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| 2 | I used to think my boyfriend was HV but now I’m not so sure. I need to know if I’m being too harsh.The fact that you've never seen the inside of his apartment speaks volumes. Girl, he's hiding his true self in that apartment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 05:59 PM |
| 15 | This girl is...completely and utterly fascinating. For the record, I co-sign NONE of this. It’s just that if I had to see it, so do all of you.Trash but with a glimmer of hope every now and again. The head information is solid. Get the head first, foreplay advice is on point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I got sick - THIS is why you need a HVMwhy the hell dis you take the walk? Like lonely be damned girl. Yea he sucks and is a pos but honestly with everything going on YOU put your life at risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 04:46 AM |
| 2 | I’ve always considered the Joy Luck Club one of my favorite movies. Great FDS material in here.I feel like this should be required reading/watching for all young girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 03:47 AM |
| 2 | I don’t understand pick me women sometimesDying is always a good sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Is it bad that I’m waiting for him to get in touch so I can call him out on his shit?she gave him a blowjob. wtfffffffffff hell!! Omg...oki oki, dammit now i’m curious. Shit!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad that I’m waiting for him to get in touch so I can call him out on his shit?Stopped reading this hot mess of a date at the fry incident (frygate?), the answer is Nooooo. Noooooooo, move on, skip along whatever you need to do. Don’t look back at mistakes, they might think of proving you right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 04:30 PM |
| 14 | What’s your take on women “picking fights”?Picking fights is in the same book as nagging to me. Its a default for trash people to not hold themselves accountable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 11:53 PM |
| 2 | I had to post what this guy sent after EIGHT YEARSStandard procedure 😂🤓😂🤣🤣 Let me guess y’all use salt and pepper for that standard procedure. Jesus can take the whole spicy rack!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 05:56 PM |
| 18 | Hold their feet to the fire 🔥bruh!! I agree with fucking Gandalf my therapist doesn’t even ask this in our first meeting? I would run for the hills if someone tried this. Too much too soon ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Imagine just trying to mind your own business and your significant other does this.He put it on her face?!? I would have jumped up and caught a charge! what a POS and he looks like a walking example of one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 04:00 AM |
| 11 | I had to post what this guy sent after EIGHT YEARSI'm so confused..what is going on here? Also, who seasons meat on a chopping board ?!?! Jesus take the wheel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 03:17 AM |
| 7 | Passive aggressiveness dealing with LvMactually women get attacked either way. If a man wants to attack a women he is less likely if he knows she will fight back. Most abusers are aware of themselves and choose easy targets. Some of those a holes will fight either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 12:54 AM |
| 5 | One Christian guy (I'm also a Christian) with whom I texted for 2 weeks called me a whore after I stopped replying to his messageswhy are you shocked ? you inadvertently played his hand sooner than later. I was be more relieved than shocked. He was hiding his true self. Nothing shocking about it, men and women do this sadly. You need to start reading between the lines or use the “ive been busy without notice” card more lol. How he reacted is his true self. I’ve done this many times, stop replying for a few days and see how the cards fall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 08:39 PM |
| 12 | Passive aggressiveness dealing with LvMI’m not a fan of the no response. Some People take your lack of response as shyness or whatever bullshit they can think off to keep pester. It can easily turn into a stalking situation with onlookers saying just talk to him. 🙄 I’m a fan of back the F off. Passive aggressive is not really my style either so the direct is always my go to. Some people are against this in case a man gets violent but I’ve never been afraid of fighting a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Friend talked about moving in with her bf of 3 months, I pointed out she was jumping too fast and we had a huge argument.I call it knowing your self worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 10:38 PM |
| 13 | Men who like watching sports are so unattractiveI watch and play sports with my HVMan. We are on softball teams together. I use to play basketball with my ex and whooped his ass. Sex was great after mind you. I def have know guys like the op is speaking on. They were trash before the sports and will be trash without it. I don’t even bother to entertain the though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 10:05 PM |
| 8 | Friend talked about moving in with her bf of 3 months, I pointed out she was jumping too fast and we had a huge argument.honestly i’ve cut off friends like this. They are draining to my bad bish spirit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 10:03 PM |
| 17 | Friend talked about moving in with her bf of 3 months, I pointed out she was jumping too fast and we had a huge argument.Friends like these always jump at the chance to be with a man. These women will always attack another woman who points out the flaws. They expect us as friends to just fall over whatever man they bring. It’s sad but you need to step back until she is ready. She may or may not admit her faults but if you care about her just wait. Don’t push just wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:35 PM |
| 112 | Men who like watching sports are so unattractiveI think this is an over projection of your LV ex. There are plenty hvm who watch sports and don’t behave like animals. Sports watching isn’t an indication of low value. Being a disgusting pig who ignores their significant other for sports is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask my HVW friend to dump him?He taking charge by your own admission. HE actively woes and pursues her without being told to do so. If that is what he wants in the bedroom and she is ok with that, that is what works for them. As long as it's consensual that is all that matters. I think you are looking for straws and its not healthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask my HVW friend to dump him?Shouldn't a HVM be dominant or am I missing something here? Why should he be dominant? I would actually say someone having to be dominant in the bedroom is a red flag for me but to each their own. Can anyone notice any red flags? Only that you seem overly invested without him showing any red flags at all. I would understand if there were doubts on her end but there doesn't seem to be any. Should I ask her to dump him? That's pretty bold of you considering he is doing everything in the relationsh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | FOUR YEARSThrow the whole genome away 🤣 My bad y’all, couldn’t help myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | His name is Bird—Please fly awayThey are !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:34 PM |
