t believe in this idea that we choose our gender. Maybe there are exceptions and I don’t want to be labeled as a TERF, but generally, I think if you’re born with a vagina, you’re a woman. And that’s that.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 10:09 PM
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I think a lot of things get in the way of women getting in stem from very early on. This is changing so you are seeing more women in stem. I did engineering in college and I dealt with a lot of sexism. Growing up, I would get mad that there were not cool toys for girls. I gave away my barbies when I was 8 and would physically fight my brother to play with his legos. To the credit of my middle school, I was the first student to get pushed ahead in math. However, I got pushed back when later, at a…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 10:05 PM
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Uh so tell me what you think I should know about most men then.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:40 PM
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You are misquoting me. Historically speaking, men started this problem, yes. I still am facing more resistance from men in leadership positions. This is very frustrating. However, I need all the support and agreement I can get from both men and women. What I really want are more claps on Medium. If you look at my medium articles, you can see I am getting support from men and that support matters a lot. Men do have less empathy than women on average, especially for women. There is significant evi…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:37 PM
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https://www.springer.com/gp/book/9783319048932
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:33 PM
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Okay. And he misquoted his source. This study does not look at how many reciprocal violence cases are instigated by men versus women. He pulled “80%” out of his ass (or just misread something - I can’t even tell what). I have looked at this study before. It definitely does not indicate that women most often instigate violence. All it indicates is that most non reciprocal cases are female on male, which makes sense considering social norms that men not hit back. For all we know, based on this spe…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:31 PM
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Yeah well both male and female doctors contribute to the problem. And I am trying to get support from both men and women to change it.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:25 PM
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Women used to be oppressed and people used to be much more sexist. Now gender is not nearly as limiting so men and women coexist in social and professional spheres
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:24 PM
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Yes I agree it should be easy for men to escape abusive relationships. Are you saying they can’t leave for fear of losing their children? Yeah I believe in fathers rights and am happy to support that. Alimony laws make sense but should be gender neutral.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:22 PM
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People should have equal rights and opportunity. Gender differences are not dichotomous and many differences are socially constructed or possibly resulting from power dynamics. Most differences are overlapping bell curves. So even if you say men are more predisposed to violence, that doesn’t mean women aren’t. And even though men have better spatial skills on average, that doesn’t mean assuming female engineers are less competent is okay because there are still women with 99th percentile spatial…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:18 PM
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Female author of textbook. I recognized there are some women. Apparently they make up 10%, so my point stands. What? I’m saying look back at historical medical literature. You will see reports from 100s of GYNs doing clitorectomies. It was a common treatment for hysteria and nymphomania. Honestly I don’t really care what you believe because I know what the facts are, having actually read primary sources. This is ridiculous
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:04 PM
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Yeah that’s what I was doing when they explained to me that assertions from all “reliable sources” should be considered, whether they are supported by evidence or not. Bc there are a lot of errors in medical literature, this makes accuracy impossible. Facepalm.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:01 PM
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Maybe women turn more to peer reviewed academic research than Wikipedia. Personally I have not liked dealing with Wikipedia because I have to get consensus from idiots to change any pages that matter.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:48 PM
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Thanks for this actually. This just confirms the gender gap on Wikipedia was worse than I thought. I need to figure out how to edit Wikipedia. I just gave up because it seemed complicated and I had to get these idiotic fuckers to agree with my edits.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:47 PM
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Well the female pedants who control the Wiki page on the clitoris are equally heinous. They insisted on posting that the clitoral glans is 1.5-2 cm, which is obviously false, because it comes from a “reliable source.” So I emailed the author of the “reliable source” and she told me it was a typo and thanked me for my correction. Apparently in order to get correct information on Wikipedia, I need to get every instance of incorrect information in “reliable sources” corrected. If not, all errors in…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:41 PM
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It is false to say that male prepuce removal is more serious than female. For one, the proximal female prepuce is shaft skin of the clitoris. Surgery on it is equivalent to surgery on the shaft skin of the penis. Also, the nerve density in the clitoris is much greater so that exposure of the glans is more often painful and leads to a greater chance of desensitization. Even this misinformed list shows that serious forms of FGM are more serious than male. I have never heard of type 3 MGM. If that …
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:34 PM
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That is not incorrect. You’re the one who is grossly misinformed
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:29 PM
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I trusted what I read in peer reviewed medical literature because I did not know better. Yes it is common. I didn’t know most men don’t care. I googled “labia minora” and read that large labia minora are unfeminine, embarrassing, and caused by male hormones (false). Do you trust your doctors? Do you trust the peer reviewed literature? No one is purposely harming women. They are just trying to make money and disregarding vulvar anatomy and female sexual function. This is mainly a problem arising …
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:26 PM
