junkonejo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
177	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says	Field Report	junkonejo	/r/seduction	10/02/21 04:33 PM
19	If you can't be totally yourself around someone you like, move on	Inner Game	junkonejo	/r/seduction	27/01/21 09:00 PM
13	What hurts when you get friendzoned, is not rejection, is feeling that you are worthless to someone you care about	Conversation	junkonejo	/r/seduction	06/09/20 02:19 AM

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0	How do you deal with the cringe of rejection? Go to therapy understand why some specific things bother you, and why rejection hurt so much, work in your self esteem and then no rejection will bother you anymore.	/r/seduction	21/08/22 07:01 PM
3	How do you deal with the cringe of rejection? Well it has an answer in the childhood wound you have, when you understand it you get why you feel that way, and will be able to resolve that, cuz rejection hurts when the wound is still open	/r/seduction	21/08/22 04:11 AM
18	How do you keep being positive if all you're getting is being ignored and rejected? I do feel the same bro, and you know what you need to do, is stop expecting things from people, rise your status and value towards yourself, get rid of people that doesn't share your values, girls nowadays mainly care about a mofo that gives her media exposure, they don't care about feeling and values, so you must work on that towards you and be honest about what you want from a partner and stick to that to get the correct one that doesn't care about those banalities. edit: you are what you feel…	/r/seduction	23/01/22 10:12 AM
7	How do you seduce a grumpy woman? dude seems like a very toxic person, better move on its clear rejection	/r/seduction	28/11/21 09:25 AM
4	The Reason You Value Dating Coaches More Than You Value Yourself. Most of the time the major problem is self steem and not taking time to true value themselves, simp guys think that following those so called gurus and copying what the do, will get them woman, but true is that the opposite is going to happen, until they understand that what they have to learn from those guys and is not how to play the game, instead how to turn yourself into the player. I'm going to explain something here, I used to be like that, and got pretty excited when heard about the law o…	/r/seduction	04/03/21 12:50 AM
1	I need advice,please! There’s a hack, seek for all genders, and swipe left guys, that way will lead you to better matches	/r/seduction	17/02/21 07:58 PM
1	I need advice,please! You lucky, in NY you can use those apps but will take lots of time to get into the good ones, you can try to visit a cafe, or interesting places, don't know how's the lockdown there but you can meet girls everywhere we butt first work in your confidence and your mindset, your emotions and charisma will attract those good ones to your life, but even tho you have to put your part into achieving that. What happened to me is that I swiped almost 5000 times getting less than 5 dates, mainly cuz my ci…	/r/seduction	17/02/21 07:38 PM
1	I need advice,please! Dude as the first thing I could say to you and already put into my life is, VALUE YOURSELF, work in your confidence, self love and your passions, focus in the important things and then keep being yourself, girls will come after you, and unless you are in a country that uses a lot those apps is best to avoid them, will hurt the perception you have of yourself, cuz girls don't swipe as much and that's a mess, I know nowadays is harder to meet people but there are still ways to do so, so keep going…	/r/seduction	17/02/21 07:26 PM
25	Probably the best cheat code I've ever found I agree, usually Latino douchebags are the ones wearing polos with the collar rised, so not as good idea as it seems, also be careful most reggaeton songs says things you don't want to say to a girl	/r/seduction	17/02/21 06:02 PM
7	I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value. First of all I had heard many times from different people FAKE TIL YOU MAKE IT, you can have a career, a big income, success and more, and even having all that you will feel worthless cuz you feel that people don't see you as a person just as a monetary value or someone that will provide, there are guys that doesn't have a single thing alike, but they are confident enough to score a lot of girls just because they project that high value, only because they are confident enough to do so. Value is …	/r/seduction	16/02/21 12:37 PM
1	90% of the dating coaches out there are full of shit and they can make you infertile. Well most of them are full of BS, but even tho there are some providing good advice into developing confidence and bring a change of mindset, in ones that feel so desperate and frustrated that are actually good, again not all of them but you can get some good tips in the topic, and already know that the most important is being yourself and don't be overly attached	/r/seduction	15/02/21 03:48 PM