| 16 | How many percentage of tinder meetups lead to actual LTR?I've used OLD long ago and everyone I met was trash or looking for a hookup. I've been on TInder a total of 4 times. Each time I only lasted a few weeks because the trash attack was too much. The last time I was there I met my now fiance. I will say I lucked up and this is not the norm but I found someone who is great for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:21 AM |
| 41 | FOUR YEARSForget the ring...what happened to your finger girl ?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:41 PM |
| 19 | Can a man in his late 30s still learn cleaning habits?The house is clean enough because he knows you’re coming and going into panic mode. He doesn’t think about the bathroom because he is worried about surface level. The bathroom is who he is, the rest of the house is who he wants you to BELIEVE he is. Don’t fall for it sis. Soon he will begin letting the crack fall as you “help” clean. Then he will let it all fall because he think he has you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 04:56 PM |
| 19 | Missing condoms but swears he hasn’t used them...checking trash cans ?! Girl why???? Just leave ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:09 PM |
| 20 | Missing condoms but swears he hasn’t used them...I have a rule for men I date and I let them know it up from. “i love you but I love myself more”. Love yourself enough to not put up with lies. Lies that are admitted and the ones your gut knows are still happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:08 PM |
| 15 | Just found out through a mutual friend how my ex describes my genitals in relation to other girls genitalsThere was a trend going around in the clubs back in day. Guys would go up to a woman way to hard. When she turned him down politely he would make a stink face. (as if she was smelly, which reminded me of 4 grade boys) I even saw one guy kneel down after being rejected as if to tie his shoe. Pretend to take a big whiff and wave his hands near his face. All his brohoes would start dying to laughter. Even when you reject low value people they talk shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:27 PM |
| 14 | How do you respond to the 'what are you looking for?' question?I would be wary to. A lot of men on OLD use this line to then repeat exactly what you want. I fell for it in my youth 1 time and 1 time only. If you feel you must - I’m looking for mono relationship that can develop into someone more. If that’s what YOU want. If at anytime this person step out of that area zone you reassess and keep it moving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 06:08 PM |
| 18 | It seems like men will only settle down with someone who’s absolutely perfect, and I don’t have the energy anymore.You're spot on, look behind the facade and we have a slew of problems. Nobodies perfect but we are all perfect for somebody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 09:16 PM |
| 79 | It seems like men will only settle down with someone who’s absolutely perfect, and I don’t have the energy anymore.Get off social media, Its clearly affecting your self-esteem. There are places you can meet people not online. Once this pandemic is dealt with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | ME: This is the greatest song of the 90s ALSO ME: It's a Pick Me anthem ME: :-Onot personally no, but i’ve seen her walking about our old community from time to time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:36 AM |
| 10 | ME: This is the greatest song of the 90s ALSO ME: It's a Pick Me anthem ME: :-OTracy is a lesbian in the SF community. I remember when I lived there she was harassed by women in that community because she is super shy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Idris Elba’s Wife tests positive for COVID19 after choosing not to isolate herself from Idris’ after his diagnosis. Catching Your man’s diseases ON PURPOSE is EXTREME PICK ME behavior. If doctors & nurses are isolating from THEIR families, then this woman should have too!!Oh i guess my love meter is broken. I did risk exposure for a death in the family (non virus related). He loves me and knows I keep myself safe. He choose to stick by me even though going into NYC could be a risk. Him loving me is understanding why I had to go and sticking by me when I return. If he didn’t love me then his ass wouldn’t even be relevant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 05:32 PM |
| 8 | Would you date a guy who seems like HVM but have communication issues ?seems like HV and treating you like shit. Girl they are not HV at all. Communication issues are something a hv man would work on and seek to change. Simply! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:49 AM |
| 30 | Date men who have bathroom etiquetteI was at a bar the other day and walked to the bathroom. A guy walks out the bathroom fixing himself after just using the bathroom. Like full on tucking his junk back in. My crazy ass looks and him and stat - “ewlll..fix yourself before exiting the bathroom like any decent human being”. This fool has the nerve to say “don’t talk to me like that”. There is a girl waiting for him and she seemed shocked I said anything. I later see them outside the bar and he has the audacity to get huffy. I swear … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Based. Don't be a maid, ladies! He can wash his OWN dishes!!Please do share, I’m curious on the point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Based. Don't be a maid, ladies! He can wash his OWN dishes!!It’s context...which basically boils down to...have a discussion. If a dish is left in the sink and he is automatically a lazy ass in your mind without a discussion you do yourself a disservice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Based. Don't be a maid, ladies! He can wash his OWN dishes!!My fiancé does this but for his own reason...hear me out ladies. This one is actually a keeper. I hate doing dishes and the apartment we had before had no dishwasher. I would do dishes sometimes but as a rule, if I cook you clean. Honestly once the cooking is done everything after that is on him. 🤷🏾♀️When I would clean after he cooked, he felt I waste water. He is a biologist who refuses to use plastic straws in public type and actually not the first person who has said this. Some people like t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:08 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with naturally lacking femininity?If you don’t value yourself first, nothing will help. Take the advice given-look for women who look like you first. Stop comparing yourself to other women bc you don’t know what they went through to achieve their looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 06:05 PM |
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