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This is a pathetic idea. Don't waste your time sexting your pretend long distance girlfriend. If you want someone to actually think up "techniques" to play out some long distance fantasy, try posting on a bondage related sub. You want a "mind game"? Try dread. But don't do it as a mind game. Just make it clear you have too many other options besides indulging her online fantasies that you wish she had. A "couple's vibrator"? I don't know what the fuck that even is but it doesn't sound like it's …
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:56 AM
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This is something of a legal question. The only negative employment action so far is your boss being told you called some girl cute. Could you be fired for allegedly saying that some girl was cute? Sure, you could be fired for anything, even a false allegation. I don't see any possible legal action against you for anything...but obviously you'd like a positive referral from this job in the future, but that isn't likely to make or break you either way. I don't think you have done anything wrong, …
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:20 PM
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I can’t speak to studies I know nothing about. But it wouldn’t be surprising to me if the divorce and the poor performance of the children were both products of toxic parents. In other words correlation and not causation. That being said, obviously divorce is not ideal for children. But it’s often better for them in the long run where are the parents’ relationship has gone down the toilet.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:11 PM
2

Pretty well. Their mother and I have made it as easy as possible for them. They are all active in sports and do well in school.The oldest one starts high school next year, and is in all honors courses.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:54 PM
3

I guess a better way to put it would be that your life is going to revolve around your kids. You’re going to buy a house based on the number of kids you have/expect. At least half your weekend is going to be interacting with kids. It certainly prevents you from traveling on a whim for example.But you’re not gonna hate the restriction, it’s going to feel natural. At least for me.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:13 PM
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People like me who are fathers and red pilled are pretty busy. I have time to chime in on the occasional comment. I’ll comment on the age issue. I waited a long time to have kids. The red pill was not a thing when I was your age. Luckily, I had at least some insight into female nature and sexual relationships. Having had my fun when I was younger, then spending most of my 40s with young kids, I don’t know if I can recommend it. If you have kids, at some point in your life it’s going to prevent y…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:37 AM
5

Nope. Im happily divorced. 50-50 custody and even split on child expenses.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:20 AM
3

It’s human nature to want to procreate. If you decide not to do it, you will probably feel like you missed out on a major part of life. I have three kids and zero regrets.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:09 AM
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I’m into it so mostly yes. There are some that I just don’t want to. If you like it and are good at it, odds are she’ll be dtf again in the future. Your odds of getting an enthusiastic blowjob go way up as well. But those are side benefits to me because I’m a cunnilingus enthusiast. So i don’t really care what some Jamaican guy thinks if it. I don’t have “rules” but if I get the wrong vibe, I won’t be into it and I won’t do it.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 01:11 PM
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I agree with much of the advice here but ina t to add one perspective that maybe you can share with him. My brother committed suicide because he thought he was a burden on everyone and everyone would be so much better off without him. Not so. It’s in incomprehensible amount of pain he is contemplating inflicting on you. 15 years after my brothers rest it still burns me.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 12:42 PM
3

Well, it’s way too late for me. Nice knowing ya.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 04:47 AM
5

Same. I can only imagine losing a son or daughter would be that much worse.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 06:39 PM
3

Who knows? It sounds pretty uncommon. If you ever sleep with her, ask her. It won't help you get her in bad to ask her now (if indeed that will ever happen after months of just texting).
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:18 PM
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Deepest condolences. I have nothing to say to ease your pain but for what it is worth, I felt the enormous pain of the tragic loss of a close family member when my brother committed suicide. For me, it did get better over time. The pain and loss never went away but in time it became less all consuming and I could function again. You son would want you to someday be able to pick up the pieces of your broken life and put them back together and experience happiness again. It may not seem like it no…
/r/askTRP17/02/20 02:28 PM
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You should encourage her. You’re not going to be with her forever anyway. “My ex girlfriend is a model” is going to raise your perceived SMV with the next future ex girlfriend.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 11:45 PM
3

