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| 1 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.Sex workers are usually pick moneys, free prostitutes are pick mes. Includes a lot of the women here, at least in their past, so I expect the down votes. Giving what a prostitute gives for free, or usually a negative net value/roi is an aspect of being a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.Exactly, it’s not like she wants to fuck her husband, likes to fuck him or is proud of it. She’s there for the money, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:15 PM |
| 11 | “I know it’s weird but”Make you squirt = terrorize your pussy with unkept fingernails | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 14 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.The respect they talk about is like the respect they have for a dog who obeys them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-inHave you seen the movie Dear Zachary? Go into it blind if you haven’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:40 PM |
| 28 | Female pick up artists? Pfffft don’t flatter yourself men. Women have been vetting, weeding out men and voicing their concerns since forever! Don’t act brand new.They know they will settle for having sex with women they absolutely hate in every way, as long as they get sex. For women it’s entirely different, we have to parse through our many poorly options. They don’t even care about the health risks, they rather freak out about that possibility after sex has been secured. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:02 PM |
| 452 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayMy husband leaves those jarred religious candles as a memorial for someone he lost and wants to honor. He ran out of them and used a candle without the glass surrounding it, he meant to replace it soon, just got busy. I heard the wax dripping strangely, thought it was raining at first since we’ve got monsoon season going on. The wick had melted all the way down and could have started a fire easily. No yelling necessary, no insults or weird new supervision rules, I caught it and we agreed he woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:26 AM |
| 20 | A woman is told to lower her standards.The Leo of today is a lot closer to Danny Devito, along with extra creepy behavior. How low must her standards get!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:43 PM |
| 53 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.Can you share what you would say? I’ve been in her position countless times, I still freeze up. I want to fight back, it feels so futile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:12 PM |
| 31 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.“Can’t feel it.” Blame us for their own choice to spend hours upon hours death gripping their dicks to porn, each click of a video link escalating in taboo and violence. They are enraged at themselves, they must punish us for their thoughts, it’s us who made them think them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 11:59 AM |
| 12 | Never date someone who criticizes your fitness routine.Knees over toes guy has great videos for building up knees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:55 AM |
| 14 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.She has succumbed like most of us would have in this hell scape. She’ll figure it out too late. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | So true. 😍 👑If you downvote this, make sure to downvote the OP if you’re so pressed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inHumanity is a boner killer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | So true. 😍 👑Raquel is a sexworker and I support her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:17 AM |
| 13 | Do you think tradcon men secretly lust after the "whores" according to the Madonna-Whore dichotomy despite their trad values?For sure. I’m in the same boat. As a homeschooled and sheltered virgin with zero experience with men. Still treated like a whore, men who sexually harassed me would narrate to themselves I’m not really that innocent so I deserved it all. All women are whores to them, so I really hope girls and women don’t take it seriously when called one. It’s a meaningless word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 12:13 AM |
| 13 | Do you think tradcon men secretly lust after the "whores" according to the Madonna-Whore dichotomy despite their trad values?To them there is no difference between whore and virgin. All virgins are whores. There is nothing you can do to differentiate yourself from a whore. You are one, no exceptions. Potential whoredom is still whoredom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 6 | Struggling with the decision of getting my tubes tied.It’s a huge load off to know FINALLY, I am sterilized. If I got raped or impregnated with no options for birth control, they can’t use it against me. If you can do it, DO IT! So glad I never have to take literal poison for their own convenience again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 50 | bad tripMy physical type is rare enough, and then the mental part is rarer still! I feel so lucky to have found my husband in this hell scape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:43 PM |
| 19 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersThey want to punish us for their own “appetite.” When you blame women for anything anyway, why not blame them for mens own thoughts too. He really cucked his wife in front of her other family members. Imagine having sex with a man after this pathetic behavior. Ick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:20 AM |
