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| 66 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no. | CMV | jtco_9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 09:42 PM |
| 56 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. | Debate | jtco_9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:39 AM |
| 34 | Being nice is irrelevant if you as a man are not sure whether a woman is interested on you or not. | CMV | jtco_9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:31 AM |
| 0 | If you are social, go out, APPROACH women, stop being shy and quiet then you have no arguments for not getting laid. | CMV | jtco_9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:02 AM |
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| 5 | should I tell my father about the redpillNot real. Women back in the day were more sexually, domestic and even professionally suppressed, that doesn’t mean men were red pilled. Men were comfortable with the idea that a woman would always be available to get married, be taken care of and raise kids while staying home. People think just because their grandparents/parents are still married things were going alright, when in reality dry bedrooms always existed. Men got away with cheating in an era where technology/social communication wasn… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/23 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Social NPCWhen somebody has been focused inwardly for too long it’s hard to shift that into being less self conscious, the best thing someone can do is to pick a personality type ( that works best) and then take a leap of faith, after that everything would be always better and would get more results than being stuck in your own head. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Social NPCIt’s funny how guys who are very antisocial and never been outside meeting women think you gotta be this badass asshole with a perfect line to actually talk to a girl, when in reality it’s only about saying “ hey how you doing” and start a conversation going like normal humans do, the only difference is that you like the girl and want to fuck her so you gonna direct that interaction towards that end. You got the attention of women what else you need? I would’ve say approach, ask questions, make … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Selective EmpathyYes, 0 sex and no success, but they started to be more receptive/aroused once I started to displaying that old “CHAD” version of me and was amazed how these women would still reward it, fuck many of these women were 30+ well educated, mature in paper and still rewarded the same attitude, of course starting fucking left and right like a teenager again. This type of man gets the best out of women, I’ll confirm it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Being nice is irrelevant if you as a man are not sure whether a woman is interested on you or not.You’re not discovering fire here, people who are social enough know that everywhere you go there’s manners and ways to talk to other people and still you don’t have to fake being overly nice. General politeness and manners are a must in every human interaction, the problem men overly do it with women cause they fear rejection/ want to please the girl. That’s when interactions become awkward and uncomfortable. Men would do more than good with women if they just stop trying to much to please, go o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Being nice is irrelevant if you as a man are not sure whether a woman is interested on you or not.Overly nice, smiley men are seen as manipulative/ dishonest, there’s studies that back that up. I would tell you any approach except that one works way better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Being nice is irrelevant if you as a man are not sure whether a woman is interested on you or not.True, if a woman for whatever reason doesn’t find you attractive at first glance, you have more chances or getting her into you by displaying asshole dominant behavior than acting nice/sweet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 05:05 AM |
| -1 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Still the most successful men I’ve ever seen always approached compared to the ones that were approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 11:01 AM |
| 2 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Again, passiveness. If approaching someone you find interesting and want to know more about, that might bring you happiness represents a big effort then the problem it’s not on them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:57 AM |
| 0 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.You can be a loser or not, that’s your own homework to know what type of person you are and what you have to work on, women are out there and they still hope a man is gonna come and approach her, then things might move forward or not, the essence is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:37 AM |
| -4 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.Men who go out there and experience that women don’t make a big deal for being approached and that’s there’s a good chance a man who’s willing to put himself out there is most likely to find a potential partner won’t be here complaining about it, COMMON SENSE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:33 AM |
| 2 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.You thinking ALL women are willing/going to get out there in a mission to demonstrate interest to the guys they find attractive to be become their potential partner demonstrates your lack of knowledge of what’s going on out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:30 AM |
