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| 2 | Tips on competition.He's still likely to try and cockblock and get in your way. Especially if he's the sore loser type. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Tips on competition."Messing with" as in talking to, spending time with her. Again this is easier than the other option but you'll miss out on a girl that likes you and you like her. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Tips on competition.Some guys, a lot of guys resent the fact that you get more female attention than them, so they resort to doing things like your so-called friend here. Easiest route is to stop messing with her, or you can confront him about cockblicking but he'll likely deny it and get upset. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 01:56 AM |
| 2 | How long should I wait for a girl to text me back before loosing hope of anything happening?Not enough investment perhaps, you could have gave her a call and talked a little before asking her out on a date. A lot of girls want to know that you're not a serial killer (we know that you aren't) before they meet you for a date. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:28 AM |
| -1 | How do i get a girlfriend?If you've yet to have sex, I would strongly advise against boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. Reason being, most women are sexually experienced by the time they hit age 18. A woman can and will use your lack of sexual experience against you and take you to the cleaners. First see about getting that extrovert "you" back because if there's one thing women dislike, it's a man who isn't confident or is super awkward around them. If you have acne or blackheads, try Neutrogena face wash or a product … | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 05:18 AM |
| 6 | What does “hahahaha” mean in this situation?Some women suck at conversation. Seems like she wants to keep talking but has no clue what to say, and will lean on you to carry the conversation. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?I'm at Fort Sam Houston where all the branches train for medical, all I have to do is tell them I'm permanent party and have a car 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:01 AM |
| 7 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?Props for going airborne, I'm a keyboard warrior 35 series | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:16 PM |
| 20 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?AF girls are better-Army guy | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:30 PM |
| 20 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?Yep, slept over at her barracks Thursday night. Met her in April | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:52 PM |
| 82 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?Hinge. Told her we should talk on the phone instead of text, we met in person that day. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:46 PM |
| 18 | You're talking to a girl you approached and her boyfriend appears. What do you do?"Who's this schmuck?" | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 01:30 PM |
| 2 | How do I satart a conversation.You: "Do you have the time?" Her: [whatever she says] You: Well it's about time we met, my name is... | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 01:25 PM |
| 4 | How to get your ex backDon't. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | WTF. Crazy hot girl changes her attitude between two extremes. All the times.She's wasting your time. You have to accept that some women are damaged, especially if they're pretty. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 12:14 AM |
| 5 | TiktokNeither. If you do that you're just another guy who gives her likes and comments on stuff. If you withhold that like or comment, it will drive her crazy and she'll want to know why, a.k.a you stand out from the other hundreds of guys. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl on tinder and we’re gonna link to “watch a show”Start the show/movie and try to break the touch barrier by either accidentally touching her or playfully doing it like after you make a joke. Watch her reaction. If she's receptive then use ol' reliable.... "Wait are you ticklish?" and go for her sides and/or stomach, trying to lightly tickle her. Again gauge her reaction. If she's still receptive go back to watching the show but now with a hand resting on her leg (non-sexual area). From there you should have everything you need if she's been re… | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 12:10 AM |
| 3 | How to slide into girls DM's on FB and Instagram?Up your picture game, women are 100% judging your social media profile. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:01 AM |
| 34 | Social proof without much effort just clever prepProps. Women have an endless arsenal of weapons of manipulation, I'm all for doing it right back. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | When do you know whether to strike while the iron is hot or you are moving too fast?Call her, builds comfort. Then bring up a date/ meet. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Was I too straightforward?My bad for the long comment but this is shit you just can't make up | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 12:49 AM |
| 14 | Was I too straightforward?Yes. What you have to understand about women is that they want to do the same thing as you, but they have to feel like it happened "naturally" or in the moment. What I mean is they can want to have sex with you, but if you talk about it beforehand she'll feel differently. No shit there I was, I'm with my main and she tells me about her friend who got mad at a guy because he said he just wants sex and no relationship. To my earlier point, she said she wanted the exact same thing but got mad becau… | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 12:47 AM |
| 41 | Would it be inappropriate to ask out the HR assistant of a job I turned down?0 risk and all the reward. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Keep in mind most women don't have much game, less than most men. This is because they are usually approached. It seems as though she is flirting but use discretion when messing with coworkers. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 03:51 PM |
