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They do, and so unless they’ve critically explored their privilege, they can buy someone else’s affections. Because that entitlement doesn’t go away and entitlement at it’s worst can lead to cheating/abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:44 AM
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Men lie more IRL. It might be possible that women lie in photos more. Men lie with info about themselves like calling themselves “moderate” or saying “not interested” in politics (it’s often code for a conservative belief system, lol, hence the comment about political affiliation. I don’t know any woman that lies about that but maybe they’re out there 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:51 AM
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Lmao right. This is projection from a man. Men lie on dating apps all the damn time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:36 AM
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Did I respond like an obedient woman should? Am I doing it right this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:37 PM
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Oh my bad for not laughing. Lol stahhhp!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:36 PM
2

I guess that must be it, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:36 PM
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You don’t need to argue with this asshat^ troll. There’s a wealth of evidence that women who aren’t in the workforce do insane amounts of unpaid labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/22 04:28 AM
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I know reading more than 1-2 lines is difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:21 AM
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I didn’t even critically think about what you said because it didn’t make any sense and wasn’t worth my energy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:59 AM
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Yeah I can understand better with that logic, because fingers are on your feet. Lol. Genius over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:41 AM
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I’m not debating with anyone. I’m learning about the different levels of prostitution, which entails being raped for money. Thanks for the learning moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:40 AM
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Many if not most. Most who are no longer doing it absolutely feel that way about it. Obviously if they’re doing it, they need to self gaslight to survive. How many sex workers have you met? How many rapists have you met? I’ve worked with both populations and met hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:30 AM
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So “it’s not rape when there isn’t sex involved” - fair enough. Dude’s still a loser for choosing sex work over therapy. And “it’s not rape because it’s lucrative and just like working any other job” - misogynistic delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:44 AM
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Prostitution is getting paid to get raped. Many women who have been raped (and also many sex workers) share this sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:40 AM
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No I wasn’t aware. Sorry I’m not up to speed on all the different levels of prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:39 AM
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Do you go to work because you want to or you have to? Money isn’t consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:52 PM
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Agreed. This is why I avoid men with inherited wealth. They ride on entitlement they didn’t earn and that shit bleeds into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:44 PM
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It’s not that we’d rather die alone than settle for the average man. It’s that it’s such a rat race out there, that if men aren’t helping us, they’re harming us (devaluing our labor, our money, etc.). Women are FINE single because we foster and value other social connections. Men aren’t fine alone because they’re so misogynistic and crazy that they often don’t even value women as friends. In response to being alone, men more often unalive themselves. Modern conditions have made it so that marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:43 PM
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The way you’re talking about her validates her posts. I’d love to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:37 PM
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I’ve never heard of this before and literally have no clue what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:37 PM
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Because women now have economic freedom and men have not caught up with emotional maturity necessary for a long term bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:31 PM
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Key words here are “reported to police”. Most sex crimes go unreported. This is a misinterpretation of data. Men are the #1 threat to women’s safety (and men’s safety too, lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:29 PM
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Having sex with a prostitute is paying to rape someone. When money exchanges hands, there is no real consent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:27 PM
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Sugar babies are probably safer than prostitutes, so I disagree with you there. On the flip side of this, Johns are for sure more dangerous than Sugar Daddies. While both Johns and Sugar Daddies are both pathetic, one pays a woman to rape her and the other is too much of a loser to have mutuality in a relationship with a woman so needs to pay one for company/therapy/social status of looking normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:23 PM
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Go to any self help section in any book store. It’s largely advice geared toward women. Know who more often goes to therapy? Women. Duh. We were into self improvement long before men started realizing they can no longer purchase brides like their granddad’s did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:19 PM
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Most roastable scrote was that loser political science major who suggested breaking up with the young woman with major anxiety and mental health problems as soon as they moved in together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/22 05:42 AM
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Yes yes and yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/22 05:54 AM