What kind of stupid question is that? Why wouldn't you?
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:03 PM
4

No regrets. Three kids, one ex-wife. Love my kids more than anything.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 11:46 PM
3

Gotta be nerves. Performance anxiety combined with overindulgence in alcohol gave me more ED in my twenties then at any other point in my life. There were several performance failures when I was about 25. I was mortified of course. I am now in my mid fifties, and I have a very active sex life and its never a problem (knock on wood). My only suggestion is to go for for eating her out first. Personally, I love doing this, it gets me horny af and 9 out of 10 times she'll want to reciprocate. Gettin…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:17 PM
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She's asking you to be her emotional comforter for her feelings about her ex. She says no sex because of another man. I'd come up with a last minute excuse not to go. Not worth a free movie.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:28 PM
1

Keep up the lifting, but clearly you need to work on other areas.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 12:51 PM
3

Use sparingly. Stick to sleazy or highly irreverent and usually only after you’ve had sex with them.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 01:22 PM
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Without meeting you, who knows? Whatever you are doing doesn't work for you. If I had to guess you are autistic and don't do social interaction well. But you should ask people who know you, not internet strangers. Edit: I stand by my comment as consistent with rule Zero and respectfully request that the ban be rescinded.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:32 PM
1

I had three kids then I got divorced. I don’t regret either. Having kids is an enormous commitment, and it is poison for married sex life. but the kids make it worthwhile, somehow. If you want to know what love really is, I have kids. Procreating is as much a natural desire as sex. There are some rare people who don’t need sex, and some rare people who don’t want to have kids. If you are even asking this question, you are probably not one of those rare people.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:56 AM
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Get professional help. See a therapist.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:47 PM
1

She needs a healthy yeast infection first.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:58 AM
10

Why wouldn't you attract fat women?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:28 AM
2

Groups of friends bust each other's balls constantly. You've got to roll with it or get good at it.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:04 PM
5

Lifting is good. But doing it to the point where you are entering powerlifting competitions at the expense of having a job and making money is overdoing it. You cannot afford to train that hard and go to school and live. You need to choose between school and powerlifting.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:41 PM
1

They can also be a lot more annoying and a lot less interesting. It Depends on what you like and don’t like.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:49 AM
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Redpill advice applies at all ages. In my thirties, I dated young girls, two who were 18. I also dated two women in their mid forties, and plenty in their late 20s to mid thirties. Unless you are just feeding your ego and just need to date younger chicks, date women you enjoy hanging around with and want to have sex with and don't base it on age. Its true that women after a certain age may be angling for matrimony, but not all of them. Anyway, that's not your problem.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:49 PM
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The demand for guys like that far exceeds the supply. He might have a better chance than a frat bro at getting laid on a given evening, but he can only occupy one or maybe two women at a time....there are hundreds of other horny women at any given time still available for the frat bros.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 05:49 PM
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This is no place to ask medical questions.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:20 AM
2

You live at home? Suck it up until you have independence. You probably have zero appreciation for what it takes to own a house and support offspring. If you are aggravating him, apologize. Whatever you did may seem minor to you, but its probably cumulative.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 12:25 AM
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Most people do. I gave up on being successfully single to get married and have kids. The marriage didn’t work out, but the divorce worked out great. I have zero regrets about having kids. I would have need very unhappy if I hadn’t had them.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 12:27 PM
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When I was 24, I didn’t have any of that shit. But I still managed to get laid. Maybe you’re trying too hard. Also, You’re in sales, and a lot of people in sales don’t realize how offputting they are.Sales people can be incredibly annoying. Maybe you’re just annoying and that’s why chicks aren’t digging you.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:53 PM
1

Seriously? It’s hard to get them to shut up about that shit.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:04 PM
1

