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I dont really have a hierarchy.
/r/MensRights09/08/17 05:46 PM
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Name a news source that hasnt been implicated in collusion and false reporting. I will wait.
/r/MensRights09/08/17 04:58 PM
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And men go through andropause so why dont we legalize test and its derivatives?
/r/MensRights09/08/17 04:56 PM
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Hillary is not liberal or progressive in any sense. Listing the term Bernie bro doesn't make you correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 03:52 AM
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Yea I'm sorry but 3 dates in 4 years of finding this sub is terrible. Granted I've turned down a few girls that seemed interested myself, so the number could be a bit higher-but it's still poor and id rather go on dates with people that I'm genuinely attracted to. Almost every girl I feel a connection with has never felt the same about me. I don't get disappointed at any particular rejection, I move on immediately. The moment I start feeling bummed about one rejection, I meet another girl like c…
/r/seduction02/03/16 02:11 PM
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I haven't seen this happen at all. I've become pretty good at socializing, have friends, travel, can make people laugh, do great in school, run my own student org etc.. Seems every girl I meet likes me as a person and I've even had a few ask me for my number/Facebook when I first meet them (happens a lot recently with girls I meet). Almost all flake/or reject me when I ask them out though and then pretend not to see me at school. I try not to let it bother me but damn after a while it shakes you…
/r/seduction02/03/16 12:34 AM
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You know nothing about history.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 07:50 AM
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Lol no. He actually didn't make any money. He payed child support until his symptoms got worse and he had to quit his construction job. He was living at my uncles home (fathers side of the family all shared a home--normal for hispanics) on a bed in the living room so that he could always be watched by someone in the family in case he had another heart attack. This went on for over a decade. The only money we received was social security money due to his disability (which was actually a large sum…
/r/MensRights11/11/15 05:29 PM
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I agree the forced entry was stupid on his part. But he was being fucked even before that
/r/MensRights11/11/15 02:47 PM
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So, what punishment does the mother receive for denying him visitation rights? Btw this is more common than you imagine. My mother wouldn't let me visit my dad under the pretense that "he obviously doesn't care for you if he won't pay child support". My dad had heart disease and was unemployed...
/r/MensRights11/11/15 02:43 PM
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Eh I've had a girl lose interest after telling her I was a virgin.
/r/seduction08/10/15 04:53 PM
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I get your response, I do. My tone was more so out of frustration with myself than out of spite for anything he said. This shit should be innate, but it is not for me. Nothing he said is wrong, really. It's just that I've realized the only answer I'm going to get on here is one that assumes I must be the typical Nice Guy with nothing going for him who stumbles over his words when he talks to women. Since I know that isn't the case, the advice ends up being rather frustrating. Example: Don't chan…
/r/seduction04/10/15 03:23 AM
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You know I had a lengthy response written up and I've come up with a definitive conclusion: posting on this sub for help is pointless. This is no offense to you, it's just the nature of things.
/r/seduction03/10/15 10:59 PM
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Right, but if you're just getting to know someone you wouldn't tell them about such a dark part of your past because it would scare them off, because you know. I'm a red flag apparantly. If everyone took this advice I would be single forever... Well actually nothing would change carry on lol.
/r/seduction28/09/15 01:08 PM
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I'm civil, I visit home because I want to see my sisters and grandparents. If I see an argument brewing I leave or isolate myself to avoid it. Otherwise I don't try to think about it.
/r/seduction28/09/15 01:05 PM
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I hate this mentality. My stepfather was verbally and physically abusive. My mom was manipulative and narcissistic to the point that she faked car crashes with us in the car to force my abusive step father to come home after drinking/drugs. This shit went on for years and I don't get along with either of them. So why should someone like me be blacklisted?
/r/seduction28/09/15 02:25 AM
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He'll be back don't worry
/r/askTRP21/09/15 01:10 PM
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Thing is some of us have read all the books and watched the in-field footage and gone out and approached actual women for an extended amount of time. After varying levels of failing you just realize that the common denominator is yourself. Besides this sub do you honestly know many men who make it a purpose to go out and spend hours hitting on random women in the street to see if any match occurs? No. Most people meet a girl by social group/work/class/proximity etc... This is just how it is outs…
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:06 PM
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This is EXACTLY where I am at. It's seeing that absolutely natural bond that forms between two people that I simply have yet to experience. I can join interesting clubs, lift weights, do good in school, volunteer in hospitals, travel the world, and do all these things that make me who I am. That's what this sub preaches and it really has made me happier and more successful in life overall. This sub has changed my life in that regard. But why is it that it seems that only I always have to do so a…
/r/seduction09/09/15 08:51 PM
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Thanks for the positivity man. By no means am I gods gift to mankind. Of course I can improve and I am constantly trying to do so. i have no expectations from anyone, which is why I am so nonchalant about it at this point. But I am realistic. You are a little all over the place lol. I'm not sure what you mean about just living my life. That's precisely what I am doing. I don't go out sarging anymore, but I do inevitably meet women through clubs I am involved in, events, social circles, class etc…
/r/seduction27/08/15 08:34 PM
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I would like to think so because that would give me something to work on. I don't think I give off any weird vibes, but the confidence could definitely use work. It tends to go up and down depending on how things have been going for me. But I think that is true of everyone. However it isn't as if I don't approach, keep eye contact, ask girls out, have a sense of humor, have my own hobbies/passions etc. I do all of the above and I have a pretty decent social life in general. I have no problem sta…
/r/seduction27/08/15 08:07 PM
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I'm a senior and have been doing all of this since freshman year. Not much success with women either. Now I'm just a well-dressed, well traveled, academically successful, and more socially adept perpetually single dude. Just got rejected again yesterday actually. Starting to think it is a lost cause.