| 9 | My first time nightclubbing and why it should be the last.Nightclubs aren't the place to pick up women, that's all man. 9/10 times, Women get prettied up to go out with their girlfriends and have a good time at clubs, and some even enjoy rejecting men who make advances on them it boosts their ego. You aren't incapable of getting a girl failure/ perceived failure is a part of the process. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Heavy girl as a side girlThe more exp the better. However you may feel unfulfilled. | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Is this a new trend? THREE Bumble girls suggest to meet again after first date, then unmatch/rejectYou didn't piss me off lol and no problem I'm glad I helped! | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Is this a new trend? THREE Bumble girls suggest to meet again after first date, then unmatch/rejectYou're totally right. Set the date does come first; moving off the app is after that. I'll shut up. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Is this a new trend? THREE Bumble girls suggest to meet again after first date, then unmatch/rejectI say move off of the dating app as soon as you can because as a woman she 100% has other men matching with her and hitting her up. Yes, she may be ignoring them; but you don't want to get shuffled to the bottom of the pile by the couple she does reply to. You want to separate yourself from the pack. Edit: Men can't message first on Bumble so my mistake but my statement still stands. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 3 | SnapchatSnapchat isn't a great place to have a genuine convo. People send pointless pictures and streaks to boost their snapscore. She also doesn't know you that well as you mentioned. If you see her again in person try to talk and get her number; otherwise continuing with snap she will likely continue to ignore. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 08:31 PM |
| 73 | DO NOT TAKE APPROACH ADVICE FROM SUBS LIKE r/askwomenWomen will give you some BS advice based on a stupid fantasy that even they don't believe. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 06:32 AM |
| 3 | How long does it take to get over a girl?Tomorrow is a new day. There are a thousand other women you'll meet just like her. Don't worry about missing something you didn't have. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Is this a new trend? THREE Bumble girls suggest to meet again after first date, then unmatch/rejectThey may have wanted you to make a move on the first date. Women are very indirect and will SELDOM straight up say they want sex/whatever. Also try to move the conversation off of dating apps as soon as you can; to include Instagram and Snapchat where women still get bombarded by guys. Go for the phone number. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I [20M] hung out with a girl [18F] twice at her place and unsure of how to escalate or if she's even into me at allThis. I would also add in ol'reliable; the "are you ticklish" question. If they are ticklish then now you've not only broke the touch barrier, but now you have her laughing. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 08:17 PM |
| 36 | I [20M] hung out with a girl [18F] twice at her place and unsure of how to escalate or if she's even into me at allWomen GENERALLY don't invite you to their home or an intimate setting if they weren't into you in some way. It looks like it'll be on you to escalate by touch and speech. Do this when she isn't on M. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 9 | Masturbation addiction is a serious libido killer. It leaves me unmotivated to approach.Agreed. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Where do you guys find women to cold approach?Walmart can be hit or miss; I am in Walmart this very moment. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Where do you guys find women to cold approach?Grocery stores man. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What to do nextSkip the picture exchange and set up a meet or date. Exchanging photos doesn't mean squat if you can't see it in person. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | How to not get ghosted?Talk on the phone or video chat to set yourself ahead of others. Set up a date/meet the first couple days of talking. If she isn't receptive to either idea then you know where you stand with her (at the bottom). | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 09:05 PM |
| 10 | 3. Dating Tips For Shy GuysHe wants you to search up his Elliott friend so it generates page traffic and views. If he told us, nobody would search him up on YouTube. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 2 | why do women just use me for validationWomen use attention and validation like oxygen; when they go without it they get uncomfortable. Establish what you want early on. If they are never interested in going out with you then you "next" them, meaning you move on. Years from now they will still be single/ going from shitty relationship to shitty relationship and you'll be much better off. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Hey guys I Need ur helpSorry going out. But yeah man you deserve better. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Hey guys I Need ur helpIt sounds like a common case of she isn't all that interested. Don't cut her off completely but I would definitely recommend you stop texting her. Text someone who actually wants to have a conversation with you, not someone who says one word and flakes dates. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Spitting during sex???... help!!Just have fun with these women man. Don't wife them. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 10:32 PM |
| 3 | I (24m) just got led on and destroyed. (22f)She did you a favor bro. You don't want to keep wasting your time on a woman who uses social media to incite a response from people she's "into". Because that's what happened 100%. All for attention. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Dating Apps?I feel you on the hurting self esteem part, but keep in mind that women on dating apps: Have literally hundreds of options Seldom make the first move because they are accustomed to men doing so. or Just get on to see who matches with them (self esteem boost) It isn't your fault. All you can do is have good quality pictures and say something that stands out better than hey. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | How to take a match from open to meetup in online dating?What Kenic said. Dating apps definitely work, but aren't always great because women literally have hundreds of options in minutes. I had a coworker show me her tinder while it was boosted she gained 395 likes in 10ish minutes. Just think about that. Push for the phone or video call the first day, so you can talk on the spot and put yourself ahead of the other guys. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:51 AM |