I don’t see where you have very much leverage over this guy and it sounds like he has worse problems than you’ll ever be able to solve. My guess is that you are going to have to tough it out and chalk it up to experience. So I don’t really think there is any specific red pill advice for the situation. Maybe look into a noise complaint with the other tenants for the motorcycle. I very much doubt that it’s worthwhile to institute some legal action on your own. the landlord is unlikely to want to e…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:00 PM
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Get good at giving oral. Make her cum and you already have a major accomplishment, so performance pressure is off.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 01:18 PM
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Unless you are unusually puny and she’s unusually large, she can’t kick your ass no matter what training she’s had.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 01:08 PM
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I think there are two good reasons to go to prostitutes. One, if you have plenty of money and it’s just convenient. That sounds like your friend. The other is if you have a specialized interest or fantasy that you are interested in. Like if you were interested in much older or much younger women then the ones you are typically successful with.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 05:11 PM
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Do whatever you need to do for you and your daughter, but do not marry into a dead bedroom.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:55 PM
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You’re 25, in good health and you just cleared Your debt. Many would trade places with you. Seems to me your problem might by psychological, especially if you feel suicidal. Attack that, because the rest doesn’t sound so bad.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 09:21 PM
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Its YMMV thing. It works really well for me too. But some guys probably look better without one.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 06:44 PM
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I was 52 when I got divorced a few years ago. This might be good advice for someone who got married before they matured. Speaking personally, I had no problems at all dating or relating to women after the divorce. If you were successful with women before your got married, you’ll probably match that success after marriage. With older women of course. ED isn’t inevitable either. I’ve got good genetics I guess or maybe I’m just in good shape, but I’ve gone three days in a row with successful sex. N…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 09:22 PM
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If you become sexually involved with someone that you’re not attracted to, it’s not going to work out. If you really like this girl, you would probably feel guilty about breaking up with her, especially since you probably wouldn’t be honest about the reasons.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:55 PM
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Ok, I though that meant women who generate a huge amount of interest in themselves from other men. You meant women who are interested in you. Ok, then it’s definitely the same. Going after women who aren’t that interested in you has always been a losing strategy.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 09:54 PM
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20 years ago, no it wasn’t that different. In 1999, “online“ was already One of the main ways to meet women to date. Having dated a lot then, and then after my recent divorce having dated a lot in the past few years, it’s basically the same. Dating myself even further,Before online was the thing there were elaborate voicemail systems. You would get an ad published in the personal section of a printed newspaper. If someone was interested they would call the line and they could hear voicemail from…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:20 PM
2

Thanks for da gold!
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:44 PM
2

Not clear: is this someone close by that you could actually meet? Or is this some sort of long distance fantasy shit? If its close by, something like: "sorry, I am not interested in meeting. It was nice chatting with you. Good luck." If its long distance: "I am only getting emotionally involved with people I have a realistic chance of meeting with. I feel that might be a problem here since you live in Outer Jipip, so I can't get emotionally involved with you, which I fear might happen if we cont…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:24 PM
2

See how you look with a beard or goatee.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:21 PM
2

Great advice all around. Plenty I need to keep in mind, even though I am divorced now.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/19 01:16 PM
4

Jealous husbands are not going to review evidence of his wife and OP's guilt objectively.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:28 AM
2

I agree. Risky. But everything is risky. I've taken that risk and nothing bad happened to me. Luckily.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:27 AM
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I've lived a long life. The only sex I have truly regretted was the sex I turned down. You are probably making the right decision, but ....I'd probably go for it. Her life will probably blow up anyway, with or without your help.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 11:04 PM
1

If OP favored abortion maybe he’d could absolve himself morally. It doesn’t sound like he’s pro abortion though. For better or worse, there is no current legal option OP has to avoid responsibility.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 01:18 AM
2

