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| 1 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.It's about intentionality... I never have met any woman who is "fucking a different guy every friday", you date someone hoping to eventually be in a relationship, you can't resist sex in the proccess, and the guy keeps you around feeding you hope until he eventually drops you. IMO that's a lot more painful than not ever meeting them in the first place so that's why I now choose celibacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger womenMore than a 10 year age gaps represents only about 8% of heterossexual couples, though. I actually don't find them inherently wrong or problematic if its up to a 15 year age gap, even if one of the people are in their 20s. But the truth is, vast majority of women in their early 20s are simply not very attracted to men in their mid 30s, much less to men in their 40s. So it's just harmful to spread online that men in their 40s are in their "peak" and will have access to all of these hot 23 year ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itCan you read? I never said women can't be bad, just said there is a lot more bad men than there are bad women. "Yeah, the hope that a mid 20s, 6 ft globe trotting billionaire turns out to only have eyes for her." - men online are absolutely delusional. Even the men I dated, and I am considered conventionally pretty (although not drop-dead gorgeous or anything), are not even close to that and I never expected them to be. I only dated men who were average or a bit above average looking, usually up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 12:04 AM |
| – | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itThere's WAY more foul men than there are foul women, that's a fact. Whenever a woman says reasons for breaking up, its almost always "he cheated" or "he had a secret side family" or "he wanted to do 50/50 on the bills while I did all house chores cooking cleaning by myself" or "alchoholic abuser". It's NEVER "he wasn't rich enough" or "he wasn't hot enough". So yeah the water you find in the desert has a much higher probability of being clean than the shit water I have in abunance down in the se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:44 PM |
| – | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itAh yes because I KNEW they were keeping me as a backup option or that they would ghost me etc. There's no way of knowing that early on. You men online are so delusional, thinking all the women are dating 6'5 chads with 6 figures. The men I was going for were not particularly handsome, all middle class or upper middle class at most. Hell the last situationship who ghosted me was shorter than me. If you get 0 dates its because you're way below average. because even average or slightly above averag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:33 PM |
| – | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itA man I'm dating or in a relationship with? Yes, if I'm with them, their emotional needs absolutely are partially my responsability, and mine are his. Otherwise no relationship would survive - I can see you don't have much experience with them. And about backup options - women will go sometimes on first dates with men to decide who they actually want to be with (since you obviously need to meet them in person), but the BS of "yeah I don't like you that much but I'll keep you around to fuck until… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?More like a 20% chance. If a woman orgasmed in a hookup with you, chances are she faked it and just wanted to get it over with. Women mostly "hookup" if they are starved for intimacy and want to pretend to be loved for a moment and it's almost never worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:40 AM |
| -1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itYou're confusing "trying to look detached and cool before we even date" with "having no empathy towards you after we have been dating". By coldness I mean ignoring my emotional needs, not showing affection (I'm a very warm and affectionate person), ghosting me, keeping me as backup option while pretending they truly want me, making me feel small, disposable and pathetic. And I absolutely do not date typical "assholes". I hate men who come off acting like they are too cool for me because it's a d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?50/50 chance for orgasm in a random hookup for women is being HIGHLY optimistic lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:28 AM |
| 4 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itI personally have stopped dating due to men's low efford or coldness 2 years ago. While I get hit on frequently, I'm just terrified of being burned. I tried again last week, never again. I prefer celibacy forever. So it's not just men giving up on dating, women are reacting to men's coldness as well. I have friends who have been hurt so badly in dating apps that they have not touched a man in over 3 years. Attractive friends, in shape. There's a lot more men in dating apps than women and I've re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itEver thought to consider that if men didn't sleep with women they're not actually interested in, the dating market would be 100x better for literally everyone? "Well you can't control men's nature and urges" well you can say the same about women's nature in optimizing for the best they can get. If "above average" men stopped sleeping wih any random woman they can get when they're bored or horny, then women would accept what's within "their league", but they will always hope that the best guy the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:15 AM |
| – | Why ranking people 1–10 doesn’t really work.It's been a long time since I got my mind blown by a Reddit comment lmao thank you. They absolutery see humans and relationships like a videogame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 10:51 AM |
| – | Why ranking people 1–10 doesn’t really work.Humans have evolved to pair-bond, there's a reason "harems" are pretty rare culturally speaking (yes, some cultures do have them, but certainly not the majority). A man who would choose hooking up over having a partner his whole life, usually has something psychologically wrong with him - but women wouldn't want him for anything other than hooking up anyway. Btw you're only a good hookup option for a woman if you're young and hot, after you're close to hitting 40... Not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Why ranking people 1–10 doesn’t really work.Yeah but it wasn't OP's point. They said it doesn't work specifically to measure how you pick a partner. Their point is "here's why you shouldn't take this seriously to define your life". I guess your reply is valid if you only read title of the post because yeah it does have some use under very specific contexts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Why ranking people 1–10 doesn’t really work.I mean would you really go for the woman who is a 9 but a total evil bitch who hated sex over the 7.5 who is loving, fun and has a high libido for you? That's why it's "useless" other than to make a joke like the ones you mentioned but people are using this to rate the value of humans like it actually means something when you choose a partner. I guess there are men who would choose based on looks only but they're not very smart and end up in terrible relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Why ranking people 1–10 doesn’t really work.Just so you know, “banging” a woman doesn’t mean having success in functional long-term relationships. I’ve “banged” a couple of guys I found hot but would never want anything to do with them afterwards because of their personality (so a “win-win”, I suppose). OP is talking about choosing a partner, not just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Why ranking people 1–10 doesn’t really work.I guess the point is that just because you’re “objectively” an 8 for a decent amount of people who would be happy to go on a date with you, others might percieve you as a 6 and pass. There are plenty of objectively good-looking men who are simply not “my type”. For example (using extremes): Brad Pitt on his prime was one of the most good-looking men alive (a “10”) but for whatever reason he just never did much for me. Too much of a “pretty boy”. I find someone like Ryan Gosling “objectively” les… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Why ranking people 1–10 doesn’t really work.100%. My last bf was way beyond my league, I guess a 9/10 “on paper” (he was tall, ripped, handsome face, great salary, mostly kind towards me) but I never felt in love with him. I wanted so bad to make it work, but I only “liked” him. Had to break up after I realised I just didn’t enjoy being around him that much. About a year after that relationship, I met a man who made half his income, was not objectively good-looking but more “my type”… We just connected on a different level and I was head … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Why the fuck can bitches not say no to meeting up if they don’t want to?Sometimes they feel sorry for you, but most of the time they just don't want you to like them any less than you do. Ocasionally they're afraid you won't handle straight up rejection too well and be a bitch about it. If they don't say YES, just forget about them. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Any of you guys have long hair? did short hair work better for you?Well, if your style isn't 100% lefty hipster guy, you'll just look like a metalhead. Metal is good, but that look nowadays is associated with antisocial losers with barely any friends, also probably with no job. Aesthetically it doesn't look bad, it's just the association. Unless you can perfectly pull off looking "fashionable" with it, cut it off. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:09 AM |
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