| -6 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.A clear evidence you don’t know how things are going on in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:24 AM |
| 35 | Selective EmpathyWent back dating after being in the military for 12 years, used to be the type of guy who would heavy tease, give orders, be dominant, in other words I would be an asshole to women, I had a crazy amount of success back then, I got married and had an stable life while enrolling but me traveling a lot and being busy outside killed the relationship. Now I’m in USA and started to date again, I noticed how my behavior changed, I would be more polite, well spoken and mannered in my interactions with w… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/23 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman?I’ll tell you a secret, there’s no healthy reason you want to be friends with a woman, it’s pointless unnecessary and unnatural. Either you will want to fuck her at some point or she will want to fuck you and eventually the friendship it’s over, unless she’s very ugly/ unattractive that you have zero attraction towards her but really like her personality, tastes, hobbies etc etc to really enjoy spending non sexual/romantic time with her ( which is more rare than an albino crocodile) and of cours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 08:36 AM |
| 2 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.It doesn’t matter if it’s too direct or too indirect, like I said many men don’t know how to respect a woman’s NO and they fuck up, you as a person have the right to react however you want and that’s understandable, but a man should not be worried/ feel bad about that as long he’s not stalking or being too intense about it, everybody is responsible for their own feelings and actions period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Lost frame early into a 2.5yr LTR. Paid for it for the next two years. I was blind.You need to be rougher with women, the part where you treated her like shit and only use her for sex wasn’t that bad but you already fucked up at the beginning of the relationship so she already didn’t respect you. You weakened up because you like her and all that stupid shit men believe, like she was gonna save from what ??? Come on. The no reactivity part some guy commented here is very true, with women if you want to lose be reactive just like you did and watch how they step on you, treat you… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'You have no idea the things women tell to each other when men are not around, behind the scenes they’re the most amoral, evil, sick, degenerate pigs ever, while playing the lovely, sweet caring girl character when the naive NICE GUYS are around. Then they ask themselves why these women chase the asshole, loud abusive dude who rape fucks her all the time?? No wonder why there’s many posts,comments of guys confused why the more they behave like an asshole they more women want to be with them, we’l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:10 AM |
| 7 | Shit TestsNice corny explanation but it’s easier to just say to not take women seriously, far easier to understand than the whole bible right there. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Married BP Alpha to Chad…A world I didn’t know existedIf you’re good looking you will get attention but that’s not the only way… I knew an ugly broke guy getting women left and right, remember girls go for the feels and the way a man can make them feel and this guy knew how, pretty dominant/ idgaf attitude/ masculine. If you have the right attitude you’ll make them feel, if you’re hot you’ll make them feel too, both are successful. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/23 06:09 AM |
| 3 | How To Be A Good Clown (Roosh repost)Not only women feel disgusted with a quiet, reserved, well mannered, introverted, shy guy, other men feel repeled by then too. Those guys aren’t fun to be around and everybody knows that. But being the ultra energetic motherfucker that’s always smiling, trying to make everybody laugh, that no one takes him seriously and seems to never shut the fuck up is almost as bad as the shy/ introverted guy, actually they both belong to the same shit hole. You want to be proud of who you are, developing eno… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/23 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”That’s fucking right there. To keep it simple like that you have to don’t give a fuck at all, these men can’t figure it out yet.. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”She having to decide if she wants to fuck or not is irrelevant, if she’s gonna like you or reject you, who cares about that, it’s more about the mentality that comes with it, words are just a reflection of an attitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 09:37 AM |
| 87 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”You only be creepy when you’re not being clear about your intentions with women, that guy starring at her tits without saying shit?? Or that guy who brings stupid small talk while looking nervous?? Yeah thats being creepy and I would be scared if I was a woman too.. I know a guy that it’s pretty average and doesn’t have any “charming game” with women, he’s kinda of an asshole, not very polite or friendly, rough in his demeanor, doesn’t smile a lot unless there’s something that really can make hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.Makes sense, women unconsciously get extremely wet for men that display asshole/Dominant/aggressive behavior, even tho their brains deny,hate it, their pussies do the opposite and we know how the story ends. It’s just an unconscious reflection of their true desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 12:39 AM |
