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| 173 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years. | General | jreed11 | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Machiavellian Traits & TheRedPill | jreed11 | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 04:58 PM | |
| 5 | What is higher on your priorities? | jreed11 | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 08:49 PM | |
| 4 | Rationality vs. Irrationality (emotion) | jreed11 | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 02:13 AM | |
| 4 | Gaslighting: | Red Pill Theory | jreed11 | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Question Regarding the Dreaded 'Friend-Zone' | jreed11 | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 05:26 PM |
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| 28 | Uh, I think you mean 'pedophiles'?I’m automatically banned from that sub but I just want to ask these people if they talk about races like this, too. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.No problem. I honestly could have worded my title better because all I meant was that in this post a lot of people happen to be making this awful argument about the ghosting-a-cheater part and they’re being upvoted for it, even if their ultimate judgment is more about the withholding-info angle. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 06:46 PM |
| 2 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.Ironic because I literally posted at least 7 comments that were heavily upvoted. But since you seem to think the only words that count on a forum are those found in the initial replies, here’s one with 300+ votes. Did you know that several things can be true at once? Here, people are basing their ultimate judgment on his withholding info, but they’re also torching him in many replies and even initial comments for ghosting his cheating ex-wife. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.Now you’re being a pedant. I said “end of story,” as in, “that’s the end of my explanation for my cross posting this post and the title I chose.” If it’s a minority view then those comments wouldn’t be getting a ton of support. I won’t keep going in circles, so whatever. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.Why are you lying? I easily found at least 7 which were all heavily upvoted. And forgive me, I didn’t know I had to qualify in a title that “the comments I’m talking about, which do exist and are popularly supported and upvoted on this thread in question, are the replies to top comments.” Come on. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.Comments which are heavily upvoted? I also didn’t scour the post for every single comment making these arguments. I just picked a few. Seriously, you’re just trying to deflect: these comments exist and are popular among the people on that thread. I felt it merited discussion. End of story. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.It’s an online forum. I never said this is the end of men. I just found the comments to be wrong. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.Did any of you actually read the comments? Did you? Here are a few. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 4 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.We must be seeing different comments. 1 +130 2 +178 3 -80 (OP explaining why he felt justified in ghosting his cheating ex-partner) 4 +122 (responding to OP's comment above, saying that his fiancee should break up with him for ghosting his ex and because he now is a "babydaddy") 5 +28 6 +267 7 +96 There are plenty. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.Look at all the replies to those comments. That’s what I’m talking about. See my other links, too. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 05:27 PM |
| 18 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.1 +130 2 +178 3 -80 (OP explaining why he felt justified in ghosting his cheating ex-partner) 4 +122 (responding to OP's comment above, saying that his fiancee should break up with him for ghosting his ex and because he now is a "babydaddy") 5 +28 6 +267 7 +96 There are plenty. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 7 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.Fair enough! It’s mainly in the replies to the top comments—e.g., see this one with 200+ votes. It just really caught me off guard. I know that sub can be loopy, and not just against men, but this one was special. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 03:16 PM |
| 17 | /r/AmITheAsshole torches OP for ghosting a girlfriend that cheated on him and not wanting to enthusiastically father that girlfriend’s child, whom she withheld from him for 5+ years.Hard disagree. There are tons of comments torching him for ghosting and not enthusiastically wanting to be a father to this child. I don’t really have any problem with the withholding-info judgments, as those comments aren’t talking about his leaving the ex and shaming him for how he did it. Even so, I actually think there’s a debate as to whether it’s okay to wait and withhold certain types of info until you know it’s for certain, so at the least the harshness of those judgments is somewhat odd… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Dr. Dre wins Legal Battle in Divorce, Won’t Have to Pay $1.5m in to Estranged WifeIt's sexist. And I don't care if you're a SAHP. Once the marriage ends, it's done. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/10/20 02:18 PM |
| 10 | Dr. Dre wins Legal Battle in Divorce, Won’t Have to Pay $1.5m in to Estranged WifeNo, it’s ridiculous all around. It’s a sexist regime that isn’t spoken about because of whom it effects. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/10/20 01:50 PM |
| 56 | Equality in NYCI went abroad to spain with some African American "women" like the ones in this picture. Mfers tried calling me racist because I used the spanish word "negro" when they asked me what the word in Spanish is for black. They're a trashy brand of person and thrive on projecting their racism onto everyone around them. When as a group we were in an airport terminal exiting a plane from Italy that landed back in Spain, the airport security were doing random passport checks to exiting passengers while r… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Why you can’t #believeallwomenThanks for this, /u/Lumator. I appreciate it! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Why you can’t #believeallwomenSetting aside your sexism... Don't use slogans that say one thing if you mean another. The slogan is "Believe All Women." Don't be aghast when folks of all persuasion, and sex, take that term for what it actually means. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/09/20 03:37 PM |
| 6 | Why you can’t #believeallwomenThen don’t say believe all women, lol. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/09/20 03:00 PM |
