julry Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	The Great "Male Peak" Myth: When Exceptions Are Sold as the Rule That 20 year old women are the highest value is the red pill claim, what I'm doing here is following it to its logical conclusion.	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/26 10:57 PM
-1	The Great "Male Peak" Myth: When Exceptions Are Sold as the Rule If early 20s women are the highest value women, then obviously the men they want to date most are the highest value men. If 40 year old women are worthless then why would it matter that they want 40 year old men lol.	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/26 07:46 PM
9	I used to be a men's rights activist - exposing that gynocentrism theory, the meta narrative that is beneath all of the manosphere It's fascinating how Wright looks at the Georgian and Victorian eras, when 12 year old girls were working in brothels, and sees gynocentrism everywhere. He seems to have read real historical sources but somehow only "courtly love" tales matter and terrible things happening to girls and women in real life don't	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/26 07:45 PM
4	Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free? Are there no men for women outside the range of 17-19 because that's men's preference? Are there no men for women above 20 years old because that's men's preference?	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/26 06:33 PM
3	Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free? They have not, but feel free to try and prove it. Women's preferred BMI in men is 24-26 with ~15% body fat, which is the healthy but not crazy lean range. Men's preferred BMI in women is 17-19 with less body fat than is healthy. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4892674/	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/26 06:44 PM
1	Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free? Not universally but enough not to promote it imo yeah	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/26 06:36 PM
2	Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free? Well it doesn't have to be an issue if the husband doesn't choose to make it one	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/26 03:47 AM
2	Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free? There is still plenty of coerced and unwanted sex within relationships in the west. Women may freely choose to get married but they don't know in advance that they may end up having sex they don't desire for the man's sake.	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/26 12:38 AM
7	Would red-pill men like to live in a world where women aren't sexually free? Women have more variation in the men they find attractive than men do for women https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/472861	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/26 12:31 AM
4	Help me not grow resentful Can you guarantee that the blind man hasn't heard other men talk about what's attractive in women? Blind people today are influenced by other's perceptions of people's attractiveness because even if they can't see it they know having an ugly partner is low status. Look up Ray Charles' wife- she's got a beautiful face, why? Speaking of male attraction the average female bmi preferred by western men is around 18-20, that's on the verge of underweight to actually underweight, lower than the bmi of …	/r/ExRedPill	28/03/26 02:11 PM
4	Help me not grow resentful The ancestral cultures it began in are patriarchal and being a leader of a male hierarchy in one based on others' (men's) perceptions of your dominance and physical imposingness or fighting ability is patriarchal. You're describing a patriarchal origin. Feminism doesn't require social constructionism but I'm certainly not going to argue you should call yourself one.	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/26 03:27 PM
5	Help me not grow resentful You might be interested in this paper: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1740144512000885 And hunter gatherers prefer significantly larger women than modern western men, so how can their specific preferences for thinness be entirely evolutionary? Modern men's weight preferences for women are actually lower than the healthiest and most fertile weight. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886922004263 Society judges men by height in a variety of ways incl…	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/26 10:51 AM
6	Do you believe men have a peak? If women are most valuable in their early 20s then men are most valuable when early 20s women want to date them. Which is also early 20s. They don't want to date 35 year old men lol. If 35 year old women have no value then they can't make men valuable	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/26 10:41 AM
7	Sexual selection Arranged marriages are the dominant practice among hunter foragers. Only 8% of women in a cross cultural study of small scale cultures had full choice of who to marry. Before humans speciated, our ancestors have been getting less sexually dimorphic for millions of years. So if female hominids were choosing their mates, they were not picking the biggest meanest gorilla.	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/26 06:00 PM
11	“Men love unconditionally, women love opportunistically” Doesn't seem to be unconditional when their wife doesn't want to have sex anymore	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/26 01:03 PM
5	If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him? Why would any boyfriend immediately assume she's dressing up for other men and not for him, even? Sounds incredibly insecure	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/26 07:00 PM
8	Why "pill" content has become mainstream Under the Western European marriage pattern that our society evolved from, up to a third of men and women remained unmarried for life, angry men did not violently revolt. Sexless men today are sexless because they are highly neurotic, anxious, fearful, and afraid of rejection. They are not going to violently revolt if they can't even ask women out in person.	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/26 06:08 AM
