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We're not allowed to, as that would be "racist", or "Islamophobic".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:52 AM
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There needs to be a post on this. A lot of why women put up with men is because we need them to get pregnant. Sometimes childbirth can be seen as an end-of-life thing, when in reality it can be truly freeing. It's the beginning of the rest of your life where you don't have to stay because of a biological clock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:30 AM
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It's just some romantic sheen on them wanting a man who does at least something. Subconsciously they know a man likely won't clean the house, cook, organise events, do the shopping, so they're banking on him at least doing yardwork, changing the oil in the car, and cleaning the gutters of his own accord, motived by his warped idea of "what a man should do", rather than the healthy idea of what adults should do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:04 AM
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Exactly. I never sought male attention, I've always sought male humanity, whenever I reached out to them, gave them a chance, brushed off their jokes, blinded myself to red flags, and trusted that they could be in charge of something important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:11 AM
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I think that polyamory is quite common in the US so you will see a wide range of body types and looks of people who practise it. Meanwhile in Europe it's not really common, and so the people who are polyamorous are the socailly-limited nerds who spend so much time on the internet that they fail to assimilate into their own culture and end up picking up US social values and norms. And so, whenever I see someone who's polyamorous here, the man always so bad looking and not socially attractive. He'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 09:12 AM
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This is a wonderful write-up. I want to hear more stories of grown women who have gone through painful LTR's, because there's often more complexity, and more to analyse. ​ had had a good upbringing with parents who loved and respected me, never abused me, listened, and took me seriously. Nearly all of my other relationships were healthy, happy, full of mutuality and reciprocity. All of that helped enormously. This part was surprising to me. I didn't have this and thought that's why my boundaries…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:29 AM
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A few years ago I had a male friend complain to me that a mutual male acquaintance was a pathological fuckboi until his hairline started receding, and suddenly he settled down with a "woman who doesn't deserve him". This guy is far from being an FDS follower, and doesn't engage in anything related to feminist literature, and even he was able to make the connection between the hair and the sudden change in behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:57 AM
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Exactly. Imagine having stretch marks and being so unfazed about them that you didn't post pictures about them online, because they're just part of your body, like your elbows. Embracing would mean not attaching any particular value to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 10:45 AM
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Exactly, it's about achieving orgasm. So if a woman has 20 partners and 0 orgasms and then settles into a LTR with a guy who's good in bed, and a woman has 0 partners and 0 orgasms, and then settles into a LTR with a guy who's good in bed, they're both winning in the end. It's men who've decided that racking PIV encounters is what counts. Whereas it's actually how many times we've achieved pleasure that counts. It would be funny if sex was only counted if the woman orgasmed too, and the concept …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 04:56 PM
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Women are being killed and raped by men all the time in western countries. But we're too busy fighting tooth and nail to include men in feminism to take note.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:25 AM
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I'm 100% happy to have someone disagree with me, but it's futile on some of the subreddits here where, as soon as they see you're not regurgitating the US, neoliberal, left-wing-approved line of thought, then you "must be" an alt-right extremist. I can't count how many times I've had a mod up my arse about me expressing my own non-offensive thoughts that just so happen to be offensive to some overly-PC and overly-sensitive Americans. Even in the worst case scenario, having a disagreement with a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:57 PM
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I do admit that the American social politics has crept into Europe and brainwashed a lot of people here to be polarised, and to believe certain social issues also exist in Europe, despite us not having the same social, historical, legal, and political climate as the US. And so, turning the tide, and finally having a place for us non-Americans to influence the Americans (and for us non-Americans to influence each other) could lead to an illustrating experience for many of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 02:25 PM
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Apparently this is news to some of you, and some of you feel that notoutright ostracizing people based on their voting habits is *LiTeRaLLyAdVocAtiNg MuRdEr” but we have no interest in policing how people votein a sub about sex 👏, culture 👏, and dating 👏. There’s too many factors at play in too many geographic locations for that to be the defining basis to which we hold our users. This is an extremely vital point. As a European, I cannot seem to have a non-simple conversation on Reddit without i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:24 AM
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A reminder to everyone that the world of women only begins NOW, because we've only now in the last 50 years had access to birth control, education, abortion, divorce, worker's rights, media representation, etc. We're only at the brink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:06 AM
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She doesn't identify with motherhood because the reality of it leaves her in the dust while Elon moves forward on his path being worshipped by nerds and chased by sociopath actresses. Motherhood is a cage when you're in a relationship with this guy, no woman with her creativity and independence would identify with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:41 PM
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I've heard it before. A good looking guy is the one who'll put the prostitute through the most sadistic abuse, because he's not paying to use a woman's body out of a lack of access to sex. And, of course, since it seems like literal torture is acceptable as long as sex was agreed to beforehand (i.e., it's just kinky!), he knows he will get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:46 PM
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She gave men what they wanted and they hate her for it, because it involves sex. It's one of the darkest sides of human nature. A woman bakes you a cake? Cool... A woman buys you a present? Nice! A woman agrees to be degraded in just the way you like to satisfy your fantasies? Slut, whore, she asked for it, she probably enjoyed it, what did she expect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:33 AM