| -2 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.If it's not because of what photos you're using, you're probably just unattractive then—which is fine. There's one and only one rule as it relates to matches: be attractive. The better looking you are in the pictures that you provide, the better your results. Have you tried using super likes (if you're on Tinder)? If not maybe it's the type of picture you're using? edit: okay people, downvoting me won't change this reality | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 04:46 PM |
| 6 | I do not enjoy casual sex. Are some men just not wired for casual sex, or is this a mental hangup?To be honest if your relationship is as you have described it here—just fighting, unpleasantness all around, etc.—then it wasn't really a relationship by that point, was it? I agree that cheating is wrong, but moral culpability seems to me to hinge on whether the relationship itself is a relationship. A relationship where there is no trust, no amicability, and no actual partnership isn't much of a relationship, is it? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/19 12:47 PM |
| 4 | OmLaLa's Tinder GuideI try to be selective because I read that swiping a lot decreases your profile value | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | OmLaLa's Tinder GuideWhat’s considered a lot of matches for a guy? I get anywhere from 3-6 per day if I decide to swipe (not trying to humble brag I’ve just not yet seen a clear answer to this), is that average, below average, or above average do you think? | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl says she's seeing someoneYou validate your existence by trying to call strangers online betas and alphas. Hint: Real "alphas" -- whatever that term even means -- don't actually think about being "alpha." Your obsession with one-upping people, virtually no less, is quite humorous. I would also bet that types like Antonin Scalia live far more fruitful lives of much more powerful and fulfilling existences than you or I will ever hope to do. But at least I'm not sweating it. I'm satisfied with where I am and will continue t… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl says she's seeing someoneYeah I agree with your mindset completely. Something tells me plenty of posters here carry chips on their shoulders when it comes to “high society” institutions like, gasp, courtrooms. Lol. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Girl says she's seeing someoneHe doesn’t realize that accomplished people have the means to use the courts to their utmost disposal because of money and good counsel - access to which would, to me, imply an “alpha” persona. Personally I consider anyone who has to talk about what it means to be alpha automatically excluded from whatever conception of alpha he has in his mind. It’s such high-school crap. It seems that some people here think that being alpha is being the high-school jock who settles stuff in the parking lot. Pe… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 03:59 PM |
| 26 | Girl says she's seeing someoneThat hospital bill is worth it once you sue. Assault is assault. Anyone who's going around assaulting people because their girlfriends were sluts is stupid by nature, and can easily be fucked longer term in court. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Ex-boyfriend of girl I am seeing vandalized her room when she was spending the weekend at my place.Yeah the idea that because his dad might be in law enforcement that nothing can happen is an idea out of TV. Bureaucracy including police departments is way less interesting than that. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?I agree with what you've said. I just think that it's poor form for men to come here dunking on strangers (who are supposedly their friends) who we can't truly evaluate. It comes off to me as a guy trying to impress a bunch of strangers online. (People who write things like OP do so because they think that impressing how John Doe is a loser somehow means they themselves aren't losers. What they don't understand is that two people can be losers at the same time.) If I have a friend who I think is… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?He's also a horrible friend. It'd be one thing if he had made an attempt, but he's just here looking to dunk on a guy who can't defend himself. This dude is coming here to compensate for something else. Bros come first. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Fat old woman being extremely picky on TinderAre the tinder likes accurate? It says I have 99+, too, but I'm not shelling money to that app for an exercise in vanity. (I do get anywhere from 2-5 matches on a given day, if that means anything in relation to the question.) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/19 08:45 PM |
| 6 | Quitting my Obsessive Game AddictionIt's like with anything—everything in moderation. Video games can be amazing outlets for learning. When I was younger I used to play role-play games (mainly political in nature) online with thousands of other kids. I learned how to write through those experiences, and that skill has put me ahead of many of my peers in college. That's something I took away from "gaming." Had I been glued to my chair all day and every day, however, whatever benefits I would have accrued would have been offset by t… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Oh-Man: The AutobanExplains my ban today lolol. Total fucking bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Observations of living in Japan for 10 yearsCan you send me a link to this post? I'm really curious lol | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 12:52 AM |
| 7 | You are not a victim.This post summarizes what is at the core of every successful story of self-improvement–to begin to dig one's self out of a hole, they must first accept that it is they who jumped in to begin with. Until then, they will remain stuck in their hole. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Keep a diary: Track your progress and watch yourself improve.To be honest, go with something minimalist without a lock or anything like that. To anyone who isn't looking for your journal (and they shouldn't be–it's your journal and you should keep its reality to yourself), if they somehow come across it with their eyes they won't even stop for a second to see what's written in a book stashed away in an inconspicuous drawer, etc. If they come across it and it has some fancy lock on it, etc., they're going to purposefully pry; it's human nature. It's all up… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 04:43 AM |
| 13 | Keep a diary: Track your progress and watch yourself improve.Writing by far. There's something different about recording thoughts with a pen/pencil versus a computer (or for some a phone–think of apps like DayOne, etc.). But in the end, what matters most is that you get the thoughts down. While writing them by hand by far is better, what matters more is that you indite something. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/15 02:38 PM |