/r/seduction27/08/15 04:45 PM
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This man speaks the truth
/r/seduction27/08/15 04:38 PM
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This is exactly where I am at
/r/seduction10/07/15 06:49 AM
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this a million times
/r/askTRP19/06/15 01:39 AM
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So in your opinion how does one transform themselves from beta behaviour to alpha behaviour successfully? Especially if they have no previous positive reference experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 11:55 PM
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Damn. That is clear as day too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 11:27 PM
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this man knows what he is talking about
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 11:14 AM
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Yes. A thousand times yes.
/r/seduction02/06/15 05:40 PM
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Honestly man, if you are being yourself and honest about intentions, you can't do much else. If she says no to you and goes to someone else, not much you could have done. Not everything is under your control. Having said that you need to sit her down and tell her how you feel.
/r/seduction29/05/15 07:43 AM
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Except science seems to err on the side of determinism. And another large factor of what determines thought processes is prior experiences. So if all reference experiences are negative, your thought processes will be hampered as well.
/r/seduction23/05/15 04:19 PM
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This is honestly the best indication I've ever gotten and it is still a crapshoot sometimes. Hence the "assume attraction" mantra
/r/seduction23/05/15 04:09 PM
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Right so it's not love. At least not in the way that a man would want. Companionship and sex is the goal. If all you offer is companionship, well I can get that from male friends. I don't think most of them would say they love me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 05:07 AM
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this was great
/r/seduction11/05/15 04:27 AM
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Maybe you're right. But man, I don't see any progress. I mean, it just feels like I'm on this asymptotic path. Other aspects of my life are getting in order, and that should make me a more attractive man. At the least when I approach a girl, I feel like I should have a chance. Barring any social retardation which I feel I have eliminated at this point. But I guess the results speak for themselves.
/r/seduction11/05/15 12:40 AM
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That's the thing. I don't think anyone would describe me as desperate. At least not now, maybe I was a few years ago when I hadn't even kissed a girl. Now after being rejected, flaked on etc without forming any sort of relationship... I just assume I'll get rejected/flaked on when I ask a girl out. 70% of the time it happens. If not, the first date usually goes well and then she changes her mind soon after. Leads to funny stories at least. I try to see it as a learning experience and sometimes t…
/r/seduction14/02/15 02:56 AM
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So I must be broken then? Because I lift, am successful in school, volunteer, run an organization, am not socially retarded (formerly in a public speaking club), good looking, well dressed, am going to be traveling throughout Europe in a few months... But I still get rejected all the time. Still have never had a gf. Still a virgin. I've read all the books seddit reccomends (Models, How to win friends and influence people,Book of Pook etc..). I feel successful in every facet of life except relati…
/r/seduction13/02/15 09:50 PM
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All I got out of these videos is despite the fact that this dude is terrible at approaching most of the women were still extremely polite
/r/seduction19/01/15 11:15 PM
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I was in a similar situation a whole back and did the same thing you did. It failed. If I were to redo it: Honestly, she told you she doesn't want anything more. Is she honest/shit testing/or not sure about her feelings? Who knows. Take her words at face value. Keep sitting with her and treat her as just a friend. I mean it. Don't be mean or cold, but don't reciprocate advances unless she makes things blatantly obvious. She might want you as an orbiter. Fuck that, have self respect. Flirt with o…
/r/seduction04/09/14 06:21 PM
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I've never heard such a concise yet generally accurate description of where things go wrong in seduction before.
/r/seduction15/02/14 10:30 PM
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Wow..
/r/seduction15/02/14 10:19 PM
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"you must experience this in order to really believe it" I think this applies to the entirety of this subreddit. I've recently spent so much time reading this crap and not applying any of it that it seems fruitless. But you are right it's only once you actually force yourself to experience it that you can really start to believe some of the concepts Seddit really goes on and on about. That's why when I have a good day or two it seems like I go through a stretch of pure confidence. Because I am a…
/r/seduction22/01/14 12:25 AM
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I commend you for the progress but there's a lot to be said about not bragging about your progress. Let it speak for itself.
/r/seduction26/11/13 04:45 AM
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This video was absolutely hilarious and all too accurate. Also beaver teeth is quite the scare
/r/seduction22/11/13 10:34 PM
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you go to USF
/r/seduction04/10/13 04:08 PM
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Seddit is just shorter. And no. I just forced myself into situations gradually. One of the best things I did was to make myself work at advertising a club at orientations. Which meant that I spoke to hundreds of people in the span of an hour. The club was mostly liked by females so I basically was forced to talk to hundreds of women back to back for an hour each week. That helped quite a bit.
