| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 622 | If they even try to apologize... | LESSON LEARNED | jucamonole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:06 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Be balanced ladies 😂Gender roles don't fly with me. We in this together. You put 100% and I put 100%. Not this 100/50 bull. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | If they even try to apologize...It’s all good. I learned and grew from it. I don’t cry over spilled milk.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 6 | If they even try to apologize...That’s what they do. The press and press and as soon as you can’t take it anymore and explode, they flip it on you. You are not alone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:17 AM |
| 7 | If they even try to apologize...That’s called gaslighting. It’s a manipulative tactic to deflect things. My ex-husband had his PHd in narcissism and this was one of his signature moves. He fucked with my head so badly that he’d be out doing things with other women and I’d feel guilty that the reason he was doing that was because I was not being a good wife. He would get mad at the smallest of things, I would feel guilty for not doing as he demanded of me. In bed, I felt like I had to oblige in order to keep the peace at times … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:15 AM |
| 4 | If they even try to apologize...There are many of us who have never heard the words, “I’m sorry.” Too many of us... unfortunately. 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:10 AM |
| 7 | If they even try to apologize...They are incapable of empathy. It’s actually gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:08 AM |
| 4 | If they even try to apologize...It’s infuriating to read how similar they all are. Too many of us have been in your shoes, feeling guilty for something that was well within our right to say no to. This is a tactic. This is manipulative moves to get us to do whatever they want. I’m sorry this happened to you. It definitely leaves a scar! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:07 AM |
| 20 | If they even try to apologize...200%!! Needless to say, we are divorced now... 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 96 | If they even try to apologize...True that... I have experienced this first hand. In my case, my ex would not apologize or attempted to. He wouldn’t even try. His way of apologizing was by initiating sex. And then get pissed when I turned him down as if it was within his right to take. Men are gross.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:52 PM |
| 32 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.That Prenuptial wording might as well say: What’s mine is mine. What’s your is our. Sign X: ______________ Glad she was wise enough to walk away. POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:13 PM |
| 15 | Turn down for what?Yup, pretty much what happened with me. I was told i would never make it with out him. Well, he was so wrong. Currently in the process of buying my own house, 1 year left to finish my masters, and well... I have a great job. Him, well.... that’s a whole other story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:59 PM |
| 13 | Where's the lie though?Yes, of course. Sometimes society speaks louder in the ears of young men/boys. Still, we try our best to set examples for our kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:48 PM |
| 37 | Where's the lie though?Having a son teaches you the opposite. It teaches you that we have a responsibility to educate our sons on how they should treat women. If we leave it to the men, this world would be a complete shit show, not just a partial shit show. The few good men out there were once boys with mommas who did the right thing to educate their sons. (Yes, there are some good men. Not many, but some!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:55 PM |
| 18 | 'Ouch my ego'Literally laughed out loud. My ex actually said this very same thing... 😂 you cannot make this shit up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Don't build a Man ladiesWow... ain’t this the truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:04 AM |
| 62 | THISThis is a great question to weed some of these abusers out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 01:54 AM |
| 4 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Thanks. I don’t think I said anything wrong; I’m just not there for shits and giggles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 12:03 AM |
| 7 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Thank you. Some have questioned my response as to say I asked for it. Unreal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!No kidding. It’s sad, really. Sad that there are women who fall that trap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Nothing but filth indeed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Probably my favorite tinder bio from my brief stint on the app....“Wow! What an arrogant catch he is”. said no self respecting woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:26 PM |
| 8 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!I agree. And to be honest, I am using it as a social experiment. So far my theory has been correct. Men are all full of shit! All of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:19 PM |
| 26 | All hail Queen Ashlee 🙌🏽Amen, sistah! Amen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Yes, it is unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!What? This app is geared for woman to message first. And yes, lucky to sleep in. He messaged me at 12pm. It’s called making conversation. I was not suggesting anything. Please do explain how YOU would have proceeded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 3 | From a potential date before we’d even gone out once: Sure you were joking...testing the waters then backtracking, gaslighting and when neither worked hitting me with the oh so classic angry tirade of abuse 👌Oh my, if this doesn’t reek of abuser, I do not know what does. “So I could choke you”? I cannot even... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:10 PM |
| 12 | 👏🏻STOP👏🏻WASTING👏🏻TIME👏🏻ON👏🏻LOW👏🏻VALUE👏🏻MENIf being 6’0” is their only selling point, run! And don’t look back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:07 PM |
| 8 | She had me in the first half 😂I could not agree more. I married young. Had two kids with a man who had literally NOTHING. We married, he leveled up while tearing me down. He is now with a much younger women; at least 20 years younger. It pains me to see, but I am also seeing that I can rebuild. He won’t even amount to much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:06 PM |