| 18 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymOne gym personality I’ve tried to avoid: fawning over every woman to be seen speaking with them for status, and as soon as they are out of hearing talking shit about them with their bros. So gross. They make it so obvious too. Every gym has one of these guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:53 AM |
| 68 | Homosociality: Male Bonding at the Expense of WomenNo matter what you do, who you are, whether you followed the cool girl rules well enough, at any given moment you can become that social currency for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 08:56 PM |
| 218 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.“Deleted” them means sent them to all his friends so he could save them somewhere else later. She’ll probably waste more of her years on this guy. Women don’t want to believe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 3 | A HVM never stops showing you who he is.So happy for you, congrats! Fantastic idea, it’s needed more than ever during these times. I worry about the state of women stuck with no resources, so many of us had to leave the public work force. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I have no words...Father likes that people think he’s dating his daughter🤮Common for fathers to value the opinions of strange, creepy men over their own daughters. Invoice your dad and throw him in the trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 05:12 PM |
| 26 | young girl posts tik tok about being flat chested, middle aged plastic surgeon comments.It’s such a scam. They are looking at every woman and girl in the vicinity. It’s meaningless who they bestow the best in show blue ribbon on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inYes, you should do it! I found that I could focus more on the work rather than the social aspect. There are a lot of students decades older than you too, don’t hold yourself back on account of the youngins being “ahead” of you. They are still behind you in other ways, I promise nothing was wasted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Check-in“Formal apology” sounds more like pull his dick out and block your exit. Good call. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:33 PM |
| 15 | What not to do... there's a lot to unpack hereI’m not shocked he came back to “marry” her. He knew she would endure anything and everything he doled out. Perfect abuse puppet. I’m sure another candidate will come a long so he can ghost her again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:41 AM |
| 4 | Many women are unsafe at the workplace.It’s funny and sad. Pity sex workers yet you already are one for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:59 PM |
| 80 | Porn culture and Only Fans promotes the dehumanization of women everywhere.Their delusion is dangerous to us all. How creepy, whoever gave him your number is trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 51 | Podcast feedback from men: "hate fan mail"FDS mods are braver than the troops | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 26 | The Utility of Gaslighting and How It Covers Up Weak CharacterThat’s true, and it works even better that way since they believe they never had that intention so they can’t be held accountable for it. Same with racism and sexism. That’s why it doesn’t matter if it’s been done consciously or not, it’s systematic. The damage remains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:14 PM |
| 45 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A ScroteEw. Chat meaning talk at you and scam you into free hole service. Putrid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:10 AM |
| 87 | Why do men LIE like this? REALLY? You've NEVER heard of any sex based slurs for women? "Scrotes" is BY FAR THE WORST? This is why I cannot take Redditor critics of FDS seriously.Come on, be nice when you talk about the people who harm you. And stop warning each other! Lying, roast beef curtained, cock carousel riding, axe wound, blood gash of a twat. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 18 | What About Equality?Talk about equality with men and the first thing out of their mouths is: If we’re equal, that means I can hit you now. Where is hitting people legal and socially acceptable outside of certain sports? Why isn’t hitting spoken about when other people ask for equality if it’s so essential? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 26 | This isn’t the flex you think it is…No mouth can compare to death grip and hours upon hours of porn that escalates in how violent and taboo it is. Yuckkk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:58 PM |
| 27 | Why FDS ExistsMen don’t believe what we experience day to day, so they characterize it as man hating. Men are the biggest misandrists of all. They’re the ones who say they are unable to stop themselves from violence and rape. Powerless to distinguish what’s on their porn screens with real life. At a loss and emasculated when those they deem weaker than them do not submit to them. And when they put on “feminine” clothing or mannerisms, sympathize with women at all, their man hood is destroyed among one another… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 7 | TAKE NOTE OF THE MEDIA A MAN CONSUMES: A LIST OF RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR IN 2021He doesn’t believe women were ever subjugated. He went on a meat only diet, got addicted to benzodiazepines and travelled to Russia so doctors there could place him a coma to “rid” him of his addiction. He always showed massive contempt for addicts too, meanwhile he is one. Of course the coma ended up damaging his brain even more. His life is in utter shambles and no one should listen to the wanker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 4 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallJohnny Debt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:18 AM |
