| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Blew it with a bartender. Deleted her number today after finally getting the hint. | jshrlzwrld02 | /r/seduction | 03/03/15 06:57 PM | |
| 1 | It is possible to initiate a relationship via facebook/twitter...? | jshrlzwrld02 | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 08:38 PM | |
| 1 | Newbie that got an email from a bartender... who gives out their email anymore? Did I get rejected? | jshrlzwrld02 | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 03:17 AM | |
| 1 | How do you react when you fall for a girl you didn't think you had a shot with? | jshrlzwrld02 | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 07:46 PM |
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| 1 | How to get good casual hookups as a womanEthically non-monogamous, like OP mentioned in her post. A committed relationship where they also fuck other people. | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How to get good casual hookups as a womanFeeld is specifically for these types of non-traditional dating attempts. It used to be known as a kink app, but recently they fixed a lot of bugs and made it a lot better and in turn attracted some semi-traditional types but still heavy in the ENM/kink stuff I would say. | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 06:06 PM |
| 40 | Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRLWhat? Yes they absolutely do lol. They don’t let you appeal anything either because they have zero support. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Attempting to be charismatic often feels forced and cringey. But not forcing myself to be outgoing results in me being quiet and boring. What do I do?Some form of guidance and direct feedback is necessary for some of us. Sure, you need feedback. But from OPs post he obviously understands HOW to be charismatic but says it makes him feel miserable. My comment was basically "Welcome to life." You have to put up fake fronts to make your way through certain situations if you want to see a specific outcome. Once you've positioned yourself near what your intended outcome was, you can start unwinding a bit. But not every person is going to immediatel… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Attempting to be charismatic often feels forced and cringey. But not forcing myself to be outgoing results in me being quiet and boring. What do I do?Fake it til you make it Yup, as with literally everything you want to be good at in life. You don't get proficient at something by not practicing it and you can't practice it by not doing it. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:48 PM |
| 16 | Can I ask for casual sex?It’s one thing to use seduction tactics to get dates and another thing to think that’s literally the only way it ever happens is all I’m saying. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 03:13 PM |
| -21 | Can I ask for casual sex?I mean you certainly can just ask them that… not all women want to be seduced or whatever, some would just like to fuck. It’s super cringe to think that all women want to be played like some game to get the reward of sex lol. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 02:54 PM |
| 31 | Can I ask for casual sex?if you think women work the way men do. You think women don't like casual sex? | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 02:33 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Work_spouse Then wait for the relationship to dissolve naturally lol. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 08:08 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You're the work husband. Play your role. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 07:34 PM |
| 16 | Recovering nice guys: Small acts of self respectI think the better response would be to just take the initiative and tell them you’re not interested rather than ghosting. It’s easy to hide and run away from the awkwardness you might feel, but isn’t the goal here to put yourself in more assertive positions? | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Approached a girl at the gym and she said she's in high schoolProbably more attributed to all of the hormones and shit being put into food these days causing people to develop much more and much faster. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 02:46 AM |
| 12 | how to get a girl back to your place?Get a dog. "I've got to take my dog out." | /r/seduction | 16/12/17 10:54 PM |
| 12 | [FR] Seducing A Calendar Model from Hinge. Full Lay Report with Screen Shots from Start to FinishThat entire read is the cheesiest, most fake sounding shit I've ever seen... Not saying it is fake, but it's so weird and cringey to read. | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 01:49 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to 'you're a nice guy but'?Yeah she's just trying to be nice. Say thanks for your honesty and walk away, my man. Been in that boat too often. You learn to just take it in stride and move on to the next. | /r/seduction | 16/11/17 02:22 PM |
| 10 | Any guides on sexting?The NSA doesn't want to see your fucking nudes... | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 09:53 PM |
| -1 | Is chipotle a good first date idea for a 21M and 19F?Is she one of those "omg Chipotle is my life" girls? If so, yes. Else, no. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Help!!It's a little complicated now days, but to each their own. Personally I think you could take the opportunity and embrace having an exhibitionist-like significant other. She's sexual. She loves showing off and if that gets her excited then that could be great for you. Again, she's not DOING anything with anyone. I mean maybe you don't like it, and that's totally fine too. But if it's something she was doing before you came along then maybe it's selfish of you to force her to make that decision of… | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 02:16 AM |