I couldn’t disagree more. Unless there’s something OP isn’t telling us, he’s half responsible for this kid (assuming it’s his).
/r/askTRP17/12/19 01:14 AM
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I don't think there is a red pill answer to this beyond verify that its yours (because it could be a scam to get you to pay for an abortion or to support some other dude's kid)....which is why the strongest advice is to not allow it to happen in the first place. Since it did happen, I'd say for me personally and probably many others - Its your kid, so its your responsibility. If it were me, I'd be eaten up alive by guilt if I ghosted. Presumably you can afford to pay for your mistake by sending …
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:04 PM
1

I'm 55 and that is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. Anyone in their right mind is going to be annoyed at a 2am call.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:38 PM
1

You don't "need" to...but it will improve your odds, sometimes dramatically. That's especially true if you don't have much else going on in your life.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 05:36 PM
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I've been divorced since I was 52. I'm mostly bald and definitely not thin. I've had no problem getting laid since getting divorced. So age shouldn't stop you. Lifting helps at any age. There are a lot of divorced women at their mid forties. The most helpful thing is to be unabashedly masculine and never desperate or pathetic. Divorce may seem like a bad idea, but its sets you free. EDIT to add: yes, get divorced, there's no bouncing back from her cheating on you with the soccer coach.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:18 PM
4

Don't lead with your tongue. A little tongue goes a long way. Kiss her neck.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:10 PM
4

Who cares?
/r/askTRP02/12/19 06:06 PM
2

Send her your number on Tinder....if she sends hers back you're in. If not it was a ONS. shooting pool is a good second date.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:00 PM
2

Yes saying you’re 6 feet when you’re 5 foot 10 is pretty stupid. Your best bet is to just not say anything about it and hope she forgets or she’s so glad to get any kind of male attention that she’s going to overlook that. You sound like the kind of guy who is ultra self-conscious, so why would you set yourself up for failure by lying about your height.? 5 foot 10 is not even that short. Those stupid 2 inches are all you’re going to be able to think about.I’m 5 foot 10 myself, and that’s tall en…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:54 AM
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Items two and three might make you feel good in the short term but are a very high risk legal strategy. Shit like that could easily backfire in divorce proceedings. Her attorney would have a field day making you look like a butt hurt pussy asshole. Also, you can’t lock your wife out of the house no matter whose name is on the deed. Calm down and call a lawyer instead.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 10:50 AM
1

True.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 10:20 PM
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You probably can't do this, and no one offering you any bro-science on how to teach a girl to want to have your dick in their mouth knows what they are talking about. Find someone else. A lot of women like to give oral.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:42 PM
1

Do one at a time. And do the nicotine. Caffeine probably isn't even much of a problem for you. 55 days may be too short a time.....slowly cut down. Cold Turkey is asking for failure. When I smoked cigarettes in college, a LOOOONG fucking time ago, I failed when I went cold turkey, but then I reduced my intake slowly over the course of about a year...even then I would have one or two every year for about ten years. But I quit...I never ramped up my intake and never went back. Its been decades.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:00 PM
13

The question you should be asking is "why do I need permission from internet strangers to do what I want?"
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:31 PM
1

Link still doesn't work....use something normal like imgur.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 11:51 AM
2

Dafuq is building a carrier?
/r/askTRP24/10/19 01:03 PM
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There is no good reason to stop. Sure, there is some risk of it "ending badly", but it's not inevitable.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 07:17 PM
1

Hell yes but Bring your own condoms and don't be talked out of using them.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:45 PM
1

When I was young, I had the same issue for about ten years.....I could not come from oral. Very frustrating. Then it all changed when I was about 27 and a chick blew my Dick and blew my mind. I think it was partly not knowing how to guide or enjoy it, but mostly I think older chick are much better at it.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 05:26 PM
4

I am 54, divorced three years, three kids. TRP has helped a lot. I've had a fantastic series of sexual relationships with women from 39 to 59.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:06 AM
0