| 6 | Cautionary Tale: Don’t Get Fooled Into the Idea That Doing Housework/ Raising Kids Makes You a Mature WomanMisery loves company don’t it. Sucks how some older women want us to be subjected to the same scam they were to prove our worthiness. God damn they got us good, chomping at the bit to be a slave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-InWow, you’re amazing. So disgusting that the one man who should love and protect you, uses your painful vulnerabilities against you. Pure psychotic manipulation straight from the red pill rap*st hand book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-InGoing by yourself will be sooo much better. Men love ruining trips and keeping you in that state of dread to keep you in service-him-only mode. You’re doing so good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:17 PM |
| 68 | misandry isn't real and men who say it IS are more likely to be dangerous.Me living as a misandrist: Avoid men Minimize engagement with men Gather information to protect myself from men Giving my money to women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 5 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?I know what you mean. The only times I feel comfortable dressed up is when my husband is near me. Even when armed I prefer to cover up. Get the clothes you want, dress up at home and take pictures. You don’t have to share them with anyone. Another thing is, even if we do cover up and suppress ourselves they will STILL hound us. I put my ugly costume on to get gas and this old man asked me if I ever rode a jet ski before, and he can help me out with that if not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:50 PM |
| 10 | Men and Pickmes are confused because they think men are necessary, rather than optionalAnnnnnd there you have it. Pure facts. That people will struggle to accept, but facts nonetheless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InTriangulation and to see how much inappropriate behavior a potential partner will endure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-InIf he is truly sorry about it, he will show you. If he guilts you for bringing it up and wanting to address it, you have your answer. Expressing your love and affection should not garner callousness. It’s so jarring and it kills the love. How will you feel the next time you want to express those feelings to him? Those words he chose won’t go away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 6 | my friend, the wife, is upset with me for being rude to her husband. I’m sad for her.If she considers your responses rude, what does that make his? Bizarrely aggressive, but that’s probably normal for him to speak to her and others that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:01 AM |
| 19 | Stay away from deadbeat dads even if your child freeMy first boyfriend verbally abused his tax preparer because he couldn’t claim his child since uh, he wasn’t involved in any of her care and she was clear across the country. Yikes. He was very perplexed when his ex wife divorced him for intolerable cruelty. Oh man, my self esteem was far into the negatives to be with that cretin. So glad to be with my HV husband now. Night and day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 6 | My MIL is Leaving my FIL After 30+ YearsCongrats to her! My MIL did the same and I’m so happy for her. Unfortunately sometimes she still seems to consider divorce as a sort of personal failing. Brainwashing is strong. I know it’s been a huge load off of her though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 10 | Happy Mother’s Day to any FDS queens who are moms, step moms, dog moms, lost a child, want to become moms, and any others. Remember to love yourself today and every day for all the wonderful things you do and are!Happy Mother’s Day! I can’t stand the way society fails mothers and children. You deserve so much more! As a child free pick me, I used to resent mothers. The more I learned of what you deal with, there’s no way I could stay like that. Hope your day is all you hoped! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:48 PM |
| 15 | CoMmUNiCate they say because obviously she is the problem 🙄Free masturbation material for him and his friends too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 95 | They never say *why* they hate FDS...Women are the poor people, our labor is stolen and devalued. FDS is a solution to that, through self improvement and self preservation against the status quo. They hate what FDS does for women, actual empowerment, and they hate sex workers too for profiting on what they feel they are entitled to for free. Using one group of women against another to buffer them from our combined injustices is nothing new. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:37 PM |
| 56 | They never say *why* they hate FDS...They say we should be nicer when talking about the men who have harmed us. We shouldn’t be talking about anything that doesn’t directly benefit them and center on their penis. They say they don’t want us, we know we don’t want them, so why dictate what we say? Plenty of non FDS women out there perfectly willing to do and be what they claim to want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:12 PM |
