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| 2 | How should I kiss a guy who is shorter than me without making him uncomfortable?Next time you're walking down some stairs, make sure you're in front of him and just spin around so he's on the step above you and kiss him. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you approach other girls when you’re on a date with one?I’m not a jug man, so I politely wait. | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 02:44 AM |
| 2 | I need help complimenting 10/10 girls.You don’t want to go overboard on the compliments, especially with beautiful girls. They get them all the time. Be genuine, don’t just look for something to compliment them on - otherwise you just end up looking like a simp. When you do find a reason to compliment them, don’t make it about their physical appearance. That will set you apart. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What should I do if a guy hits on my GF at the gym?If you’re dating someone attractive this is something you’ll have to deal with. You can’t control that other men find your partner attractive. It’s only an issue if she entertains their advances, or she’s “too nice” to let them know she’s unavailable. If you feel the need to respond to every guy that comes onto her it might make you look like you’re jealous and insecure. Even though I might be a little annoyed when men flirt with my fiancée, I know it’s because she’s hot AF. Try to choose to be … | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:51 PM |
| 20 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termYou need to match her in terms of interest, especially initially. If you come on too strong it’ll be a turn off. You’ll come across as desperate. Play it cool. If she escalates, then match her. That’s how to keep her engaged and things flowing organically. | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a woman to want to leave youTell her you decided you want to become celibate. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet womenThere’s no real solid answer to this question as it’ll vary from region to region, but the best place to meet women is wherever they hang out, and are not expecting men to be creepy or weird. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Been on 3 first dates this week that went really well, and as a 29 yo man who lives with his folks - how do I navigate Date #2/ getting laid?I feel you! I live in San Diego and it’s the most expensive place in the US to live. If your second date goes well and you’ve been flirting successfully I’d say something like, “you want to go back to your place?” after the second date. That should get you some action, if they are open to it. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Should you be phisically fit to be sexually attractive for women?Yeah I found a keeper! She’s sexy AF too! | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Should you be phisically fit to be sexually attractive for women?Depends on the woman. I always thought I needed to be chiseled with 6 pack abs to be attractive to them but it turns out my partner actually prefers a bit of a dad bod. She tells me that she can relax a bit more not trying to be perfect if I have a few extra pounds on me. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 04:12 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a women says `Not too shabby’?It's a cute way of saying she likes how you look. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Cruise with hottest women?Check out Groove Cruise. Basically a rave on a cruise ship. You’re welcome. | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | You don’t *have* to kiss on the first date, have sex, or anything. Don’t force itThat’s what feminism is. Equality. My wife and all her female friends would agree I’m a feminist. Their opinions are all that matter to me anyways. Certainly not some keyboard warrior that is contradicting themselves every other post. You mentioned in an earlier reply that no one is looking for love on the first few dates. That means that you are treating them like objects to try and score, nothing more. Maybe you should go back and read your reply in case you forgot. Anyways, better things to d… | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 11:26 PM |
| 0 | You don’t *have* to kiss on the first date, have sex, or anything. Don’t force itI’m a proud feminist thank you. You’re the one saying women are to be treated like objects during the first few dates. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | You don’t *have* to kiss on the first date, have sex, or anything. Don’t force itSerious incel vibes here. Let me guess the last time you saw a vagina was when mom pushed you out? Lmao lol | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | You don’t *have* to kiss on the first date, have sex, or anything. Don’t force itThen love does have SOMETHING to do with the things in this post. I rest my case. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 07:00 PM |
| 0 | You don’t *have* to kiss on the first date, have sex, or anything. Don’t force itYou act like dating and sex have nothing to do with love? SMH | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | You don’t *have* to kiss on the first date, have sex, or anything. Don’t force itOne of my favorite sayings is “Love is like a fart, if you have to force it then it’s probably shit”. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 05:21 PM |
| 6 | How to cross the touch barrierNext time you have a girl sleeping in your bed, ask her if she wants to cuddle. It’s innocent enough. I mean, who doesn’t love a good cuddle? | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | The moment of clarity when you realise there’s no sparkLove is like a fart. If you have to force it, it’s probably shit. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 3 | As a man, how important is it to you to make sure the woman you're having sex with is left satisfied?Not true. Size can help to an extent, but for many women the ability to climax from insertion depends on many factors, including angle, amount of foreplay beforehand, and mental state. Size is less relevant. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 04:59 PM |
| 11 | As a man, how important is it to you to make sure the woman you're having sex with is left satisfied?No one wants to put on a dental dam every time they go down on someone, so it’s best to be selective with who you go down on. Stay away from the ho’s. If you really like a girl and want to take it to the next level then suggest you both go get tested together. She will respect you more for being responsible. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 02:58 AM |