Child support is inevitable. If it's his kid, He's fucked. And at her mercy. That's his reality now. He's probably better off kissing her ass. Sad but true. If he was a little older and more established maybe he could maintain his independence. But a 20 year old? He'll be owned by this broad. That being the case, how does going no contact help him? It doesn't.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:38 AM
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That's a short sighted view. It's nothing to do with whether she is trash. It has everything to do with how others might perceive him, and: This guy fucked himself. He handed his future over to this broad. That's the reality. For better or worse, he's her bitch and he's probably better off sucking up to her. Sad but true. Assuming it's his kid, If you don't think that's his reality now, you are the one living in a fantasy world. He's not going to red pill his way out if it. That's why you don't …
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:27 AM
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Do not do number 1. Tempting as it might be, It gains him nothing and could cost him. If he is the father, that will set a tone of animosity. If he is going to be on the hook for child support, better he have an amicable relationship with the mother. It will be easier to get custody or visitation, or have a relationship with the child if he wants that someday if he is cooperative in the early stages. If he's the father, he's financially fucked and she will have him by the balls. With an amicable…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 09:35 PM
1

Might cut herself? Hard no for me right there.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 01:09 PM
5

It's definitely immature, and would be viewed as such. You're 28. Only block someone if they are toxic or obsessed with you.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:36 AM
1

I don't regret reproducing. I also don't regret that I was 40 before I had my first of three.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:38 PM
2

Sex just isn't your thing, Dawg. Find something else to focus on.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 07:45 PM
2

I read this as you are roughly competitive with a model. Wouldn't it be worse if he were a schlub? You were able to get a chick who a model would be interested in. Also, I'm sure your girl was just so special and pretty. If you can get one girl that special and pretty, you can get another. Move on and look for the next opportunity.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:59 AM
1

How about "google the following search terms and look for...."
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:28 PM
2

Calling bullshit on that. Even if true, there are multiple ways to point people to information. You are trying to drive desperate incels to your website so you can sucker them out of money.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:23 PM
5

This seems like a sales ploy for some snake oil. If it isn't, stop this "PM and I will send you the information" shit and just post the information.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:05 PM
1

That...doesn't sound like ideal conditions. Why not say, "lets go get a drink"?
/r/askTRP12/07/19 09:01 PM
1

This is your idea of showing a chick how awesome and fun you are: 15 minutes of sitting in a car.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 07:35 PM
1

You probably grossed her out by eating while walking, handing her a disgusting food wrapper, and then casually littering. Do you fart in front of her too?
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:34 AM
17

It's foolish to throw away a free ride. I don't think you appreciate the value of that. And you are way over optimistic about your ability to start and run a business at 19' or even after you graduate. Your mother is right.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:35 AM
21

So you want a girl who has never had a ONS? Good luck with that. That's going to severely limit your choices.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 11:51 AM
6

Wow. That sounds massively insecure. Whatever you do, don't tell her of this fear. What are you actually afraid of?
/r/askTRP21/03/19 08:04 PM
1

IDK, experiment and see. Give it a time limit, like two months. If you are not on the same page sexually by then, you will probably not be happy in an LTR.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:42 PM
3

That's pathetic. But a good lesson.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:10 PM
5

I'm 54, so here is what I would tell my 21 year old self (some of which I was told at that age, but didn't listen): 1) Lift weights. Become as physically strong as your reasonably can without resorting to steroids or getting fat. I recommend Starting Strength, but there are other options. Just take it seriously. 2) Pay bills on time - keep credit record clean. 3) File 1040 form every year, with help if necessary. 4) Don't rack up education debt unless you are going to a top 20 or so university o…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:55 PM
2

I am sure you suffer from depression. At least you are reaching out. Here are my thoughts: Jesus, a parent's worst nightmare. At least you have a job. Look, you already know this, but looks being 1.5 and weight being 80 fucking pounds over, are directly related. At least you can work on that. You are actually pretty young. I'm 54. If I could put my brain in your body, I'd be on top of the world, even starting out where you are.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:56 PM
3