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FGM is equivalent to removing the ENTIRE PENIS And no, this practice is enforced by men for the purpose of controlling female sexuality
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:24 PM
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Don’t you think it would be worse if your ENTIRE penis was completely denervated and you couldn’t feel anything at all? If you consent to a surgery, another surgery should not be done without your consent. Only what is agreed upon should occur. If parents agree to circumcision on their child, does that means it’s okay for the doctor to remove the entire penis?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:24 PM
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What? It’s not about what I think of men. Everything I said is a fact that is supported by evidence. For example, studies of physicians doing vulvar cosmetic surgeries have been done. Men are much more likely to do them in general. And they are much more likely to do them on women with average anatomy. The goal that male surgeons advertise and try to achieve involves removal of more sensitive tissue. Again, facts supported by evidence. Why don’t you read an OB/GYN textbook from the late 19th and…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:14 PM
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Wikipedia is controlled by mostly male pedants who can’t tell the difference between supported and unsupported information
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:09 PM
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Look around. Ask an old person how many opposite sex friends adults had when they were younger. Facepalm
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:08 PM
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There are a lot of studies you can look up in google scholar. I don’t really want to get into this right now. I’m sorry you think women see men as not like them. The data indicates otherwise. The numbers indicate that men are seen as default humans so women do empathize with men. Consider how movies with all male casts are seen as gender neutral while a movie with an all female cast would be seen as a “chick flick.” This is certainly changing. I have empathy. I do actually score below the female…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:06 PM
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One reason marriage may be at an all time low is because it is unnecessary when women can provide for themselves and be independent. The institution of marriage is founded on the idea that women need men to take care of them and that there needs to be an enforced system of patriarchy in which that occurs. Also studies have shown that men benefit more from marriage than women do.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:53 PM
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Your last statements aren’t true. There is more peace, mutual respect, and cooperation between genders than there ever has been. Male-female friendships are much more common today than they ever have been so what you are saying represents a small minority of irrational men, not the overall pattern.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:50 PM
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None of the claims you put in bold are problematic as they are all true. Which ones do you have a problem with and why?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:46 PM
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Studies have shown women have more empathy for men than men do for women. Studies have shown men are more sexist. The more people see other people as “not like them,” the less empathy they have. That’s how empathy works. Also, women are more socialized to be empathetic. There may also be a biological difference that causes women to be more empathetic on average
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:44 PM
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Lol I def didn’t paint all men as being the same. I specifically clarified that
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:43 PM
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I read all the peer reviewed medical literature at the time, which said that it was safe and effective and carried no risk to sexual function. Doctors still insist this to this day. Published outcomes consistently report no serious complications. Your ignorance of anatomy and contention that the foreskin is anywhere close to as important as the clitoris is utterly ridiculous. No uncircumcised men think that the foreskin is the most sensitive. That is ridiculous and 100% false. I can feel regular…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:37 PM
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Lol it is well known. No one says I’m wrong. Go read some 19th century and early 20th century OB/GYN textbooks. Cliterectomies were performed up until the 50s. Doctors published literature all about it that you can READ
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:16 PM
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I never said the foreskin wasn’t important. But it certainly is not as important as the glans or shaft of the penis. Do you disagree? Actually what happened to me is much worse. The shaft and glans of my clitoris was denervated in a surgery performed without my consent. What I consented to is a surgery said to be “safe and effective,” carrying no risks to sexual function. No one will ever be able to give me an orgasm. I can’t even feel oral sex. That result definitely does not happen with circum…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:12 PM
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If you need a source, then Lepidi and Di Marino’s Anatomic Study of the Clitoris and Bulbo-Clitoral Organ goes over the history.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:08 PM
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Google it. This is a well known fact
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:07 PM
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What? I’m telling you the older men are not good at medicine. They REFUSE to add clitoral neurovascular anatomy to textbooks and board exams. They do surgeries on vulvas with no regard for the surgical anatomy whatsoever. Did you not read anything I said? This isn’t sexist. This is literally what happened. An older male OB/GYN completely removed my labia minora and cut the nerve supply to my clitoris. Older male OB/GYNs publish that intentionally cutting the nerve supply to the glans of the clit…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:07 PM
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What? My dorsal nerves were cut. That is equivalent to having the dorsal nerves of the penis cut at the base, destroying all sensation completely. Every single circumcised man I’ve come across still had a sensitive penis.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:04 PM
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How does my presentation point to men not being people. I’m just making observations about reality. I frankly do not understand it but it is clear that historically men have not had empathy for women. I think that is changing
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:03 PM
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No. They did clitorectomies frequently
