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| 2 | Man gets paid child support from this ex, is this happening more often now? Where?I’ve been ordered support for the past 5 years for my 2 kids.... guess who has never seen a dime and guess who the Texas attorney general has NEVER enforced the order against? If it were the other way around, I’d be in jail. I know, my dad was a dead beat and he was always in jail for support.Double standard of child support is sickening. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.I’m going to be honest, my attorney probably did a shitty job at notifying me that my deferred wasn’t actually a true deferred (in the way it would always be treated as a conviction after the fact). I did NOT even think my “crime” is one that’s clumped together with rapists and murders . With this being said, if I would have been better informed, I would have played the cat and mouse game with the DA longer. I was just sick and tired of being reset, going into court, being put on display as a “f… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.I suppose not living in the same city helps...... I’ve had to learn a lot of self control, for the sake of my kids. One more “violent incident”, or anything that can be misconstrued as me “messing with her” or even just “pissing her off” (to an extent), she’s liable to call the cops and I’m liable to go to state prison. Cruel system we have here, it’s best to just stay out of it, obviously | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.Thanks. Unfortunately, yes. Girls that have this engrained within them never change. They might say they can, they can’t and won’t. Couples argue and that’s just a fact of life. What if she gets a really good shot at your head with a baseball bat one day and you try to defend your life but accidentally hurt her badly or God forbid, worse. You’re screwed. The DA will tear you apart despite who hit who first. It sounds extreme to you, I’m sure ....but it’s a very very real possibility. You’re putt… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 08:20 AM |
| 5 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.Yes, agreed. I’ve been thinking of relocating to (Florida for health reasons/TX allergies are severe and giving me lung damage ) and it seems I would have my gun rights over there, according to their state guidelines I’ve read. But it wouldn’t help seal my Texas “felony charge”, of course. I suppose I got lucky with the movie thing. I think they really wanted the guys that were financially benefiting off the movies. There was some big time money back in the day. The Chinese would mass produce th… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.Now I know that good sir haha. I feel sorry for the girls I date these days, I have so many “deal breakers” because I don’t want to end up in another crazy situation of any kind with a woman when I have 2 boys to care for | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.This made me think of something. Till this day (7 years after the fact), I still don’t know what (if anything) happened to her ex that would beat on her. It makes me wonder if she had built up resentment towards men... or if he found his self in trouble with the law because of a similar situation. I never asked anything about it because I didn’t think it was my place to ask about a traumatic experience.... but now it’s running through my mind | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 03:12 AM |
| 8 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.She doesn’t go that far because I do have 2 kids that are well cared for. But she does insinuate that I love and do more for my kids that live with me.... and to that I say, well duh! I’m their primary care giver! They don’t have anyone else. I’m a truly single parent that DOESNT get child support.... and you decided to move hours away, lady. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 03:05 AM |
| 20 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.This woman is such a liar and manipulator, I deposited cash into her bank account (I found an old checkbook of her), she mailed me back the money with a note- thanks but no thanks, I’m going to do this on my own for my son. I don’t want anything from you, ever! She proceeded to ignore me for 2-3 consecutive years while I was on probation. I didn’t push it because I didn’t want to catch a “stalking charge” or anything else crazy while on probation. I let her be. So at 3 years old, she makes conta… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 02:57 AM |
| 7 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.I actually do have full custody of 2 boys; 10 and 4. I’ve had them both 100% of the time since my 4 yr old was 5 months old. Found out their mother was using drugs (I know how to pick em right?). But I am blessed that we don’t have that women in our lives (they don’t even remember her) and I will indeed teach them how to be men, smart men that can deal with females in a respectful manner while also making sure they’re respected themselves. I just am so sad when my other child comes over and I se… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 02:49 AM |
| 5 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.That story is wild! I’m sure it’s not a proud moment of your life but you were young and it was just a dumb mistake. I have a 18 yr old story too. So the motion picture association of America came after me with detectives and hired PI’s. I was in the pirated movie scene and I would synchronize the audio for the new bootleg movie releases and then upload it to some guy in China. The groups name was “maven” and the head guy in charge became infamous, he killed his self while under house arrest aft… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 02:05 AM |
