jtinian Archive

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11	Why are OF models disliked? Because porn is basically free and most OnlyFans aren't. Yeah, I understand that porn does actaully cost money to make, and you can pay for it, but it's so easy to access it for free. And most of the larger porn studios are big enough to deal with the constant leaking/pirating of their content, or at least it seems that way. OnlyFans models are usually one person and can't take on that loss associated with their conten being pirated or leaked. Most men born during or after the 90s or something l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 07:03 PM
1	It's acceptable to direct infantilizing insults at men, but not at women, and that double standard is weird Think about it, when's the last time you heard an immature woman being called a "womanbaby"? "Babygirl" is an example, but it's not negative bc men decided a long time ago that immature women were attractive. Also, how often do you see men who want a traditional housewife who cooks and cleans for him being told that they want "a mommy they can bang" rather than a wife? Well yeah, if that's so important to you that you make it a top 5 non-negotiable, then yeah, you probably want a mom you can ban…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 09:46 PM
2	The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative values Are women sex machines or humans? Humans. Do you believe female sexual choice is also based on morality? Kind of..? I'm confused on how this question is framed. Of course, there are moral considerations that may affect who you decide to sleep with, but it just depends. Most people don't want to sleep with child sexual abusers. Less, but still a significant amount of people would be ok with sleeping with an ex-con. The idea is that if women are not choosing a man, he has something wrong with him,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 09:41 PM
3	The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative values What is so hard to understand that women receive the benefits of dating single women while proving nothing meanwhile as a guy you actually have to be above avreage in order to date single men These distinctions matter because you have to be above average amongst single men. Which is essentially bare minimum. Men in relationships still have issues with emotional intelligence, dressing attractively/appropriately, grooming themselves properly, etc and they were still chosen by women! Which means …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 08:57 PM
1	For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fear The byproduct of this shift is a world where women have access to far fewer men than before, as men will either date more passively, no longer driven by the fear of being single, or opt out of dating entirely I still don't understand why this shift matters to a man who has a healthy relationship with dating. Whether or not women have access to 10 or 100 men, this man is already in a position to date successfully because of all of the positive changes he has made to his life. The issue isn’t abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:46 PM
2	For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fear So, what’s the alternative? I believe men should consider embracing single life—not as a temporary phase but as a legitimate and fulfilling option. Permanent singledom allows men to focus on personal growth, career aspirations, hobbies, and friendships without tying their self-worth to dating or relationships. We don’t need women as much as we’ve been conditioned to believe, and it’s time we started finding fulfilment independently of them. This is essentially the MGTOW movement, which predates …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 05:32 PM
1	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I guess we just have different personal experiences. I went to a small STEM private college and then completed my masters at v large public university. I wanna say more than half of all the people I knew well enough to know about their relationships are either engaged, married, or still together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 10:17 PM
1	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD My parents (hs sweethearts, masters), my uncle and aunt (college, bachelors), my godparents (college, masters), my grandparents (immigrants, no clue, but they were young), all 20+ yrs, still going strong, only exception is my grandparents, but they never officially divorced nor found other partners. All college educated (except for my grandparents), and then there's me and my fiance (college, masters) 10 years strong. It's a combination of educational attainment as well as family culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 09:57 PM
1	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD 30 year old female friend with (probably) a high body count said a 30 year old virgin guy is an ick Well, yeah, why has no one had sex with you? Like, a 30yr man without a single body is definitely a red flag. From the women's perspective: "If none of the women you've met in your life found you interesting/attractive/rich/funny/safe enough to have sex with you, then why should I?" Most single women 25+ are at approx 1-3+ guys a year. So a 30 year old woman is at least in the double digits. I can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 09:26 PM
3	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD No...? It's probably just a rough estimate that one comes up with based on their sexual activity. Only a psycho writes that shit down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 09:22 PM