1	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Well it happened to me with a Latina girl, when I noticed that she was only after money and was not going to do anything else for me, I asked prior to take the bill, will you help a bit with the bill or I pay everything there’s no problem, (learned that as a way to check if she’s a gold digger) she got pretty upset, and told me that cuz I had invited her I gotta pay everything. First of all she was a gold digger Second I was listening to her rant about her ex for two hours so only thing I wanted…	/r/seduction	11/02/21 02:39 PM
1	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says That's where you need to listen to the way she talks about him, try to get hints of how much she likes her ex, I had been dumped by girls after being dating a couple months, and just replying you this to you, realized that both times with different girls, they said how much they hated their exes but still missed them, even after so much pain they experienced, that's a massive red flag that until now I'm realizing I had not been aware about, this time was just knowing each other (also there where…	/r/seduction	11/02/21 11:13 AM
2	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Thanks for sharing	/r/seduction	10/02/21 11:37 PM
2	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says As I mentioned pay attention to what she says and the way she talks about the topic, if she talks how much that previous relationship damaged her you gotta pay attention, but if she talks about those good times and things that made her grow that’s the way, pay attention of what people has to say about others, in that moment you realize who they really are	/r/seduction	10/02/21 11:20 PM
2	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Bro that’s pretty sad, is a really hard experience more if she wanted to be with you, yes she gave you a red flag but she were also showing you how good guy you are, it’s sad that happened to her, she wanted to move on and get better with you, she truly wanted to be with you as the way you narrate this, it’s sad cuz you both wanted each other that’s when you gotta keep pursuing that, she wanted to grow by your side. Sadly in my case the girl was still seeing her ex, and she doesn’t saw me as a m…	/r/seduction	10/02/21 11:17 PM
2	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Yes, you can do that when the relationship has advanced a bit and it’s a must, just don’t do that in the first date	/r/seduction	10/02/21 10:58 PM
2	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Well, not everyone is prepared to endure that but is good that you were able to avoid that big problem that could get with that girl	/r/seduction	10/02/21 10:55 PM
5	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Hell yeah, situations like this make us get more experience about what we want in relationships and more with someone else, and yeah some of the biggest ref flags are related to the past they carry, seeing them opportunely is what prevents us from a bad time and don't get stained by them	/r/seduction	10/02/21 10:39 PM
2	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Yes, if you hear that they had a really good time that is a good thing, but if she says how bad her ex made her feel like crap is something you must pay way more attention, that will show you who she really are, the way she reacted to those situations, like staking their exes, checking their phone and more, that could lead to understand she might be an overly attached person	/r/seduction	10/02/21 09:26 PM
4	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Good advice	/r/seduction	10/02/21 07:36 PM
5	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Word. It’s something to be cautious about, when they still have someone present in their life	/r/seduction	10/02/21 05:25 PM
3	If she mentions her ex pay attention to what she says Well in that case you are talking about good things, in my case happened that she was telling me the bad things that happened in her previous relationship, in that case the topic is not something good, and it’s awesome that you ate able to brag about your dates that’s awesome dude	/r/seduction	10/02/21 05:23 PM
1	What hurts when you get friendzoned, is not rejection, is feeling that you are worthless to someone you care about Well that true, but if you get rejected just walk away from that person or sadly it can become into an abusive friendship, I had to learn that the bad way.	/r/seduction	07/09/20 02:58 PM
1	What hurts when you get friendzoned, is not rejection, is feeling that you are worthless to someone you care about yes, but it also gives you hints about wich kind of people to avoid in the future, also the signs that could lead to an abusive relationship, again rejection is not the bad thing.	/r/seduction	07/09/20 02:37 PM
1	What hurts when you get friendzoned, is not rejection, is feeling that you are worthless to someone you care about yes, it's actually a good point but most of the time prior to friendzone you are given some signals, that when you notice thats the behaviour of an emotional abuser it's too late, one of my best friends had turned me down but we still share good and bad moments, that's why you keep a friendship, to share those moments, happiness and even sad and pretty bad times, what is different in the friendzone is that they look for you only when they need an emotional dumpster and when bad things happen, wh…	/r/seduction	06/09/20 11:41 AM