| 54 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEThis situation is as common as it gets. God knows I want to put the barrel to his skull and pull the tri*gger. So many of them think we have to submit and act accordingly to make them feel strong and masculine. This is what makes a man feel strong? This is the antithesis of strength. Goddamn I fear for these beautiful and smart young women. They just want to live life, feel good and spread happiness and lightness, and this is what they get. Pure fear and threat of violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:40 PM |
| 18 | YEP👏🏼Do not imitate men. Will you be successful if you do? Yes, at a cost. Now we have a diverse menagerie of war criminals and wagers of all violence. I want to be happy to have a woman VP of the USA, meanwhile she says the US is not a racist entity, wtf, racism is what the US has been built upon. We can and will do better than what men have wrought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-InAnd they don’t even really care, all the horrible facts amount to more to jack off to for them. They love our suffering and pain, nothing makes them cum harder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InYou could and that would be fine, maybe even better. If you hear nothing by Friday, block and delete certainly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InI love that FDS exists. I love that we are fighting our conditioning. Thank you mods for keeping it clean over here. Total barrage of shit-nado you deal with. I couldn’t do it, it fucking hurts. Praying for all women and girls, our future. This is a very important sub and it’s making it’s mark. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:14 PM |
| 474 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOThis is what they call life on easy mode. A group of people who tend be larger and stronger than us, who have no respect for us, constantly at the ready to scam us into sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:48 PM |
| 13 | Imagine a service existed where people can purchase men to degradeMan I wish I could be as quick as that in those situations. You’re a hero. Soul balm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:49 PM |
| 11 | My boyfriend is contributing nothing but wants all the say in our new house. How do I nicely ask him to be reasonable?He’s going to hate her either way. By not doing what he wants, or doing what will emasculate him anyway. It will get to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:42 PM |
| 3 | I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way.Anyone else see this play out? In a country that would it would make it illegal, but the woman’s conditioning and his abuse of her makes her submit to this horrible situation? Kicking out the owner and she is so fearful he will retaliate against her and her kids. Scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:24 PM |
| 16 | Her quote says it all.With or without sex workers, men’s violence won’t end. I know it’s not a debate sub, but the prostitutes history is a huge a part of women’s history, women as financially independent and as scholars too. Throughout the centuries. They should not be discounted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:04 PM |
| 57 | Her quote says it all.Every job I’ve had included free sex work the form of harassment and worse. No matter how I’ve reacted, reporting it, not reporting it, someone else reporting it. It’s always ended up a hostile work environment. And the next question is usually, what did I do, say or wear to bring that on myself. Baggy uniforms and no makeup, keeping my head down silently and focusing on my work, ignoring the harassment or addressing it. Men do not believe it’s work for women to do it, they just say it like they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:47 PM |
| 24 | No HVW wants to be talked to like a porn star. The scrotes are realizing they’re c*ckblocking themselves! 💀People are being paid to be spoken like that, why don’t they get it. An industry curated to their desires, not womens. Why don’t they get that. What’s been funny to me, the partner who stands to no orgasm or even feel any pleasure is the one who needs to scream and moan. The partner who actually cums and enjoys the act is silent. Up is down and down is up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:38 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Check-InWhat vaguelinen says. They are bragging and also fishing for easy hole. Don’t take that as a hit against you, they live in an unreality that has nothing to do with us or our value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inIt is pickme behavior, unless you want to escape the situation and him forever. If that’s what he asks of you, do it and turn your back on him and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 61 | Men Intentionally Act As If They Don’t Understand How Porn Negatively Impacts Women. It’s a Power Play. They Fucking Know.Once they consume porn, everything becomes porn to them. And they will not take responsibility for their own thoughts. It’s our fault and we brought it on ourselves to them. I can’t stress this enough. Please keep your kids off of social media. That’s jerk off material to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:38 AM |