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“If she can ChAnGe Me, THEN I will treat her well.” In short, he makes the woman think that she can “create” her own good treatment by getting him to be more attracted to her. Yes. Completely. The idea of setting yourself on fire to keep him warm. Imagine having such low self esteem that this is how you operate. What a sad disgusting existence. Pfft why the fuck don’t they just go to therapy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/22 10:24 PM
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I feel like so many “kinks” these days are scripts ripped from porn. They aren’t even born from genuine curiosity, so I feel like language should delineate sexual desires based on how they were created. (Hopefully) no one wakes up one day with the random curious desire to hit their partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/22 07:05 PM
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I’d believe this, 100. It’s why we should avoid gamers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/22 12:49 PM
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I second this. Women don’t rank sexual partners as “best”. My thoughts/feelings about my “best” consider the man as a whole person and not just sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:13 AM
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Heroes will be anything but to the people closest to them. I trust exactly zero men in charge of DV stuff for women. They’re predators who try to add me on LinkedIn and stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/22 06:19 PM
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JFC! Glad you cut him out of your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/22 05:25 PM
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High five that these losers are exes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/22 06:57 PM
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Describes my ex to a T. He jokes about women being “big” and he’s borderline obese. Projection and denial are narcissistic misogynists weapons of choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/22 11:12 AM
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Projection. Their primitive defense mechanism. They assume we’re as lonely as they are 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/22 05:28 AM
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Yeah, this sounds like some small dick way to talk about sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 08:45 PM
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There is no evidence for this claim, and if there is any please provide it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:41 PM
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I think it’s attributed to porn in an indirect way as well. Men who watch it a lot come off as socially undesirable because they forget how to talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:39 PM
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I don’t know why men are this way. Maybe if more men went to therapists, they could get to the root of the issue. It isn’t my emotional labor to try to FiGuRe MeN oUt To answer your question on White Feathers (if you bothered even reading the link you posted) it was started by a MAN: “At the start of World War I, Admiral Charles Fitzgerald, who was a strong advocate of conscription wanted to increasing the number of those enlisting in the armed forces. Therefore he organized on 30 August 1914 a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:33 AM
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Well women weren’t the ones who encouraged men to win at all costs, fuck over others for success, or be #1. That’s men. That’s sports culture, that’s men in politics and law, that’s movies and tv. That’s the way society has been built… and it is not feminism or women that encouraged these things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:01 PM
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Because capitalism and toxic masculinity has destroyed them and made them feel like failures because society has given them extremely rigid tiny boxes of what constitutes “success” and “happiness” and when they don’t get those things the traditional way, they need to feel like they’re winning at home. Cue line to abusive bf’s: “you act like this at home cuz you don’t feel powerful at work”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:51 AM
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If you always catch feelings then you’re probably only going after female friends for their perceived mate value to you, which, in essence, means you never truly intended to be friends. Regardless, if this is torture and you literally can’t make friends cuz you always catch feelings, you might benefit from talking to a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:56 PM
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Yes, dude. Omg. I’ve straight up asked guys if they have autism when they’ve negged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:49 AM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:48 AM
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Stopped reading at “hugging a guy in front of you” LOL 😂 the MFin fragility
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:42 AM
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I mean… big facts. My ex wanted someone with a low n count and he’s had sex 10-20 times in the last 4 years that they’ve been together, so good for him 🤭😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:38 AM
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I find 90% of the time that this advice is given to men it’s because their hobbies center around mindless dopamine hits (video games and probably porn), which makes them socially, physically, (and yes, sometimes financially) less desirable. “Get a hobby” means find something that makes you more desirable, dynamic, and less boring. “Get a hobby” means give us common interests or things we can connect on, and interesting topics of conversation to have. There are plenty of hobbies and interests tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:47 PM
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This post is disgusting and hating on non-monogamy. Will Smith shouldn’t have resorted to violence but can we stop with non-mono bashing? People make their own ideological choices, grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:24 PM
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Bingo. It’s psychological projection at its most complex. Men fear marrying the wrong woman because men fake their way into relationships and marriage, and they’re afraid women are doing the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 09:24 AM
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Agreed. OP sounds like they live online