| 8 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Indeed. It’s actually gross. To be fair, there are women who thrive when they hear that type of monkey lines. I can’t even fathom the thought. Like dude, I don’t even know you, why the hell would I want to cuddle with you?! 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 9 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Oh no, the conversation ended there. He had nothing further to say after that. I called him out on his advances and well, he stopped responding. I laughed because this whole OLD has now become a social experiment for me. I like to see how far some of these men are willing to go. It’s comical, actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:49 PM |
| 14 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!I have no idea. This was just today. I cannot make this up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:47 PM |
| 11 | When you call him out and he calls you crazyAbsolute turn off. As if the pictures on the profile weren’t enough? WTF?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 02:08 PM |
| 107 | She had me in the first half 😂Umm... nope! I have had the displeasure of meeting someone who had nothing. I built his ass up, and he drained me. Now I had to restart my life again while he’s in his comfy home. F’ THAT! Get on MY level or “boy, bye!”✌️ I am not here to clean up after no man. I am not here to be his secretary, maid, personal driver, none of that. Treat me like a queen, and I’ll treat you like a king. The second you treat me like a peasant, “c-ya, fucker!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 02:03 PM |
| 10 | Another TINDER trashSadly, there are some women who are intact attracted to this type of “douchery” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:47 PM |
| 10 | Thank you FDS. this is a screenshot of the type of 🤡s I dealt with before joining. I wanted him to take me to a restaurant and suggested a nice sit down place that was affordable and he wanted fast food and a hangout 🤭 now its just me and my careerI do agree McDonalds is a classless first date. That’s being said, I’d be ok with a cup of coffee and a walk at the park as a first date. I am not there to eat, I am there to see if this person is someone who I am compatible with. The issue I have with this is not fast food. It’s the lack of creativity and effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:17 PM |
| 10 | People can actually change but there is no reason to entertain someone you forgive.Forgiveness is not synonym for reconciliation. I forgive you, but... Boy, bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Handling rejection like a HVM. (explanation in comments)Thanks. It was all good. I was assertive and definitely put him in his place. Just goes to show the level of psycho some men are. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:47 AM |
| 12 | Handling rejection like a HVM. (explanation in comments)I did this once. The guy got so upset. He even went as far as to create another Bumble account to catfish me. He was caught and reported. It’s tragic, but some times even honesty backfires! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:00 PM |
| 6 | I want a man, not a baby smhRead this and LOLed... so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:26 PM |
| 10 | Don’t let yourself get scammedThis hits home... 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:07 PM |
| 6 | Guy on PP trying to convince me that expecting men to pay for dates is a bad strategy while admitting he would barely pay for a 9/10 woman. But why would I want to date a man who won’t pay because he thinks I am a 2/10? Lol! Just another reminder why you should never settle by splitting the bill!Annnndds.... that is probably why he’s single! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 04:09 AM |
| 8 | I don’t see the problemExactly! Sorry, not sorry. I have 2 kids, not 3. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:45 PM |
| 42 | I don’t see the problemI have actually said these words. We are now divorced. 😂 (my choice!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 01:26 PM |
| 3 | How I wish I could let her know that she doesn’t have to lower her standardsOh, no. That’s the problem. Ladies, once we lower our standards, all hell breaks loose! Stick to your standards and weed them out! The right one will eventually check off every one of those very basic standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:51 AM |
| 65 | Please please please stay safe out there. Seemingly "nice guys" can be predators. Never feel guilty for setting boundaries or telling people that make you uncomfortable to piss off.Oh, hell no! My door is ALWAYS locked. We just do not know nowadays. And I have two daughters! They know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:38 AM |
| 2 | 🐍She was too calm for it to be a real snake. My ass would have been gonnnnnnnnne! 💨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:27 AM |
| 60 | The biggest pickmeisha ever?Well... I am guessing they are now divorced? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 05:56 AM |
| 26 | These two things get confused for each other far too often🤕 ouch! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:14 AM |
| 3 | HVM will not waste your time and know when games are gamesGeezzz. He took a long time to decide... no way in hell! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 02:46 PM |
| 6 | He also told me he cheated on an ex but he was “just being a guy”“...but you’re different.” I wonder how many times he has used that line before?! 🤔 yeah, he sounds like a dick. Thank you, next. He may be “ugly” but his personality is trash. Get rid of him NOW! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | He charges her for coffee at his home.He’s a POS. Leave his stingy ass NOW. Then send him a bill for wasting your time. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:51 AM |
| 1 | You Man Isn't a Damn Pet Project, If He's a Shit Person FUCKING LEAVE (Especially During this WFH Period, Their True Colors are Showing)Thanks. Tomorrow will mark my 1 year divorce anniversary. I’ll be celebrating with my girls! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:49 AM |
| 77 | You Man Isn't a Damn Pet Project, If He's a Shit Person FUCKING LEAVE (Especially During this WFH Period, Their True Colors are Showing)Zero tolerance. The second he put his hands on me; I filed for a divorce. No questions asked. No remorse. My daughters needed to learn that, so I modeled it for them. I was not there to stroke his ego. He lost, and is now paying for the decision he made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 02:24 PM |
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