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However it’s evident we need more rad fem cartoonists and content creators on instagram as woke creative lib fems have spread their viral sex work nonsense via that route I didn't even think about this, but now that you point it out I realise I only know one single cartoonist taking this on, and that's Tatsuya Ishida. Excellent point, it's all about forcing them to "see", because words apparently have no meaning anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:04 PM
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You expressed your concerns to your manager and they did nothing to protect you. Don't be loyal to your job if they give no fucks about your safety. As the other commenter said, "suspected Covid symptoms", stay at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:05 PM
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Look for the women (and men) fighting back. This kind of forum didn't exist 10 years ago, or if it did it wasn't well-known, nor widely accepted. Women's brains are fertile for this material right now, because what they've been seeing happening over the last decade or two is reaching boiling point. I look at what's happening and despair sometimes, but I am really encouraged by the women in the UK who are pushing back against a certain ideology over there, despite their words being twisted, despi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:23 PM
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An excellent book you might find in your local library on the realities of prostitution is Paid For, by Rachel Moran.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 08:30 AM
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The "men" on Reddit are males anywhere from the age of 14 onwards. It is fascinating to me that anonymity means grown women take advice from potential 16 year old males, because we assume the person on the other side is an adult. I think this is what's leading women to be brainwashed on mass, if women spend too much time on reddit. Who the fuck would ask a 15 year old teenager for dating advice? Who would ask a 22 year old neckbeard for dating advice? But here their advice is given equal weight.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:37 PM
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Don't treat you like your head is empty, but you think that being a lesbian is edgy and shocking in this day and age. Ok. Enjoy your 40 year old men. Let him relive his youth a second time, while taking yours.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 07:57 PM
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You know in this forum yesterday a dude wrote like a 1,000 word comment about how women are doomed to always rely on men, because men run everything and so women are better suited to staying at home, because they're "ruining" men's earning potential. And then I clicked on his profile and saw that he has a diaper fetish. This guy who likes shitting his pants, and rubbing one out to it, is there writing a manifesto about how males are inherently superior to females. I just think if Reddit forced e…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 05:57 PM
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You say you want to party... but now you're saying you don't like to party. So do what you want? I hope you get the man you're looking for, and treat him like a king, hoping that he'll one day make you feel like a woman. All this time you've been a woman all along.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 08:11 AM
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Well if you see a boy when you look at a woman in the mirror, so be it. But if you think partying with friends is masculine then I highly disagree. Is Paris Hilton masculine? Go out there and have drinks and have fun, meet new people. Don't cut your hair again if you think it's unfeminine, but Halle Berry never looked unfeminine to me with her short hair.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 07:19 PM
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Did a man tell you you weren't feminine?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 05:16 PM
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And yet there are now female bosses, so we rely on women and men to feed us, and in the future there will be more women in power. I love the thought that being an independent child to a man that may or may not even like you is more liberating than growing skills and being able to find a new job every time one feels like it. You don't have to hate your job, it's a false dichotomy: loving husband vs bad boss.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 05:15 PM
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Interesting. So when a company creates something for $1 and then does a markup of 900%, selling it for $900, and doesn't distribute that $899 equally, it's the woman's fault. Also interesting is that you believe women weren't always in the labour force. Your parents were rich, your grand-parents were rich, I take it? And finally, I believe you'll find that employees have always been underpaid, even when children were in the workforce working 12-16 hour days. Everyone has always been underpaid. B…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 03:33 PM
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That's because RPM are in it out of bitterness. RPW are in it due to interest in a certain homelife. Best to remain a RPW, but seek out a man who has never been interested in RP discourse. He's just a decent, good man naturally.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 01:45 PM
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You can still be feminine without being trapped at home, as long as your idea of feminine isn't the stifled US 50's housewife. If cleaning and cooking made you more feminine, then how do you explain Kim Kardashian who pays for other people to do this for her? Don't give up on your life, go party and have fun. You'll be feminine because you are a woman expressing yourself, and you're living your best life. Nobody in the world would ever mistake you for masculine.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 01:42 PM
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When random men criticise you, rejecting their criticism isn't being "rebellious" or "snippy" like you're some kind of naughty child, it's you being a mature, adult woman who won't put up with unfairness and rudeness. When a woman criticises you and you respond appropriately, are you being "rebellious" and "snippy" or are you just standing up for yourself? Boundaries and self-respect with men (or with women) aren't rebellious, they're healthy and mature. If a man criticises you, you'll lie down …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 01:35 PM
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The second was shut off to women for a long time, leaving them without economic stablity, power, independence in a world where you need money to do everything. And so the second is celebrating women's options nowadays.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 01:26 PM
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Yep. Poor women have always worked. Even children too before child-labour laws. Like you said that weird golden era that was specific to the US is somehow brainwashing young American women, and also older women who should know a little more about the history of the world, but don't because "it makes them more attractive", apparently.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 01:25 PM