1	What hurts when you get friendzoned, is not rejection, is feeling that you are worthless to someone you care about Yes and no, you can get rejected in a polite and human way and asked to keep being friends cuz you truly know the person, and that one has feelings for you too and it is possible to achieve that with no problems, cuz confidence remains and that's no friendzone and it can be a healthy friendship. True friendzone is when you get wrong signals from someone you had been clear from the start, then think that the time to reveal your feelings come, then the girl tells you something alike "don't be sill…	/r/seduction	06/09/20 11:33 AM
0	What hurts when you get friendzoned, is not rejection, is feeling that you are worthless to someone you care about That’s pretty difficult to me I can be a kind one or a complete douche, no middle just extremes, gotta train more then, thanks for the reply.	/r/seduction	06/09/20 09:47 AM
0	What hurts when you get friendzoned, is not rejection, is feeling that you are worthless to someone you care about It has been pretty hard for me, even trying to learn game I can’t help to be sincere, and I hate that if you are honest that makes you get rejected, that’s pretty messed up, I’m not coming with the good guy thing, but if you think about it it’s truly messed up and we are raised to prevent people alike around us, so if game means being a liar and just kinda douchy that’s not what I would like to be, even if that could bring a better score.	/r/seduction	06/09/20 07:23 AM
1	What hurts when you get friendzoned, is not rejection, is feeling that you are worthless to someone you care about Thanks for the reply, but so far the rate of rejection is 9,5/10 and when the relationship surges it is either a toxic relationship or a pretty short one, just after reading that text about rejection my mindset changed a lot, making me recognize that rejection and just dump that people from my life and that is just giving back what I’m receiving. you could say ok you can keep some girls as friends and just wait that things could change, but to be true I’m tired of that, wasting time, energy and …	/r/seduction	06/09/20 07:13 AM
2	How To Get Over Your Fear of Rejection Forever. (REJECTION is a GOOD THING!) That is a really good topic, actually you made me rethink a lot of aspects in my life thanks to that approach to rejection, all the times I got rejected by friends of girls it saved me a lot of troubles by future, sometimes we don't understand that rejection can actually prevent us for getting really bad situations. THANKS!!!	/r/seduction	03/09/20 01:09 PM
1	Does Rejection get easier with time? Sadly you get used to it, and as someone said it affects your mental stability pretty hard, you get more anxious about the topic and try to find answers, overthinking about what is happening, but the thing is that you have to learn from those mistakes and move on, if there is no good communication with the girl, or if she left you on "delivered" often on purpose, the best you can do is to move on, and stop wasting your time, cuz the girl doesn't want to "hurt" you even when ghosting is doing way…	/r/seduction	18/07/20 12:56 PM
6	Do NOT waste time getting girls on social media Hell yeah that’s real, but even tho in my country it’s super hard even to just hook up so I got tired of that, so better take the time to get true women it’s way more healthy	/r/seduction	06/06/20 01:44 AM
25	Do NOT waste time getting girls on social media Gotta tell you that you can be and avid traveler, have amazing photos and be fit and all, but most the girls you will attract are either gold diggers or pretty toxic women, had already being catfished and being the victim of emotional abusers. I’m a traveler, with good photos of places and activities and even tho the amount of girls that got attracted by that are minimum, so it’s way better to take the time to meet someone in person than waste your time with social media. I don’t have a boring l…	/r/seduction	06/06/20 01:37 AM
7	Viewing snap and Instagram stories when you go no contact? This is really hard to tell, if you keep checking her social networks she will think that even you are interested she still have “control” over you, but if you stop then she will worry and it’s going to start looking for you until she knows that she is still in control, so be careful this already happened to me, ignored ex girlfriend a long time, she started checking my networks reached me, told me she want that we try it again, when she felt in control again dumped me ASAP. So if you want her b…	/r/seduction	05/10/19 09:46 AM
10	Looking for a wing in Los Angeles (Preferably in Long Beach) Don’t take this as a joke, but get a French bulldog that’s the best wingman you can have in LA, or way better a rescue dog they know the streets and know the game better than anyone	/r/seduction	30/09/19 02:41 PM