1	Are "Ladies Nights" at bars sexist? Should they be abolished? If one club gives women free entry and is successful, then other clubs would also do the same thing to attract the women. They already do, and the success is predicated on how many men they bring in because they pay for drinks. The women would then be able to club or bar hop, since they have lots of options to choose from. Most places don't let you in if you've been drinking. It's a very common policy. The benefit for men would dissipate, since the club with the gathering of women would change. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 11:42 PM
1	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. No disrespect, you might be one of those people who need the experience of being a parent or caregiver in order to understand what truly goes into parenthood because it does not make perfect sense. Your brain literally changes when you are thrust into a parental role. After years of being a parent, you are not only financially invested but also deeply emotionally invested in your child, regardless of your genetic relation to them. Are you implying that you, or other people, could just 'turn off'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 06:35 PM
1	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. A man doesn't know he has conceived a child with a woman, and only discovers after years he had a genetic child. Would you say, it makes no sense if he would want to get to know his child and would like to keep in touch? But what is spurring the emotional connection between this guy and his genetic child? I can understand the curiosity aspect, or potential desire for some kind of relationship, but this isn't as common as i think people think it is. There are sperm donors who know they have kids …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:56 PM
8	How have women evolved with hypergamous selection if they haven’t had a choice in their mate until modern era? Poor farmers still used their daughters as bartering tools Yeah, that's not the woman being hypergamous tho. I guess it would be the father enaging in hypergamy, if that's how that word works. Are you saying hypergamous actions are learned and not biological? I believe history says otherwise Yes, I believe it's learned and not biological. For something to be biological would suggest its genetic, and that kind of evolution takes place over 100 million years, not the 300,000 time span that humans …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 04:55 AM
14	How have women evolved with hypergamous selection if they haven’t had a choice in their mate until modern era? How have women evolved with hypergamous selection if they haven’t had a choice in their mate until modern era? They haven't. The majority people across human history were poor and had little to no choice with who they mated with. when our modern instincts This evolution was a recent development? They simply cheated and actually had the baby of the man they were actually attracted to and had the arranged marriage man raise the baby. ( Plausible but this seems so dangerous and risky, as if the man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:57 AM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD I'm just using language that they would understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:40 AM
5	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. top comment was telling the woman to say "NO" and tell her husband into get into therapy to work on his trust issues. Other women agreed with her. This shows me how out of touch women are with men. How are you THIS comfortable with immediately generalizing the entire gender? Are you also aware how incredibly broken this hypothetical monogamous relationship is if you're asking for paternity tests??? What kind of situation would warrant this? Obviously not the long-term, loving and trusting one, s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:37 AM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD There are some men with basic social skills, some emotional intelligence, and free time. They go outside and talk to women, understand their local dating culture, and make an effort to get to know these people. Of course, some of them will get rejected but they don't have a mental breakdown and start questioning their worth as a human. They are somewhat resilient, keep trying, and eventually find someone they can have a long-term relationship with. They are usually not spending their time on red…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:20 AM
15	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics This is such a tired myth peddled by older undesirable women - ie he can’t manipulate women his own age, they’re wise to his games/inadequacy etc. It's not a myth, this happens a lot. None of this is true, and despite being glaringly obvious it somehow persists. Because some of it is true Why would a man want to deal with emotional baggage from an inferior product? Why would women want to deal with all the emotional baggage older men have? Oh, it turns out that this is just a preference, and the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 12:43 AM
-1	Why do men crave romantic interest so much? Men will chase after a relationship and intimacy, and will enter a state of despair if they do not get it. Many times becoming destructive to themselves and/or others. And even some stating that life is not worth living if they do not have a girlfriend :/ Weak mental and possibly insane men. They don't need to procreate at all. We don't want more of them running around. It's not "men craving romantic interest so much" it's chronically single men inadvertently amplifying how undesirable they are.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 10:41 PM
1	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects Or you're just wrong, but no, that couldn't possibly be the case, you saw it with your own eyes, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 10:30 PM
2	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects “Go to a mall” lol to see senior citizens walking laps? Somehow, senior citizen means older than 35. You can't make this up lmao *	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 10:28 PM