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:21 AM
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Exactly. I don’t understand all this talk of RoMaNcE the poster speaks of. Most of us can see right through that bs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:20 AM
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Exactly. This post demonstrates yet another problem men create for themselves. I too don’t understand the point of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:18 AM
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This post is so scary and anti-science it’s unbelievable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:09 AM
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Tons of women out there are both confident and honest about their feelings. It’s men’s problem that they cannot integrate the two, it’s not women’s problem for not accepting it. The dualistic either-or thinking (from men) is getting old
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:16 AM
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Her “concerns” are legitimate in that: there are many desirable women on the market and not enough desirable men. This just mirrors actual non-matchmaking dating reality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:34 AM
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Well modern women already do those things themselves, so get on board or date down Ah I see you text your kids twice a month. Gratz! Dad of the year over here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:55 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:54 PM
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You have a lot of men lying/misrepresenting themselves and a lot of women lying to themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:52 PM
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That’s great. I think a misconception is that women want someone that they perceive to have upward mobility and/or aspirations. I don’t have kids myself but a common issue I’d run into is men with jobs who: cannot transfer/make a lateral move, have no or little opportunity (or more importantly, motivation for growth). Put simply, a lot of women want the option of having kids and hope not to be both the primary caregiver and primary breadwinner. I personally don’t care if I’m one or the other, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:03 AM
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I’ve legitimately never heard of asking if you’re the boss…. I mean unless you’re 30 working at a lemonade stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:47 PM
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Lmao I guess so for a dude who names his bicycle lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:43 PM
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Dudes are less likely to leave because women actively benefit their lives. If it was true the other way around, then men would initiate divorce at equal rates
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:49 AM
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A lot of men do have requirements and needs but don’t even realize what they are until a woman comes into their life and has her own ideas of how things go. Men tend to have a more fairly tale script and look at women less as individuals and then wind up disappointed when she doesn’t fit some porn/Disney mold that he’s conjured up. Men’s “preferences” are more often than not physical, and once the line into relationships territory is crossed, their preferences are more often than not “don’t ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:44 AM
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Confronted about why you’re not the boss at your current job? I’m sorry but I know exactly zero women who would ask this or assume you should be unless you are actually complaining about it and saying you should be boss. I’ve known many women friends who’ve pressured their partners to leave dead end jobs they never shut up about and decide to stay at for 10+ years…. A bit different than “why aren’t you the boss”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:35 AM
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Careers with high likelihood of head injury (sports, military, police)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:18 PM
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This is so accurate. I notice when I’ve been with LVMs they fail to compliment me ever on anything meaningful. The only times I make effort to look nice is when I’m doing it for me and NOT for him, and that’s when I know the relationship is dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:50 AM
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Stopped reading after “I understood because we weren’t really go[ing] anywhere.” If men want their partners to look nice, they need to take us out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:47 AM
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Female who grew up with a brother… I agree that men have it harder in the day-to-day, HOWEVER with 3 caveats: 1- women have it harder for serious events/general safety and avoiding harassment (which, a lot of men can’t even fathom as a problem, let alone have real empathy for, since they’re generally thirsty f*x for ANY attention) 2- it is easier for white women. I wouldn’t argue women of all races, no, as a white person, I can’t speak to the experiences of POC 3- these systems that make the day…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:12 PM
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Agreed, this is the fucked sort of mentality they have over there. Beyond toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:05 PM
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It’s pick me male pandering because a pick me MIL wants to feel desired by any man, even that of her own daughter. Usually because there’s some competitive ego bullshit/jealousy for the daughter going on within the mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:13 PM
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I’m sorry I fail to see how any of these reasons are “irresponsible”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:11 PM
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Yes, this is so true. Because single men spend all their free time on porn, video games and looking for women to use
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 08:34 AM
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Not enjoying the chase anymore is wholesome. Wow the bar is truly in hell for that to be considered “wholesome”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:12 AM
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It will make men even more socially and sexually undesirable than they already are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:52 PM
