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Great idea! Can I get a flair? I think I still have throwaway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:52 PM
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He is a loser but the back and forth some of these women do is embarrassing. She even offered to stay hanging out with him even after he disrespected her. This is why FDS recommends just blocking cuz she is just wasting her time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:13 AM
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Was it MGTWO2? I swear they were already banned once and came back so I didn't think much of it. I hope Reddit sticks to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:51 AM
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I just noticed it's my cake day! I discovered FDS a year ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:54 PM
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ugh I wish I could find the FDS post that opened my eyes about this negging tactic. It was an Asian couple mirror selfie and the lady was an actual model, tall and beautiful. His happy birthday post was just him insulting her but praising her too and i think he even posted unflattering photos of her as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:40 AM
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I knew he was a loser! I remember when those tweets of him roasting her went viral as "relationship goals" I thought he sounded insecure and was overcompensating for something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:57 PM
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Love this idea! Did you post this before? That user deleted their account. They have more examples here if anyone is interested! (: The "Blood in the Water" Test Edit: just realized you said you applied the tactic. Never mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:48 AM
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yeah it's sad most of the people defending it are the ones more likely to fall victim to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:20 AM
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she's now married to him so of course it gives them even more credibility to the impressionable kids subscribed to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:10 AM
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ya'll i truly hate tiktok. I found a viral tiktok promoting an 18 yo girl and 40 yo man relationship. Their entire account was dedicated to their age gap relationship and how amazing it. Young girls admiring them in the comments I reported it but of course tiktok did nothing since nothing illegal was happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:09 AM
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Random weirdo story time: I was in class in an auditorium style seating sitting in the far left seat. The rest of the row is empty except for the last two seats with two girls in it. This guy decides to sit right next to me. He start saying hi, that I have a pretty smile. I say thank you and face forward again. The professor starts lecturing and I can see this guy staring at me through my peripherals. He tries to talk to me again but I ignore him. This guy abruptly stands up and instead of exiti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:35 AM
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bubblegum both scent and taste. Lavender has been run to the ground at this point so I no longer enjoy it Cherry because it smells medicinal since it's always used for flavoring Fake chocolate. I love the scent of real chocolate but the fake stuff they put in candles is so weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:04 AM
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Here is a similar story from Fight the New Drug How I Discovered Porn Videos Are Nightmares Instead of Fantasies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:29 AM
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Idk much of Barnum statement, however, I noticed with astrology they're always forcing the puzzle pieces to fit. Like "oh is your rising a Leo? no? moon? no? 6th house? See I knew it!" as if it didn't just take them like 5 wrong guesses first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:28 AM
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I found these: report content policy violation: https://reddit.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/requests/new?ticket_form_id=360000478391 and this: https://www.reddit.com/report
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:30 AM
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Scrapbooking! I also bought crochet stuff and painting stuff in the past that I occasionally dabble in. I want to try martial arts but don't feel to comfy with being that close to people yet. So I am trying to lift weights in the meantime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:02 AM
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Like a hater linked it or one of us? I swear FDS gets linked in the most unrelated subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:53 AM
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Then he started provoking me deliberately in public, like in front of his parents, addressing me in a way he knew I didn’t like, but to someone else would sound maybe off but ultimately harmless. I forgot where I learned this but apparently it's called Dog Whistling. Like a dog whistle, only you, thewetdog, can hear it but other humans cannot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:47 AM
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I don't want to give him views so my guess: "Men are always expected to be the protectors but who protects us? Why aren't women expected to be protectors? That is misandry and female privilege. The MeToo movement has men afraid of approaching women and children just in case we get accused of rape/pedophilia. It's an attack against men! As a stand against misandry, I will be going my own way and refusing to help. That'll show 'em!" Something along that bs (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:19 AM
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Would you consider making a second account for non-fds stuff? That's what I do and many do too. Keeps away harassment and you can separate your two worlds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:01 AM
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Hi, I can't really offer advice cuz I don't have that experience but I'm curious if you have any advice on vetting therapists since you landed yourself a radfem one? My mental health issues involve misogyny related things and I don't want to accidentally open up to a therapist, male or female, that happens to be misogynist themselves or defends it subtly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:13 AM
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I was reminded of that episode when I first read the dumb fox method on FDS! She didn't reveal her stance on abortion. She asked him first with some bs story about a friend and waited for his honest reaction lmao ​ Link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:51 PM