| 0 | Help!!Why is she not loyal to you? She's still fucking you. She's still telling you she loves you. You're the one she goes out with in public and she comes home with at night. | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 02:02 AM |
| 8 | Wtf was with this girl?Sounds like a socially awkward girl not used to being approached? | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 01:37 AM |
| 6 | Struggling, any advice for nightlife and getting laid in Atlanta?Why can't people have a preference? How is this any different than not being into short girls or not being into ugly chicks? White females get away with saying "Not into black guys" or "Only into black guys" all the time and no one bats a fucking eye... | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl on tinder but she's said she isn't in the right headspace to meet someone new.Found a girl like this on coffee meets bagel recently... You're ON A DATING APP and actively swiping/taking but you're not actually trying to date? Fuck outta here. | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 07:12 PM |
| 4 | How's your love life atm?Talking to multiple girls on Tinder at any given time. Inevitably none ever want to meet up for drinks. Get bummed. Give to on dating. Recently ran into this girl in my gym at my apartment building and debating the consequences of trying to date someone who lives in my building before I make a solid move. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a guy that is trying to pickup your my girl? The guy is actually her dance partener.Is he gay? That's the only way this scenario is okay. "Don't worry about him." Is the biggest cuck line there is in the history of the game, man. I'm not saying go fight this guy, but no "friend" is going to tell your girlfriend "many kisses, sweet dreams" unless he's trying to get it in. If she didn't shut him down right then and there, then you've got a little bit of cause for concern. Not a huge amount, but if you don't know this guy then you need to get to know him. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 07:13 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with a guy that is trying to pickup your my girl? The guy is actually her dance partener.It's not out of his hands. Why is everyone here so comfortable letting another guy even TRY to move in on your girl, especially one that's her dance partner constantly touching and holding her and sharing a pretty unique chemistry with? I feel like I'm taking crazy pills, but if the guy isn't in yours and her circle of friends this isn't cool. No "friend" is telling your girl sweet dreams and kisses and shit. I'm not saying throw hands with the guy, but you don't sit back and let him go. "Don't … | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 07:00 PM |
| 41 | How to deal with a guy that is trying to pickup your my girl? The guy is actually her dance partener.I was a little blown away by how many people above this thread were okay with him talking to his gf like that. It's not a matter of trusting her or not. It's a matter of another guy disrespecting you enough to try to move in on your girl. Definitely not saying go fight the guy, but it's a bitch move to just lay down and watch some other guy continue to message her like that if she didn't shut it down from the start. We've all heard the "oh don't worry about him" stories that turn out to be exact… | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 06:53 PM |
| 65 | 28 in College Fraternity. Girls are around 19. How do I sell myself?Don't think he's trying to date them.... | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 10:16 PM |
| 2 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?Unless she was super sexually interested and this is a threesome in the works! I'm kidding... But OP should ask if it's a threesome just to make sure. What's he got to lose at this point? | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 08:16 PM |
| 2 | how to maintain male to female polarity using verbal and physical spikes in daygameIs this known? Or is this "I really hope she thinks this" type of mentality? Like... What percentage of this works? 60% of the time, every time? | /r/seduction | 28/06/17 02:22 AM |
| 16 | If you have known a girl more than 2 weeks and you still cannot tell if she's attracted to you, she's not. Move on.Eh, sometimes they do. They are just way waaaaaay more subtle about it and most of us don't catch the hint until days/weeks later. Read: most, not all. | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 02:03 AM |
| 5 | Guys who successfully transition hookups to fwb/ booty calls what's your strategy?Eh I mean if OP wants fwb status with her he'd probably do it eventually lol. | /r/seduction | 05/05/17 02:04 PM |
| 11 | Guys who successfully transition hookups to fwb/ booty calls what's your strategy?Get better at going down on her. | /r/seduction | 05/05/17 01:54 PM |
| 2 | How to keep this girl interested when I can't go out on a date for a while?Yeah. Don't just sit there balls deep in your book though. Try to offer helping her by quizzing her and stuff then she quizzes you so you're at least interacting. Take your playful breaks and stuff here and there. | /r/seduction | 21/04/17 10:25 PM |
| 10 | How to keep this girl interested when I can't go out on a date for a while?I don't believe that you can't come up with an hour or two to hang out with someone you're really interested in. That sounds like an excuse a girl uses on us. Spend the day studying then ask her out for drinks when you're to the point you can't cram anymore that day. Or grab lunch with her while you're on a break. Invite her over and have her read flash cards to you or some shit. Figure it out. | /r/seduction | 21/04/17 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Horny but awkward helpI've pulled it out before, but it's just silly when they say "oh I slept with you on the first date, you probably think I'm slutty" which has happened a couple times... People have sex, big deal. I don't think you're slutty for having sex. | /r/seduction | 21/04/17 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Horny but awkward helpMost will gladly accept that. I'd kill for that right now instead of all the bullshit having to figure out if that's what you're after or if you want a relationship or if you want a fwb or if you want a pen pal or just the ego boost. Wish people weren't such pussies about sex and caring whether someone thinks you're slutty or not. I don't think anyone really cares anymore since we're not in high school. | /r/seduction | 21/04/17 12:38 PM |