I like talking to women. Getting laid would be a miserable experience if I didn't. Maybe I enjoy teasing them, shocking them, turning them on, getting them to reveal things to me. The interaction is where I decide if I am into them or not. I also like having a chick's rapt attention, knowing she is thinking about, at least, making out. Not to say that there are no annoying women. I just don't spend time with them.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:33 PM
1

Sure your Chad test might make it marginally less likely that she’ll cheat on you in the future if she passes, and marginally more likely that she’ll cheat on you in the future if she fails. Is that what you want to hear? How much more less likely is impossible to say. It also seems like a lot of trouble to go through, so I doubt it’s very “efficient“. You admit to some severe mental defects, and maybe that’s the problem. For someone who lacks those mental defects it can be difficult to explain …
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:44 PM
3

Well, see, I told you it reeked of insecurity. And here you are, totally insecure. "Chad test" aside, you are wrapped around her finger. Sounds like you should work on that. Suicide or a massacre, over a GIRL? Worry about your Chad test after stepping back and doing some self evaluation. Sounds like you are in a toxic relationship, and those don't end well.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:22 PM
2

Well, I guess you know best. Why don't you try this out on your girlfriend and get back to us?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:08 PM
10

Let me help you: If you think this test would be helpful, than don't get involved, let alone married. First, even if she passes, you'd be lulled into a false sense of security. Six months from now, you might get a different result. You'd also torture yourself with the adequacy of the test. Maybe your profile looks and sounds fake, or maybe you used the wrong approach. Maybe it wouldn't work on the day you tried it because she wasn't horny. But if she was in a hornier mood, maybe she would have g…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:54 PM
16

Its reeking of insecurity. You don't need to do that test. AWALT, or close enough to it. Its not informative for the same reason entrapment by the police is a defense to criminal charges. You are giving her the idea to cheat, she isn't coming up with it on her own. ANY woman would crack given the right temptation. Be honest, you could just as easily be fooled.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:39 PM
1

So true. I tell people to avoid LDRs every chance I get.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 07:48 PM
3

I have been the blue pill loser, and the Chad in this scenario, it happens a lot. There is at least a very high risk of this happening to you if you get into a "serious" relationship in high school or college. (I'd say the risk goes goes down with age and wisdom and older women, but never goes away). My High School girlfriend was one year ahead of me in school. We fooled around extensively, and got each other off with hands or frottage, but never PIV or oral sex. I wasn't worried, she was so in …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 06:39 PM
5

I Don't really think a person Into astrology is going to have much of a problem with "thinking too logically".
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:47 PM
5

Have you tried tarot cards?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:39 PM
1

Yes, I mean from her perspective. Should you care? If you want to understand her motivation, yes. You should know she's not going to wait around much longer, and plan accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:33 PM
1

Yes, exactly. I chose to pursue other things until later in life.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:29 PM
1

NO, but sometimes I wish I had started sooner. But at the time, I was glad to be free.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:27 PM
2

Not that it should matter to him, but looking at her mating strategy, that's what she should probably do to maximize her odds of getting married.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:25 PM
1

Everyone's a statistic. Its not as if the odds of divorce age 27-32 is miniscule, and outside of that range divorce is almost certain. You have slightly better odds in that age range.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:24 PM
54

1) She's probably right. If she wants to get married two years is long enough. 2) If you aren't saying to yourself "hell yea", then definitely don't marry her. 3) if you ARE saying to yourself "hell yea", take a long hard look at what marriage is really like. For me, I waited until I was in my forties to get married. Had three kids, got divorced after 11 years anyway. I am in my fifties with three grade school kids I share custody of. It does cut into my freedom OTOH, I could have gotten married…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:08 PM
2

You have no business "confronting" your boss over what you claim to be unfair treatment. Don't embarrass yourself. The guys trying to run a restaurant, he's not your dad. With your work record, you've got no basis for any complaints. If you don't get fired, you'd do well to apologize and make sure it doesn't happen again. If you put in some time bussing, you'll probably be back waiting tables before too long.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:00 AM
1