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update: I've decided to take a break from school Spring semester. I'm going to focus on working, studying at my own pace, and working on my physical and mental health. It'll push back my graduation but I think I need this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:35 AM
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This is why I don't even use the word in a positive way around men. I don't want to normalize it in any way. I'll just say it privately around female friends in a positive/neutral way. Like Tina Fey said in Mean Girls: You all have got to stop calling each other sluts and whores. It just makes it ok for guys to call you sluts and whores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:28 PM
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are the mods notified if I report someone in the chat? It only gives me generic Reddit report options and not the FDS ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:09 AM
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I agree with wonderrednow. Also, don't accept last minute dates. Asking you on a date on Thursday for a Friday/Saturday date is just not plausible for a woman who is booked and busy. Even if you are free, do not accept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:33 AM
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what did you do to get help? Glad you're safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:14 AM
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LOL I found it too! The most recent post when I visited was by an MRA complaining about false rape accusations. I laughed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:57 AM
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-Just realized I'm so glad Tumblr decided to ban porn years ago. I saw some horrifying videos and I hope other social media platforms follow suit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:59 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/iw3z3m/i_think_she_discovered_fds_better_late_than_never/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:28 AM
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I feel you, I'm a little older with a degree. I think my most comforting thought is knowing we're at least aware of all this which can help protect us somewhat. I also try to focus on what I can control vs what I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:07 AM
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I'm here cuz I saw someone recommend FDS in a comment to another woman. Surprisingly it was a pleasant exchange so i didn't know how bad FDS reputation was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:04 AM
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You look amazing! Def looks like it took a lot of work. I just started working out and I hope it helps my mental health too as I've been in a slump
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:03 AM
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Preferences: I'm 5'3 so 5'10-6'2 seems like a nice height Must have a skincare routine Put thought into his clothing, shoes, accessories Nice hair that he maintains Some muscles. Like someone else said, all that testosterone you need to have some kind of muscle since it's clearly easier for you than women Full lips, pretty eyes, nice teeth, clear skin turn off: Excessive body hair to the point of looking like a teddy bear Personality: I'm pretty reserved and passive (but I have boundaries) so I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:40 AM
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I love specific examples like this. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:45 AM
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That picture he sent his wife with a doll covered by a white tarp sends me chills. It's such a creepy threat the way it was so premeditated and cold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:42 AM
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This is one of my fav tweets. It's so funny and at least it shows some men understand what standards are, whether food or men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:40 PM
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"Oh you invaded his privacy? Sounds like both of you have issues and you are equally bad"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:32 AM
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I saw this too and really cringed. I'm glad her mom is staying in the country/city just in case. Many comments were also warning her, some even mentioned love bombing and narcissism. I was pleasantly surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:26 PM
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I hope no one likes it. I love the book but the movie just seems like torture porn. It's a red flag for me if a man really likes it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:37 PM
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How has it been dating childfree? I'm childfree but I'm not currently dating and I have the same worry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:13 PM
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in typical male fashion easy solution, that’s literally the solution to that problem And after you’ve jumped down his throat Seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:14 PM
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I though he meant Barney from HIMYM, he's even rich too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:44 AM
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Someone made a post about vetting sexual compatibility before sex here which might be helpful for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:45 AM
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I really wonder what's the point of them lying about height. It's not like you can hide that in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:10 AM
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I wish Reddit had the option to mute certain flairs. It's very helpful but all posts under flairs like Male Depravity can be triggering for me. I try to stick to positive/neutral posts from Strategy, FDS success, discussion, weekly threads, etc. Still love this sub tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:06 AM
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Library Genesis is where I got mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:38 AM
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Thank you for this, OP. Do you have examples of 3 Questions? They seemed important the way you mentioned they can be tough, but already you listed deal breakers separately. I'm curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:15 AM
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I recently discovered FDS and it's so refreshing to have my feelings validated. Certain dating norms in my social circle + media made me feel childish/prudish/crazy cuz I wasn't okay with certain ones like boyfriends using porn, sex super early, etc. Now I know I'm not alone and feel so empowered to stick to my own boundaries!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:04 AM
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