| 5 | [NSFW] How not to be a dick by sending dick pics. Send dickmojis instead!If it's big enough I'm sure you could get a curiosity fuck sometime. Not often, but it's got to be exceptionally large. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How to not be interested in sex?Jerk off. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Tinder profile tipsEh I use the Gboard app and it decides what words I want to say, not me. They look similar so I didn't bother checking lol. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Tinder profile tipsEveryone's gonna tell you no selfies, no mirror pics, have some attractive friends but not too many, and look like you're having fun/candid. In reality I don't think it matters that much. Just use a pic of yourself that's flattering, able to be seen clearly, and possibly a conservation conversation starter. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 01:38 PM |
| 1 | What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ?Yeah, because every girl lies, right? I don't see a situation where a girl would go out of their way to make that remark. It's not like I asked or anything and I rarely ever compliment their looks first. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 07:32 PM |
| 2 | What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ?That's the joke, isn't it? I always thought that rule was supposed to be a joke because of his subjective attractiveness is? | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 05:21 PM |
| 6 | What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ?I've been told I'm handsome by some pretty attractive girls that I've slept with... but maybe they were just being nice. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 02:50 PM |
| 165 | What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ?Be attractive Don't be unattractive When should I expect to receive my award? | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 12:27 PM |
| 12 | 5 Self Confidence Destroying Dating Lies We Tell OurselvesThis sub is turning into click bait YouTube videos. I just want lists! Rabble rabble! | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 08:04 PM |
| 2 | FR Probably the worst date I've ever been on.Is it any different anywhere else, though? I mean if anything you can just drink at a lower age in other countries so it should matter less. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 12:44 AM |
| 3 | FR Probably the worst date I've ever been on.You can go into some bars under age. You just can't purchase. | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 06:30 PM |
| 201 | FR Probably the worst date I've ever been on.He said he didn't appreciate it, not that he wouldn't waste it. | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 06:29 PM |
| 41 | It Happened To Me: I'm A Female Pick-Up Artist Who Studied Under Neil Strauss and MysteryMost guys go around throwing "love and respect" all Willy-nilly though. They confuse lust with love. Those are the guys that pedestal every girl that talks to them. | /r/seduction | 27/03/17 05:25 PM |
| 1 | What's the difference between a hookup and sex after a first date?The difference is whether or not you talk to them again. That's it. | /r/seduction | 27/03/17 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls number, but confused.Cuddle is a codeword. You're in. Don't fuck it up. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 03:05 PM |
| 10 | How do i go for the kiss?Swoosh | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 07:18 PM |
| 9 | A girl that I was hitting on told me that her boyfriend cheated on her a few days ago. I'm not sure of what to do.McNuggets and chill. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | is it wrong to message a girl online?Ever heard of this thing called "Tinder?" Honestly a lot of dating starts online now days so I'm sure it's fine if you don't make a habit about it. It may be hard to make that first impression online though because you have to know that she's getting tons is weirdos in her DMs daily already. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Is monk mode a good option for Virgins?That right there is why it's a confidence thing. I have mostly selfies and I get plenty of swipes despite not being a super attractive guy. People on this sub and others REALLY overanalyze profiles. Sure group pics might make you look more social, but having selfies doesn't make you anti-social. The only pictures I think I have that aren't selfies is one of me playing softball in which I just happened to be playing on the same team as a professional photographer so I got in one, and a selfie wit… | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Is monk mode a good option for Virgins?Sounds like it's just a confidence thing then. Idk what to suggest other than just relax and stop giving such a damn about what people think. Girls are attracted to confidence. Maybe you need to make a Tinder account and swipe the shit out of everyone then smile when you match when girls you think are hot. Kinda like what the girls do for ego boosting. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Is monk mode a good option for Virgins?Not to be a dick, but are you in good shape and hygiene? Are you having bad luck because you're a 2 that's aiming for 10s while giving no real substance to a possible relationship? You don't have to be a male model, but you do have to keep up with your grooming, etc. I was 5'8" 240+lbs before and literally had no luck with women... Then I lost down to 185 and got in good shape, changed my hair, wardrobe, etc and it's a whole different world. I'm still pretty awkward and shy a lot of the time but… | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 02:47 PM |