| 6 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.In Texas, a family violence case does not qualify to be expunged. I would have never agreed to a deferred if I knew this. It counts as a conviction in the way it can never be sealed, expunged and I can never have the right to open carry | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.This is what happened, I see the charge and freak the shit out. I call her right away and say “you said I choked you? Strangled you?” Her response, “no I don’t , I swear I didn’t . Why would I say that? You didn’t choke me”.... so as the case led on, my lawyer basically told me that cops are trained into manipulating “victims” to tell them what they want to hear in a stressful situation. But then her lies became frequent over the years, so I have no idea but I occasionally think about what the t… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/20 01:46 AM |
| 8 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.Indeed. I wish I was educated about things like this before I found myself in this situation. Just how little girls are taught to not be the victims of sexual or domestic abuse in middle and high school, I feel that boys deserve the same; being taught not to stand for violence, even if “it didn’t hurt” because of the ramifications that it may have long term... mentally, physically and legally. My cousin was in a toxic relationship. The girl would “beat him up”. A couple years into the relationsh… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 09:19 PM |
| 8 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.I’m not sure to be honest. Might have a self defense situation? At last I’d have a chance. I agree that I should’ve left the first time she hit me... it was when my 4yr old little boy was visiting us, so it was especially disturbing that she didn’t have any self control with him around. My fault entirely for believing it would be “the last time”. Stupid me. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.Do yourself a favor and never get back with that woman again. Not even for (only) sex. This behavior is compulsive.. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 08:06 PM |
| 13 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.There is occasionally talk of it, indeed. I do agree with you on the pace though! One thing that really irritates me is that I’ll never be able to protect myself and my children that live with me (from a different woman) with a firearm. I took deferred adjudication not knowing that in the great state of Texas, differed on a family violence case is treated in the exact same manner as a conviction and can never be wiped from your record except with a pardon from the governor or the president | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 08:02 PM |
| 31 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.It happens oh so often too. My lawyer was sickened by the case. He wanted me to fight it through but there was a female judge overseeing the case and she has a reputation to “believe the woman”. I didn’t want to take the chance at prison | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 08:00 PM |
| 21 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.Scary thing, next girl I dated after her hit me as well... more of a slap to the face... I told myself, get ahold of yourself, you’ll go to prison if you defend yourself... then I broke up with her immediately | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 07:56 PM |
| 17 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.Seriously... before this happened, I actually (kinda) jokingly told her that I’m going to get cameras installed in here in case she hits me/ murders me.... I’m wishing I actually did it instead of just talking about it | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 07:54 PM |
| 20 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.Sorry to hear you’re going through similar, it’s hard to stay positive when this is happening to you. It’s a losing battle until we get some sort of reform. My friend is going through it now. His girlfriend was arrested for domestic violence against him (he lucked out because he was taking video, they ALMOST took him instead of her).... but some months later, she cried wolf and they picked him up and he’s fighting the case now, even though there’s no evidence. It’s ludicrous It seems as my inter… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 07:52 PM |
| 74 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.Oh trust me, I have much resentment towards her. Besides this, she plays the “I’m a single woman doing things all on my own, I don’t need a man” card. However, she’s the one that decided to move away, hours away, while virtually taking away any chance at a normal relationship with my kid than I might have had. Especially because most of my time is used attempting to make money since no good paying job will touch me | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 269 | Sunday world Irish newspaper featuring male victim of domestic violence.So my child’s mom loved to close fist punch me with all her might , right in the face when we’d argue. This happened on at least 3x instances in less than a 8 months . I finally got tired of it, put her against the wall and grabbed her and said “if you ever f’n do that to me again, I’ll f’n kill you”. I really didn’t mean it, I was mad and tired of being hit in the face by her fist. She proceeded to run out the door in fear (she’d been severely beaten in a previous relationship), I believe she h… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/20 06:27 PM |
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