Lighten up, Francis.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:47 PM
52

Cool story Bro. If this is real though, there is nothing to be done. You now have a hilarious story to tell.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:55 PM
1

If you are on the fence, Its a game time decision. If you enjoy hanging out with this chick, then go hangout. If, when the opportunity arises, and you want to fuck her at that moment, and she is DTF, then of course. OTOH, if you're hanging out, and are grossed out by the thought, then don't.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:30 PM
1

Can't be real....can it?
/r/MensRights27/07/18 11:43 PM
10

The rest of your life.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:03 PM
4

Well, you have an excuse, you help take care of your mother. You are probably saving money. A major factor is your level of privacy. If your parents allow you to bring girls back to your room, then it could work. If the chick is into you, that's probably not a deal killer. When I was young I lived with my mom for a year or so after college. She didn't mind me bringing girls to my room if I was discreet. It was don't ask don't tell. And it was a large house that I had a lot of to myself. So it di…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:52 AM
14

No downside to trying, but set your expectations low. Sounds like she isn't really that into you except as a friend.
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:09 PM
2

I'm 53 and not MGTOW, so that part is wrong.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:41 AM
1

You should definitely try to get the 5000 she stole back. That sounds like a police matter. It's hard to say if you even have a claim to the rent, or that she would be able to pay you back if you did. I strongly doubt that "the most red pill thing" is to try to exact revenge. Except for the stealing, this whole situation is mostly your fault for being such a blue pill nice guy. It seems counterproductive to obsess over getting revenge, and racking up the legal fees instead of focusing on the fut…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:24 PM
27

That includes the bar. A standard bar is 45 lbs.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:49 PM
1

Don't let me stop you. I know bullshit when I smell it and I don't waste my time on it. Go ahead and look into it. You'll find its pseudo-science and superstition.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 03:43 PM
1

Please don't bother. Basing any aspect of your life on the phase of the moon is complete idiocy.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 03:33 PM
11

Also be sure to consult your horoscope regularly. Moron.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 12:50 PM
1

You've admitted to being extremely socially inept. Its a major handicap, and no one here, or anywhere else, has a fix for you. Most guys are not extremely socially inept, so its not so difficult for them to get women. So stop asking how an average boring guy does it. You are way WAY below average. You will need a unique approach that takes into account your severe handicap. No one can provide that for you. ADDED: Absent developing that unique approach, if you get in shape, have a few extra bucks…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 02:32 PM
2

I've had oneitus more times than I can remember. Only sure cure for me is another woman.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:28 PM
1

Accept that you have a severe mental handicap that will probably prevent you from having a sex life.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:46 PM
1

Stick to whores or buy a sex doll. You will not otherwise have sex. You have a severe mental deficiency. Its like talking to a wall.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:44 PM
2

These average people go to some magical place nobody has ever told me about and speak in a non threatening and totally safe and socially accepted way a certain set of words. Starting with a single sentence and ending wiht more words. What are these magical words? What is this magical sentence used to start? They certainly do not approach girls out of nowhere in a park. Ahh yes, the secret cheat codes to sex. PLEASE NOBODY TELL THIS GUY! More women for us!
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:50 PM
1

Who the fuck is crazy around here? Obviously everyone else except you! You seem to think there is a particular thing you can write that will activate a woman's sex mode. If only someone would give you the key. Think of it more like jazz music or improv comedy. You are going to have to improvise based on hers and your particular pictures, profiles, and stats. You are going to have to come up with your own unique riff on the available material. But you have to make it look effortless and natural o…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:35 PM
1