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:02 PM
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Your understanding of this is not at all supported by the research I have read. Male intimate partner terrorists are not victims. Also, 90% of homicides are perpetrated by men. How realistic do you think it is to claim that women are anywhere close to as violent as men are?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 06:48 PM
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How do men not have the freedom to escape violent relationships?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 06:47 PM
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Source?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 06:46 PM
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I didn’t because I trusted the doctors who told me I had a good result and that my surgery couldn’t have resulted in loss if sexual function. I was 18 and a virgin at the time so I was clueless and overly trusting. I thought it was my fault for having the surgery and that something had just gone wrong rather than an issue of negligence. I don’t think I would have had much of a case because ignorance is so pervasive and the standard of care is negligent. Also, juries are not sympathetic to people…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 05:37 PM
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Hmm yeah I don’t agree with any of those actions. I actually know one guy who was stabbed in the face by an ex when he wouldn’t have sex with her. Super messed up. It is difficult though because intimate partner homicides still over twice as frequently involve female victims. And as women have gained power in society, male on female intimate partner homicide have gone down just slightly. But female on male has gone down significantly. I believe this is because of the resources that have been cre…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 05:32 PM
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I guess. I’ve been having a lot of trouble getting through to male dominated GYN leadership though. I think the problem is they are older. Men who think women have sex for non-sexual reasons don’t seem to care much. But if you look at my medium article, you can see I am getting support from men. But they are younger men and men in tech so they are more logical.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 05:16 PM
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It depends on the guy but I agree
/r/MensRights24/04/18 05:13 PM
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Well, it’s more complicated than that. Women were treated pretty horribly and as subordinate in the past. This is still a bad problem in many parts of the world. Establishing that we are people too and challenging gender stereotypes has been key to engendering more empathy from men. People treat others better when they see them as like them and one of them. Ignorance about clitoral anatomy in GYN exists because of a historical legacy created by men that clitorises aren’t important, that sexual f…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 05:07 PM
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Okay and right now doctors learn extremely detailed anatomy of the penis and don’t learn the anatomy of the clit. If I could establish that the clitoris was even 30% as important as the penis, I could change medicine significantly and protect patients from getting the nerves of their clitorises cut by surgeons doing surgeries they are not trained to do with no knowledge of surgical anatomy and telling patients they are “safe and effective.” I consented to “excision of redundant labia.” All my la…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 04:46 PM
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It takes 2 people to fuck. That is equally women AND men doing stupid shit if she gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:47 AM
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It takes 2 people to fuck. That is equally women AND men doing stupid shit if she gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:47 AM
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It takes 2 people to fuck. That is equally women AND men doing stupid shit if she gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:46 AM
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I am nice Lots of feminists are nice What have feminists ever done to you? Identifying as a feminist just means fighting for equality in areas where women are not equal to men. For example, vulvar anatomy and female sexual function is not treated as as medically important. This is no longer acceptable because, even though the clitoris serves no reproductive purpose, it is still very important to health and quality of life. And even though female orgasms aren’t necessary for conception, they are …
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:24 AM
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Why not?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:16 AM
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What did you post?
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:15 AM
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It’s not very nice to tell me you don’t give a fuck. If you don’t give a fuck, you shouldn’t be commenting in the first place. Taking the effort to respond implies some fucks given. I posted here because I was looking for other feminist places to post and then I thought it would be an interesting experiment to see how this group would respond.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:11 AM
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Sexism is sexism in both directions
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:07 AM
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My own medicine? Wtf? I don’t ban people from anything. I don’t even know why they banned me.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 09:04 AM
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I am just posting it everywhere that lets me tbh because I guess I figure it can’t hurt and you never know who might be able to help. I searched “feminism” because I thought feminists would care about this. After getting banned, I’m pretty frustrated. Maybe I posted it as an experiment. When I posted it on Facebook, a lot of my male friends were supportive. Sometimes I almost think they understand more bc they seem more aware of and in touch with their genitals maybe. Also, in one study I saw re…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:49 AM
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It’s still not right to exclude people on the basis of biological sex
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:37 AM
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This is a serious problem that led to my clitoral shaft and glans being completely denervated in a surgery performed without my consent in a “minor” surgery claimed to carry no risks to sexual function. For guys who think what I experienced is like circumcision. It isn’t. Imagine not being able to feel your dick. Imagine poking your dick with tweezers (or anything) and feeling nothing. Imagine having the capacity for pleasure from oral sex taken away from you forever. Imagine going to doctors an…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 07:34 AM
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