jsatterfield53213 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I’m leaving work early tonight to go home and tell my wife I want a divorce. Updateme	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/25 12:45 AM
2	My marriage is over My friend, try not to think of yourself as "stuck" with the little one. You are so lucky to be able to stay home and experience life through new eyes again. Throw all your energy into elevating yourself and being the best parent you can be for your child while your "wife" selfishly focuses on herself. I'm sorry you're going through this. Try and find some peace and joy with your kid. I have two out of highschool now and it goes FAST. Peace to you, brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/25 05:21 PM
1	Wife filed out of the blue, but continues to act as if nothing has changed? Update me	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/25 12:47 AM
3	Divorce is “catching”… Yeah ...number 3 is wishful thinking. Every study I've seen is the exact opposite.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/25 08:22 PM
1	Talk Me Out Of It Boys I agree with everything you've said...it seems pretty cut and dry. I'm just one to suggest he does what's needed to avoid wondering if there was something more he could have done. It's a huge risk and would hurt all over again if she threw him away but he'd always be able to look at child and KNOW he tried everything to be the best father possible. There's not a thing wrong with your take , though. Be well.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/24 01:23 AM
5	Talk Me Out Of It Boys You're married and before destroying the marriage the two of you should agree to intensive counseling and bring up your concerns that it's "love bombing"...it is ...but she may need help recognizing that. It's possible the marriage is dead but if she's giving you signs of reconciliation, you owe it to all you've built to see If it can be salvaged. My two cents anyway.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/24 03:18 PM
2	Finally… Peace to you, brother. Enjoy your daughter! You can now be the best dad possible and show your daughter what a happy parent looks like...and in the future...what a healthy relationship looks like. I'm excited for you! All the best.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/23 05:30 AM
4	Stuck in the sadness Your post brought a tear to my eye. I'm so sorry you're facing this. Sometimes hearing that it will get better isn't the medicine you need. Sometimes you just need some men to feel heart broken with you...and I do. This is early days for you...there's nothing wrong with letting yourself feel it. I feel broken with you. Please take care of yourself ... If only for the future you.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/23 04:58 AM
3	Need advice about dealing with jealousy seeing my ex-wife with her boyfriend. Really great reply! It sure put things into focus for me.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/23 03:37 AM
3	1 Year After Divorce: Venting and Still Seeking Help Time with kid is far more important than the extra $$. Be there for her as much as you can. That's so much more important than being able to give her more money later in life. She NEEDS dad in her life now more than ever. No one ever wished they spent less time with their child and more at work.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/23 07:02 AM
1	I need some advice No one changes. Ever. It's never happened. Sure...people can do things differently for a while and make an effort bit it will always fall back on their core personality. If you're looking for a wife and someone to cheer you on and support you, (means sooo much in a marraige) then number two is the winner by FAR. Best of luck, bro!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/22 08:27 PM
3	Gender role reversal and divorce You sound super Manly. If she wants a lumberjack...then she can go find one but it's not you. Sounds like you were the head of the household in every way buy the one way she desired. I guarantee if you had a "manly" job the she would be complaining that it's too toxic and she needs a man who's ok changing diapers and cooking. Whatever. Sorry you're going through this. It sucks. Hang in there and remember...it's her...not you.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/22 05:22 PM
4	Said she wants a divorce I'm sorry...but it sounds like she has someone else. Probably someone at work that she has lunch with. People don't leave their loved ones alone in the hospital unless there's something to gain from you being absent for several days. You're not alone, brother. You're in good company and this will pass.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/22 04:45 AM
11	my wife is divorcing me Bingo! This is the right answer.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/22 06:04 AM
4	Life after divorce I'm not OP but damn this spoke to me. Thanks for putting in the effort to respond. I've saved this post and will use it as a road map. Thanks again. Be well!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/22 07:06 AM
4	WTF is wrong with me? She can do what she wants while getting childcare for 6 kids, (some are not yours...for sure). That's what she gets out of having you around. Sorry. Divorce NOW. Her history shows she was never married in her heart and should help you with custody. You must stay in your kids life (the ones that are yours...please don't provide child care for other dudes babies) . Don't let your children have her as their only example of a parent. It's a heartbreaking situation. You know what to do. Don't waste a…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/22 06:58 PM
3	The Final Straw…. Also, if possible, count the pills and types she takes daily. You have to know she's an addict. This could deeply effect custody. Good luck my friend my.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/21 06:58 PM
8	Please help. Immediately make a copy of her messages stating that she has to "get you convicted" of something. You said fourth child on the way? Are you sure it's yours? I would make damn sure ...but much later. Record EVERYTHING. Never walk around without your phone so you can quickly press record. If at all possible check out her phone for evidence of an affair either now or in the past. Things changed for a reason and it sounds like she wants and quick exit with you being the obvious bad guy. This is usua…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/21 12:46 PM