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Most women wear make up for the MEN AT OUR JOBS so they don’t reject and ignore us, ergo, for our livelihood and “for us”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:24 AM
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Add porn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:27 PM
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LOL great response
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:12 PM
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Women friends. Women are more empathic, caring, thoughtful, healthy, and well-rounded people. Most hetero men are only tolerable as friends when they are partnered because their partner (low key or overtly) tames them and (usually) they aren’t trying to be friends with you to get with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:11 PM
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All of this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:08 PM
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NOT wanting to be with somebody who doesn’t have much to offer us DOESN’T mean we think we’re entitled to men who are more attractive than us” 👏🏻love this part. A lot of men on this sub tend to think in this distorted dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:49 AM
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Same. The reason men are portrayed as so much hornier is because there aren’t enough women out there willing to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:57 AM
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Both. The divide is becoming deeper between the ones who are awake and asleep
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:51 AM
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Because women cultivate friends and community so they’re never really alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:50 AM
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There is so much pseudoscience and assumption making in this post wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:45 AM
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For what? Why “control” n count? For who? Control your feelings about women and what they do with their own bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:43 PM
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Men I know who were like this… who “hid” me or my friends they dated (all of us are attractive, kind, well accomplished women) 100% of these assholes are single or divorced in their 30s & 40s. They have half the social value they did in their 20s because their (social + other) skills have plateaued, they stopped growing and developing themselves, they’re balding and don’t take care of their health because they always had some dumb chick managing them. They also all have super weird unhealthy clo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:37 PM
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3 😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 facts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:55 PM
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Cost doesn’t matter. In fact the higher some are paid, the more entitled fucks think they can do whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:51 PM
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The man is low value. Full stop. Doesn’t matter circumstances around it or the price of the sex worker. A man paying someone for sex unequivocally always means one of two things: 1-he is unable or unwilling to find someone to fuck him willingly (ie, he is gross - doesn’t matter how he looks. His attitude and soul are gross), 2-he enjoys the power dynamic, which is essentially treating humans like vending machines and embodies a rapist’s mindset Women can support WOMEN sex workers and not the Joh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:01 AM
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I love everything about your response! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:25 AM
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Agreed. Or ultimatums or other catalyst (death of a parent, etc.) that makes their immature brain realize they want family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:00 AM
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Keep playing that shit til one of their insane partners finds out and kills them or you I know someone who did this who is now in the military and divorced from his wife. Speaks to the type. As someone who was once a college student I stayed far away from this type. As a student, I didn’t even feel like being there. I looked at non-students who came to campus as having so much free time on their hands (oh, and no friends/life of his own) as a fucking loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:52 PM
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I more so care about relationship history and condom adherence than n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:05 AM
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False False - I choose the least risky + hottest Um, everyone settles at some point there’s 7 billion ppl on this planet and we can’t see all of them. God, this is obvi a dating app addict asking these Qs To answer your last question: because he’s psychologically healthy and loves himself and doesn’t think of every man in the room as competition To the men on this sub: STOP PROJECTING THAT WE FOCUS SO MUCH ON LOOKS. We are not as shallow as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:02 AM
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I cuddle him and question why he wants to engage in a sport that causes brain damage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:57 AM
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No, this is something men do because of their need to compete and their egos If I’ve ever turned down a guy on a dating app and used the excuse “intimidated” it simply meant he was too “high risk” (seemed like a player or fuckboy, etc.). Had nothing to do with intimidation - more so meant he wasn’t worth the trouble and I wanted to let him down easy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:44 AM
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You sexualizing the attire of children is part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:35 PM
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Dreaming of the day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:16 AM
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Hi! As a woman who has not done this, I’ll explore a few reasons women might do this: 1- she was expecting the father to be around and his deadbeat ass left or he sabotaged the relationship so she left him (even in a relationship that is not a loving one, very few women would willingly leave their partner when pregnant) 2- mental illness which leads to the absence of foresight 3- the desire to be a parent can outweigh whatever perceived burdens they may face in life 4- women (MUCH more often tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:12 AM