1	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects When your anecdotal evidence aligns with statistical evidence, it's just bolsters your argument even more. I guess you wouldn't get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 10:15 PM
1	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects So now we’re supposed to disregard the data Let's do some research. Link it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 08:35 PM
2	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects Ok, and it's just not what usually happens across the nation, so your "lived experience" is not really worth anything to the discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 08:30 PM
3	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects “Go to a mall” lol to see senior citizens walking laps? This is what I mean, you either refuse to or won't go outside. This is an insane take. Malls aren't even really built to be accessible for that demographic of people. They meet the bare minimum for ADA requirements. More stairs and escalators than elevators, loud music, stores like H&M, Forever 21, Nike, etc that are clearly geared towards a younger audience. And then there's the layout. Most malls are between 400k-800k sqft, most old peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:43 PM
1	Men who don't want to get married, why? Uh...isn't that why it's best practice to get them witnessesed and notarized? No joke, I've never really looked that deeply into the process, but it seems like these are very basic procedures to go through if you want to avoid a messy divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:29 PM
0	Are "Ladies Nights" at bars sexist? Should they be abolished? If you offer different prices to different people based on gender, that is sexism. No, offering different prices to different people simply because they are a particular gender is sexist. If these club/bar owners truly believed that women deserved free drinks because they are women, then why wouldn't they do it 365/24/7 ? Why is it that at most of these "Ladies Nights" there are time restrictions and limits on how many discounted/free drinks they can get? It's because they're being used as bait …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 09:31 AM
0	Men who don't want to get married, why? Seems like men assume most of the risk in a marriage and there is absolutely nothing to stop a woman from being abusive, cheating, or divorcing. This goes both ways, no? And even if it didn't, why are you marrying an abusive, cheating woman? Wouldn't you just break up at the girlfriend stage or engagement stage if you can see the signs of this? She can leave at any time for any reason and take at least half of the man's money and more than likely his house Isn't this why prenuptial agreements ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 09:18 AM
1	People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating. Tell me why this is a worthwhile sacrifice to make for a man to be able to have sex within 30-90 days of meeting you I don't know, how about you ask the millions of women who use the contraceptives like this every single day instead of trying to poorly rationalize yourself into a hole of contraceptives = bad. I also listed several other side effects When you vaguely mention "discomfort"? What does that even mean? Who does it affect, and to what degree? it is not misinformation to say we aren’t o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 09:02 AM
2	People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating. Imagine wanting a woman to gain weight, have mood swings, and basically trick her body into thinking it’s pregnant (or have metal jammed up her uterus) so that you can have sex with her within 30-90 days of meeting. Who tf wants this? Why are you framing this in a way that implies wanting to have sex with a woman = wanting her to suffer??? The gaining weight side effect has been debunked, and the mood swings only affect some women. Condoms also fall off, slip off, and tear You don't need to do t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:47 AM
2	Men who say they don't care This is BS. I'm not saying the system works, but being able to hold down a well-paying job in this system is a solid indicator that the person you're dealing with is somewhat competent in this system. Idc how hot you are, if the most you could achieve in your life is an entry-level position at Staples or the local fast-food joint, you're either stupid or severely disadvantaged, neither of which I'd want to deal with in the long-term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 07:06 AM
45	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects Go to a mall (or any place where strangers gather) and walk around for less than 20 minutes. There are all kinds of people in relationships. Tall people, short people, ugly people, fat people, thin people, people with kids, people without kids, people who look poor, people who look rich, ugly men and good looking women, ugly women and good-looking men, etc. Everytime, without fail, I see such a broad and diverse range of people holding hands and enjoying each other's company. Doesn't matter what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 06:52 AM
0	Are "Ladies Nights" at bars sexist? Should they be abolished? No. They're not getting free/cheap drinks solely because they're women, they're just bait for men. Sexism would be free/cheap drinks for women ALL the time because the bar/club owners believe that women deserve this privilege over men, regardless of the time of day, day of the week, week of the year, etc. Most of these "Ladies Nights" are just that, on a particular day, restricted to a few hours, limits on the number of drinks, and so on. It's very clearly a tactic to pack a club/bar by enticing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 06:42 AM