| 1 | EpiphanyGive her exactly what she doesn't want. Girls when resorting to the phase of, she will start her shit often do so because it's their way to fulfill their deeply fucked up social needs and priorities. Sometimes they'll claim to hate you, etc. If you want to either keep her around (or just fuck with her for amusement at that point), give her exactly what she doesn't want so she continues to come to you to complain about you and the situation. At that point you either stop fucking with her, or mani… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 02:40 AM |
| 2 | [48 Days of Power] Day 47 - "Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop."Plus, Hitler didn't have victory by the time he invaded Russia. There are multitudes of reasons as to why the invasion of Russia was a bad idea; this law however isn't really one of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 07:48 PM |
| 12 | [48 Days of Power] Day 47 - "Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop."Transgression: (SPOILER ALERT) Doug Stamper in House of Cards by the middle of Season 2 doesn't have any reason to continue to hold onto Rachel Posner. Yet, he continues to keep her hidden and under his control because he gets obsessed with her and 'caring' for her. Because of this, he leads the hacker to her, and drives her to ultimately killing him just to escape. He's opened up a huge weakness in the Underwood family's quest for power because he couldn't let go when he achieved what he was or… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Women live in the momentAh! I understand now. You didn't mean completely just disregarding the future and past, but focusing on the here and now while doing whatever it is you're doing in the present. Whether that be cooking a steak, or as you said, programming, you're focusing on that and doing it the best you can. Thanks for clearing that up. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Women live in the momentI do have to disagree with you on the last part thou, I think it is important to live in the moment so that life would feel more fulfilling as men we must be able to see into the past and future and direct our course in life as desired. I understand your view on this, and I think it depends on us individually and who we are. Some people are more 'calculated' than others (take myself for an example). And while 'living in the moment' is nice, some of us feel we don't have the luxury to think and '… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 06:11 AM |
| 23 | Women live in the momentThis is very true. Women's actions both grand and small through history have simply proven this. I can't tell you how many times women have called me nasty things and within hours have retracted their stances. I can't tell you how many times I've offered my 'listening' ears (when in reality I'm just pretending to care) to their emotional woes that disappear by the next morning. The dependence they have on their emotions (whether willing or not) makes them easily manipulated. This is why it is so… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Love does not exist.And that's the problem with society today, and what it's increasingly becoming. People are more interested in the short-term, rather than what they can gain in the long-term. You can't have both: even the illusion of having both is just a fantasy. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/14 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Rationality vs. Irrationality (emotion)I think there's a stigma against House (M.D.)-like rationality because reality hurts most people. People are irrational by default because we feel and are evolved from instinctual creatures. When people hear logic (rationality), they often shut down or refuse to believe it because it challenges the protective emotional barriers they've set up around themselves to avoid pain. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Book recommendation for learning strategy?I really love your blog and its posts. I hope you keep doing Dark Triad ones, I find those the most insightful and applicable. You should also watch House of Cards as soon as possible; Frank Underwood, played by Kevin Spacey, is the epitome of a person with Dark Triad traits. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | A Comprehensive Guide to The Red PillGreat post. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 04:59 AM |
| 2 | The Hamster in action big timeAnd I hate to be racist, but she's black too. Groups just love to reaffirm their own stereotypes of which they complain so much about! | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Question Regarding the Dreaded 'Friend-Zone'This was one of the more helpful answers. Thanks. Love the username too! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are looks so important?Because people don't go up to those they deem unattractive to spark a conversation. It is arguable that once you break the initial physical barrier and make conversation, the emotional connection(s) will take precedence. But generally speaking, people are much less likely to approach 'unattractive' people and try to meet them. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Views on your significant other working?I think it's good for both parents to work. Your family income matters more than your individual income. The more money you make, the more opportunities you'll be able to provide for yourself and your family (most importantly the child). Neither of you should quit your jobs, instead you should try to keep rising in your individual workplaces to increase fiscal flow into your bank accounts. Money runs the world, and will open lots of doors for you and those you care about. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Dating Borderline Personality DisorderGet out of there fast. At most, fuck her a few times and then get out of there before she ruins your life in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 05:20 PM |
| 3 | [48 Days of Power] Day 33 - "Discover each man's thumbscrew."This. He finds weaknesses that aren't necessarily known or out in the open, and exploits them to destroy his opponents, or 'targets'. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 08:59 PM |
| 18 | [48 Days of Power] Day 33 - "Discover each man's thumbscrew."This reminds me a lot of how in House of Cards, Frank Underwood used Peter's drinking and use of narcotics to his advantage, to ultimately bring him down in the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What is higher on your priorities?I completely agree with you Neopolitan. I know plenty of jobs that pay a lot but in terms of the work itself, it is an unattractive occupation. I think that bringing in a six figure salary at a shit company will not pull in women to fuck versus being a Chief Executive at a relatively large business. Yes, income matters, but so does the work you do to earn that wealth. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What is higher on your priorities?I lean towards that thinking too. However what goal (numerical wise) do you aim for in terms of money? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 11:03 PM |
| 1 | What is higher on your priorities?I just did, thanks for the referral. He really knows his shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 08:58 PM |
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