jumpinsnakes Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	If every girl is a disloyal cheater, then how come you can't get laid? You sound like a very odd person. The average guy should date someone he is attracted to and will be attracted to for years to come. Relationships evolve seems like you haven't learned how to maintain enough passion and develop that into long term relationship based on the ebb and flow of life and a real love.	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/24 04:34 PM
5	If every girl is a disloyal cheater, then how come you can't get laid? So you have never genuinely clicked with a woman where the conversation just flows and you actually like talking and being silly with them? Add on top of that you are both horny for each other and both initiate sex and that is what you are missing. It is a great thing when that develops into a solid love based on respect and compassion.	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/24 11:35 AM
7	I’m just sick and frustrated with dating now, but feel so alone. The last girl seemed so perfect, don’t really think it’s working out tho. This is why you date multiple people so as not to be overly committed. If you're a one girl a time guy them set milestones and enforce them so you can feel a girl out.	/r/seduction	01/11/22 09:41 PM
2	Girls in Hotel Gyms Lol it's time of the month, but these girls were into buff guys so they were like "if I want to get laid I go to the gym and ask a cute guy to give me pointers or spot me and usually the guy just asks me out because it's a Friday or Saturday.". I've picked up girls at the gym but only after a month of basic chit chat and friendly conversation.	/r/seduction	26/10/22 03:31 AM
31	Girls in Hotel Gyms I've dated women who have told me when they're horny they go to the gym at night to get picked up. They are flirty and talkative. So maybe 🤷‍♂️	/r/seduction	24/10/22 10:00 PM
10	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value The only thing that ever felt like a cheat code was partying while traveling and using tinder. Otherwise its like learning to play an instrument just takes time and effort.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 12:35 PM
4	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me Dude you leveled up your looks and social skills but you got a lot more mental maturing to do. Give it 3 years and you'll build more empathy if you're open to it	/r/seduction	29/07/22 09:23 PM
7	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me Lol it's only valid for ugly and average people. Everyone who has been a 7 or higher since puberty or even 21 knows all 7s and up are fucking somebody regularly because sex is fun and we live in a liberal society. And everyone who is a 7 or better learns quickly that sex isn't important with regards to morals or values.	/r/seduction	29/07/22 09:14 PM
4	Is the PUA community basically dead? Lol like really these guys don't know that girls go out every Friday and Saturday night and probably 30% hook up with a rando. That rando could be them if they just learn to have fun and flirt.	/r/seduction	14/07/22 04:43 AM
6	Is the PUA community basically dead? Eh you learn very quickly warm approach is best at social venues. True cold approach should only be used when you just happen to see a girl you like during your normal activities ie shopping etc.	/r/seduction	14/07/22 04:35 AM
9	Is the PUA community basically dead? Nah bro women only make up 25% of active online dating users. Go out to public venues where it's 50/50 and socialize and flirt much better outcomes.	/r/seduction	14/07/22 04:31 AM
2	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? Your right it's trash to a women compared to running into Dan that partakes in the community food market selling things from his garden and they cross's path a few times and he eventually asks her out	/r/seduction	04/07/22 11:41 PM
1	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? !optout	/r/seduction	04/07/22 11:34 PM
1	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? What part of "real" did you not understand. I'm saying it's his neighbor so s he should make real friends with her if she is cool and reap the benefits. It's win win and not manipulative	/r/seduction	04/07/22 11:32 PM
2	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? It has nothing to do with that, people especially women love to meet organically through exposure and shared groups/community.	/r/seduction	04/07/22 11:29 PM
1	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? That's because you haven't met anyone you click with. Like your talking patterns sink right up and they understand everything your saying. Keep looking	/r/seduction	04/07/22 11:27 PM
1	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? Hey man I would just say that having 10% of all women be compatible with you is pretty high I feel for me it is a lot lower because of my personality.	/r/seduction	04/07/22 11:17 PM
1	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? It's only bad advice if the guy can't make real friends with his neighbor and become part of her social circles.	/r/seduction	04/07/22 11:11 PM