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If you're going to be a mother one day, one of your biggest strengths will be the ability to challenge men. There are a lot of men in the world who have shit for brains. Are you really saying that if a man wanted to get your child into a dodgy situation you'd be like "no I already challenged men 2 times this year, I really must stop". And you make me laugh because, the reason you're "challenging" men is probably because they're dumb-dumbs. How is it that you automatically assume you must be in t…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 01:22 PM
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The radical in radical feminism doesn't mean 'zany' or 'out there', it means 'radical' as in 'at the root'. the shrill shouting women might very well be libfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:20 PM
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Fair point, so social housing should be gutted of kitchens and the poor can forage for berries and nuts. You know when the government doesn't provide birth control, what would really happen is that poor people would suffer for having had sex, rich people will continue having consequence-free sex and just keep getting richer. Do you dislike poor people? Or are you just really religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:23 AM
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Eating nice food is not a need. We can go back to foraging for berries and nuts in the forest like our ancestors did. We will rub sticks together to make fire for cooking small animals. we don't have need of kitchens, of supermarkets, of restaurants, and of eating and cooking utensils. They're just a nice-to-have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:37 AM
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So why do you think the Singaporean women weren't attracted to masculine faces or features or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:11 PM
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Interesting. Maybe the Singaporeans idea of masculinity is different to the study's idea of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 09:21 AM
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Such a gorgeous ring! Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:16 AM
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Only 30lbs overweight and she's a 'hippo'? I would just call that an average weight. I feel so bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:12 AM
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FSM What's FSM? It's not on the Wiki terms!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 10:41 AM
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How many short, non-white, round-faced, fat, bald men will end up married, or in a long-term relationship? Most of them. The type of person who ends up alone in life usually has some issues related to personality or emotional regulation/maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 10:37 AM
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If you believe women spend their lives thinking about Chads and hypergamy, it must be confusing to see a wide variety of human opinions expressed here by them, so you cope by saying they must be fat and have psychiatric problems. Maybe the sub is full of sane, attractive women saying sane, attractive-women things? And you could probably learn a thing or two by listening?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:37 PM
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This is country-specific too. Richer countries had more housewives. The rest of the world had the woman continuing on despite bearing all the children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:54 PM
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Yes, I've heard German dating culture is about finding relationships through social groups. Women there don't do their hair or wear makeup. They appreciate natural beauty. They don't go overdrive for the masculinity/femininity divide that you see in the US. Just see German women as Germans first (figure out the culture), people second (if they don't want to be treated 'as women', and women last (but not least).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 04:24 PM
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I agree. It's really middle-class and it flew under the radar for a while as 'harmless twitter bullshit' but there's a new wave of backlash and deepened interest in these down to the bone feminist issues thanks to the TRA movement deciding that women need to give up their rights to make way for trans women, instead of simply finding a middle path. We'll see some tides turning soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:41 PM
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You're going to have a hard time if you see it as red/blue pill dating. Also depends on the country you go to. From what I can make out in the US you're all focused on beefing up in the gym, talking about money, and doing direct approaches to ask for numbers. In Europe you're going to have to, like Bruce Lee said, "be like water". Do sports to stay healthy, not to beef up. Don't talk openly about money. Most women aren't directly attracted to money because we have good social security systems, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:38 PM
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Different countries and different experiences perhaps, but mostly feminists in the last 10 years have been getting discussions about male rape out in the open. Not pointing fingers here, but something is holding men as a group back from galvanising and organising to change the legal definition of rape, and leaving it to the women, and I don't know what it is. Feminists would say it's the 'patriarchy' but that word causes mouths to start frothing. So let's just say it's because of the social syst…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:04 PM
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Feminist concerns are femicide, female genital mutilation, child brides, stoning to death of raped women in Saudi Arabia, sex trafficking. So I would say you are sympathetic to feminist concerns, but that neoliberal feminism has destroyed the feminist 'brand'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:56 PM
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True, but I think that some countries are worse than others. Maybe the US is the worst of them all. There are different types of feminism and the feminism you're describing is 'neoliberal' feminism. It is the one being picked up by companies and schools and all of that. As a heterosexual woman feminist carer-of-women's-issues I find some of the neoliberal ideas appalling. Heterosexual people not being attracted to bisexuals or transexuals is apparently worse than murder and 'literal violence'. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:27 PM
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I wonder do redpill men realise that both redpill men and women are envious of Chads who can just go around having good sex with 1000 people. If women have sex with 1000 men, there's a not-zero chance that a proportion of that will include attempted rape, coercion, violence, the responsibilities of potential pregnancy falls on her shoulders alone, and in return for that risk she will orgasm maybe 5 out of those 1000 times if she's lucky. And nobody is going to high-five her or envy her sexual pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 06:41 PM
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