32	I want to break out of the red pill/misogynist way of thinking Feminists care less about height than conservative women so there's that	/r/ExRedPill	15/01/26 07:16 PM
3	I am convinced that many women want to protect their role as the main parent to their children "Mothers’ traditional gender attitudes are associated with higher levels of gate closing, whereas mothers’ more egalitarian gender attitudes are associated with lower levels of gate closing and greater involvement of fathers in domestic tasks and childcare (Aytac, Citation2021; Gaunt, Citation2009; Meteyer & Perry-Jenkins, Citation2010). Thus, mothers’ gender ideologies are defined as key predictors of the allocation of family work among couples, as the stronger endorsement of traditional roles …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/11/25 07:35 AM
1	How do you reconcile the expectation that feminism should actively support men’s issues with the perception that male advocacy spaces never focus on issues that negatively affect women? I think you read my comment too quickly.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/10/25 02:41 AM
1	How do you reconcile the expectation that feminism should actively support men’s issues with the perception that male advocacy spaces never focus on issues that negatively affect women? Men pursue women because they are hornier. Completely logical and how most animals do it. Ever had low testosterone? Furthermore they are less happy being single and get more benefits out of relationships. Supply and demand. Nobody's individual preferences are attacks on anyone else, including men's. If a woman wants a relationship but is too passive to find one she'll suffer the consequences of that. Is it not embarrassing to be parroting memes from social media like woman no accountability ins…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/10/25 03:03 PM
1	How do you reconcile the expectation that feminism should actively support men’s issues with the perception that male advocacy spaces never focus on issues that negatively affect women? He made those points!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/10/25 02:34 AM
1	How do you reconcile the expectation that feminism should actively support men’s issues with the perception that male advocacy spaces never focus on issues that negatively affect women? My point is defending the OP's correctness in this comment. A user made a post blaming women for men's dating complaints because they "thrive on attention" and "only want Chads" and I am explaining why that's wrong. What's your point? https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/s/6FeY24GPQz	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/10/25 01:08 AM
1	How do you reconcile the expectation that feminism should actively support men’s issues with the perception that male advocacy spaces never focus on issues that negatively affect women? Gender differences caused by socialization are still gender differences. Look at the gay men's dating scene. And I know you didn't say that, you said "women who are actively dating use apps" which is an observation that leads to the conclusion I explained when you pair it with the fact that fewer women use dating apps than men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/10/25 12:42 AM
1	How do you reconcile the expectation that feminism should actively support men’s issues with the perception that male advocacy spaces never focus on issues that negatively affect women? I didn't say that was an 80% difference. And yes exactly... women are actively dating less than men, which is not some kind of misandrist choice. They are just less motivated by sex. That will make the dating landscape feel unequal when it is not caused by anyone behaving "wrong".	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/10/25 12:15 AM
1	How do you reconcile the expectation that feminism should actively support men’s issues with the perception that male advocacy spaces never focus on issues that negatively affect women? They have lower numbers on surveys that ask if you've ever used online dating	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/10/25 10:47 PM
-2	How do you reconcile the expectation that feminism should actively support men’s issues with the perception that male advocacy spaces never focus on issues that negatively affect women? That doesn't explain how few women are on them, if women never got approached elsewhere they'd all have to be on apps to date at all. Nor does it explain why men who can meet women in person also like to use apps.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/10/25 08:11 PM
-3	How do you reconcile the expectation that feminism should actively support men’s issues with the perception that male advocacy spaces never focus on issues that negatively affect women? But the 80% statistic is true. And what seems like sex based iniquities come from that basic ratio. https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/have-dating-apps-ruined-dating	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/10/25 07:43 PM
–	Age gap relationships - two weights, two measures It just showed up. And it’s pretty funny, I mean you’re a men’s rights sub and dating young women without stigma is one of the top rights of concern? Damn things must be so hard for you	/r/MensRights	03/11/23 03:54 AM
-1	Age gap relationships - two weights, two measures You really think 20 year old women would be innately attracted to men their dad’s age if not for society telling them it’s wrong? 😂😂	/r/MensRights	03/11/23 03:34 AM
5	Does anyone know the statistics for what percentage of marriages fail that have a prenup? Also, how often do women initiate divorce in a marriage with a prenup? But the party that benefits more from the prenup has increased incentive to divorce if they are unhappy. For all we know it balances out	/r/ExRedPill	19/09/22 02:13 AM
15	Does anyone know the statistics for what percentage of marriages fail that have a prenup? Also, how often do women initiate divorce in a marriage with a prenup? If you do find any statistics, they wouldn’t be able to answer your question because they would only be correlational, not causal. The people who get a prenup are different than people who don’t: richer, probably older, more likely to be previously divorced, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	18/09/22 08:14 PM