| 23 | Had two great dates, then she ghosts meI still don’t know why these motherfuckers are still trying to go on dates with women. While you take her to a nice bar to buy her a couple drinks hoping to get a piece of that pussy, there’s a guy who was straightforward enough to tell her his intentions in 2 minutes and is gonna fuck her after that DEEP PHILOSOPHICAL conversation you both had... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Men would be alot less frustrated in the dating effort if they were given brutally honest and often politically incorrect truths about what most women expect from a man.Still there’s more women out there dating/fucking criminals than ultra nice soft guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 02:15 AM |
| 15 | What escorts taught me.Man thinks women are here to be our friends after we done fucking them, they want a masculine figure to obey to not a fucking friend to talk about music albums.. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/23 06:03 AM |
| 2 | What escorts taught me.If I want to have a great conversation, hang out, travel, do outdoor activities, crack jokes and drink while watching a sports game, I’d rather do it with my male friends, that are capable of providing a better good time than a woman. Men need to understand women are not here to be your partner in crime or your confident in life, women are here to please us sexually, give us kids and rely on us to be the head of a family. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/23 06:01 AM |
| 7 | Cold Approach And The Symbolic OrderTreat/talk to women like you’re doing them a favor, you’ll see how their attitude changes, women want to look up at a man, not down. Allow yourself to feel like a man, women get wet for that. Yes, men who try to act “ALPHA” will demean, insult, put down women right away, to overcompensate for their anxiety and fear to the opposite gender, that’s like when you haven’t eat in 10 days and someone brings you a juicy steak, you would be so anxious and desperate that you will just chunk it all at once… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/23 10:08 AM |
| 84 | Women want angels to provide and take care of them and they want devils to fuck them, so balance your Jungian shadow and apply it to all aspects of your life.Too much giving ( nice,agreeable, caring) and too much taking ( jerk/arrogant/straightforward/selfish) are both away from the healthy middle , but after many years witnessing how women behave and the stuff they do I would say it’s way BETTER and BENEFICIAL to be the one who’s taking than the one who’s giving….. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to truly be at peace with TRP teachings.First I would like you to tell me what’s that personality of yours that you call “shitty”and what’s the “alpha” personality you use to get the results you talk about here. I think I know where you going but I would like you to answer me first | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/23 06:28 AM |
| 13 | be willing to walk awayI would say majority of men who are unsuccessful with women are still afraid or insecure to be that alpha/idgaf/masculine guy, it’s not that they don’t know how to be, more like a imposter syndrome or being afraid to be successful, and this also applies when taking the L with a bitch that’s not being good to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/23 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.Men have to keep hitting on women and go for what they want no matter if it’s sex, relationship or friendship, if the women feel good or about it then that’s their problem. Men who are successful are the ones who put their foot in the door, and these women know it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 06:19 AM |
| 4 | I have an approach anxiety problem and I don't know how to fix itYou respect them too much, they just women, stupid, hyper sexual, immature, and very emotional beings, if you fear them or respect them too much then you going against nature and they don’t like that, be good to them by treating them for what they are, will make your life easier and you’ll fuck tons of them. Talk to them,be always sexual, dominate them, give them orders, make fun of them don’t be shy at all, have a backbone and learn when to say NO. I grew up watching a fat old biker guy doing t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Being confident, but unattractive, will get a man called creepyI knew a guy who was as 5’6, kinda fat, far from rich with a a mediocre face, didn’t like to use cologne and be very clean, smoked a lot of cigarette so you know. I’ve never seen a guy who pulled more girls than him. I’m not defending his attitude but for sure he was one over confident tough guy, he would demean women and treat them as objects, the guy was not shy whatsoever to tell what he wanted I what he didn’t, very dominant and with a string backbone not surprised why many women wanted to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 07:00 PM |
| 13 | Low inhibition is the most important trait a man can have.Yea I’ve seen men that were very uninhibited and that didn’t give a fuck, they never faked niceness or tried to gain approval from anybody. These guys would be very sexual and would demean women, seeing them as objects, they weren’t afraid to tell them no and walk away/ignore these girls and still I would see them lining up to fuck those dudes, many of them were college educated, lawyers, nurses, accountants and many were married, so yeah there’s that. While I would know other men that would be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:55 AM |
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