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You should really relax and work on yourself, you'll be fine, I'm 20 and still haven't even kissed a girl. Its not a big deal unless you make it a big deal, I use the time I don't spend on a girl to work on myself, I started going to the gym, go out often, started learning to draw and study at uni at the same time. I bet you watch porn and play video games, both of those will no help your cause, they cause social isolation and create social problems, I was addicted to games for the last 12 years…
/r/seduction30/09/13 03:34 PM
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Hi me again, do you mind telling me all the resources or useful resources you used? I read conquer your college and even though useful, not as applicable to me, I'm not on the campus college.
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:21 PM
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I know after a little bit of thinking, I thought I'm being a little superficial trying to get a girl into bed just to leave her the next day. I've come to my senses now, shes a nice girl and I was off PMO for 2 months so I was just looking for a way to release, I'm great now and don't want to treat a girl like that. Also by not trying to be like that I think it will improve my game overall, just being relaxed, having fun and slowly teasing her, if shes happy to have sex yay! but otherwise I can …
/r/seduction25/09/13 05:56 PM
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Thanks, I just finished the book, I like the detail he goes into outlining the characteristics of the 20% man and am working on that, its useful but I don't feel its enough, I'm not on a campus, I'm in a big city. Do you mind sending me the link for the videos on PUA?
/r/seduction24/09/13 09:43 PM
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Thanks for the advice, already started reading "conquer your campus", I'm really dedicated this year to turning everything around, I've given up video games, PMO and started doing cardio workouts everyday. I'm already half way through the book and it is very interesting, I won't be using cold approach for a while, I'm still at uni (in my second year, just started), I really like the book however the situation is different to mine, I'm not on a campus university, I'm in a big city and I tend to g…
/r/seduction24/09/13 06:16 PM
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Did you buy Tyler's video because I am working on myself but I don't really want to spend money? I gave up video games and am in a similar situation to what you were in, so any advice you have to help break out of this cycle would be appreciated, I'm pushing myself to go out as much as possible and am slowly changing my wardrobe, I wear jeans and nice shirts now when I go out, not entirely sure what attire would be good so if you have any suggestions on that front would also appreciate it.
/r/seduction24/09/13 04:14 PM
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I just found it a little strange the age gap and thought since she is much older than me, I was thirsty, hungry and a little nervous, I think she could read that off me so I didn't ask. I'm not going to use lines, I don't want to develop a habit of it. Yeah confidence was key and I just didn't have it at the time, I'm still happy I initiated, its better than what I usually do and not make small talk at all.
/r/seduction24/09/13 03:29 PM
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Thanks for that, I'm lucky that this Thursday theirs a pub party for foreign students and shes going so will ask to meet her there, it happens to be 20 minutes near my house by tram and walking so I should be able to f-close if I play it right. I'm new to this though and am really bad at kino escalation.
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:19 AM
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I asked for advice on how to f-close first time and instead he says I should go out with this girl more before hand, thats not the answer I expected, I respect his advice, and I know I may not have the most experience. I was just giving an opinion, its hard to f-close if you set up a date in the wrong place and wrong time thats why I was asking.
/r/seduction23/09/13 08:07 PM
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Thanks, I guess its worth a try, I should really get over this idea of creepiness, I'm not over aggressive ever, I think I'll meet her on Thursday and if I can't f-close her there will invite her to my place Saturday night.
/r/seduction23/09/13 05:21 PM
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yes
/r/seduction23/09/13 05:17 PM
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Thanks for that, I'm acting like a coward, its ok will text her tonight or tomorrow, I know shes going to a bar/club where you can play drinking games on Thursday so will ask to meet her there and will either try and f-close there or invite her to dinner on Saturday, cook something nice, rent a movie and close, win-win situation.
/r/seduction23/09/13 05:16 PM
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What if I'm really impatient and would like to just close, I'm not looking for a relationship with this girl, she is staying here for 3 months and I don't intend on having a long distance relationship, it shouldn't be to hard to get a f-close on the first. I know it depends on the location, time and charm really. Any other suggestions?
/r/seduction23/09/13 04:01 PM
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Have you got any other suggestions, I though playing pool and beer at night would be good also or going for a cocktail/ buffet place at night but apart from that I can't think of anything else.
/r/seduction23/09/13 03:55 PM
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That's not a big deal, can just send her a message asking to reschedule, thats why I asked, I think its a little creepy inviting a girl back to mine when I've only met her once.
/r/seduction23/09/13 03:53 PM
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How do people have the time to do these challenges? I'd like to do this challenge and I've already started working out at home, I do at least 20 push ups a day with variations of sit ups and burpees but who has time to chat up 5 girls a day, I barely have the courage, tbf I don't chat up girls very often and I should I'm working on it slowly but I hate the idea of approaching a girl on a crowded bus/metro daunting. I wish I could go to a gym, I think I would be more sociable in that surrounding …
/r/seduction23/09/13 01:42 PM
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I find it a bit weird the fact that he considers kino'ing touching a girls upper arm, I find that to be a huge turn off and harder to do then touching a girls back/waist or just going to holding her hand. If I'm wrong though please correct me.
/r/seduction22/09/13 09:26 AM
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I'm not sure if she fancied me or just wanted to be friends but it doesn't matter any way, if I end up liking her when we go out will start building kino and see what happens.
/r/seduction22/09/13 09:09 AM
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Yeah that's what I thought thanks, I thought to myself if I become attracted to her when we go out then I could always build on it, if I don't than its nice to meet someone new, I'm in a foreign country and so is she, for less time than me so we are both out to have fun really.
/r/seduction22/09/13 09:07 AM
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Standard shit test?
/r/seduction05/09/13 01:36 PM
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Standard shit test?
/r/seduction05/09/13 01:36 PM
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Very inspiring, thanks for sharing your experience, I wasn't exactly sure what to do until now, like literally I joined a dating website too but never took it seriously, didn't like the idea of making dates online, its much nicer and less awkward to meet a girl and flirt. I think my problem is I've never had rejection cause I've never really approached a woman out of the blue. Always talk to women in my social circle, this is a bit of confidence issue probably and the biggest barrier to break.
/r/seduction03/09/13 09:29 PM
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