3	Are "Ladies Nights" at bars sexist? Should they be abolished? Discrimination is discrimination and should be banned even if it’s good for business. Should discounts to disabled people, veterans, or students be banned as well? Discrimination that hurts people should be banned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 06:13 AM
–	Women: “we decide your SMV not you!” Meanwhile the general public lust over objectively frightening men like Pete Davidson, Robert Pattinson & Jeremy Allen White, and the fact that these men are completely lacking in charisma or personality discredits that followup argument The men that you think women should find attractive aren't lining up with what women in general are finding attractive. If your goal is to be attractive to women, then maybe find out what specifically it is about these men that women are finding attractive instead of suggesting that they might be "wrong" or "contradictory".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 01:49 AM
2	What screams wife material to you? Loyalty, proper communication, and time/room for me to grow. That last one is super important because a lot of people think that they're looking for their perfect puzzle piece, which is a lie that has been sold to you. Relationships work when you tailor your personal growth to the person you want to be with, shedding your negative traits and understanding each other on a deeper level. Good, long-lasting relationships/marriages don't just fall into your lap, you have to work for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:42 PM
1	Would you date a broke woman? I'm speaking generally here There's levels to it: Poor women: low-income neighborhood, paycheck-to-paycheck, behind on bills, all kinds of debt, etc. Ambition or no ambition, there's too much to learn/unlearn in order to build a solid foundation for a relationship. And then there's the co-factors, like higher incidence of drug abuse, alcohol, crime, etc. I would know, I used to be poor and lived in a low income neighborhood. Financially irresponsible women: paycheck-to-paycheck, behind on bills,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:32 PM
1	Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity. Feminism has made the "standard" much more loose because a core part of the movement is to accept all women. Men just don't do that. They continue to enforce these rigid and hypermasculine standards that most men just can't reach. Any time there's a fat guy in a popular show or movie, it's played off as a joke. You rarely see a leading man that's in tune with his emotions, they're usually anti-social, cold, distant, etc. The red-pill, manosphere tells you that you've failed as a man if you're no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:04 PM
2	Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in women I think you're onto something, as I don't agree with your conclusions, but traveling is a red flag. I don't understand how the novelty of experiencing a new place outweighs all of the safety and security of your home country. Like tap water, reliable emergency services, healthcare, understanding the language/road signs, familiar and reliable food, rights and freedoms, etc; these are incredibly important things to give up for x amount of months out of every year. And then there's the cost...if yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 11:26 PM
1	Can advocates of casual sex propose it’s merits? I think you're attacking it the wrong way - casual relationships are easy and low commitment. There's no adversity or growth that one needs to do in order to engage in those kinds of relationships - nothing respectable about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 06:51 AM
1	What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women? Male loneliness (‘Men don’t have meaningful relationships because women prevent this from happening’, check my last post to see this viewpoint repeated over and over) I think (my opinion incoming) this is the result of male friendships forming through shared activities. Coworkers, people you play videogames with, sports teams, etc. But it's 100% contingent on the shared activity; I personally would feel a bit weird going out to dinner with the people I play videogames with or playing videogames …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 11:12 PM
4	How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women? Your premise is incorrect: How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women? Guys are ok with sleeping with fat women, but not marrying them. I see a lot of posts on this sub conflating the two in statements just like this one. Also Fat men are well known to be funnier than skinny men. So why wouldn’t women want fat guys? In the same way you can generalize that fat men are funnier, women can also generalize with "fat men are smelly" and that could be one explanat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 12:43 AM
1	What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone? I mean, I don't see any women committing mass shootings or offing themselves because they were radicalized by incel culture	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:56 PM
-1	You can't truly be red pilled if you aren't a religious person Yeah it is. How long have you been on the internet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:12 PM
0	You can't truly be red pilled if you aren't a religious person TRP has existed for a while, like there is an "old RP" and a "new RP". I think you're referring to what most people see now, but the older one was much closer to MGTOW beliefs, Religion (Christianity), bodybuilding, with some racism/antisemitism and conspiracy thrown in. It's like how the term "based" was co-opted from Lil B by fringe conservatives, then mainstream conservatives, and now everyone uses it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:10 PM
