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| 1 | Seduction in China."Your ex was pushing you away all that time. Subconsciously. " Bingo. You hit the nail on the head. How I felt the whole time in our relationship. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in China.Those two bullets are exactly the outcomes I was trying to determine with my actions. I was like...I can walk here, and either she will do bullet 1 or bullet 2. If I thought bullet 2 was the more likely outcome, I definitely would have walked more, but unfortunately bullet 1 was the more likely outcome. And yes, you are absolutely correct - it would have spared a ton of drama. A TON. Just, I felt this girl was great marriage potential (treated her body well, ate well, avoided shit food, very cle… | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Seduction in China.Funny thing is, in one of our last calls (post breakup, her trying to save things), she admitted to me that she liked to provoke me just for the purpose of...provoking me. WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY? ffs. Make me crazy just to make me crazy...and she wonders why I acted crazy at times. . . I would like to agree with you that I could have gone more alpha with her in the relationship, but just so much shit went down in the relationship that made it hard. It was only until like, maybe 6 months… | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Seduction in China.Well the interesting thing about my chinese ex is that she wasn't flashy, didn't drink, didn't like to party (which is why I loved dating her...so so so different from the standard American girls). She, just being raised 100% in China (she is in the US for school/work), just has the culture and has the demands of a Chinese girl, which made it tough. It came down to figuring out if the good (cooking, loyal, innocence, loving, caring, not-American) outweighed the bad (super demanding, crazy when s… | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 06:44 AM |
| 1 | The problem with dating appsI would probably say the height change you made isn't the biggest factor for increasing response rate, but I'm sure it didn't hurt you at all lol (I'm also 5'11", which I think is a perfectly acceptable height for women...maybe women associate height with dick size lol). It is all about the other stuff you mentioned - interesting pics, badass wording, faking it until you make it. It is kinda stupid that you have to do that shit just to get responses on that app, but that is what the girls are on… | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in China.True, not ALL Chinese girls are this way, but I don't think I am wrong in saying more often than not they exhibit bitchy behavior, are materialistic, and are high maintenance. At the same time, they will also be extremely loyal, loving, caring, and cook for you. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in China.Heh, well, my ex wasn't from a rich household (her parents made a combined equivalent of like $25,000 USD, which doesn't sound like much to someone in a first world country, but is actually quite comfortable in rural towns), so what she asked for was never anything material. My PERSIAN ex, on the other hand, came from a super wealthy background (her father is a successful used car salesman and her mother's family had connection to the US-backed regime), and HER needs were entirely material (e.g.… | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in China.This is extremely true. Thanks to biology (1.03 men born for every woman), their population (1 billion), the previous one-child policy, and the culture in China (mostly because of the one-child policy) to have a male instead of a female (Wonder Showzen, one of my favorite TV shows, joked about Chinese families throwing away their female babies into the ocean), there are MILLIONS of sexless men in China. MILLIONS. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 04:48 AM |
| 6 | Seduction in China.Chinese women are a different breed. Although, there is a stark difference, from what I hear, between Chinese women from the cities (Shanghai, Beijing, etc.) versus the rural towns (as western culture is slowly infiltrating the cities, whereas it is not as profound in rural towns). I dated a girl (here in America) from a rural town, and it was rough. Either way, rural or big city, Chinese women are extremely demanding. You are better off being gay and looking for a Chinese man - men have been br… | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Ever pretended to be gay?I only once pretended to be gay to help out a buddy talk to a girl. My buddy wanted to talk to a pretty cute girl at a bar (I'd say she was a HB8), except she was being completely smothered (space-wise and verbally) by one of the guys in the group she came with. Under the encouragement of my other buddies, I told my one buddy that I would occupy the guy so he could talk to her, which is what I did. I just went up to the guy and complimented him on his belt, his style, his shoes - he was complete… | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 10:57 AM |
| 8 | Age: I'm not where I should be in life. I seem stuck interacting with girls 8+ years younger than me. Any opinions?I don't know where you go to school, but if it is a large state university or a popular private university, the campus can't be COMPLETELY devoid of people aged 21+. You just need to look in the right places. E.g. hang around the medical school, or nursing school or whatever. I went to a small private school (<1000 student body) that was devoid of an accredited graduate school (intended for ungrad only), so there were no people aged over 21. However, I was in a big city, so there were 21+ people… | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone give a female some ideas about what qualities are attractive and unattractive to men in a broad scope?On the alcohol: read my reply above: http://np.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2m12ta/can_anyone_give_a_female_some_ideas_about_what/cm2bhad On the sex: I'm not saying to KEEP it boring, I'm saying to stay away from the extreme ends of the spectrum. I have dated a girl who liked the idea of rape fantasies, and choking, and rough stuff. She was not relationship material. That stuff materializes from previous dating experiences with other men, about whom she will always fantasize when with you (wh… | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give a female some ideas about what qualities are attractive and unattractive to men in a broad scope?It appears that you haven't dated the opposing ends of the spectrum (girls who drink versus those who don't), or you just haven't dated enough people. From my experience, most girls who drink beer are fat. Not all beer drinkers are fat, but most have more weight than they should because they drink this carb-full drink. Besides, seriously, do you actually find it ATTRACTIVE to see a girl drink a beer? Most guys will never say they find it UNATTRACTIVE, rather they just accept it, but deep down th… | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 02:12 PM |
| -3 | Can anyone give a female some ideas about what qualities are attractive and unattractive to men in a broad scope?Attractive: thin, works out. knows how to dress well and look attractive. knows how to cook. And I'm not talking about baking. Baking is nice, but actually knowing how to COOK a meal is hot...and definitely necessary. low key, agreeable. Brand names don't matter, restaurant names don't matter, RedBox is just as good as the movie theater. Tries to avoid conflict however possible. Let the man lead, which was what we were biologically engineered to do. Submission! Doesn't drink, at all. Sobriety is… | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Virgin got invited for NSA sex...mmhmm. Don't puss out. Exactly. There have been several other cases of mine that I didn't mention (along with the one I did mention), where I pussed out and nothing happened. I kick myself to this day from those interactions for not even trying. Of course, those happened before I started reading up and learning how to be more confident and the nature of women, so I don't kick myself TOO hard...lol. Oh, one thing that hasn't been mentioned in this thread yet is...DONT COCKBLOCK YOURSELF. Bring co… | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 05:27 PM |
| 12 | Virgin got invited for NSA sex...Just be careful dude. Even in this day in age I am still very vigilant about meeting people at their domicile. I almost always opt to meet somewhere public, first, if possible. My suggestion to you, when arriving, is text her when you get to her place, or when close, and tell her to come out and find you since you don't know her complex well (if she is in an apartment complex) or the neighborhood (if in a house/town house) so you can find her on the street when you pull up. Major red flag if she… | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 05:14 PM |
| 1 | I think TheRedPill/seduction technique has been used on me...Your description reads a lot like redpill seduction techniques. I guess you will know for sure based on the days ahead... Does he ask for an actual date for your second meeting? or does he want you back over for more fun with minimal investment (e.g. bring the movies!)? Or does he not contact you at all... Actual date? Well, it wouldn't be terrible that he used the techniques. Got him to meet you, got dual confirmation that you like each other. Just asks for more fun with little investment? Or d… | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 12:05 PM |
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