/r/seduction02/09/13 01:40 PM
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Well last night was awesome. I had a blast. I did end up dancing with one girl but she was basically asking for it. She bent over right in front of me and looked back. Didn't lead to anything though and she was dancing like that with everyone. I took the advice of just enjoying myself and everything. I did have a blast. I think for future reference though I'll try to interact with others more instead of just dancing. Also one question. There were a group of girls last night, really attractive th…
/r/seduction18/08/13 07:03 PM
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Yea at the club I'm talking about it's either dance alone facing DJ or grinding with a girl. What I'm getting out of the advice here so far is that at a place like this, go primarily for the music. If a girl is alone and catches my eye, maybe dance near her, bump into he occasionally or gesture to dance after a bit. If I do dance with a girl and it gets raunchy, just kiss her and escalate as much as I can. I'm going to this club for a few reasons. Mainly because the age range is a bit younger th…
/r/seduction17/08/13 08:28 PM
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Apparently she's been around. Yes, her name was Molly.
/r/seduction17/08/13 08:17 PM
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Also the environment is similar-ish to a small rave. So lots of glow in the dark bracelets, glow sticks, glow fingers etc are brought. I was thinking maybe bring glow in the dark hilighters and try using that as a way to kino somehow? Any tips?
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:14 PM
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How can you call yourself sane when you say that MGM and female genital mutilation are "different"? It's not different. They are both fucked up and just because a lot more religious people side with one side doesn't make it ethically better than commiting the same type of action upon the opposite sex. Let me put it this way, if you had a child with a husband would you be okay with the husband being able to tell the doctor that he wanted your daughters vagina mutilated surgically? Please think ab…
/r/MensRights10/08/12 11:25 PM
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Any time a woman is drunk and has sex it is legally a rape because the woman is not "legally capable of giving consent". If a man tried the same argument it would be BS. Not saying you weren't truly physically raped, but legally whether you wanted sex or not it is rape on the part of any male. Even your BF. Think about that for a second.
/r/MensRights10/08/12 11:19 PM
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The drug use was revealed to me in an argument made by my stepdad with my mother years afterwords. My real dad, confirmed this in a separate incident as well. I suspect it happened at those ranch parties I mentioned in my story but I can't be sure and I have no clue what drugs either. The rest of the stuff I knew it was wrong. But at first I never put any blame on my mom. It was my stepdad being the jerk in my mind and my way of dealing with it was to take my sis into my room and lock it up and …
/r/MensRights10/08/12 01:51 AM
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Alright sorry for my critical response then. but I know a lot of people who would tell me something to the extent of "deal with it" or "your mom pays the bills so respect her by not whining to people on the internet" etc.... Some people simply do not want to understand and honestly never will
/r/MensRights10/08/12 01:41 AM
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Not sure what your sarcasm is intended to imply here.
/r/MensRights09/08/12 11:36 PM
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Lots of factors involved and I will probably take heat for this. As a younger child I just didn't see that as an option really. She was my mom and she knows best mentality. Once I got a little older and really understood how effed up things were I felt kinda stuck. I don't have any family I can actually move in with other than my dad and he had heart disease by this time (was in and out of the hospital could die at any moment etc..). So he was in no way financially capable of taking care of us. …
/r/MensRights09/08/12 11:32 PM
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Right on. I'm all for equal rights and equal opportunities to succeed. But I'm also for equal punishment and responsibilities.
/r/MensRights09/08/12 11:15 PM
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Right now I am 18. If you ask me my age with the intent of dethroning my story and argument as another "typical immature, whiny, teen angst story" go ahead. If that is your intent you would be committing a horrendous logical fallacy. Anyways, I am 18 and am moving out for college this month.
/r/MensRights09/08/12 11:13 PM
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I do too, I understand my tone may have suggested a feeling of cultivated anger but that is far from the case. I have not become an antisocial person. I talk to my mother like a regular person and I talk to my dad occasionally online. I am going off to college soon and view it as an opportunity to get away from that madness and establish my own life. It's the fact that others (particularly my step-sis) may go through something similar that angers me. Also notice how I am worried about my step-SI…
/r/MensRights09/08/12 08:00 PM
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I understand your view. I tried getting my mom to attend a psychiatrist for a while. She did temporarily but then quit. Despite what my tone may indicate, I don't hate my mother. I have always stood up for her, even with arguments with my stepfather. That being said, I am not blind to reality and I realize the larger issues at hand here.
/r/MensRights09/08/12 07:19 PM
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I wouldn''t necessarily jump to that conclusion. I was not a part of an excessively patriarchal society (I'm still young) so I can't really compare in that regard. All I ask for is equality. It's BS that kids have to go through what I had to go through simply because giving custody to the mother is the "right" thing to do. this is especially true considering she still wanted CS when she had my stepdad helping to pay the bills. She is basically asking for the income of two men. Another thing that…
/r/MensRights09/08/12 07:13 PM
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