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You’re asking why we don’t like community dick and misogynists? Because men and people aren’t binary - we can dislike more than one thing (shocker!)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:31 AM
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Because it’s objectifying people. It objectifies men, women, and leads you to objectify yourself and your partner. I find men who watch a lot of porn begin to view themselves as a cock and a wallet - and also act that way: useless at social interactions, planning dates, remembering special events, expect women to do all labor (mental and physical), have outrageously stereotyped standards (eg, unsaid expectations) for how women should think, feel and act
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:26 PM
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It isn’t up to women to define masculinity. Women define what they will and will not tolerate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:33 PM
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“There’s no logical reason to make it about men’s behavior” L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:32 PM
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Show me evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:42 AM
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Ability to delay parenthood for free
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:34 AM
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Wow. I’m really getting tired of reading suggested “rules of engagement” with (wo)men. This post is telling men who might not experience shame that they should be ashamed. This sub is riddled with toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:28 AM
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The disgust response is socially influenced backwash produced from biblical influence and handed down by other men. For most of human history, humans were non-monogamous and shared partners and parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:55 AM
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This is socially constructed and not biological. Women viewed in the black/white Madonna-whore complex is a tale as old as time that men used to shame other men with desirable (high N) female partners. And men keep falling for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:51 PM
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Literally every example you gave for women can also be applied to men. However, the examples you gave for men are actually backed by data. Weird double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:54 AM
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None of my women friends have changed much after marriage. The main change I notice is that they spend more time with their husband and his family and less time with their friends and hobbies. The few women friends I have who divorced did so mainly because of false promises that their husbands offered years prior to marriage (one guy said he’d leave his low paying job for 10 years, a couple guys promised children and never delivered) and didn’t fulfill during marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:48 AM
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Part of the problem is we have been “othered” by the boomer and gen x, in real life and in media, making us think we are so different. I’m glad that Gen Z is more egalitarian and has healthier and more varied views of femininity and masculinity. Millennials and Gen X were made to put our genders in boxes, esp men. Men have very very few role models for all three: success + happiness + morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:39 AM
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Because sitcoms and Disney have brainwashed people into thinking that men need to play a certain role that capitalism doesn’t allow them to generally do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:35 AM
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Household chores are a “traditional role” for women, so I don’t understand your point- what “traditional roles” are women not offering men??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:22 AM
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Evidence suggests otherwise. Women now work AND still take on most of the household labor. There is widely published evidence in support of this. Men will not share power and are often threatened by women gaining any
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:12 PM
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Answering your Q: 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:11 PM
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I’d venture to say the reason that so many women go for the 6ft+ guys is because MOST men, no matter their height, are emotionally immature. Men who don’t tick boxes of culturally conditioned “desirability” (6ft, fit, etc) have the added detriment of being insecure. When you add insecurity to emotional immaturity, women just go for the taller pricks. Side note: as women, we spend an exorbitant amount of money retaining our looks: our youth, our secondary sex characteristics. We have laser hair r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:09 PM
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No one gives a fuck about abs. Be an emotionally mature person and have a stable job and aspirations. It’s not that hard, JFC. This self-objectification is part of the problem. Men listen to OTHER MEN and a subset of idiot women about what presumably MOST women want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:22 PM
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Wow so you’re saying that there’s lots of desirable women out there and not a ton of desirable men. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:47 PM
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Because women now have money and power and men have not caught up to sharing influence. Men are entitled and think they women should swoon because they never went to jail and they have a job. The bar is in hell, and it’s driven by capitalism and toxic masculinity. “Millennial men have all the toxic masculinity of boomer men, but none of the life skills. It’s like they’re still punching holes in drywall but they have no idea how to fix it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:46 PM
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Anyone who thanks you for sex knows he’s a POS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:31 AM
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Using an irrelevant “word salad” to change the topic when you call them out. This is SUCH Cluster B behavior, JFC. It’s exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:03 AM
2