| 7 | What is everyone’s thoughts on Billie Eilish now “showing skin”? What does her defense make you feel?She’s yielded to those around her, and when she profits off of her sexuality, men will say she deserved to be treated like a whore from the beginning. It’s open season on whores, in men’s minds, they can’t say no anymore, sexual harassment doesn’t exist as it’s a joke to them to intimidate and cause them to fear for their safety. Seen it play out over and over. And the word whore is so arbitrary, it can apply to anyone a man has thought of having sex with in his vicinity. They don’t take respons… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:41 PM |
| 64 | Keep Men At A Distance Because False Intimacy Creates Trust.If you enjoy certain music or anything really, it can be exciting to meet someone with the same interests. You’d think that elitist mind frame would end past adolescence, but I’ve known 50 year olds with the same mentality: if you like what I like, you are smart, exceptional. If you like what I hate, your an idiot and should be told so. It’s another false intimacy. Same with coworkers. You spend time with others, enduring all kinds of things together. It feels easier to relate to one another. On… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:23 PM |
| 18 | wow.Please god, satan or anyone, protect this little girl. Because this mother certainly won’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 10 | Yes ladies. It's OUR fault.BuT hEs suCh a goOd gUy! He hasn’t raped me too violently and he hasn’t killed me or the kids yet. Pets dead, but we’ll get a new one for him to abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:58 PM |
| 20 | Yes ladies. It's OUR fault.This is so important. Time is finite, spending it on these men is a complete waste and dangerous too. There’s a post on a “womens” sub, poster subjected herself to a man she didn’t like for HOURS. Hours?! Then as he walks her home, another bad move, he assaults her. Luckily she escapes, but we know what happens to too many of us. Of course a guy she knows tells her it’s no big deal, that she needs to empathize with the creeps penile needs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inI absolutely know how you feel. My husband and I are the weirdos of the family, and they know not to try him so they have in the past tried me. But he has stopped them, and you deserve that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inI’m so sorry, that isn’t the way any loved one should be treated. Why should his feelings have precedence over your own? It’s an easy solution on his part, yeah may ruffle his folks feathers, can’t live to please them forever. Don’t go and keep your eye out too. Even while married we should keep vetting. There’s no way he would accept that if the roles were reversed no matter what he says. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inAnyone who wouldn’t see through that behavior is in for a lot of hell. If his date puts up with it, he’ll know she will accept all of his most ridiculous gaslighting. He just has to sabotage you while he can. Hope it goes alright for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inIf he’s not willing to address that with them, correct them as they are doing it, you’re the one who should be mad. But I wouldn’t test that on a trip where you are stuck there with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:26 PM |
| 17 | My father taught me to choose LVMLove your response. So disturbing the way parents speak to their own kids. Our success in life means nothing if we don’t live to serve any hobo loser we come across. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 12 | Always remember that if you EVER think about ignoring red flags, giving second chances, not blocking and deleting or crying over a man! NEXT (if suitable), please!Dirtiest meat and most dangerous meat out there. Bottom barrel and cancer spreading. A good lot of them will pay someone to stomp on it. Walking around willing to have risky encounters, never getting tested or asking for a test in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendNo doubt her taskmaster got pissed he would lose his free childcare and made her suffer for even thinking she could escape his clutches for a little while. Sucks man, you don’t deserve that treatment. But it looks like she’s going to be enduring a lot of horrible shit with that type of useless clod. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 06:47 AM |
| 21 | I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact withThe impudence of them. Worked in several male dominated fields, and work out regularly in a weight lifting gym. The behavior is similar. They fawn over any woman in their vicinity. Don’t even move a foot away and start talking shit, saying the worst of the worst to appeal to the men around them. Hello, I am right here and can hear you. Can’t even contain their contempt for us. All that matters to them is that they are seen speaking to us, then go over and insult us to the men, friend or not, imm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!The exploitation and disrespect of mothers disgusts me. I do have mommy issues, but she was a severely brainwashed pickme and I empathize with her. Just got the permanent snip, I was right next to the nurses station and they still talked shit about me not having kids. Feels great. If I get raped, I won’t have to deal with the reproductive parts of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 39 | PSA: Men are learning about FDS but like most things they don't get it all. Stay on Scrote Watch!Every porn site has very specific categories, he doesn’t mind then does he? And if they don’t want FDS women and we are so unappealing, why change your profile to cater to our ideals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 21 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"What you have endured! While he gets away with anything. You are a hero, never forget that. We know what you have to do to live. It’s not fair, it’s total bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 10:30 PM |