1	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? Then it sounds like you now know where to be on the weekends you have off 😃	/r/seduction	19/06/22 05:34 PM
1	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? Join a few clubs with men and women ie volleyball clubs etc. Be friendly and talk to people and volunteer to help organize. If you don't have time for that then go to concerts, festivals, markets, party beaches, roller skates events, city runs etc and meet girls there. Everyone at those places is looking to socialize.	/r/seduction	18/06/22 12:32 PM
–	I did it!!! Eh use texts to also showcase your fun side with memes and things but don't use it for deep conversation	/r/seduction	10/06/22 09:02 PM
1	I did it!!! Exactly how would you tease your family members with corny silly jokes do that with girls, have fun. Of course weave in normal conversation and segues but enjoy the conversation	/r/seduction	10/06/22 08:58 PM
1	Just went out and did about 15-20 approaches I see the biggest thing is I bet the study didn't control for attractiveness and the women asked were a random sample of attractiveness. Guys day gaming are always either going for women there level or higher so that right there is going to skew the close rate a lot. On top of that asking a girl out that you have zero intention of taking out probably makes you seem very relaxed and confident. Asking a girl out that you really do find cute and want to date it's harder to control your nerves.	/r/seduction	15/05/22 03:37 AM
1	Attempting to be charismatic often feels forced and cringey. But not forcing myself to be outgoing results in me being quiet and boring. What do I do? How do you think actors, singers, musicians all feel when they first begin performing publicly? That uncomfortable feeling will fade as you gain experience and become comfortable in your own skin.	/r/seduction	10/05/22 11:35 PM
1	Women are so bad at dating advice… You know I've been thinking we give a lot of advice here but I'm thinking how would you become good at anything else generally you go practice with others who are competent 2-3 times a week for 2-3 years and then you would probably be considered average at that skill. What activities are similar for developing social and seduction skills I would say being a bartender or waiter is a good start. What are jobs where you have to be social or you fail and can do 2-3 times a week? That would be better…	/r/seduction	06/04/22 12:12 AM
1	Women are so bad at dating advice… What did I say that was meaningless I gave a direct path. Now if your looking for direct instruction on how to be more empathic, funny and calibrate your opinions to the audience. That just comes with practice.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 11:13 PM
1	Women are so bad at dating advice… Becoming social is not hard learn to talk about your opinions and actually learn to like talking to people no matter what they are saying and learn to talk at there level. Learn when to slide in jokes and when it's ok to change the subject. This takes practice and should be started with family and friends and acquaintences and then strangers and so on. I can't stress to actually learn to like talking to all people from all walks of life. Military helped me.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 09:56 PM
1	Agreed to a date and time/place, but she didn't respond after asking for her number. Any course of action? Don't ask a girl for her number say "if you want to get off this app here is my number ********* otherwise we can stay on here"	/r/seduction	26/03/22 01:54 PM
1	Been in this sub for six months but nothing has changed. Do you chit chat and have enjoyable conversations with these women where they are actively engaged? If not work on doing that and after chatting for 10-20 min ask if they want to get a drink sometime. That's why people say it's "easy" but it's not easy developing the skill to have fun casual conversations.	/r/seduction	07/03/22 10:21 PM
–	After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshit You've hit a plateau not the peak you're confused. Keep climbing.	/r/seduction	28/02/22 10:30 PM
2	After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshit Exactly the objective is through skills, frame, style, fintess to increase the number of women who are willing to give you a shot	/r/seduction	28/02/22 10:26 PM
1	Can you just approach women anywhere? Just focus on approaching women in socially warm places ie bar, festival, party, brewery, dancehall, live music etc. But don't go hard pick-up just be chill and socialize and then be a little flirty.	/r/seduction	15/02/22 10:10 PM
2	How to get laid on vacation? They'll make you pay for them half day. Make sure ask at check in. There will be girls at the resort, end your night at the resort club if they have one	/r/seduction	07/01/22 09:57 PM
2	How to get laid on vacation? Are you staying at a hotel or Airbnb? Hotels won't let you have a guest unless they are staying there to.	/r/seduction	07/01/22 09:43 PM
–	[deleted by user] If you live in DC I'd be your goofy friend 🙂	/r/seduction	14/12/21 12:40 PM
–	[deleted by user] With good/fun non judgemental friends, rejection becomes hilarious,. Sometimes we intentionally tried to burn out with a girl	/r/seduction	13/12/21 11:28 PM