| 3 | My almost first same day layThis is still a W man think about how far your game got you in that short amount of time. Just take the advice of the others and watch how much you drink. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:29 AM |
| 12 | Where to meet young women other than the bar/club22M and I've found that grocery stores are good, places like Walmart in the afternoon. I would say I'm introverted as well but you just have to get comfortable speaking to PEOPLE not just attractive women. Ask an employee where to find "x" item, or small trivial stuff that will lessen any anxiety you have talking to people. You should get to a point where you're comfortable talking to people in general, and you can just approach a woman you find attractive and strike up a convo! Ask about cosmet… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Cracking the Asian girl code?Try treating them like any other woman. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Sex on first dateIf two people are into each other and they want to engage in any sexual activity then they should. Don't make up rules for yourself. Women normally do it because they feel like having sex on the first date makes them a whore. In reality it just means they know what they want and they go and get it. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Wanna know why women flake so much?He wants you to watch his YouTube video. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 0 | sexyNow THIS is seduction. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 3 | How would you approach in a store?I'm going to go ahead and say that 99% of men aren't going to want to beat you up because you asked their girlfriend for clothing advice. Even if he realized that you were about to make an approach, you had no way of knowing she had a boyfriend. Additionally why would you ever think somebody can beat you up? I'm not saying be cocky but at least be confident you can fuck somebody up in a fight if you have to. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How can I recover from this?A lot of women are accustomed to men carrying the convo over text. I'm not saying that's good because it's not but that's just what it is. She's probably still interested she just may not have any "keep the conversation rolling" skills, or at least not enough to continue. Don't text her again just wait until you see her at the gym to make more convo. You didn't mess up man. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 02:46 PM |
| 4 | What should my first message meThese guys are giving you solid advice man. And your only response is fuck you. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 07:15 AM |
| 7 | Shirtless photos on dating apps; what's your experience?Some women like them, the others lie about not liking them. Just don't do bathroom selfies like I saw mentioned. Chest tattoos can't hurt (they hurt physically) as far as dating app photos go. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 12:14 AM |
| 5 | How would you approach in a store?Well for clothing: "Which one do you think looks better?" In your head you know exactly what you want to wear/buy, but just use it as a convo starter and see where it takes you. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Literally can not get a girlfriend...Go to the grocery store and approach women there. Places like Walmart, Aldi's (maybe?) and other region-based locations like Costco,H-E-B,Publix... Everyday people do everyday things. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 01:14 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The more you text, the faster she will lose interest. If you talk about everything imaginable over text you'll have nothing to say in person just like you said. Your game isn't weak you are just starting out. Plenty of guys don't even approach women. | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 01:29 AM |
| 6 | Made her laugh right before sex so hardThis does put a smile on my face. | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Bumble match and date logisticsYes! But maybe not right away; find other stuff to bring up and talk about not date-related during the call and once you feel the conversation is comfortable then go back to setting up the date like "would you still want to go out for (x activity)?" | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Bumble match and date logisticsI normally say "we should talk on the phone sometime" or "we should do a video call" then I make an iPhone joke because I have an Android and can't FaceTime, so I suggest Instagram or Facebook video call. If they want to they will. If they make excuses as to why they can't take ~10 minutes to speak to you then they most likely aren't interested | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 05:45 PM |
| 7 | How can I be more attractive?If you don't already, get in the gym from time to time. You aren't going to get yoked right away, you may not even see results right away, but stick with it and I promise you will. Skin care is a biggie, there are men who think it's feminine to take care of your face and that's just not true. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Bumble match and date logisticsIn my bit of experience I find that a phone or video call breaks the ice and lowers a woman's barriers. Makes it much easier to plan a date rather than just being another guy from bumble asking her out. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 04:47 PM |
| 251 | I finally approached her at the gym.There will always be "shoulda coulda woulda" no matter how your approach was. This is a win. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | I think tonight I will ask out the girl I like from work.It can go well until it doesn't. Then that opens the door for her to claim harassment/ other things. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Interesting date at a strip club (date game field report)Props man, evolving the game. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 06:28 PM |
| 3 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.Sometimes you just have to charge it to the game and move on. Like you said women always have their phones on them, if she's not replying to you she's replying to someone else. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Should I end a happy relationship because of my fear of missing out at 22?If you want to get out there and be with different women you should. Relationships will always come and go you need to do what makes you happy. | /r/seduction | 08/09/20 06:33 PM |
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