| 26 | As a man, how important is it to you to make sure the woman you're having sex with is left satisfied?Nah, don’t be selfish. Unless you don’t want repeat customers. Make them shake from their head to their toes and they will always come back for more! A lot of women don’t really get off from PIV that often, so oral is a great way to get them there. Just be careful who you sleep with! Wrap your junk and get tested regularly. You don’t want a disease! | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Not sure what this girl wantsSounds like she likes you. Ask her to hang out sometime and get her contact info. Stock up on rubbers and some nice sativa! Lol | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 10:23 PM |
| 6 | How do you make a girl submissive to you , how to make her submit to youYou take control by being a man. You show up. You’re consistent, you’re helpful, you’re honest, and you’re trustworthy. When she fully trusts you she will relax into her feminine essence and let her guard down. It takes time and effort. But not every girl will fall into a submissive role. They all aren’t wired that way. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:24 AM |
| 3 | Is there a time on call or messaging considered too much?This is gonna vary hugely from person to person. I’ve had relationships where we might text once a day and hardly call (if ever) and I’ve had ones where we text 20-30 times a day. Best to discuss this with a potential partner towards the beginning of hanging out so you can be on the same page. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 09:38 PM |
| 3 | I need advice“Hey I’ve been thinking about the last time we hung out recently. I was wondering if you wanted to meet up again sometime soon. It would be nice to see you in person again.” | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | How do men release their emotions?Exercise, breathing exercises, crying or other emotional release, communication, punching a bag. Lots of ways to release emotions. Not every outlet is going to be the same for everyone in terms of end result, but for me a large part is not allowing things to affect me to the point that I really need an emotional release in the first place. | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I(21 M) stop giving off boyfriend vibes?It’s a numbers game. Lots of flavors out there and lots of individual preferences too. Not all women are looking for tall, model looking beefcake dudes. Being a funny guy who’s great at conversation will in many cases go just as far as being tall and fit. Keep at it, and be upfront about where you’re at in life and what you are looking for. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I(21 M) stop giving off boyfriend vibes?I’ve found it best to be open and communicate right off the bat what you are looking for. That way she won’t have to assume. Get on Tinder. It’s a hookup app. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Guys that have multiple fuck buddies, how did you do it?Mainly Burning Man friends. EDM underground and some lifestyle/swinger communities. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Guys that have multiple fuck buddies, how did you do it?You just gotta put in the work. It’s a little hard with Covid right now but pre-Rona I would meet a lot of girls through my social scene and attend a lot of sexy parties. It was almost too easy back then. Not much going on right now though. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you ask a girl if she's single or not without indicating directly that you're interested in her?Have you peeped out her social media? Might give you some clues. I’d flirt with her a little and see if she flirts back. A girl of integrity in a happy relationship shouldn’t return your advances. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 08:51 PM |
| 2 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongImpressive! | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 06:04 AM |
| 2 | How can i be more attractive to girl ?Confidence, sense of humor, good conversation, eye contact, style, grooming, taking care of yourself (diet and exercise) | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 05:46 PM |
| 5 | I want to take her somewhere we can have sex but don't have my own placeThat’s what hotels are for | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 05:12 AM |
| 2 | A question for guys in here who have approached a lot of hot girls over the years.It’s less about how they look in regards to how you look and more about their preference or the circumstances of how you approach them. | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | First booty call coming over. Tips?Just be careful she doesn’t drug you and rob you blind. Seen a few recent posts on Reddit about Tinder dates doing this. | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Why am I not allowed to have any flaws?Frustration comes from you caring too much. It’s cyclical. You care too much and then you are rejected, and because you are frustrated with rejection you get upset. Wash, rinse and repeat. A UFC fighter trains so he can win a fight. You’re looking at this situation as if you have done everything you think you should, therefore you should “win the fight”, or get something in return, ie sex. When you stop looking at sex as the goal, and replace it with connection, fun, and shared experiences (whic… | /r/seduction | 11/10/20 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Why am I not allowed to have any flaws?The main issue is you care too much. Try not caring so much and you won’t have as much as an issue. Women can smell this a mile away, and not only is it not attractive, but it wreaks of desperation. Nothing more attractive than a man that doesn’t need a woman. He desires her, as an accessory to his life (like that first reply, spot on I may add). Your reasons for the expectations you’ve created (close to 6 feet tall, nice insta presence - who cares...?, music producer, etc...) don’t matter one b… | /r/seduction | 11/10/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Is 22 too old for college hookups and being a party boi?Nope not too old. Want more fun in your life, go for it! | /r/seduction | 07/10/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be disloyal to your girlfriend whom you met when she is in her late 20's?It’s not so much about the body count as the experience. You could have a lot of sex with a few people and consider yourself experienced, or you could have a bunch of different partners and have had sex the same number of times. The important thing is whether or not you feel sexually matched when you’re in the bedroom. Your connection and compatibility are more important than how many partners each of you have had. | /r/seduction | 05/10/20 10:25 PM |
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