-1	Is anyone using machine learning to identify fat chicks? Just be yourself 🤷‍♂️	/r/seduction	10/12/21 09:53 PM
11	Are You Unattractive Or Just Don't Get A Lot Of Compliments On Your Looks? Exactly. Can you approach a girl in a loud bar/venue with a sly smile standing tall good frame and speak loudly and confidently while easily flirting, teasing, giving honest opinions while touching/bumping her when appropriate? Then you can flip a neutral girl to intrigued easily with average looks.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/21 08:48 PM
1	How do you become more confident? So make friends that are social go out with them to the bar and act the same way you do in private with them at the bar and then when your comfortable with that engage other people the same way. Keep doing this and you will be come your real social self. This worked for me in the military. I was lucky to have social barracks friends. Also mirror your social friends mannerisms that you like.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:20 PM
10	Is it just me or for every dating advice there is an opposite advice? Dude the amount of times shit worked out when I did things wrong and times they completely failed when I was charming and magnanimous it fucks with your head. That's why I generally just try to be blandly social and flirty and let my fitness and looks do the rest because if a girl wants to fuck me she's going to, I just have to be mentally present and chill.	/r/seduction	19/06/21 08:15 PM
32	If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined quality This guy fucks!	/r/seduction	04/06/21 10:00 PM
1	What does it mean? The only reason you're overthinking it, is because you don't have 2 other girls your actively dating. Get comfortable dating multiple women and not giving a fuck.	/r/seduction	04/06/21 03:37 PM
3	To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop? Hold up a guy can have as much consensual sex as he wants. Why are you slut shaming him? All the women he had consensual sex with got sex from him too. Women rarely give obvious signals. It's perfectly socially acceptable to just chat with women out in public and see where it goes.	/r/seduction	01/06/21 05:05 PM
2	Stop chasing I think you grew up in a social family environment where your parents gave you a good example to follow or you just have really high self esteem and thus never have had any social anxiety. But for those who never had a good example or had actively bad ones they need a bit of practice.	/r/seduction	31/05/21 11:30 PM
2	Stop chasing You can consider her amenable to socialize if she isn't with a guy and isn't trying to be off alone. Socially warm is just the venue you can assume all women are socially warm in a park, bar, festival etc. and thus are willing to socialize but they may not be attracted to you so you have to gauge with a little flirting/teasing. You charm women with humour, teasing, flirting, interesting conversation, actually getting to know her. Also sharing your stories and life.	/r/seduction	31/05/21 11:26 PM
–	Stop chasing Yeah just like Michael Jordan just naturally won games with no practice or trial and error.	/r/seduction	25/05/21 06:23 PM
17	Stop chasing So seriously good luck on your hobbies they're important. But the vast majority of women expect men to approach hands down. What you need to be doing is becoming completely comfortable being social with strangers in all social situations. Cold approaching is fine but you need to be in socially warm places like park, bar, festival, markets and then approach women who are showing they are at least amenable to socialize. If a you are a girl's type and can hold a conversation and get to know her, as…	/r/seduction	25/05/21 12:46 PM
12	Often the last thing that a woman at a bar on a Friday night wants to experience is a complete stranger asking her a list of standard boring interview questions about her life. I have to mildly disagree, small talk is how you get to deep talk. It's perfectly ok to start small but you damn well better be actively listening and be able to dig deeper and provide relatable stories to what their responses are. Also don't be afraid to share a vulnerable anecdote women love when your reveal something personal about yourself. The hard part is the creativity and improvisation required for flirting, teasing and wit but that comes with practice.	/r/seduction	24/05/21 07:12 PM
1	Millennials & Younger Generations Are Quickly Dividing Into Two Separate Species! Lol nobody is making the argument that teenagers have good taste but they are the market force and buy downloads	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/21 10:18 PM
1	Why you should enjoy flaking? Lol yep the number of times a girl switched a flake to a go at 11pm and those all usually are hookups! And I don't give any fucks that I may have been 2nd or 3rd dick!	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/20 08:07 PM
3	Why you should enjoy flaking? Only people who actually lift and eat clean to build muscle and strength understand this. I'll eat anywhere alone for that delicious cheat meal!	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/20 07:08 PM