Dude, you really aren't getting this. Its not the place, its you. I want to help you because I feel bad for you, but you are pretty obtuse about the whole thing, and I am not very hopeful. I am a lot older than you, and I just got out of a ten year marriage two years ago. I've had success since then. I put some effort into it and it works for me. Here is where I have met girls: 1) online - this is easy for me, though it does require patience. Based on what you have written here, your personality…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:10 PM
1

There is no secret location where it is easier to meet and talk to women. Location is not your problem.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:25 PM
1

I am not talking about a premium membership, you need a Cyrano De Bergerac on your side. Sorry to tell you this, but you need very special help. You have a severe mental disability, one to which few are sympathetic. Getting laid will be very difficult for you because it is almost entirely based on being mentally healthy exactly where you are mentally deficient. Trying to talk to you about how to meet women is a little like trying to teach a dog to drive. Its just not a skill you are likely to de…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:22 PM
1

Well, those messages are terrible. Almost no one would respond. I don't respond to women who write just "hi" or "how are you doing". Zero effort, not worth my time. Women get ten or more boring worthless messages like yours a day. Just imagine you wrote "hi". She writes " hi" back.....what's your next message? That's the one you should start with. And don't go overboard in the opposite direction. Don't message more than one or maybe two women a day. Never write to the same one again if she doesn…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:55 PM
5

Sounds like you are too socially inept to even do online dating. For most guys, it's ranges from easy to extremely easy to meet women using apps. At least you know what your problem is. Trying to get laid with your particular brand of mental retardation is like trying to collect Rolexes while you are on welfare. It's not going to be easy.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:12 PM
1

You are definitely doing it wrong then. look into getting help with your pictures or profile.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:22 PM
7

How will that help? How much time do I have to spend on useless people before I get laid? How many so called friends are required to get laid? How many acquaintances? What is their function and role in making me get laid? You sound completely socially inept. If your idea of friends and acquaintances is that that they are "useless", you probably lack the social skills to get laid. Guys who get laid tend to have a network of male friends. Its kind of the flip side of the same coin. If you have tro…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:04 PM
3

Freshman year: behind the counter at an on campus hamburger place. Sophomore year: delivery driver for the telecom department Junior and Senior, and most summers: pizza delivery. law school: law firms as a clerk after the first year.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:21 PM
3

Aside from the physical, lifting, keto, etc. which others have covered, Here are my thoughts. 1) positive note: 6'3" is an advantage in life if you know how to use it. Chicks dig tall. 2) positive note 2: 22 is young. You have time on your side. Straighten you shit out and you could have a long career with women. 3) You aren't going to be able to get women to like you until you improve yourself and your attitude toward yourself. Lack of self confidence = dry vagina. So you will just torture your…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:26 PM
2

Why would you not want to date someone you rate 10/10? Just be cautious about getting further involved or developing oneitus.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 01:08 PM
46

Your wife got turned on watching you hog tie your 12 year old son? You hog tied your son using the same rope you were about to use on your wife? I guess I am a neophyte, but I think that's odd.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 07:14 PM
5

1) You have to go. You will hate yourself for being such a pussy if you don't. And you will be right. 2)Drinking together bonds people. Drinking games are good if that's going on. So drink, but DON'T OVERDO IT. 3)You seem to know a lot about sports. You: "Are you a Cavs fan?" is probably a good conversation starter if you run out of things to say. Some dude: " Yeah, I guess so". You: "isn't LeBron a fag?" or "What did you think of that foul on LeBron the other night?" This could apply to anythin…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 02:44 AM
11

This isn't very smart from a legal point of view, and its incredibly petty. Let's say the story above is true. He got her to quit a degree program and buy a plane ticket on a false promise. Perhaps she gave up an apartment or a job as well, since she is supposedly couch surfing. That's detrimental reliance a/k/a promissory estoppel. If she sued him and was able to prove everything in this story, he'd be liable for her out of pocket costs, like the airfare, and maybe lost tuition and earnings. Al…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 08:53 PM
3

Get strong first, then worry about aesthetics.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 01:25 PM
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