| 49 | FIELD REPORT: Hottie From TinderI think if I had read that at the beginning I wouldn't have finished it. Good placement by OP lol. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm texting starts texting different, don't know what to do now.They try to be nice sometimes. But if she's that interested she would probably pursue at least some. I met this veterinarian from tinder or okcupid once and we grabbed coffee downtown one day and she said "you have my number so keep in touch and we can definitely do something else" or something to that effect. I honestly didn't think she was too interested from the coffee date but maybe she was just shy. Anyway i texted thanks for the company etc and asked if she wanted to do something again let… | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Girl I'm texting starts texting different, don't know what to do now.I dunno, but public accountants are usually busy as fuck for 3-4 months right about now. Probably not what OP is doing, but I've heard it's not uncommon to do 60-70+ hour weeks during tax season for the entry level staff accountants. But I agree that you make time for those that interest you. If you're that busy then you weren't that interested in meeting that person. Surely it couldn't be that difficult to stick around the city after work some day, etc. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 12:58 PM |
| 2 | How do I find active groupsAlso interested in this... Going to be moving to Cleveland soon and starting from scratch as a 28/M where I literally know no one other than a couple family members. | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 12:23 AM |
| 20 | Is tinder dying?Yea lol. I live in rural WV and apparently my area is flooded with graduates of New York University or work for USA Today. Who knew?! | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Blew it with a bartender. Deleted her number today after finally getting the hint.I will definitely see this girl around. I'm not going to avoid the bar she works at and she walks her dog on the route that I run occasionally on weekends. I am very interested in her but just felt like she was beating around the bush and trying not to hurt my feelings... I hate that. But I'll still talk to her at work and try to keep things open for sure if she will have it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/15 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Blew it with a bartender. Deleted her number today after finally getting the hint.Yea it was dumb. But my reasoning was sound to me at the time. She had her wet ass dog with her and I didn't want it climbing all over me. I sat at the end of the dogs leash facing her so I could actually pay attention to her. I'm dumb, though lol. | /r/seduction | 03/03/15 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Blew it with a bartender. Deleted her number today after finally getting the hint.My couch. She was heading over to my place... Did not make a move because I was dumb. Wasn't even expecting her to come over so I had no idea how to mentally prepare myself for that as someone who has been out of the game so long... Didn't expect this to be a one and done chance since she was in a bad mood and had her dog with her. | /r/seduction | 03/03/15 07:13 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Started talking with this girl at work via texts for a few days. (I don't work WITH her, but in a different department and usually only at the same time once or twice a week tops.) Right off the bat she mentioned "I'm talking to a guy or two, but we can be friends for now." She is a super kind person, so how do I tell if she is actually interested or if she's just letting me down softly? sidebar: We text constantly. Usually includes a "Goodmorning goodmorning goodmorning" text, texts about her s… | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 08:16 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/26/2012I'm trying to initiate interactions with this girl that I really only get the chance to talk to online because she's away at college... how do you approach something like this? | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 04:57 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012Link to post Only see this girl during class... have never ran into her on campus before but she's been here for awhile. Can't switch seats in class (small class, anal professor), so sitting next to her isn't an option. Is it creepy to try flagging her down after class? And when I do finally approach her, should I open with "hey, I'd like to buy you a drink sometime" or something... or open with a class related question like "how do you think you did on the last assignment" etc? | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 12:39 AM |
| 1 | There is this girl in class who I think is really pretty and i want to approach her. Thing is, how can I make it not that awkward? (Details inside)I think I'm just going to flag her down after class and just straight up ask her if I can ask her a couple questions... 1 being can I buy her a drink sometime (or something along these lines) then the backup question something random about the class for comical relief... Not sure how it will go, but hoping for the best. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 02:39 AM |
| 1 | There is this girl in class who I think is really pretty and i want to approach her. Thing is, how can I make it not that awkward? (Details inside)I'm in this same situation, except it's a small ass class, and I don't see her outside of class at all. Kind of complicates things a bit. Was going to talk to her today but she took too damned long to finish her exam lls... I waited an extra 10 minutes after finishing mine hoping she would head out soon. Round 2, next week. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 02:31 AM |
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