1	if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is? Birth control, in various ways, exists. There's no reason to 'withold' sex. It's also a very easy way to establish a strong emotional connection with most people. As far as making sure they commit, you can only ask questions and make an educated guess. Depending on how comfortable they are, ask about their friendships, family, hobbies, health (mental and physical), past relationships, etc. Also, be sure to make your intentions clear: Are you dating for marriage, a long term relationship, or a sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:02 PM
2	In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why? I think this is very much one of the problems with gender equality. Women and Men SHOULD be treated differently socially, but at the same time, we want to prescribe policy that treats them the same legally. The issue is that social/cultural values eventually become legal over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 05:10 PM
–	You can choose who you're attracted to How does one learn? How do people become atheists? How does therapy work? How did German soldiers become capable of committing atrocious acts against other human beings? How do people become radicalized? Did Dylan Roof kill all those people because he was inherently racist? The human brain is incredibly flexible. To suggest otherwise means you don't believe in psychology, so just say that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 08:55 PM
–	You can choose who you're attracted to Because one has essentially been proven and the other hasn't? So many studies exist that show the effect porn has on men developing new fetishes, how they view women's attractiveness, and how they interact with women in general. That's ONLY porn. Could you not imagine a scenario where you were subjected with images of only women a certain body type and skin tone while being reinforced by your peers that that is what is conventially attractive? oh wait... To say that what OP suggests isn't possib…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 08:04 PM
–	You can choose who you're attracted to Yeah, this is like 1000% accurate. You can make people do almost anything given enough time and torture/therapy. Religions/cults, Stockholms, brainwashing, etc operate off this base principle of neuroplasticity	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 07:41 PM
–	You can choose who you're attracted to Ok, yeah, neuroplasticity and cbt are just fake, I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 07:37 PM
–	You can choose who you're attracted to You've got to be joking. Are you seriously implying that changing the type of woman you're attracted to and changing your sexual orientation are equally challenging?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 07:34 PM
–	You can choose who you're attracted to ...how exactly do you think porn works? And how many men spiral into some weird fetishes because of all the wild hc porn that's out there? What OP is describing has been proven to be true; do you think cognitive behavioral therapy is fake?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 07:24 PM
1	Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance? If the average man was approached by a woman, would he always take her up on that offer if there were no repercussions? The key here is 'no repercussions'. Would the average person rob a bank if there were no repercussions? Would the average person do drugs if there were no repercussions? I think the answer is always yes because of how broad 'no repercussions' is. If so, would he take her up on that offer even if he was in a relationship? Probably. No repercussions means that his partner will ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 07:08 PM
6	Men are attracted to narcissistic and BPD women because they are also hypersexual, not because of their personality. It just boils down to mental illness. They're the easiest people to take advantage of. You could say the same of women with low self-esteem, women who are depressed, etc. It's sickening, but it is the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 12:12 AM
7	Men are absolutely stupid when it comes to red flags. Why would men, at least historically, have any ability to properly vet and enter healthy relationships with women? Could you point me to the time in human history where the majority of men were choosing who they wanted to procreate with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 12:06 AM
1	CMV : Statistical average doesn’t matter one bit, our brains only register “potential” average. Most people are below that average. Do you honestly think that a 'good looking man' is only that and nothing else? Personal hygiene (discipline) and great features (genetics) are underlying, correlating factors that play into that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 06:44 PM
4	CMV : Statistical average doesn’t matter one bit, our brains only register “potential” average. Most people are below that average. Woman on the other hand, even when below statistical and potential average, posses sexually dimorphic and arousing traits by default simply by being a woman. Breasts, feminine faces, long hair, bums, high pitched voices, etc. Men are aroused by even women below potential average, let alone statistical. I dont think this is true at all. There are women with no bums, no breasts, no hips, obese, facial hair, masculine faces, deep voices, etc the same way there are men with no muscles, obese/skinny …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 05:48 PM
1	Why even start a family where both parents are working? Having autonomy over how and when you work is probably the most ideal situation you can bring kids into. That way, you can always guarantee that at least 1 parent is spending time with / enriching the kids' lives. However, something akin to a 'stay-at-home parent' is terrible as your kids only really grow up with one parent. This can lead to dysfunctional family relations down the line. It's best to have both parents in the picture equally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 05:10 PM