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The columnist is right that she's restricting her search too much. 200k is the top 3.65% of household incomes. If her income is higher than that and she only wants to date people who make as much or more, she's restricted her dating pool too much, which is evidenced by the fact that she's 46 and single, never married. I'm not saying she should settle for a man without a college degree or a man who doesn't make the average annual household income of 75k--many teachers and social workers in high c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/23 02:59 PM
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I tried using (getting my bf to use) a dental dam once. He did try it, but the feedback was basically like, there's a reason no one uses them. Aside from dental dams, lol, Ladies, you can find good men who prefer condoms even in a committed, monogamous relationship. Not just for health and safety, but because there's less mess/fuss and they feel like they last last longer. For many men, thinking they dislike condoms is an ego issue rooted in societal sexism/selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/22 08:08 PM
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Legally, it's from the age of ten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/22 06:54 PM
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Men would do it. But it wouldn't matter if they did. The difference is that under patriarchy, women face the double bind. If they make either choice they lose. Prude or slut and they lose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/22 03:06 PM
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Yes! And in the books Colin and Penelope are right for each other because they support each other's literary endeavors. The show does women dirty--in the books Penelope is doing nothing wrong by writing to support her family. And Eloise, her silly best friend, does something silly, but not the subplot with the printer. At least my Dad agreed that Anthony Bridgerton ain't shit. As I pointed out, he didn't even pension off mistress properly the way heroes in romance novels do to show that they're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 12:40 PM
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And convicted. The men need to be reported, charged and convicted in order to be added to a registry for the general public to see. Only law enforcement (or specialized databases can see arrest records).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 12:03 AM
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That sounds like growing up and becoming a better person. I like to believe it's possible for both genders, because I too am trying to level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:38 AM
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Okay "delaying" sex or "holding myself back from being sexually active". ​ But in some cases women are just facing pressure to "put out" the sex tokens from men who don't even care about their pleasure, and in that case "witholding" is perfectly good language to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:23 AM
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Agreed. I don't think she's a hypocrite and I believe that the father blocked her. I think the reality is that while she probably be okay with her father looking at, like Playboy, there's something deeply disturbing about a father who's deep enough into porn that he's getting into the paid, interactive content and found her account. I think she's innudated with terrible customers. I don't think the father knows, cares, or understands what her experiences are like. And the fact that he's looking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 09:45 PM
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Or even just when moving to a new city!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:21 PM
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For real. "Rebecca" is a famous novel by Daphne du Maurier. I read it while I was 13 or 14. The heroine meets a rich man and is swept off her feet and marrys him. We find out he murdered his first wife for cheating on him with many men--their relationship is temptemuous and jealous. His excuse for the murder to wife #2 is that it's was a crime of passion. At the end of the novel, he burns his house down, and convinces wife #2 to leave the country with him. It's a Gothic novel, wife #2 is probabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:10 PM
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Can you give me more advice about "I'll know it when I see it" and other ways to be vague and delay having sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:54 PM
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Best case scenario: your breaking up with him is a teaching moment for him, but you never have to worry about whether or he'll keep letting you down like this if you stay with him (because he will).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:16 PM
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All the middle eastern or Indian men with graduate degrees knew at least to signal on first dates that they had their own visa pathways through their employers to avoid looking like LV leaches. I should've been more wary of it regardless. But it turns out you can spot red and yellow flags other than the visa issues after a coffee date or two and use those as a disqualifier. I think--now that I'm a bit more cynical--I should just date American men of my own ethicity, similar education levels, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 10:45 PM
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Yeah, I think they do think blondes are more sexual available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:26 PM
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I would advise saying that you "haven't dated much" rather than straight up telling people you haven't been in a relationship ever. A lot of what you need to know about relationships can be learned from your other relationships with family and friends, reading, and watching other people's relationships. If a potential partner ever asks point blank, you should tell the truth, but in a way that makes it clear your not embarrassed and this isn't a flaw. "Oh it just hasn't happened yet. I haven't be…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 11:59 AM
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Yes, I think it comes down to scaling back your work, which might be impossible or might require changing your budget. For example, could you live at home? Live with a roommate? Get an RA position so you can live in the dorms for free? ​ Also, a lot of people online act like student loans are the devil, but modest student loans--especially if they're subsidized can be worth it. Once you're accepted into the radiology program you might want to take out loans so you can focus on school.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 08:01 PM
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As you said, the problem is balancing school with how much you're working. Try r/TwoXADHD or check out more resources on study skills for specifics, but the problem might be that you need to work less or take a lighter course load. I would suggest looking into disability accommodations for school and working less.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 01:40 PM
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Yep. It's what "The Rules" advocates too.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 08:34 PM
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A couple of points: 1. Work on yourself & go to therapy 2. Read "The Rules" and considering moving out at the end of your lease. If you move out, you'll be able to get additional clarity about what you what and what he brings to the table as a partner.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 05:13 PM
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One or twice a day is a high sex drive once a couple has been together for a while. As silly as I personally find labels like asexual and aromantic it sounds like you might have some commonalities with people who label themselves that way. As others have said, some people fall for lots of people very quickly and others don't. There's nothing wrong with being the way you are and lots of people like you have gotten married! I like the book "The Rules" as a pep talk, because it only takes finding o…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 05:06 PM
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How is Olaplex so helpful if you don't dye your hair?
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/18 02:57 AM
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Agreed. If OP is going through a temporary medical issue that she's fixing it's callous of her boyfriend to say she's less attractive. A guy who's in love and has the emotional awareness to realize his girlfriend's insecure and wants to protect her during a rough patch, shouldn't mention you being less attractive when going through a rough one month patch--obviously if a guy would say you look fat at 7 months pregnant that would be terrible. If the issue is temporary and out of OP's control, a k…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 05:10 AM
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I think you’d be better finding a different partner. Congrats on losing 50lbs and keep up your hard work to lose weight. But after two years your commitment from him (meeting his friends) can’t be conditional on you losing more weight. You need a partner willing to introduce you to his friends now: maybe someone less weight conscious, someone who’s social network is more accepting, or maybe someone who loves you more. Sit down and talk to him: about what you’ve been doing, about how the pressure…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 01:00 PM
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You're TL;DR suggests that you're ready to move on. If so, I'd like to chime in and say that my Mom had me naturally at nearly 37 and my brother at 40. Lots of women in previous years had their last children late. I'd also highly suggest reading "The Rules"--there's a lot of fodder for thought about vetting and SMV that help you reflect on your current relationship and practical advice for finding a partner.... If you're not ready to move on, its time for therapy. Its possible that that your boy…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 11:36 AM
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Its not about fight on imaginary future table setting. This guy just clearly said that if he sees her struggling despite working hard at home, he will not help if asked. She needs to listen to him, and find a man who's willing to help her the ways she considers normal.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 05:01 PM
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I think a lot of women are overly concerned both about the wall and their biological clock. Assuming you want to marry a man with a college degree and either a good career or good career because he went to grad school, he'll be happy to marry a woman who's gone to graduate school. I cannot stress enough that educated people are marrying later. My Mom had me at 36 and my brother at 40--women's fertility drop-off is very small between 30 and 35. The pool of men close to her age who are dating with…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 04:51 PM
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She could have 4 kids starting at 30. I would say she should put grades (assuming grades help with her career) first while still maintaining a social life. *Most* men her age aren't looking to settle down.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 04:45 PM
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