That’s because he’s a predator and he can’t be a predator with witnesses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:00 AM
10

“If you find yourself staring at a guy because your brain just broke by what he said, he has a personality disorder” 💯 I know women with diagnosed PDs who I’d never know had them because they’re good communicators and oh yeah, IN THERAPY. Men with PDs, I just stare at them like “how TF do YOU have a JOB?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:58 AM
34

Agreed. I’ve seen a drastic split for the real LVM at this age. They tend to be crystallized in their shittiness and literally cannot function without a woman in their life (their mommy most of the time)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 10:21 AM
8

Thank you for sharing this. I have ambivalence about children but you hitting the nail on the head about all the oppression and damage to the planet that comes with the decision is just really validating. I go back and forth all the time but I’m getting more comfortable with not having kids. There’s a reason why I privately get sad for my friends who get pregnant, and I think this is why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 08:35 AM
77

Google Life Hammer. I keep that in my car. Great for helping you escape a flooded car, or putting a hole in a rapist’s head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:19 AM
32

OP this response is GOLD. It is so true. LV PEOPLE define their worth by their partners or who’s attracted to them. Don’t be that person. Surround yourself with HV people and the high(er) value men will follow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:54 PM
1

000 preference is for someone who hasn’t lived aka a child. And we wonder why the proliferation of child p*rn is on the rise smfh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:10 AM
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What OP is looking for is perfectly reasonable and do-able and caters more to female demographics, so it probably won’t be around for some time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:29 PM
33

(Usually unsaid but still implied) that you’re Expected to build your schedule around his non-existent one bingo. exactly why it’s a turn off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:00 AM
21

Because they fail to recognize their privilege (financial, not worrying about getting raped, etc.). This is the same asshole who will wonder why you don’t think it’s cool or why you can’t go on a last minute trip with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:37 AM
41

It’s boundary testing in a nutshell. To see how “serious” you are. Every LVM boundary tests to ascertain his own worth because they hate themselves and find value in forcing women to lower their standards/accept them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:54 PM
1

This has been a correlate of cheating in my experience. Men who are into this have the most brutish ideas of manhood and completely devalue women and our health (they obviously devalue their own since they DGAF about head injuries)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:52 PM
26

God this is so spot on. Handbook material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:18 AM
139

Trauma bonding, it’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:15 AM
22

What I’ve found true: Punching inanimate objects, throwing things when mad, destroying things when mad, physical intimidation such as blocking your exit, preference for violent video games, verbal or emotional abuse. Any behavior that screams: “I cannot control my emotions” and/or “I must dominate/win”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:13 AM
5

JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:55 PM
1

Women care about n-count for ascertaining malevolent personality traits, non-investment behaviors, cheating, and STI risk. There is no angle. These are all perfectly relevant metrics for n-count, esp men’s n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:54 PM
1

I’ll reply to each of your paragraphs in sequence. The point of this paragraph is: The world is on fire, make better use of your fucking time instead of being self-pitying unevolved babies. No, you don’t need to be the next Elon Musk but there’s literally hundreds of thousands of ways to better spend your time improving yourself, your condition, your community, and the planet. Health is not a dichotomy of fat v not fat, but since men primarily care about appearance and you are a man, obviously y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:19 PM
1

I’m not pretending to know what you mean. I literally asked you “what edit”. You didn’t reply and tell me which one until now. But I’m not invested in this convo anymore, so I hope you have a good day:)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:37 PM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:32 PM
0

Still don’t know what you’re talking about but have a nice evening gaslighter :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:49 PM
1

??? What edit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:58 PM
2

I never said men should never relax. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:54 PM
5

Black and white thinking is a symptom of borderline personality disorder and depression, in case you were interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:32 PM
3

I didn’t make that direct connection but since you made an indirect connection, I’ll try to explain. It feeds the notion that men are not whole creatures, deserving of love and respect. It reduces them to their anatomy and fuels mens’ warped viewpoint that they are only valued as a part, thus, fueling their hatred of themselves, and by virtue of this, their hatred of women via the perception that women either 1- reject them based on their cock size, or 2- don’t fully accept them for one reason o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:41 PM
1

PS Musk didn’t create shit, he scammed his way to the top
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:16 PM
1

