jsamurai2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	Little reminder about "red flags" The concept has definitely become internet shorthand for a lot of things, and I think people forget the literal definition of a ‘red flag’ as a small marker indicating a dangerous situation farther ahead/where you can’t see it. I agree with OP that it’s too often used to indicate something you just don’t like, so people will string together 5 red flags and then ask if it’s worth ending a relationship over. Like honey how many ‘danger, keep out’ signs do you need before you get out of the freakin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/22 01:09 AM
3	Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’. Ok so this isn’t at all in defense of the whole bimbo thing, but I do wonder if part the disconnect is related to generational differences? Obviously men will fetishize women showing skin regardless of their politics. But it seems to me a rejection of the ‘cool girl’ which has been in my opinion the dominant ideal male fantasy for a while. Wearing decidedly non-chill pink outfits and shoes that aren’t practical (or sexy) and lots of hair and makeup to me is directly opposed to ‘feminine enough t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 10:14 PM
21	FDS seems to be catching on, on Reddit : good job ladies! I (jokingly!) told my boyfriend if he fulfilled my needs emotionally, sexually, and financially that he could get a second girlfriend. Spoiler alert: he doesn’t even have the time or desire to look at other women 😂 for 99% of people if you build a successful relationship then you only need one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/22 08:42 PM
1	You know how you feel about a man within the first 5 seconds of meeting him I really think a lot of women just turn off that part of their brain, because otherwise it is going off CONSTANTLY and they think there is something wrong with them/don’t want to be a “man hating feminist” or whatever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/22 04:09 AM
1	Anti feminism should be about EQUALITY not about being anti women. Honest question: who do you think is doing these things when single women live alone? Is the assumption that they have a series of men to do all of these things all the time? Do women call plumbers more often than men?	/r/AntiFeminists	03/01/22 08:50 PM
46	Block and delete I read somewhere that the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference, and that’s really helped me deal with the urge to engage. Nothing crushes the soul of a man faster than indifference to their entire existence, it’s honestly more fulfilling than trying to get the last word.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/21 03:53 PM
11	the default should be leaving/independence, not forcing staying It makes me sad when I realize that so many women still believe that their partner “doesn’t know” when/how they are mistreating her, so you just have to talk to him and if it doesn’t get better than you didn’t express yourself correctly. They know they’re being awful, they just give negative shits about anything other than their dick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 11:47 PM
148	Love this. Louder for the scrotes in the back. My bff’s dad kept trying to date his dance instructors who were women our age (20-22), “flaunting” his old BMW and buying them dinner, then had the audacity to get upset when they asked him to pay for out of state dance competitions. Like buddy do you not get how this works??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/21 09:15 PM