| 36 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"I am so disturbed by it too. But he isn’t alone, that’s the worst part of it. I can’t believe I dumb foxed it enough for him to admit this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 10:28 PM |
| 153 | Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying"A father explained to me that men make better parents than women because they will train their daughters to be exactly what their supposed future husbands want them to be. Sexual and domestic slaves. Prioritizing a man he has never met yet, may never even meet, over his own daughters humanity. He didn’t have much to do with his children’s lives in reality thank god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 104 | OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180Oh he can, he just doesn’t want to do what it takes to get those views. It would be other men patronizing him though, and he’d need to cater to them. But he’s a man!! Men feel pain, women enjoy the pain and it’s life on easy mode for us. Or that’s what they say, they know better than actual women riGhT? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 100 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂Talking about the sexism and racism we experience means we’re the biggest racist, sexists according to reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 7 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!That’s true, that’s why I didn’t include the word single, those women do better. Married but might as well be single parenting, cleaning up after a giant kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 11:45 PM |
| 17 | Liberal feminism has turned women into doormatsMen? Support a woman’s business? The ones who cry it’s soooooo easy and unfair to just open your legs and make bank? Wow, she’s been gaslit to hell and back to form that sentence and spew it out. He was jerking off to the thought of her anyway, probably to her normal social media too. Now he has something to use against her in the future and ruin her opportunities, can’t pass that up now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 138 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!I wish she would value her time and labor, or at least do this for a struggling mother instead. But our culture doesn’t value mothers over any man, even lazy slobs like this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InThank you for sharing, this is so inspiring. Look at all that self improvement, hitting it at all angles. Always feels good getting those lift bests again, I’m right behind you. The therapist had him down pat. Sounds like he went just to say he did, a front that he does address things if necessary, but obviously he doesn’t. I’ve definitely noticed a pattern with those just be happy guys, ew the ones who say men are happier then women and what’s with tHaT? Meanwhile they are the agents of unhappi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 4 | This OLD bio made me puke in my mouth 🤡, men are getting delusional.When these types do scam a woman into being a trad wife, they despise her for accepting, regardless of how many boxes she’s ticked. They know deep inside how they’re the last men on earth to deserve that treatment and can’t help but lash out. Anything but self improve and actually become worthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 11 | Instead of going on walk dates, buy yourself a trash grabber so that you can pick up trash in a way that at least benefits your local communityThat is such a good idea. It does feel nice picking up around the neighborhood. I know there are tazer canes, maybe they make tazer grabbers too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InWhy men take pride in not being a “simp:” it takes no effort, you can be totally NEET, no personal changes are necessary, and it’s simple to call each other out for being one. Even if the “simp” is doing good things for themselves and others and the “non-simp” has nothing going for themselves, it’s an effective insult while jockeying for social position. The men who have never achieved anything are comforting themselves when they say “at least I’m not a simp.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InWhat so many women dreamed of for so long, you’re doing! Wow, congrats! Real freedom, real love. Love to hear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:31 PM |