Obviously a man replying “oooh waaaahhhh I will never be as good as Lord Elon therefore I must not even tryyyyy” lol. Encapsulates the pathetic-ness of the current generation Sex is a necessity to misogynists and narcissists. You don’t need porn to masturbate, unless you’re devoid of imagination, which you clearly are, as this generation has become passive consumers of shit built FOR them and their man-baby brains, rather than active civic participants striving to build and be better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:13 PM
0

“Onlyfans reviewer” lmao, ofc. Do you eat ramen in your mommy’s basement and play halo?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:10 PM
0

Clearly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:07 PM
-2

Um, we literally don’t give a fuck. Most of us wish y’all would get fleshlights instead of banging randoms and spreading disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:06 PM
6

Mansplain to us some more Red God Emperor of Slut Country. Share your divine wisdom on the female species lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:57 AM
4

Um, who prefers their partner has no sexual preference outside of themselves? A narcissist? Lmao. Dafuq is this question People who watch porn dehumanize, degrade and objectify other humans. They view actors and actresses as parts rather than whole. Porn actors/actresses are viewed in objective terms and acts (and as search terms: tits, ass, big cock, “innocence”, teen, Latina, etc.), rather than as whole humans. At best, people might view them and their lives with morbid fascination: (eg, “I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:43 AM
5

My career is important to me and I want a kid one day. I’m not dealing with a man-child on top of those responsibilities. Side observation/advice for women: How a man cares for his health/body/appearance is usually a very good proxy of how he will prioritize care of his environment. Poor physical health = poor mental health = poor care of the home. If a man has ample free time and he uses most of it to sit on his ass and not improve himself or his environment, don’t expect him to magically chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:28 AM
-1

Wow what a disgusting child-rapist perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:20 AM
2

Transactional /= consensual Human brains don’t stop developing until age 25-26, so capacity is undermined below that age. Yes, people don’t date their clones, however power imbalances are supposed to be matched by complementing, combining, and sharing power, which many men seem to enormously struggle with. I raise issue with the aspects of power you site that are usually attributed to men: height, strength and (arbitrary) “success” (I guess making more money?). I raise issue with this because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:08 AM
0

Wow. This is so obviously a blind male perspective. Let me help. Your post assumes that women rate men in the same way men rate women: on appearance. As a woman with sexual experience, nothing is further than the truth. We don’t objectify men in the same manner. Positive sexual experience is a combination of the following, with importance in descending order: the way a man treats me/his character/how safe he makes me feel, the quality of the sex or chemistry/his sexual skills, his appearance and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:38 AM
2

We shame them for the word you said “rely”. Tell me, what do men rely on porn for? Intimacy? Companionship? Lmao. 50, 100 years ago, when men couldn’t get a partner, they innovated, they were wildly industrious in careers, they were noble and died for their causes and countries. Nowadays, single (and some partnered) men lead pathetic existences sitting behind screens for constant dopamine highs with video games and porn. We shame men for their reliance on porn because single women don’t need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:07 AM
5

I’m sorry but I don’t even know the point of this. The fact that so many men get depressed from women is because society actively discourages other healthy bonds and friendships as “gay” and effectively “others” women to only be sexual/romantic conquests. Therefore men everywhere get the message that their gf should be their sex partner, maid, therapist, etc. all in one… so, yes, when that relationship ends I can see how the total lack of other genuine support would drive men into “depression”. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:26 PM
3

I fail to see the relevance of gender roles in this question; could easily be swapped and the presumption of the question is sexist. People want someone they are compatible with. If someone doesn’t like you, then why TF would you want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:47 AM
15

Priceless episode!!!! As Lundy said, it’s ridiculous that so much research/clinical attention has been paid to how abusers feel. EVERYTHING starts with cognition. If a man believes women are lesser, that comes out in his behavior (or lack thereof). If a man’s thoughts and values are misogynistic, trying to cater to his FeELiNgS is pointless, especially when he won’t help himself with therapy. It’s like giving candy to a fat toddler who refuses to go to school so he stops throwing tantrums. You a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:29 AM
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