juicewalker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	LDR seems to getting colder and distant		juicewalker	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 12:48 PM

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1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Guys, how do I get up from this shit? I'm currently feeling useless, no motivation or energy and like a bunch of shit. Further I caught a cold so I have to stay in bed. Can't concentrate on other things than this shit and my mind is always running wild asking "what is she doing" "why is she so cold to me" "why does she not text me" further I feel like a bunch of shitty looser because I was not able to keep this girl or give her what she needs. How do I escape from that loop from hell. It's nearl…	/r/askTRP	07/02/17 12:10 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant As Chris Brown said: These hoes ain't loyal.	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 09:04 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Yes, when I'm emotionally not connected I don't really give a fuck about a girl. As soon as I get into emotions and feelings I'm truly funked up. I already noticed that in the past. I let the days fly and reduce my availability to her. If she lands here on Friday I'll see how she gone act and behave. I assume that she will need to "talk" and then everything will be clear. I'll keep u updated	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 06:58 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Such a list, as it somehow wired first, makes really sense. The only thing is: What do you do with this information? Reduce investment when it is unbalanced? Further what does Feeling in debt wasn't her thing so she branch swung. Actually mean?	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 06:45 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Okay now I know what you mean. In this case I have plenty more invested in this relationship then she. But to be honest I never asked for something because I have learned to do everything by my own. But sure I have visited her more often then she has visited me. That's a clear fact. I always took the ride to her. She cooked then for me and so on but yea fuck that. I truly put more energy and time and effort into this relationship then she. But I never made such a list because for me it was just …	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 06:35 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Good idea, but she already lives their for about 5 years. So this relationship Already started as an Ldr. I met her when she Already lived their. Yea sounds dump. At first I just fucked her and didn't give a shot about her because in the past I was a heartless asshole. I just wanted to taste that Pussy. Everytime she visited her home town we had sex. Besides that I had some other girls which I dated and fucked. She knew about that and was jealous and started drama. The she broke up the contact a…	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 06:16 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant I am already lifting and meditating. I have lost around 60kg (from 130 to 70) and after that I fucked more girls in two months then in my whole life. Somehow I got into this girl and we started a relationship as her home town is just some km away from my town. We met in a club which shares the same interest. But through all this I just never build a real self confidence or self esteem maybe because I haven't found my place in life yet. Which is really sad as I'm Turing 30 next month. But okay I …	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 05:01 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Sure, but I can't choose is because the change of behaviour is just in her SMS/WhatsApp Konversation. And the things which are missing or not as same are: - no daily messages - no kiss or heart emojis So I would build my thesis on some stupid text messages. Don't miss understand me. I know what you are trying to tell me but maybe I'm just a little bit to fucked up and analysing to much but I don't know how she acts in front of me. If she is also so cold and distant when we see each other then I …	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 04:49 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Thanks, now it is clearer. So I need to become emotionally independent. Is this even possible? Sounds like an I don't give a full mentality.	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 04:44 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant ... but is that all not just some kind of Mindfuck? I mean there a no real evidence that she has cheated on me. Maybe I need to experience this shit and just let it come to me. I'll keep my feet still and see how she acts. I just don't want to do her wrong.	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 04:14 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant By maintaining an LDR you are saying to her, "Yeah.. I can't do any better. Please don't leave me." But she knows that I can do better because she always told me that she knows that I'm a fucker because of my past. She will never respect you the way she needs to and that isn't her fault. You have a bad case of scarcity mentality and emotional instability, you need to leave and focus on yourself. Doing anything else is a complete disservice to you and quite frankly is completely selfish and disre…	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 04:13 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant But she still has one key to my flat and also some personal things stored here because she is going to move to another city..	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 03:33 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Sure I respond fast because thats currently the only focus I got. I can't let go... I just can't believe this... On month ago we were on vacation and now from one day to another she jumps on another dick... sorry I can't end it by myself. I'm scared of doing something wrong.	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 03:04 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant What? LOL! Should I just ask her 'Hey did you fucked another guy or why are you so cold to me?'	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 03:00 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Damn... reading that causes a strange feeling near the heart and stomach. The thoughts are going straight physically.	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 02:59 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant I assume you mean break up with "dumping" don't you? If so: because I can't dump her... I'm emotional trapped. Further I don't really know if she fucked a chad. I just assume that. I don't even know how to act if she contacts me...	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 02:53 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Yea my stomach also told me that something is going wrong and I assume that she had something with another guy and I can't accept it because it hurts so I try to get things right... I'll see what happens when she arrives here.	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 02:44 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Sure I know what you both mean. "The giving attention" scale is currently very unbalanced. That's true. It just crept inside as I put more invest / attention at the point she went "colder and distant". I know that this is the wrong way but I thought that if I don't contact her she will think that I am not interested in her anymore. You have to realize you can do better and move on. Sure, that's one of my main problems. I'm not knowing that I can do better and move on because I'm totally fixed on…	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 02:40 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Never thought about value adding things in relationships. For me this always happens 'subconsciously'. For example if her washing machine is broke I would wash her laundry for her with my machine if she ask because that's not big deal for me. Could you eventually be more precise? Eventually giving an example?	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 02:33 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Thanks, sounds harsh but I think that somewhere their lies the truth which I have to face right now, but is it not unfair to presume this? Sure sounds a little bit Oneitis and maybe yes there is a Oneitis. Never ever would think about something like as the was always lovely and warmly to me. I think I need to take some days off and think about that. You're doing shit for her, what's she doing for you in exchange? To be honest, I don't know. Okay she cooks for me when we are together, is lovely t…	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 02:22 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant We always have a lot of fun an no stress at all. It is very harmony relationship. Sure yes we have lot of Sex. Most long Sex and she has an orgasm 3 or 4 times a row. That's why I'm wondering what has changed and I currently don't know what to do or how to act. Further I was so dump to tell her she should bring something chique with her as I want to take her out to a date. Dawn I'm a fool.	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 01:34 PM
1	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Sure that may be, but why does she just not tell it and fine? And why the fuck this she come this Friday to visit me and stays the whole weekend at my place? Further this is just an assumption. Maybe I would do her wrong	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 01:23 PM
-2	LDR seems to getting colder and distant google helped me and I've already heard about TRP some time ago. So I thought asking the red pill would be the right place for my concern	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 01:12 PM
-2	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Theoretical: yes I would be able, but i would have to confront myself with self-doubts, that I'm and idiot to break up as shes a nice girl, higher depression than now, Brainfucks and so on	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 01:05 PM
-2	LDR seems to getting colder and distant Damn, it was just the first word of the topic. :) Sure I know what you mean, LDR somehow sucks but shes a good girl (I thought). Further I am not able to break up with her.	/r/askTRP	06/02/17 12:51 PM