| 8 | What can I tell myself to steel myself against cat calling?You know what these pieces of garbage are? They would serve humanity better if they were ground into the lowest quality meal replacement bar. They serve their function conducting the lowest quality policing. Keeping you scared and aware of your desired function to the lowest pieces of shit on earth. Any compliment is really an insult, any insult is the highest praise. They need to make us fear and aware of our vulnerability, because they are of the lowest status and need to feel some semblance o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 10:41 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI know you left him for good reason. Say you did take him back and he does take you on vacation. Once you’re trapped with him on vacation, he could go to back to square one because he’s got you where he wants you now. It could just be a place to punish you in new scenery. All else fails, block and delete. Conversations and saying goodbye can lead to negotiations, even if it’s not up for debate for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 6 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.Men would share women’s private and nude pictures to me unsolicited all the time when I was in the military. You’ve probably heard of the huge Dropbox of non con sensually shared pictures of women soldiers, officers and even civilian wives. I was attached to support another company, one sergeant I worked with showed me a sex tape of his blind wife, with her in the next room. No warning, just started playing it. I froze of course. I worry about the inexperienced or just pick me wives who think so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:54 PM |
| 5 | I listened to my gut.I can already see their most likely reaction even if you did call them; ‘why are you wasting our time, crazy bitch, wants to ruin a perfectly good mans life for just “adjusting.”’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InKeep in mind looks and income aren't guarantees of other healthy relationship behaviors. While they could be looking for marriage too, they could still be manipulative and controlling, looking to isolate you, be potentially harmful physically and mentally, drag your life down to keep their sense of superiority and power over you. Keep boundaries and vet vet vet. When they push against boundaries, block and delete. Don’t tell them what they did, it only teaches them to be better manipulators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:12 PM |
| 14 | Nothing but truth was spoken.Men can threaten us and our children with rpe and mrider on every social media platform. But when we call attention to the threats with our screen shots and accounts dedicated to exposing that, our posts are removed for going against the guidelines. Seriously, they leave up their comments, but ours are removed. They do not want us to learn how to protect and defend ourselves or to expose the men who are threats to our safety. They won’t let us. On IG there’s an account called you.look.like.a.man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 05:56 PM |
| 7 | When roommates/ or family bring over new men 🚩 🚩🤢I wasn’t scared enough as a young pickme, but I was always scared. In the military as a single soldier, I shared barracks rooms with a few different roommates. One of my roommates gave our room code to a guy who convinced her we were dating. We were absolutely not. I came into my room, he was using the shower, he left his underwear thick shit skid side up on my chair. Another roommate brought her abusive boyfriend in our small space all the time. He was hideous and always calling her horrible th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:31 PM |
| 31 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Exactly! We don’t want them, they claim to not want us, so why the need to control us? Plenty of non FDS women out there. If we’re so ugly and undesirable, what’s so threatening about us? We already know... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:01 PM |
| 37 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Has anyone else noticed pockets of Reddit repeating FDS values, but they don’t call it FDS, so many of them agree that what’s being said, agreeing it’s totally reasonable? About gaslighting, negging, lovebombing and other manipulations. I saw a man call a post here insanity, then repeat everything that was said in the FDS post as being normal and good. They must fit in with Reddit’s status quo beliefs, but when they say it, it’s okay, we say it, it’s misandry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InA lot of guys do what’s called edging, they masturbate for hours at a time. And it doesn’t matter what their partner says they prefer, they buy into all the porn tropes. So they can’t cum easily and they think they are very impressive for it. If he’s even more LV he will have a tantrum when she wants to speak to him honestly about it so the subject is dropped and nothing changes. Instead of caring about their partners chafed pussy, they pat themselves on the back. Pussy terrorist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 78 | Guys who leave you at a party or a family gatheringLook everyone, here’s my sex doll. I’m priming it for total isolation and domestic servitude. It needs to get used to her “thoughts and feelings” being ignored. Thanks for helping me train it. After this I’ll allow it to blow me in the car. I’m a nice guy and only use positive reinforcement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Found this on Facebook...Imagine inviting a man to destroy you entire life, for absolutely nothing in return. Minus returns. To be called used up trash after it all. So glad our girls are waking up to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InThere’s a story in the book The Gift of Fear just like that, with the groceries. Your guard went down, he didn’t use that opportunity to hurt you. You should not be impressed by that, what any decent person should do. You don’t know this person at all. If you did pursue dating him, it could easily go sour or worse and now unless you can easily find a new home, you will be stuck. Men often punish us for enforcing boundaries. With you right nearby it would be easy for him to intimidate you, if not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:35 PM |
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